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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone else had this done were they have been sent a friend request after mailing someone who has not even opened the mail, accepted them then soon after had the user delete and block you?

Don't understand it myself or see the point of leading someone on like that!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They got a look at your friends only pics, didn't like what they saw, so fucked off. People on the internet are harsh but you'd do well to get used to it, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's a quick sneaky peruse of your Friends Only pics they after .. once achieved then mission accomplished so blocked!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

That's why I wait until they go offline before I accept and have a peruse. So when I delete them as friends they're none the wiser, and don't then feel they have to complain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why I wait until they go offline before I accept and have a peruse. So when I delete them as friends they're none the wiser, and don't then feel they have to complain."

I do this. Gives me the upper hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why I wait until they go offline before I accept and have a peruse. So when I delete them as friends they're none the wiser, and don't then feel they have to complain."

Never thought of doing that ....hmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they knew you and panicked!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just found it a bit rude and annoying, can accept a polite no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Just found it a bit rude and annoying, can accept a polite no."

I think a block is a pretty unequivocal 'no', myself.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"That's why I wait until they go offline before I accept and have a peruse. So when I delete them as friends they're none the wiser, and don't then feel they have to complain.

I do this. Gives me the upper hand

But they get a message to say friend request accepted on updates don't they even if you delete immediately?? "

But they'll think its an error because we're not friends. Muahahahahahaaaaa....

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No, never had this happen but then I don't accept friend invites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just found it a bit rude and annoying, can accept a polite no."

There are all sorts of reasons why people don't say a polite 'no'. I'm not saying I approve - but there are reasons.

This is a pretty common occurrence....which is why I said it's best to just get used to it. There's no point in letting it annoy you because it's how people tend to operate on anonymous internet sites. Whether that's a bad thing is another debate entirely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, never had this happen but then I don't accept friend invites "

I'd sent them a mail that they'd not even opened and sent me a friend request

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just found it a bit rude and annoying, can accept a polite no.

There are all sorts of reasons why people don't say a polite 'no'. I'm not saying I approve - but there are reasons.

This is a pretty common occurrence....which is why I said it's best to just get used to it. There's no point in letting it annoy you because it's how people tend to operate on anonymous internet sites. Whether that's a bad thing is another debate entirely."

Yeah perhaps I'm overreacting a bit

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"No, never had this happen but then I don't accept friend invites

I'd sent them a mail that they'd not even opened and sent me a friend request "

Maybe they wanted to see your friends pics before they responded.

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By *rozacMan
over a year ago

london


"Just found it a bit rude and annoying, can accept a polite no."

Unfortunately others can't and can become unnecessarily abusive. Take it on the chin and move on. spilt milk and all that what what old boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do not add them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone else had this done were they have been sent a friend request after mailing someone who has not even opened the mail, accepted them then soon after had the user delete and block you?

Don't understand it myself or see the point of leading someone on like that!!!!! "

It's hardly 'leading you on' tho is it to be fair...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They got a look at your friends only pics, didn't like what they saw, so fucked off. People on the internet are harsh but you'd do well to get used to it, really."

Not that it's happened much but the first thing I do is hide my friends only pics before accepting friend request then slowly reintroduce them.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

They're not mainly looking for lifelong friends but to check whether a shag may work. Do it your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They got a look at your friends only pics, didn't like what they saw, so fucked off. People on the internet are harsh but you'd do well to get used to it, really."

BINGO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pic collector timewasters. We never accept a requeat unless there's been a f2f meet or at least a good and interesting message exchange beforehand where some sort of connection is established. A wink, one line follow up and then a friend request usually means a time waster or pic collector - at least in our experience. So usually don't accept.

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By *orny andy yorkMan
over a year ago

york

I've been winked at before winked back then blocked

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