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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

they seem to feature quite often on the forums in one form or another

if some one had no verification's and had been on here for some time would you meet them?

do you have a time limit say if they had been here 6 month and no verification do you pass them by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're not verified, I don't entertain them, lots of fake profiles on here so that's how I filter.

If they're verified by a meeting in person, then I will converse with them, webcam verification seems pointless to me, specially if they can get picture verified too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months is about right. If a woman hasn't had a verification in that amount of time I pass it by.

On this site a woman could easily get a verification the day she joins if she so wanted to, even if its just a cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 months. No meets, no veris. Guess I'm screwed, or rather not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10 months. No meets, no veris. Guess I'm screwed, or rather not... "

Does the same count for fellas? I hope not or i'm screwed too.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

More so. Most women can have no pics, no veris and a one line profile and they would still get messages.

Men need a verification or 2 to ensure that they aren't murderers or something

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

personally i tend to be cautious to verifications as some i have seen g verified within minutes of joining..

i would meet unverified users if i felt i got on with them

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't rule people out because the don't have verifications but all first meets from here are socials or club meets. I just wouldn't travel far, probably no more that 10-15 miles for a first social meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

on the first day of joining here i met a great couple for social and sex and i still see them now and again.. they have no verifications and do not want them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More so. Most women can have no pics, no veris and a one line profile and they would still get messages.

Men need a verification or 2 to ensure that they aren't murderers or something "

I'm a murderer and I have verifications so....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More so. Most women can have no pics, no veris and a one line profile and they would still get messages.

Men need a verification or 2 to ensure that they aren't murderers or something

I'm a murderer and I have verifications so.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never chat to anyone with no verifications, never mind meet them, no matter how long they have been here

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"More so. Most women can have no pics, no veris and a one line profile and they would still get messages.

Men need a verification or 2 to ensure that they aren't murderers or something

I'm a murderer and I have verifications so....

"

Fabicide...so sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. Verifications are a curios thing. I dong think I'd entertain a profile 6 months old and no veris. They'd have to do a lot of the leg work to build some trust.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I never chat to anyone with no verifications, never mind meet them, no matter how long they have been here"

And if everyone has that vue how is anyone ment to get a verification on hear ?

And don't say go to a club cos not everyone can get to 1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op. Verifications are a curios thing. I dong think I'd entertain a profile 6 months old and no veris. They'd have to do a lot of the leg work to build some trust.

"

i can get that, it does puzzle me verifications added within minutes of joining , i see that quite often

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i do think hey look we all started on fab without any verification, so maybe maybe.

i keep mine in private and never think about leaving one unless asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be no meet if they not verified because most of the people state you got to be verified to get a meet. i not verified by anyone here only photo.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Op. Verifications are a curios thing. I dong think I'd entertain a profile 6 months old and no veris. They'd have to do a lot of the leg work to build some trust.

i can get that, it does puzzle me verifications added within minutes of joining , i see that quite often"

Usually "I met this....on their old profile" so they are revisiting the site. They message old friends and hence can be verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op. Verifications are a curios thing. I dong think I'd entertain a profile 6 months old and no veris. They'd have to do a lot of the leg work to build some trust.

i can get that, it does puzzle me verifications added within minutes of joining , i see that quite often

Usually "I met this....on their old profile" so they are revisiting the site. They message old friends and hence can be verified "
that could make a verification pointless to a degree, i have friends on here and i decided to get my own verification

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

It is just to prove you aren't a fake. My first veris was from a couple who I had met at a bbq previously.

It was enough to let people know I wasn't an 18 yr old sat in a dark room in my pants.

I did the rest from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always a bit cautious with non verified accounts but length of time doesn't really come into it. Some people are quite happy to wait for the right person to come along

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Based on past experiences, I won't meet unverified profile and I will be very careful in planning to meet profile with single hidden verification that I can't counter check on the verifier.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Doesn't bother me whether someone is verified or not. I certainly don't read them, because I hate the cliche ridden backslapping style in which most are written. The last thing people want is some kind of FuckAdvisor review on their profile.

Take the same care with absolutely everyone. Ask for a phone chat or a social. A refusal usually means a fake or someone who is not prepared to meet. This doesn't necessarily mean an intentional time waster, many people just find the fantasy more exciting than actually putting it into practise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman or couple have verifications more than a year old, then we pass them by; too many sad blokes pretending to be women or a couple. With single men/TV/TS it does not matter as we are certain that they are single men/TV/TS. Having said that, they are not our target audience

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No verifications isnt a problem .. not being verified is. If a guy cannot take a pic of himself to verify himself on a swinging website then I am not interested and I will tell him my reason.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Long past caring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm always a bit cautious with non verified accounts but length of time doesn't really come into it. Some people are quite happy to wait for the right person to come along "

yes quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long past caring. "

Hello.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Long past caring.

Hello. "
hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they seem to feature quite often on the forums in one form or another

if some one had no verification's and had been on here for some time would you meet them?

do you have a time limit say if they had been here 6 month and no verification do you pass them by"
I pick not to show alot now as I did have this woman mailing everyone local I was .. so now I say very little about all that .

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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My previous visit to these shores i had no veris for 18 months. I had 1 meet but she didnt veri me. I met 2 ladies on the back of forum posts and subsequent chatter. The first of those 2 took a risk on me i guess.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"No verifications isnt a problem .. not being verified is. If a guy cannot take a pic of himself to verify himself on a swinging website then I am not interested and I will tell him my reason.

"

Are we not talking about meet veris as opposed to being photo verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I like to make my own mind up not what others say .. all I need to know if real .

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