FabSwingers.com forum: Bi guys and the wives have no idea!

By *akeG OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I never cease to be amazed by the amount of guys that are bi and their wives have no idea. This is an observation not a complaint mind!

This morning was made even more horny for me as I'd arranged to meet this guy who I'd been chatting to. We agreed for me to text when I was on his street to make sure all was clear. He said his wife was running late but not be long. This very attractive lady (the wife) left. With in 10 mins he was on his knees sucking my cock, and another 5 mins and I was fucking him.

Certainly seemed more horny after watching his wife leave for work!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I beg to differ. I was the gf then wife of a guy - we were on here as a couple.

The heart ache I felt all the times there were odd texts and calls. Yes I caught him on a couple of occasions so I know it wasn't me being paranoid. I knew he was bi but he seemed to get a thrill out of going behind my back. The dilemma Christmas Day 2014 when yet another odd text came to his mobile that yet again he couldn't explain. Still I looked after him and loved him to the very best of my ability when he fell ill 8 days after the last time until he passed away later in the year.

Nothing horny about dishonesty in my opinion and I'm happy being with someone that loves and resepects me for who I am and can be comfortable about their own sexuality.

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By *akeG OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Great respect for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually think it's quite sad that someone can or has to keep a part of their sexual being from the one person they should be able to share anything with.

It never once occurred to me that I should keep it a secret from Fred that I fancy women too.

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By *akeG OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

It is quite sad yes, but there are so many secret bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to hold my hand up on this one, it causes a lot of anguish as I try not to act on the bi part of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of liars and delusional men on here; this comes as no surprise to us after being here for three months

- Mrs. J -

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"It is quite sad yes, but there are so many secret bi guys."

I found out by accident about my late husband back in 2005. I thought my acceptance would settle him down. It didn't.

Spoken to many guys about this over the years and come to the conclusion that most aren't even prepared to have a conversation with their spouses. Lying is easier and like my husband and your thread, there is a thrill.

Not so thrilling for the innocent. Certainly rocked my world and created a very difficult relationship. He was a great step father and had many redeeming features but as far as my feelings were concerned he plainly didn't give a shit.

I'm thrilled my life does not have this problem now

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By *akeG OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

They can spoil it for the genuine folk who are here to have fun.

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By *akeG OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Let's hope that maybe people not just guys mind, read your post and hopefully try to speak to their partners and something positive can come from that.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Luckily my bi partners have always been able to be honest and open with me

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By *akeG OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

That is great, for everyone!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Let's hope that maybe people not just guys mind, read your post and hopefully try to speak to their partners and something positive can come from that."

So I had ten years knowing he was bi and we met and played together with bi guys. As you can see from my profile with my new partner, I'm hardly adverse to the idea.

He was a serial cheater and liar.

Now I'm not saying this is the case for all guys, because there can be many reasons and stories but mine is one extreme I guess that caused a lot of pain and would have resulted in me leaving him. But when children are involved there are emotional ties that arent so easy to separate.

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By *akeG OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Absolutely

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Honestly? Are there that many bi guys? Or just that many bi guys on fab? I would have thought that the number of bi guys in the general population is fantastically low. I imagine the number of gay guys that are married to a woman and therefore teeming themselves bi pretty high.

The number of couples on this website looking for a man where the man is bi must be nearly equal to those looking for straight men.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Honestly? Are there that many bi guys? Or just that many bi guys on fab? I would have thought that the number of bi guys in the general population is fantastically low. I imagine the number of gay guys that are married to a woman and therefore teeming themselves bi pretty high.

The number of couples on this website looking for a man where the man is bi must be nearly equal to those looking for straight men. "
bi guys have always gravitated to me

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By *akeG OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I have found a few like that.

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