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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is there a queue for cheating married women on here when married men are being judged? I wonder what's happened to gender equality Personally, I don't think that a person's personal life should be questioned or judged by anyone here. I feel if the sex is good there is no need for asking questions like its tindar site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's got nothing to do with gender equality.

It's purely down to perception.

Married men struggle because a lot of women don't want to be a party to home wrecking, grief, hassle, whatever.

Married women don't struggle because a lot of men couldn't care less about the marital status of someone if it means they can get their legover.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think it's more to do with the gender imbalance on fab than anything else.

Because there are far fewer women than men the cheating women will be in just as much demand as the truly single women.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Why is there a queue for cheating married women on here when married men are being judged? I wonder what's happened to gender equality Personally, I don't think that a person's personal life should be questioned or judged by anyone here. I feel if the sex is good there is no need for asking questions like its tindar site."

Personally I don't think anyone should presume to decide for me if I should sleep with a married man or prefer single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness OP you may not be aware but this subject has been done to death.

No-one appears to be able to change perspectives regardless of their valid points.

Just use the site as you will and accept that you may or may not be sought after ?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"That's got nothing to do with gender equality.

It's purely down to perception.

Married men struggle because a lot of women don't want to be a party to home wrecking, grief, hassle, whatever.

Married women don't struggle because a lot of men couldn't care less about the marital status of someone if it means they can get their legover.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's got nothing to do with gender equality.

It's purely down to perception.

Married men struggle because a lot of women don't want to be a party to home wrecking, grief, hassle, whatever.

Married women don't struggle because a lot of men couldn't care less about the marital status of someone if it means they can get their legover.

"
that sums it up perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is there a queue for cheating married women on here when married men are being judged? I wonder what's happened to gender equality Personally, I don't think that a person's personal life should be questioned or judged by anyone here. I feel if the sex is good there is no need for asking questions like its tindar site."

lets face it..we are British, we will queue up for anything

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

gender equality is happening. all genders are allowed to cheat, the only law saying you shouldn't is the one you contractually signed when you got married. and you signed that yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

lets face it..we are British, we will queue up for anything "

Haha.

That one line has stopped me from getting involved in this thread. Perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's got nothing to do with gender equality.

It's purely down to perception.

Married men struggle because a lot of women don't want to be a party to home wrecking, grief, hassle, whatever.

Married women don't struggle because a lot of men couldn't care less about the marital status of someone if it means they can get their legover.

"

This. Plus it seems to be a primal instinct in some men to 'take' what belongs to another male.

Personally I'm not bothered if a playmate is attached or not. It's none of my business

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Is this another 'oh woe is me' thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you say "I don't think that a person's personal life should be questioned or judged by anyone here"

Do you really believe that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this another 'oh woe is me' thread "

So cynical, like that would be the case.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Is this another 'oh woe is me' thread

So cynical, like that would be the case. "

Me? Cynical? Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gets the popcorn lol

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Technically I'm not cheating I don't meet I only watch and chat to naked people lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gets the popcorn lol"

Put that away and get the cola bottles out instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" In fairness OP you may not be aware but this subject has been done to death.

No-one appears to be able to change perspectives regardless of their valid points.

Just use the site as you will and accept that you may or may not be sought after ? "

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you say "I don't think that a person's personal life should be questioned or judged by anyone here"

Do you really believe that?"

It's my sincere opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Technically I'm not cheating I don't meet I only watch and chat to naked people lol"

Hahaha. What would your Mrs's opinion be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gets the popcorn lol

Put that away and get the cola bottles out instead "
Yes, some cola bottles instead, they are nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's got nothing to do with gender equality.

It's purely down to perception.

Married men struggle because a lot of women don't want to be a party to home wrecking, grief, hassle, whatever.

Married women don't struggle because a lot of men couldn't care less about the marital status of someone if it means they can get their legover.

"

This is probably true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of married men on here that do really well, sometimes better than the single men or the ones that purport to be single, however the ones I know that do well don't come on the forums moaning about about their personal circumstances ruining their chances of getting laid. Same as married "single" women they generally go about their business with little drama.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married and accept that isn't for everyone. I'm not answerable to anyone regarding my choices, and no one is answerable to me for theirs.

Being up front about that in my profile no doubt stops people messaging me, the same as it stops me interacting with people who make it clear they do not entertain attached folk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to clarify folks, this is purely to raise conversations and nothing personal. I am a single male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter what sex you are it isn't a great idea to cheat some one always gets hurt. And in my experience If your gonna cheat at least tell the person your gonna cheat with as I had a man confront me last year wanting to kick the shit out of me and I had no idea what he was on about to finally find out I had been shagging his wife. I didn't even know she was married.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

its my life, ill do what i like with whom i like..its their life, they can do what they like with whom they like..

thats equality, in minding ones own business

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what sex you are it isn't a great idea to cheat some one always gets hurt. And in my experience If your gonna cheat at least tell the person your gonna cheat with as I had a man confront me last year wanting to kick the shit out of me and I had no idea what he was on about to finally find out I had been shagging his wife. I didn't even know she was married."

I bet that's funny now thinking about it or maybe not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't meet married women who are cheating on their partners

With married men it does not matter to us as we don't meet single men

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what sex you are it isn't a great idea to cheat some one always gets hurt. And in my experience If your gonna cheat at least tell the person your gonna cheat with as I had a man confront me last year wanting to kick the shit out of me and I had no idea what he was on about to finally find out I had been shagging his wife. I didn't even know she was married.

I bet that's funny now thinking about it or maybe not. "

It's funnier now than it was to be honest the husband was alright with me in the end when he realised I had no idea what he was on about. I try and stick to single women now tho well I think there single lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what sex you are it isn't a great idea to cheat some one always gets hurt. And in my experience If your gonna cheat at least tell the person your gonna cheat with as I had a man confront me last year wanting to kick the shit out of me and I had no idea what he was on about to finally find out I had been shagging his wife. I didn't even know she was married.

I bet that's funny now thinking about it or maybe not.

It's funnier now than it was to be honest the husband was alright with me in the end when he realised I had no idea what he was on about. I try and stick to single women now tho well I think there single lol."

Hahaha!

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Always open about my situation in opening messages just to ensure that folk are aware of it, if they haven't picked it up from can't accommodate and mention of discretion on my profile.

I have nothing to complain about in terms of Fab. Folk should be entirely able to see who they wish based on any criteria they wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's not forget this is a swinging site. with all the demands from single women, I think they treat it as a dating site. Ime here for fun whatever way it comes in, and with whoever wants to join me.

I wonder when these women go to clubs they couldn't care less or don't even ask the question.

Just saying

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"That's got nothing to do with gender equality.

It's purely down to perception.

Married men struggle because a lot of women don't want to be a party to home wrecking, grief, hassle, whatever.

Married women don't struggle because a lot of men couldn't care less about the marital status of someone if it means they can get their legover.

"

Profound and true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is there a queue for cheating married women on here when married men are being judged? I wonder what's happened to gender equality Personally, I don't think that a person's personal life should be questioned or judged by anyone here. I feel if the sex is good there is no need for asking questions like its tindar site."

It's called the Pussy Pass my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less who judges me.They don't know my situation.They don't live my life so I don't care about being labelled a cheat.You only get one life and if you are miserable in that life then change it.If your stuck in a sexless and loveless marriage through financial or other reasons then go out and find your excitement.If I get judged for trying to live my life then I'm ok with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what sex you are it isn't a great idea to cheat some one always gets hurt. And in my experience If your gonna cheat at least tell the person your gonna cheat with as I had a man confront me last year wanting to kick the shit out of me and I had no idea what he was on about to finally find out I had been shagging his wife. I didn't even know she was married."

Yes its happened to me.. a women rings me up .. on my mobile and asks me if i know (his full name) and that he was a plumber. I said i didnt know as It had been a few months since the last contact with this guy. Then she said he had been cheating on here .. not once but several times and now she has more proof the courts will take care of it.

Just be honest ladies and gents you will end up getting the right meets as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry cheating on her .. not here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's got nothing to do with gender equality.

It's purely down to perception.

Married men struggle because a lot of women don't want to be a party to home wrecking, grief, hassle, whatever.

Married women don't struggle because a lot of men couldn't care less about the marital status of someone if it means they can get their legover.

"

Well summarised!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter what sex you are it isn't a great idea to cheat some one always gets hurt. And in my experience If your gonna cheat at least tell the person your gonna cheat with as I had a man confront me last year wanting to kick the shit out of me and I had no idea what he was on about to finally find out I had been shagging his wife. I didn't even know she was married.

Yes its happened to me.. a women rings me up .. on my mobile and asks me if i know (his full name) and that he was a plumber. I said i didnt know as It had been a few months since the last contact with this guy. Then she said he had been cheating on here .. not once but several times and now she has more proof the courts will take care of it.

Just be honest ladies and gents you will end up getting the right meets as well. "

I have been honest and clearly staited on my profile info that im cheating.My name also says it all so they can't say they didn't know I'm married and here without my hubbys permition.

If I do get cought then I will take the blame all myself as you can't blame other people for your own actions.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"I think it's more to do with the gender imbalance on fab than anything else.

Because there are far fewer women than men the cheating women will be in just as much demand as the truly single women.

"

That doesn't apply to everyone as we won't meet cheats of either sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's more to do with the gender imbalance on fab than anything else.

Because there are far fewer women than men the cheating women will be in just as much demand as the truly single women.

That doesn't apply to everyone as we won't meet cheats of either sex."

STIs and safety apart, how much of a person's life do you need to know before you sleep with them?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


" In fairness OP you may not be aware but this subject has been done to death.

No-one appears to be able to change perspectives regardless of their valid points.

Just use the site as you will and accept that you may or may not be sought after ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some very successful attatched cheating men on fabs, in the forums too...omg shock I know!

The ones I know of are attractive, intelligent, articulate, respectful & meet in such a way that doesn't draw attention to themselves, they basically just get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey all.

I've put it very clearly on mine as I don't believe in pretending I'm single then when it comes to meets making out I can't make it or something silly like that.

But I honestly feel like it's dented my chances. Like others have said above me a woman it's totally fine and gets such a demand but us guys are sent abusive messages and told we are a waste.

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why is there a queue for cheating married women on here when married men are being judged? I wonder what's happened to gender equality Personally, I don't think that a person's personal life should be questioned or judged by anyone here. I feel if the sex is good there is no need for asking questions like its tindar site.

Decide - of course no. But people are entitled to their opinion about cheating.

Personally I don't think anyone should presume to decide for me if I should sleep with a married man or prefer single."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've highlighted it on my profile and all I get is looks no messages so either that's putting people off or I must be one hell of an ugly mug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is there a queue for cheating married women on here when married men are being judged? I wonder what's happened to gender equality Personally, I don't think that a person's personal life should be questioned or judged by anyone here. I feel if the sex is good there is no need for asking questions like its tindar site."

Why should there be gender equality? It's all down to mindset and quantity. Think about it. The largest demographic is men. So, for example, members can afford to be picky and stick to their morals.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Cheaters are dingbats regardless of gender. So yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's not forget this is a swinging site. with all the demands from single women, I think they treat it as a dating site. Ime here for fun whatever way it comes in, and with whoever wants to join me.

I wonder when these women go to clubs they couldn't care less or don't even ask the question.

Just saying

"

Providing site rules are followed, we can all make whatever demands we like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site has lots of both men and women who are married and cheating, and lots of couples who say they won't meet them, that is until they are in a club scenario, and then hey, guess what, it suddenly doesn't become an issue if the person is married or not. Strange that.

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"There are some very successful attatched cheating men on fabs, in the forums too...omg shock I know!

The ones I know of are attractive, intelligent, articulate, respectful & meet in such a way that doesn't draw attention to themselves, they basically just get on with it."

Some of us are ugly as well

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

Fetched the popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most entertaining thing about the forums is sitting back and watching the double standards of people that are aslo on a swingers site yet they look down on anyone diffrent to themselves.

They pour scorn and there blind judgement on other people lives they know nothing about and nothing about there situation.

It's hilarious watching them peer over there moral walls while there here doing the same thing we're all here for.

What self importance and delusions some people have.

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London


"The most entertaining thing about the forums is sitting back and watching the double standards of people that are aslo on a swingers site yet they look down on anyone diffrent to themselves.

They pour scorn and there blind judgement on other people lives they know nothing about and nothing about there situation.

It's hilarious watching them peer over there moral walls while there here doing the same thing we're all here for.

What self importance and delusions some people have."

So you think if you are a swinger you can't have moral standards not to cheat and dislike cheating? Is it somehow in opposite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married , and I get knocked back more because of my lack of height than I do for been married !

A lot of girls especially the younger ones in thier twenty find it a turn on !

Sometimes to a scary degree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm married , and I get knocked back more because of my lack of height than I do for been married !

A lot of girls especially the younger ones in thier twenty find it a turn on !

Sometimes to a scary degree "

I get the same issue with height!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most entertaining thing about the forums is sitting back and watching the double standards of people that are aslo on a swingers site yet they look down on anyone diffrent to themselves.

They pour scorn and there blind judgement on other people lives they know nothing about and nothing about there situation.

It's hilarious watching them peer over there moral walls while there here doing the same thing we're all here for.

What self importance and delusions some people have.

So you think if you are a swinger you can't have moral standards not to cheat and dislike cheating? Is it somehow in opposite?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most entertaining thing about the forums is sitting back and watching the double standards of people that are aslo on a swingers site yet they look down on anyone diffrent to themselves.

They pour scorn and there blind judgement on other people lives they know nothing about and nothing about there situation.

It's hilarious watching them peer over there moral walls while there here doing the same thing we're all here for.

What self importance and delusions some people have."

Surely you realise this is exactly what you're doing too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zzzzzzzzzz

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Why is there a queue for cheating married women on here when married men are being judged? I wonder what's happened to gender equality Personally, I don't think that a person's personal life should be questioned or judged by anyone here. I feel if the sex is good there is no need for asking questions like its tindar site.

lets face it..we are British, we will queue up for anything "

made me smile , and well said , just joined the cue , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site has lots of both men and women who are married and cheating, and lots of couples who say they won't meet them, that is until they are in a club scenario, and then hey, guess what, it suddenly doesn't become an issue if the person is married or not. Strange that."

When meeting someone off a website, people are likely to swap phone numbers to arrange a meet. The cheated on person may find this number and cause issues.

Meeting in a club is much more anonymous and therefore less likely for any fallout. Simple.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm married , and I get knocked back more because of my lack of height than I do for been married !

A lot of girls especially the younger ones in thier twenty find it a turn on !

Sometimes to a scary degree "

One would think one would be inundated then eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site has lots of both men and women who are married and cheating, and lots of couples who say they won't meet them, that is until they are in a club scenario, and then hey, guess what, it suddenly doesn't become an issue if the person is married or not. Strange that.

When meeting someone off a website, people are likely to swap phone numbers to arrange a meet. The cheated on person may find this number and cause issues.

Meeting in a club is much more anonymous and therefore less likely for any fallout. Simple. "

There is no need to swop phone numbers with anyone. I was actually talking about the couples who take the moral high ground but then seem to leave their morals outside the door when entering a club. Double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site has lots of both men and women who are married and cheating, and lots of couples who say they won't meet them, that is until they are in a club scenario, and then hey, guess what, it suddenly doesn't become an issue if the person is married or not. Strange that.

When meeting someone off a website, people are likely to swap phone numbers to arrange a meet. The cheated on person may find this number and cause issues.

Meeting in a club is much more anonymous and therefore less likely for any fallout. Simple.

There is no need to swop phone numbers with anyone. I was actually talking about the couples who take the moral high ground but then seem to leave their morals outside the door when entering a club. Double standards."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't care less who judges me.They don't know my situation.They don't live my life so I don't care about being labelled a cheat.You only get one life and if you are miserable in that life then change it.If your stuck in a sexless and loveless marriage through financial or other reasons then go out and find your excitement.If I get judged for trying to live my life then I'm ok with that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site has lots of both men and women who are married and cheating, and lots of couples who say they won't meet them, that is until they are in a club scenario, and then hey, guess what, it suddenly doesn't become an issue if the person is married or not. Strange that.

When meeting someone off a website, people are likely to swap phone numbers to arrange a meet. The cheated on person may find this number and cause issues.

Meeting in a club is much more anonymous and therefore less likely for any fallout. Simple.

There is no need to swop phone numbers with anyone. I was actually talking about the couples who take the moral high ground but then seem to leave their morals outside the door when entering a club. Double standards."

I was just offering a possible explanation as to why they do differently at a club.

I have double standards all the time and I'm happy to judge people for many things.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Why is there a queue for cheating married women on here when married men are being judged? I wonder what's happened to gender equality Personally, I don't think that a person's personal life should be questioned or judged by anyone here. I feel if the sex is good there is no need for asking questions like its tindar site."
theres always gaffa tape

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