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"I have noticed this a lot in the forums lately, some completely off topic too x" Its an epissdemic | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes " i did too | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes " Naively so did I! | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes " a new kink | |||
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"I enjoy a 'live and let live' attitude towards fab... each to their own, and if something/someone doesn't interest me I just pass them/it by. But I've noticed more than a few who thrive on pissing on peoples cornflakes. Be it a thread they don't like or a person they will target for whatever reason. The reasons for this completely elude me. Surely its more productive to focus on things and people you enjoy?? I know this thread will piss on their conflakes... I do see the irony... Whats made your cornflakes soggy today??? " I thought you meant actually peeing on people's cornflakes. Thought it was a new water sport fettish I'd missed! | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes Naively so did I!" Should we start one? May get quite a following! Saves milk too! ?? | |||
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"I enjoy a 'live and let live' attitude towards fab... each to their own, and if something/someone doesn't interest me I just pass them/it by. But I've noticed more than a few who thrive on pissing on peoples cornflakes. Be it a thread they don't like or a person they will target for whatever reason. The reasons for this completely elude me. Surely its more productive to focus on things and people you enjoy?? I know this thread will piss on their conflakes... I do see the irony... Whats made your cornflakes soggy today??? I thought you meant actually peeing on people's cornflakes. Thought it was a new water sport fettish I'd missed! " | |||
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"Tesco's went in saw an offer for Beauty and the Beast DVD offering a free book and guess what they had the DVD's but no book. Contacted their customer services what a waste of time that was. False advertising again." I take it they didn't offer to substitute a comparable item?? My online shop arrived once with a car air freshener instead of the scented candle I actually wanted which was out of stock lol. | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes " Ewww, you pervert | |||
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"Tesco's went in saw an offer for Beauty and the Beast DVD offering a free book and guess what they had the DVD's but no book. Contacted their customer services what a waste of time that was. False advertising again. I take it they didn't offer to substitute a comparable item?? My online shop arrived once with a car air freshener instead of the scented candle I actually wanted which was out of stock lol." Nope but at least your fireplace had a nice dangly freshener | |||
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"It's their outlet for their anger at their own sad lives. Or, they have delusions of importance. Or, they can't think of anything nice to say, because they are not nice people. Or, something else. I dunno. " Me neither. Can't be healthy being that negative though | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes Ewww, you pervert " You say that like it is a bad thing | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes " Perhaps a new fetish among watersports enthusiasts??? If so I want all credit... | |||
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"Some dingbats are just drama llamas and get off on upsetting folks. I just give my best wiggle and sashay away from them! " Agreed... but I do see people I like get genuinely hurt over this kind of behaviour and I have to count to ten and talk to my inner defender before I open a can of whup-ass on the culprits lol. | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes Ewww, you pervert You say that like it is a bad thing " Depends who's eating them | |||
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"Some dingbats are just drama llamas and get off on upsetting folks. I just give my best wiggle and sashay away from them! Agreed... but I do see people I like get genuinely hurt over this kind of behaviour and I have to count to ten and talk to my inner defender before I open a can of whup-ass on the culprits lol." They need a brand new, crispy-coated shell. | |||
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"Now I want cornflakes. PTU xxx " I've got special k if you want to share them | |||
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"ive noticed resentment and down right abuse towards my choice in life and after repeatedly snide remarks in umpteen threads, you tend to hit back, and thats not normally me, so i took time out and if a comment or post is by someone on my block list, i now ignore the post altogether" Exactly what I usually do... there are people I simply dont interact with anymore due to their negativity. | |||
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"Tesco's went in saw an offer for Beauty and the Beast DVD offering a free book and guess what they had the DVD's but no book. Contacted their customer services what a waste of time that was. False advertising again." I have the DVD and book. You can borrow it sometime | |||
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"My cornflakes are crisp and tasty" Full of sunshiny goodness... as they should be! | |||
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"Now I want cornflakes. PTU xxx I've got special k if you want to share them " frosties i polish the box off in one sitting so i do not buy them | |||
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"Yes some people just seem to get a big thrill out of causing drama or hounding people they've taken offence to. Had a friend recently who was hounded off here by a couple who he'd not met or interacted with. Some very strange people around x " I've just recently heard of someone being treated in a similar manner, and its grated just a tad... grrrr | |||
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"Now I want cornflakes. PTU xxx " Full or low-fat piss?? | |||
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"Now I want cornflakes. PTU xxx I've got special k if you want to share them " Awwww ta PTU xxx | |||
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"The revellers in dishing out malificence. They provably don't even see it in themselves and assume they are being clever and witty. But then I usually have second and third thoughts before I post something to keep myself in check on that sort of thing. That and really slow typing account for my delayed posting " We'll forgive you though because you're pretty Some things I've seen have nothing to do with wit or cleverness though... pure malice, and I have to wonder why. | |||
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"Now I want cornflakes. PTU xxx I've got special k if you want to share them frosties i polish the box off in one sitting so i do not buy them " Oh there grrrrreat PTU xxx | |||
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"Now I want cornflakes. PTU xxx Full or low-fat piss?? " Long life piss please PTU xxx | |||
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"There's banter and making it personal. Great example yesterday in a nationality/sex thread. Just have fun and be nice. Yes there are real people behind the names we post behind, at times they need thicker skin and to just ignore the negativity. More often than not the person that bitched should not of. We need a handbag emoji" Think of the arguments over style, colour and designer though!?! | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes Ewww, you pervert You say that like it is a bad thing Depends who's eating them " depends whos pissing in them | |||
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"I prefer semi skimmed ice cold milk on my cornflakes..... but I'd be up for trying this new combination " A new trend!! I'll be in trouble with the dairy companies yet... | |||
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"Yes some people just seem to get a big thrill out of causing drama or hounding people they've taken offence to. Had a friend recently who was hounded off here by a couple who he'd not met or interacted with. Some very strange people around x I've just recently heard of someone being treated in a similar manner, and its grated just a tad... grrrr " Yes I see no reason except for malice. I'm not a big fan of that type of person. X | |||
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"I focus on the things I enjoy and ignore the rest. There's no point in engaging with the negative stuff. " Exactly my thoughts | |||
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"There's banter and making it personal. Great example yesterday in a nationality/sex thread. Just have fun and be nice. Yes there are real people behind the names we post behind, at times they need thicker skin and to just ignore the negativity. More often than not the person that bitched should not of. We need a handbag emoji Think of the arguments over style, colour and designer though!?! " :handbag That's soooooo not your colour Oohh get you (and so on) before you know Kofi Annan has been wheeled out and fab peace keepers have been dispatched. | |||
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"Yes some people just seem to get a big thrill out of causing drama or hounding people they've taken offence to. Had a friend recently who was hounded off here by a couple who he'd not met or interacted with. Some very strange people around x " Why didn't they just block them? | |||
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"The revellers in dishing out malificence. They provably don't even see it in themselves and assume they are being clever and witty. But then I usually have second and third thoughts before I post something to keep myself in check on that sort of thing. That and really slow typing account for my delayed posting We'll forgive you though because you're pretty Some things I've seen have nothing to do with wit or cleverness though... pure malice, and I have to wonder why." Madame is too kind But yes, having the capacity to be spiteful doesn't mean it has to be used | |||
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"Yes some people just seem to get a big thrill out of causing drama or hounding people they've taken offence to. Had a friend recently who was hounded off here by a couple who he'd not met or interacted with. Some very strange people around x Why didn't they just block them?" You can block someone from contacting you, but you have no control over them contacting others to spread their malice... I've been the victim of this myself over a year ago and know exactly how frustrating it is. | |||
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"Yes some people just seem to get a big thrill out of causing drama or hounding people they've taken offence to. Had a friend recently who was hounded off here by a couple who he'd not met or interacted with. Some very strange people around x Why didn't they just block them? You can block someone from contacting you, but you have no control over them contacting others to spread their malice... I've been the victim of this myself over a year ago and know exactly how frustrating it is. " Are people really that petty on here? How pathetic | |||
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"Well I hope I don't come across as targeting anyone.....the only ones I have banter with is the ones I know who can give and take it " Exactly as it should be | |||
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"Yes some people just seem to get a big thrill out of causing drama or hounding people they've taken offence to. Had a friend recently who was hounded off here by a couple who he'd not met or interacted with. Some very strange people around x Why didn't they just block them? You can block someone from contacting you, but you have no control over them contacting others to spread their malice... I've been the victim of this myself over a year ago and know exactly how frustrating it is. " I've had this just recently. People here do like gossip and drama. Maybe they should ask the people involved instead of being part of the whisper circle | |||
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"Some people are just twats. I've been spiteful and regretted it massively after. Now I try and think before I type. Usually people who I am witty towards know my humour and play along. Other times people are just plain fucking stupid and deserve the reply they get. People who constantly poke and pick really annoy me and I will stand up to them." Really grinds my gears (piss) | |||
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"ive noticed resentment and down right abuse towards my choice in life and after repeatedly snide remarks in umpteen threads, you tend to hit back, and thats not normally me, so i took time out and if a comment or post is by someone on my block list, i now ignore the post altogether" There's two people In particular that pop up in any thread to do with TVs to throw around their ridiculous opinions and try to wind everyone up | |||
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"Well I hope I don't come across as targeting anyone.....the only ones I have banter with is the ones I know who can give and take it Exactly as it should be " I agree, there really is no need for hostility towards other members of this 'fab family, some people think they can get away with it and enjoy being a keyboard warrior, but they don't realise the affect it has on their targets, or the impression it gives about themselves, a person's interactions on these forums gives a good insight into a person's personality, if somebody comes across as an ass online surely it would put you off wanting to have anything to do with them in case their behaviour is the same in the real world, where as the fun, friendly and compassionate ones on here make it enjoyable and fun... isn't that why we come on here? To have fun?! Share the joy my friends | |||
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"Some people are just twats. I've been spiteful and regretted it massively after. Now I try and think before I type. Usually people who I am witty towards know my humour and play along. Other times people are just plain fucking stupid and deserve the reply they get. People who constantly poke and pick really annoy me and I will stand up to them. Really grinds my gears (piss) " Try being a single bloke - married and on here without his wife knowing. Then see who pisses on your chips x | |||
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"Some people are just twats. I've been spiteful and regretted it massively after. Now I try and think before I type. Usually people who I am witty towards know my humour and play along. Other times people are just plain fucking stupid and deserve the reply they get. People who constantly poke and pick really annoy me and I will stand up to them. Really grinds my gears (piss) Try being a single bloke - married and on here without his wife knowing. Then see who pisses on your chips x" Says honest John sorry, couldn't resist | |||
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"Yes some people just seem to get a big thrill out of causing drama or hounding people they've taken offence to. Had a friend recently who was hounded off here by a couple who he'd not met or interacted with. Some very strange people around x Why didn't they just block them? You can block someone from contacting you, but you have no control over them contacting others to spread their malice... I've been the victim of this myself over a year ago and know exactly how frustrating it is. " If anyone sent us a PM out of the blue slating other members we'd assume straight away it was malice and report whoever sent the message. We've not been on FAB long, but we've had two lovely meets so far. But to meet those two males we've had to pass by many others. We hope in doing this it hasn't bred any spitefulness, as there does seem to be quite a bit of vitriol in the forum's sometimes from what we've seen. Mainly (and don't have a go at us for saying this) from single men. We're here to have fun, experiment and hopefully make a few new friends along the way and wish everyone on the site well. | |||
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"Tesco's went in saw an offer for Beauty and the Beast DVD offering a free book and guess what they had the DVD's but no book. Contacted their customer services what a waste of time that was. False advertising again." I feel your pain. Damn,that must have been hard for you. | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes " Me too, ive wanked over a womans cornflakes and watched as she eat them with a big smile on her face but I draw the line at pissing over them | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes Naively so did I!" So did i lol | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes " So did I!! I thought jesus is this some sort of sexual activity | |||
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"Some people are just twats. I've been spiteful and regretted it massively after. Now I try and think before I type. Usually people who I am witty towards know my humour and play along. Other times people are just plain fucking stupid and deserve the reply they get. People who constantly poke and pick really annoy me and I will stand up to them. Really grinds my gears (piss) Try being a single bloke - married and on here without his wife knowing. Then see who pisses on your chips x Says honest John sorry, couldn't resist " | |||
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"It happens a lot in the Forums and I've noticed it more and more of late. I've had my fair of issues, been stalked in the Forums etc. Men do it to undermine their rivals in sneaky ways. With the ladies it tends to be bitchy or veiled catty remarks against their competition, they know it hurts and makes them feel better. There's no need for it but sadly it's human nature - survival of the fittest and all that. I don't like cornflakes " Exactly. I'm being stalked, I've had plenty of snide remarks aimed my way. Except it didn't / doesn't hurt me, just shows they must feel threatened by me. And I like cornflakes. Apart from that, spot on. | |||
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"It happens a lot in the Forums and I've noticed it more and more of late. I've had my fair of issues, been stalked in the Forums etc. Men do it to undermine their rivals in sneaky ways. With the ladies it tends to be bitchy or veiled catty remarks against their competition, they know it hurts and makes them feel better. There's no need for it but sadly it's human nature - survival of the fittest and all that. I don't like cornflakes Exactly. I'm being stalked, I've had plenty of snide remarks aimed my way. Except it didn't / doesn't hurt me, just shows they must feel threatened by me. And I like cornflakes. Apart from that, spot on. " It does actually hurt me. I get angry. I think about leaving the site, am I too soft for this place. I overthink if it's actually me that actually attracted it. Although these people can be ignored, it doesn't make it acceptable. | |||
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"i started a thread once, just to get back at someone that hounded me on the forums and by private message on numerous profiles i realised it was stupid to do and just not worth it so i had the thread taken down and i now just ignore him and its working he use to comment snide directly or just after me on my posts and since i ignore this has almost stopped" know who you mean. and | |||
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"It happens a lot in the Forums and I've noticed it more and more of late. I've had my fair of issues, been stalked in the Forums etc. Men do it to undermine their rivals in sneaky ways. With the ladies it tends to be bitchy or veiled catty remarks against their competition, they know it hurts and makes them feel better. There's no need for it but sadly it's human nature - survival of the fittest and all that. I don't like cornflakes Exactly. I'm being stalked, I've had plenty of snide remarks aimed my way. Except it didn't / doesn't hurt me, just shows they must feel threatened by me. And I like cornflakes. Apart from that, spot on. It does actually hurt me. I get angry. I think about leaving the site, am I too soft for this place. I overthink if it's actually me that actually attracted it. Although these people can be ignored, it doesn't make it acceptable. " most of the people are fucked up on here, myself included. never take anything personally on here. | |||
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"It happens a lot in the Forums and I've noticed it more and more of late. I've had my fair of issues, been stalked in the Forums etc. Men do it to undermine their rivals in sneaky ways. With the ladies it tends to be bitchy or veiled catty remarks against their competition, they know it hurts and makes them feel better. There's no need for it but sadly it's human nature - survival of the fittest and all that. I don't like cornflakes Exactly. I'm being stalked, I've had plenty of snide remarks aimed my way. Except it didn't / doesn't hurt me, just shows they must feel threatened by me. And I like cornflakes. Apart from that, spot on. It does actually hurt me. I get angry. I think about leaving the site, am I too soft for this place. I overthink if it's actually me that actually attracted it. Although these people can be ignored, it doesn't make it acceptable. most of the people are fucked up on here, myself included. never take anything personally on here." If it's directed at someone. It's personal. That's how I see it. | |||
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" It does actually hurt me. I get angry. I think about leaving the site, am I too soft for this place. I overthink if it's actually me that actually attracted it. Although these people can be ignored, it doesn't make it acceptable. " Pointless worrying what a welder in a bedsit in Walsall with a single fem profile says. If you know the person and value their opinion, fair enough. But there are so many keyboard warriors, who wouldn't have the confidence or ability to hold a conversation in real life, I wouldn't let it bother you. | |||
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"ive noticed resentment and down right abuse towards my choice in life and after repeatedly snide remarks in umpteen threads, you tend to hit back, and thats not normally me, so i took time out and if a comment or post is by someone on my block list, i now ignore the post altogether" Best way. If they are blocked and they comment directly on your posts, just report them to admin! | |||
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" It does actually hurt me. I get angry. I think about leaving the site, am I too soft for this place. I overthink if it's actually me that actually attracted it. Although these people can be ignored, it doesn't make it acceptable. Pointless worrying what a welder in a bedsit in Walsall with a single fem profile says. If you know the person and value their opinion, fair enough. But there are so many keyboard warriors, who wouldn't have the confidence or ability to hold a conversation in real life, I wouldn't let it bother you." I know a welder. He's not short of a bob or two... | |||
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"It happens a lot in the Forums and I've noticed it more and more of late. I've had my fair of issues, been stalked in the Forums etc. Men do it to undermine their rivals in sneaky ways. With the ladies it tends to be bitchy or veiled catty remarks against their competition, they know it hurts and makes them feel better. There's no need for it but sadly it's human nature - survival of the fittest and all that. I don't like cornflakes Exactly. I'm being stalked, I've had plenty of snide remarks aimed my way. Except it didn't / doesn't hurt me, just shows they must feel threatened by me. And I like cornflakes. Apart from that, spot on. It does actually hurt me. I get angry. I think about leaving the site, am I too soft for this place. I overthink if it's actually me that actually attracted it. Although these people can be ignored, it doesn't make it acceptable. most of the people are fucked up on here, myself included. never take anything personally on here. If it's directed at someone. It's personal. That's how I see it. " do they even know you? i mean really know you? often if it's an opinion they don't agree with then that's not personal either, although depending how they reply i suppose it might be from their end but it doesn't make sense to me that someone would attack an opinion. i class pretty much nobody on here as really knowing me, just the few i have been chatting to for a long, long time via PM. and i'm very opinionated, as well as open, in the forums so i'm sure a lot of people think they know me, but they don't. and when people haven't really taken the time out to care about you then they can't even hurt you, that's how i feel anyway. | |||
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"I'm surprised by how much cattiness and bitching actually goes on behind the scenes of this place. It's why I'll never ever meet anyone from the forums again, unless it's eating cake at a Tea Party " The undercurrent of nastiness surprised me. I even allowed myself to partake of it once. I'm truly embarrassed that I succumbed to that and won't let that happen again | |||
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"ive noticed resentment and down right abuse towards my choice in life and after repeatedly snide remarks in umpteen threads, you tend to hit back, and thats not normally me, so i took time out and if a comment or post is by someone on my block list, i now ignore the post altogether" I wouldn't worry too much about block lists....I block for various reasons and a forumite who comes on here...who lives close by....will 99% of the time end up on mine through my own privacy reasons...until i get to know them. Nothing personal. | |||
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"I enjoy a 'live and let live' attitude towards fab... each to their own, and if something/someone doesn't interest me I just pass them/it by. But I've noticed more than a few who thrive on pissing on peoples cornflakes. Be it a thread they don't like or a person they will target for whatever reason. The reasons for this completely elude me. Surely its more productive to focus on things and people you enjoy?? I know this thread will piss on their conflakes... I do see the irony... Whats made your cornflakes soggy today??? " People who misuse the definition of irony! but then it is a personal bugbear of mine. | |||
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"I prefer semi skimmed ice cold milk on my cornflakes..... but I'd be up for trying this new combination A new trend!! I'll be in trouble with the dairy companies yet... " I'm sure they won't mind too much | |||
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"I saw the thread and thought it was about cornflakes so didn't come to read it till now .....silly me " Better late than never | |||
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"Some people are just twats. I've been spiteful and regretted it massively after. Now I try and think before I type. Usually people who I am witty towards know my humour and play along. Other times people are just plain fucking stupid and deserve the reply they get. People who constantly poke and pick really annoy me and I will stand up to them. Really grinds my gears (piss) Try being a single bloke - married and on here without his wife knowing. Then see who pisses on your chips x" Try being the Jezebel who meets married men | |||
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"Yes some people just seem to get a big thrill out of causing drama or hounding people they've taken offence to. Had a friend recently who was hounded off here by a couple who he'd not met or interacted with. Some very strange people around x Why didn't they just block them?" He did, but they followed him around the forums making snide comments. X | |||
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"I enjoy a 'live and let live' attitude towards fab... each to their own, and if something/someone doesn't interest me I just pass them/it by. But I've noticed more than a few who thrive on pissing on peoples cornflakes. Be it a thread they don't like or a person they will target for whatever reason. The reasons for this completely elude me. Surely its more productive to focus on things and people you enjoy?? I know this thread will piss on their conflakes... I do see the irony... Whats made your cornflakes soggy today??? " I agree. If you are not here that often it is easy to miss. But if you spend some time, you begin to notice it. In the last few months one or two people in particular have seemed to just wait for the moment a particular forumite posts, then to go for them. It was happening a while back too. The aggressors appear to think they are wise and witty, when to an independent with no ties to either side, they increasingly look like little more than a bully. It isn't every post, they sometimes make decent contributions. But once you spot them picking on the same people it really shows them up as bullying trolls. It is a real shame and probably something they would fight against if they observed it in real life. | |||
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"It happens a lot in the Forums and I've noticed it more and more of late. I've had my fair of issues, been stalked in the Forums etc. Men do it to undermine their rivals in sneaky ways. With the ladies it tends to be bitchy or veiled catty remarks against their competition, they know it hurts and makes them feel better. There's no need for it but sadly it's human nature - survival of the fittest and all that. I don't like cornflakes Exactly. I'm being stalked, I've had plenty of snide remarks aimed my way. Except it didn't / doesn't hurt me, just shows they must feel threatened by me. And I like cornflakes. Apart from that, spot on. It does actually hurt me. I get angry. I think about leaving the site, am I too soft for this place. I overthink if it's actually me that actually attracted it. Although these people can be ignored, it doesn't make it acceptable. " You...? Overthinking...?? Whoever told you that... ??? But yes, it makes me angry... and I get just as angry when its directed at a friend as myself, in fact sometimes more so! I think I'm the Brienne of Tarth of the Forums | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes " Me too I,m never eating cornflakes ever again XXX | |||
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"Some people are just twats. I've been spiteful and regretted it massively after. Now I try and think before I type. Usually people who I am witty towards know my humour and play along. Other times people are just plain fucking stupid and deserve the reply they get. People who constantly poke and pick really annoy me and I will stand up to them. Really grinds my gears (piss) Try being a single bloke - married and on here without his wife knowing. Then see who pisses on your chips x Try being the Jezebel who meets married men " Absolutely no comparison whatsoever! Married women are feted on the Forum and have a legion of White Knights to ride to their defence at the drop of a hat while married men are generally treated and thought of in the same way as dog doo on the sole of your shoe. | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes Me too I,m never eating cornflakes ever again XXX" | |||
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"Some people are just twats. I've been spiteful and regretted it massively after. Now I try and think before I type. Usually people who I am witty towards know my humour and play along. Other times people are just plain fucking stupid and deserve the reply they get. People who constantly poke and pick really annoy me and I will stand up to them. Really grinds my gears (piss) Try being a single bloke - married and on here without his wife knowing. Then see who pisses on your chips x Try being the Jezebel who meets married men " My favourite | |||
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"Some people are just twats. I've been spiteful and regretted it massively after. Now I try and think before I type. Usually people who I am witty towards know my humour and play along. Other times people are just plain fucking stupid and deserve the reply they get. People who constantly poke and pick really annoy me and I will stand up to them. Really grinds my gears (piss) Try being a single bloke - married and on here without his wife knowing. Then see who pisses on your chips x Try being the Jezebel who meets married men Absolutely no comparison whatsoever! Married women are feted on the Forum and have a legion of White Knights to ride to their defence at the drop of a hat while married men are generally treated and thought of in the same way as dog doo on the sole of your shoe." I think you misinterpreted my reply... | |||
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"None of us are perfect, we all make mistakes and we all as human beings have feelings and emotions. The problem in my experience of being in a Forum is, if you have an issue with someone, you can't discuss it to that person's face and in my mind that is really always a better way to solve things. I have sat many times and read all 175 comments of an argument before getting to the bottom and realising I'll never get that last 7 minutes of my life back and realising how ridiculous and nasty people can be! Keyboard warriors and some Forumites sat in their bedroom or safe place would never spout their negative rubbish and nastiness to someone's face. So I've learned to ignore or block them. I'm then one less person encouraging their attention-seeking ways and I ignore their posts. It's supposed to be fun so I have learnt not to take things to heart, will never ever discuss my issues with a fellow Forumite because I don't trust anybody and just carry on being myself and amusing myself! " A very wise post | |||
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"Nothing at all, takes a lot for someone to piss on my cornflakes. As it happens I prefer the crunchy nut kind " That's an entirely different subject! | |||
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"Some people are just twats. I've been spiteful and regretted it massively after. Now I try and think before I type. Usually people who I am witty towards know my humour and play along. Other times people are just plain fucking stupid and deserve the reply they get. People who constantly poke and pick really annoy me and I will stand up to them. Really grinds my gears (piss) Try being a single bloke - married and on here without his wife knowing. Then see who pisses on your chips x Try being the Jezebel who meets married men Absolutely no comparison whatsoever! Married women are feted on the Forum and have a legion of White Knights to ride to their defence at the drop of a hat while married men are generally treated and thought of in the same way as dog doo on the sole of your shoe. I think you misinterpreted my reply... " After careful reflection, you're right, sorry. | |||
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"None of us are perfect, we all make mistakes and we all as human beings have feelings and emotions. The problem in my experience of being in a Forum is, if you have an issue with someone, you can't discuss it to that person's face and in my mind that is really always a better way to solve things. I have sat many times and read all 175 comments of an argument before getting to the bottom and realising I'll never get that last 7 minutes of my life back and realising how ridiculous and nasty people can be! Keyboard warriors and some Forumites sat in their bedroom or safe place would never spout their negative rubbish and nastiness to someone's face. So I've learned to ignore or block them. I'm then one less person encouraging their attention-seeking ways and I ignore their posts. It's supposed to be fun so I have learnt not to take things to heart, will never ever discuss my issues with a fellow Forumite because I don't trust anybody and just carry on being myself and amusing myself! A very wise post " I second that! | |||
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"My mom always told me if people ever get nasty for no reason it's that they feel pain in there own life's. If try to belittle you or say nasty things because they want you to feel the pain or lead a sad little life like they do. Some do it through jelousy and some because there just trying to show off there superior Internet alter ego to others.They think by doing this that you will go down on there emotional sinking ship.I no longer have any internet feelings as its a place where cowards can be Heros in there own heads and it's like therapy for the cruel to hurt others.I laugh and blank there ways as there little bubble will get burst and I only take notice of the words of the nice ones as there the ones that count and I surround myself with. " Very true. | |||
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"I'm surprised by how much cattiness and bitching actually goes on behind the scenes of this place. It's why I'll never ever meet anyone from the forums again, unless it's eating cake at a Tea Party The undercurrent of nastiness surprised me. I even allowed myself to partake of it once. I'm truly embarrassed that I succumbed to that and won't let that happen again " Yes, it can be a test of character sometimes that's for sure!! Dignity at all costs.......lol! | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes Naively so did I!" I'm still not 100% certain that it isn't | |||
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"I'm surprised by how much cattiness and bitching actually goes on behind the scenes of this place. It's why I'll never ever meet anyone from the forums again, unless it's eating cake at a Tea Party The undercurrent of nastiness surprised me. I even allowed myself to partake of it once. I'm truly embarrassed that I succumbed to that and won't let that happen again " We've all done it, Georgie! It's a funny old place! | |||
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"Some people are just twats. I've been spiteful and regretted it massively after. Now I try and think before I type. Usually people who I am witty towards know my humour and play along. Other times people are just plain fucking stupid and deserve the reply they get. People who constantly poke and pick really annoy me and I will stand up to them. Really grinds my gears (piss) Try being a single bloke - married and on here without his wife knowing. Then see who pisses on your chips x Says honest John sorry, couldn't resist " What's in a name Miss Honey ? | |||
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"You sure this thread isn't about pissing on cornflakes " I think the old saying was "pissing on your parade" | |||
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"Does anyone piss in a toilet anymore? Everyone seems to be pissing up lamp posts or pissing on cornflakes " | |||
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"I never feel I have to understand popular culture, whether it be 'normal' or 'strange'.. I dont get the tattoo craze nor the beard craze.. everything I hear thats new in the sexual world..let say 'pegging' etc etc..I just think sounds made up like some kid from the inbetweeners.. I fucking even detest the whole MILF or even HOTWIFE or BDSM... I find neither actually interesting as a label or lifestyle.... fit into a category if you like..I might still like you...but I wont define myself myself so easily." You probably won't like it but well said. | |||
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"I enjoy a 'live and let live' attitude towards fab... each to their own, and if something/someone doesn't interest me I just pass them/it by. But I've noticed more than a few who thrive on pissing on peoples cornflakes. Be it a thread they don't like or a person they will target for whatever reason. The reasons for this completely elude me. Surely its more productive to focus on things and people you enjoy?? I know this thread will piss on their conflakes... I do see the irony... Whats made your cornflakes soggy today??? " Milk! | |||
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"I never feel I have to understand popular culture, whether it be 'normal' or 'strange'.. I dont get the tattoo craze nor the beard craze.. everything I hear thats new in the sexual world..let say 'pegging' etc etc..I just think sounds made up like some kid from the inbetweeners.. I fucking even detest the whole MILF or even HOTWIFE or BDSM... I find neither actually interesting as a label or lifestyle.... fit into a category if you like..I might still like you...but I wont define myself myself so easily." You know people have to have special words for stuff, it makes it easier than saying a woman fucking a man's arse with a strap on, for example. We like one word instead of many. | |||
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"I'm surprised by how much cattiness and bitching actually goes on behind the scenes of this place. It's why I'll never ever meet anyone from the forums again, unless it's eating cake at a Tea Party " There are threads for that sort of stuff.. haha | |||
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"Wow i thought this thread was actually about pissing on cornflakes " Haha me too. Like a revenge tactic | |||
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"Does anyone piss in a toilet anymore? Everyone seems to be pissing up lamp posts or pissing on cornflakes " Depends how d*unk i am. Aiming gets tougher then | |||
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