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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I had my 2nd ever social yesterday, we had a great time just having a few drinks and laughs. I've woken up to grief off to other members because of my 1 and only verify. I've even been unfriended and blocked by 1. Is this the norm??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah people are weird. While they believe the swinging lifestyle to be for them they in fact can't handle jealousy and/or make judgment on other people you meet.

I always think of it as a lucky escape if someone acts like a twat before we've even met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what way were they giving you grief ?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Ya can please some of the people some of the time, but ya can't please all of the people all of the time

#speakingfromexperience

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I've experienced the same (although not blocked)

They then just filter themselves out... quite helpful really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman meets people for socials or meets then that's cool.

If a man meets anyone other than that one special snowflake that he's talking to, he's a horrible nasty heartless man slut because he should be saving his soul for her.

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Id been chatting to a married woman on fab for a few weeks, hubby didn't know she was a fabber, she'd send me pics n vids most days and rang me a couple of times, she cancelled a meet at last minute due to family issues, told her I was going to a group social in a pub the following weekend and she even rang me while i was on the way to it to give me some friendly advice as it was going to be my first social, the next day I noticed she had unfriended, blocked and deleted me ! Some strange people about.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"If a woman meets people for socials or meets then that's cool.

If a man meets anyone other than that one special snowflake that he's talking to, he's a horrible nasty heartless man slut because he should be saving his soul for her. "

a lot of men want to be the special snowflake as well, unfortunately

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I mean this in the nicest possible way ... but who cares?!

You enjoyed a great social meet with a lovely lady *and* had your eyes opened to people whose true attitude wasn't what you'd have wanted it to be. Far better you know that now than sometime down the line when you could have invested more time in them. I'd say that's a pretty good result actually

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I mean this in the nicest possible way ... but who cares?!

You enjoyed a great social meet with a lovely lady *and* had your eyes opened to people whose true attitude wasn't what you'd have wanted it to be. Far better you know that now than sometime down the line when you could have invested more time in them. I'd say that's a pretty good result actually "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm really friendly but some assume that if I verify someone as genuine because they've actually spoken, the person must be either as bad or worse than me or they can't be strung along with vague promises of meets.

There sometimes are some dreadful people that it really is a bonus if they break contact.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No its not normal. One fruitloop might but a whole group of people? Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are generally fucked up. Here is no different. Do not try to fathom things out, just go with the flow and accept it for what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some one block us because while I was answering their messages another person messaged them who I had verified , so this person I was answering messages assumed I had told the one I verified to message them , which I had not , but I still got blocked by the one I was answering

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I mean this in the nicest possible way ... but who cares?!

You enjoyed a great social meet with a lovely lady *and* had your eyes opened to people whose true attitude wasn't what you'd have wanted it to be. Far better you know that now than sometime down the line when you could have invested more time in them. I'd say that's a pretty good result actually "

Absobloodylutely.

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