FabSwingers.com forum: New message opener

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi just wondering what people use as an opening message. I prefer to say hi and ask how the person is.. dont really get any responses. However a friend I know is a bit more...how can I say filthy haha

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"hi how are you" is a very uninspiring opening message. I'm not suprised you don't get many responses.

Sally

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Suspect neither of you would get a reply from a lot of people, good luck anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I introduce myself, tell them what I can offer, add a little spice to the message, and leave it with a question, it its unanswered it's a no thanks, simples

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Arite luv?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I get about a hundred "hi, how are you?" messages a day, I delete all of them.

If I get any graphic messages I delete them and often block the sender.

Out of you and your mate I guess you fare slightly better as I don't immediately block you but the results are the same - neither gets a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not a copy and paste message ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say "have you ever danced with the devil in the pale moon light"... Works every time

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

I normally start with...

Can I fist punch your fart box...

Works for me every time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Hi. How are you?' messages are shockingly high. Along the lines of 'Are you okay?'. They just blend into the hundreds.

I tend to write a longwinded polite message. Pointing out why I messaged the person. Things that I enjoyed about their profile. What I'm looking for on here and ending with a hope that they get back to me, but if not, I'll know I'm not their type and hope they have fun on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get about a hundred "hi, how are you?" messages a day, I delete all of them.

If I get any graphic messages I delete them and often block the sender.

Out of you and your mate I guess you fare slightly better as I don't immediately block you but the results are the same - neither gets a reply."

That's a bit harsh isn't it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I introduce myself, tell them what I can offer, add a little spice to the message, and leave it with a question, it its unanswered it's a no thanks, simples

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them if they don't sleep with you, the world will end! Not a bright lot this bunch

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I get about a hundred "hi, how are you?" messages a day, I delete all of them.

If I get any graphic messages I delete them and often block the sender.

Out of you and your mate I guess you fare slightly better as I don't immediately block you but the results are the same - neither gets a reply.

That's a bit harsh isn't it?!"

Yes, it is a bit harsh. Fab is meant to be fun, not a full time job. I am not prepared to spend hours replying to people who mostly haven't read my profile and who have not made an effort when they contact me.

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By *adyLucknGamblersCouple
over a year ago

Harwich / Colchester

Make the message unique to the profile so it doesnt seem like a copy & paste, dull or half hearted message.

Add some info that they have put into the bio into the message to show & prove you have read it all .i.e (ours) cards against humanity, dom/rough, geeky (lol)

If they've put key words to use in messages make sure you use them.

Be polite but not trashy; flirtatious but not rude. Not one liners, but some thought into it

Good luck

Lady x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi here's my cock pic.

That there seems to be popular, and if it's not broke, don't fix it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi here's my cock pic.

That there seems to be popular, and if it's not broke, don't fix it. "

I seem to get a lot of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get a hi how are you sob sob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get about a hundred "hi, how are you?" messages a day, I delete all of them.

If I get any graphic messages I delete them and often block the sender.

Out of you and your mate I guess you fare slightly better as I don't immediately block you but the results are the same - neither gets a reply.

That's a bit harsh isn't it?!

I see your point.

Fab as a full time job conjures up images of day-long shagging sessions, not answering countless messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw op, wasn't Voorhees the surname of Jason in the Friday 13th films?

Maybe that's why you haven't had much luck!

It's either that or your ski mask...

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