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What is a eye catching profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is a eye catching profile and photos? I know mine profile and photos is not great bit at less it honest and true. Thing I would not post in my profile is sexually act photo which is a big turn off I know this is a swinger site but people should have stands when seeking friendship and fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently ive had a few comments lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

One that gets my attention is a well written profile with good pictures. Ones that tell me what they have to offer and what they seek and ones that will meet 52 year old smokers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine got a 10/10 once. So that's perfect yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get alot of compliments for my profile and the photos. I would change or adapt it if I felt there was negative feedback. I do need to consider taking more photos though in different poses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One that gets my attention is a well written profile with good pictures. Ones that tell me what they have to offer and what they seek and ones that will meet 52 year old smokers"
so u like men who brag in what they can do.. i say is best not to say because it spoilt the thrill in my book

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"One that gets my attention is a well written profile with good pictures. Ones that tell me what they have to offer and what they seek and ones that will meet 52 year old smokers so u like men who brag in what they can do.. i say is best not to say because it spoilt the thrill in my book "
whats bragging about someone saying what they are looking for. I know what im looking for. Im not here to play childish guessing games

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There is no right answer to this - what one person will see as the perfect profile another will see as not right.

I've been variously told mine is both too long and that it's one of the best profiles around - so I just focus on whether "I" think it's right (which I mostly do) and if people like it great, if people don't then that's fine too.

The only profiles not worthy of a second look in my view are those that amount to a sentence of text at most and have limited or no pics (and by limited I mean in terms of the subject matter not the quantity).

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Seeing as mine is hopeless I'll be watching with interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get alot of compliments for my profile and the photos. I would change or adapt it if I felt there was negative feedback. I do need to consider taking more photos though in different poses."

Same here, i don't know if it could be considered eyecatching though my pics seem to go down well. I've had criticism as well as compliments with regards to my profile text. I think it's all pretty subjective so the text will stay as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly I would want to see him or her naked at least in one of their photos.I like to see what I am going to get.A man with a raging hard on or a woman with a nice round bum and thighs will always go to the top of my list every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One with sexy pics & well written uniwue profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One that gets my attention is a well written profile with good pictures. Ones that tell me what they have to offer and what they seek and ones that will meet 52 year old smokers so u like men who brag in what they can do.. i say is best not to say because it spoilt the thrill in my book whats bragging about someone saying what they are looking for. I know what im looking for. Im not here to play childish guessing games"
ok i not here for childish guessing but there all way a thrill in in to great sex in life when u do not know everything they would do. only people look at my profile are mainly men

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"One that gets my attention is a well written profile with good pictures. Ones that tell me what they have to offer and what they seek and ones that will meet 52 year old smokers so u like men who brag in what they can do.. i say is best not to say because it spoilt the thrill in my book whats bragging about someone saying what they are looking for. I know what im looking for. Im not here to play childish guessing games ok i not here for childish guessing but there all way a thrill in in to great sex in life when u do not know everything they would do. only people look at my profile are mainly men"
how do you know only men look at your profile. Most women look in stealth mode

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"One that gets my attention is a well written profile with good pictures. Ones that tell me what they have to offer and what they seek and ones that will meet 52 year old smokers so u like men who brag in what they can do.. i say is best not to say because it spoilt the thrill in my book whats bragging about someone saying what they are looking for. I know what im looking for. Im not here to play childish guessing games ok i not here for childish guessing but there all way a thrill in in to great sex in life when u do not know everything they would do. only people look at my profile are mainly men"
if thats working for you then great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got a message off a woman 3 months ago asking if I wanted to meet up, completely out of the blue as well so I must be doing something right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no right answer to this - what one person will see as the perfect profile another will see as not right.

I've been variously told mine is both too long and that it's one of the best profiles around - so I just focus on whether "I" think it's right (which I mostly do) and if people like it great, if people don't then that's fine too.

The only profiles not worthy of a second look in my view are those that amount to a sentence of text at most and have limited or no pics (and by limited I mean in terms of the subject matter not the quantity)."

Once again true words spoken

We tend to go for the profiles similar to ours

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Express yourself and do what makes you happy, remember OP you can't please everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Express yourself and do what makes you happy, remember OP you can't please everyone "
i know i try to be honest in my profile i do not like to tell lies because it unfair to the others but i tried my best in what i've written in my profile i do not know what else to ad to it but thank you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Express yourself and do what makes you happy, remember OP you can't please everyone i know i try to be honest in my profile i do not like to tell lies because it unfair to the others but i tried my best in what i've written in my profile i do not know what else to ad to it but thank you "
why would you need to lie. Confident people know how to put themselves across by giving information where they are honest and dont need to big themselves up

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By *rozacMan
over a year ago

london

bad grammar. It's an eye catching. Not a.

Also avoid looking like a paedophile in your photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bad grammar. It's an eye catching. Not a.

Also avoid looking like a paedophile in your photos.

"

Or an axe murderer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"bad grammar. It's an eye catching. Not a.

Also avoid looking like a paedophile in your photos.

"
i see i am none of that where do u get that idear lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Express yourself and do what makes you happy, remember OP you can't please everyone i know i try to be honest in my profile i do not like to tell lies because it unfair to the others but i tried my best in what i've written in my profile i do not know what else to ad to it but thank you why would you need to lie. Confident people know how to put themselves across by giving information where they are honest and dont need to big themselves up"
i see what missing in mine then if you do not mine me asking.. any i think all the women and couples are sexy people

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By *rozacMan
over a year ago

london


"bad grammar. It's an eye catching. Not a.

Also avoid looking like a paedophile in your photos.

Or an axe murderer. "

And avoid having your chopper out in your main pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine is usually eyecatching...

or is that because my tits are usually on show

lets face it no fecker ever reads them so I don't make too much effort in writing them

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By *rozacMan
over a year ago

london


"mine is usually eyecatching...

or is that because my tits are usually on show

lets face it no fecker ever reads them so I don't make too much effort in writing them "

You can't write tits like those anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"mine is usually eyecatching...

or is that because my tits are usually on show

lets face it no fecker ever reads them so I don't make too much effort in writing them "
your profile is perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mine is usually eyecatching...

or is that because my tits are usually on show

lets face it no fecker ever reads them so I don't make too much effort in writing them

You can't write tits like those anymore"

awe bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a quirky profile. Not too longwinded and babbly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mine is usually eyecatching...

or is that because my tits are usually on show

lets face it no fecker ever reads them so I don't make too much effort in writing them your profile is perfect "
lmao to true I learnt that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intrigue and eroticism and usually pics in black and white! If there is humour too then winner winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've stuck a coupe of naughty pics on ours, and some normal ones too. We've tried to keep the spiel down, but who knows!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

For me it's the one where you get a natural vibe of confidence from them. Self confidence is a very attractive quality to many in my experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me it's the one where you get a natural vibe of confidence from them. Self confidence is a very attractive quality to many in my experience "
that's good to know which i go for and personalty too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a quirky profile. Not too longwinded and babbly. "
i see well that cool to know i the only one looking at mine are single men mainly is mine too long

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

An eye catching avatar.

They're not going to read your well written profile if the avatar doesnt catch their attention.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What is a eye catching profile and photos? I know mine profile and photos is not great bit at less it honest and true. Thing I would not post in my profile is sexually act photo which is a big turn off I know this is a swinger site but people should have stands when seeking friendship and fun. "

I think it's easier to say 'what's a shit profile?' - one with no photos or repetitive photos or cocks out and lousy or non existent text and a good one would be the opposite of that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An eye catching avatar.

They're not going to read your well written profile if the avatar doesnt catch their attention.

"
i see well that sucks because they judge it like a book then you never now how great the book is till you read it in case of sex how great it could be in bed

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"An eye catching avatar.

They're not going to read your well written profile if the avatar doesnt catch their attention.

i see well that sucks because they judge it like a book then you never now how great the book is till you read it in case of sex how great it could be in bed "

The trick is, of course, is to have an enticing book cover in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An eye catching avatar.

They're not going to read your well written profile if the avatar doesnt catch their attention.

"

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One that gets my attention is a well written profile with good pictures. Ones that tell me what they have to offer and what they seek and ones that will meet 52 year old smokers"
Thanks for the lovely chat we had via mail i really liked it it a first new contact i had in 6 months since joining this site i wish there where more lovely single ladies like you hope we chat more on here. i know it hard to chat to couples when your a single men..

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By *rozacMan
over a year ago

london


"mine is usually eyecatching...

or is that because my tits are usually on show

lets face it no fecker ever reads them so I don't make too much effort in writing them

You can't write tits like those anymore

awe bless "

That was a joke, not a compliment. Catch yourself on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine got a 10/10 once. So that's perfect yes? "
ypu come from the lost and found cupboard ... you cant accommodate....you can't travel ... your profile text is very vague i give you a 1 then block ...mrs

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

Ones that say ... Wanting some pussy tonight catches my eye

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ones that say ... Wanting some pussy tonight catches my eye "
i see i said that a few time and it never work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought getting my chopper out would have been eyecatching but it appears not to be the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eye catchers are usually pics or a funny status -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am not photogenic, but good luck to all those who are but be warned most photos can be deceiving in the end when seeking fun I think.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Decent write up that doesn't bore me,some nice booty pictures in sonething tight or see through. No pum pum pictures unless a strategically placed hand covers it. And not much a fan of fully naked pictures. I think less is more if done correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Decent write up that doesn't bore me,some nice booty pictures in sonething tight or see through. No pum pum pictures unless a strategically placed hand covers it. And not much a fan of fully naked pictures. I think less is more if done correctly "

pum pum picture??

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Decent write up that doesn't bore me,some nice booty pictures in sonething tight or see through. No pum pum pictures unless a strategically placed hand covers it. And not much a fan of fully naked pictures. I think less is more if done correctly

pum pum picture??"

Haha. Pussy pictures. Sorry that's my Jamaican side saying hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope to inject some fun and colour in my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great profile pic of a women. That's eye catching to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mines not bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines not good

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

One that gets my / our attention.

Not very helpful, but what attracts me varies.

Some profiles / people I'll warm too and others I won't. Sometimes for silly reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is always evolving. I'll be happy with it for a while, then need to start tweaking it again.

Used to get compliments about profile but nowadays, it rarely gets any views - nevermind comments/messages.

Fortunately, I'm not that bothered about meeting anyone - lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling mistakes and poor grammar are real turn offs for us. Show a lack of attention to detail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One that gets my / our attention.

Not very helpful, but what attracts me varies.

Some profiles / people I'll warm too and others I won't. Sometimes for silly reasons.

"

This is the same for me for example a black and white pic may interest me in one profile but a similar pic in another profile may turn me off...

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny


"One that gets my / our attention.

Not very helpful, but what attracts me varies.

Some profiles / people I'll warm too and others I won't. Sometimes for silly reasons.

This is the same for me for example a black and white pic may interest me in one profile but a similar pic in another profile may turn me off... "

Yep me too but I love humour in a pic or profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Mine is superb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never much negative said about mine---- yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is superb "
indeedy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Mine is superb indeedy "

It's got a certain spartan look to it, vaguely Norwegian, I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is superb indeedy

It's got a certain spartan look to it, vaguely Norwegian, I'd say "

I would say more minimalism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea - mine's rubbish

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By *pikeyMan
over a year ago

chester

If anyone fancy giving mine a raring that be fab, as never had it done before,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the profile. It's the personality that transpires from the way you post and portrait yourself, your opinions on others, what you seek on a swingers site.

Now that's a very possible reason.

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By *kultraCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Ours has had good feedback but I still feel as though it's missing something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowts perfect

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