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" They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. I " Nothing in the terms and conditions we have to reply  | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. " Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens  | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. " Wow. Just wow. I get what your saying pal, but in fairness, it they already are ignorant with you then, do you think they give a shite after that rant? | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens "But guys get bad rep for it. I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply. | |||
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"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend. I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it. Chill buddy its not worth it. "This is probably the best advice you'll get. | |||
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"When I get a message from a 1 liner profile with no pics, I just ignore as they obviously don't feel I need the same courtesy as I have given them, because their message always state they love my profile and pics yet they have fuck all. Why are they owed a response? "Exactly
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens
But guys get bad rep for it.
I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply."So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing | |||
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"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend. I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it. Chill buddy its not worth it.
This is probably the best advice you'll get."This is great advice | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens
But guys get bad rep for it.
I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.
So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing "The guys are fighting back lol No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha | |||
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"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend. I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it. Chill buddy its not worth it.
This is probably the best advice you'll get."That and not licking the wire around a field. You know; the one one the plastic sticks. | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens
But guys get bad rep for it.
I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply."That's fair enough. If I was a male and had the same amount of messages, I would reply to all too. When you have hundreds, it's not as simple as that. We would spend most of our time replying to messages and not chatting to the ones we do want to. I don't think men are worse than women or couples when it comes to to cancelling/ no shows meets. It is not gender specific. | |||
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"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend. I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it. Chill buddy its not worth it.
This is probably the best advice you'll get."I was on here 2yrs as a cpl so I know how many msgs we used to get but we always replied to those who read our profile, those that was polite etc Fair enough, if you get a msg saying I wanna fuck you or suck my dick, I get thst but when a guy takes time to read a profile, is polite then surely a reply wouid be nice. I just think some women on hete thibk they are all that and don't need to reply. | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens
But guys get bad rep for it.
I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.
So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing
The guys are fighting back lol
No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha "Erm we will ya know | |||
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"Women don't have to reply, it's in the bible like FAQs " | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." Ooooooh just getting the popcorn out as this going to be a good watch now lol | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments."  | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens
But guys get bad rep for it.
I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.
So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing
The guys are fighting back lol
No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha "There's another reason why women don't reply because of abusive messages on one occasion ......... I replied "I'm not interested enjoy fab" and I got 'oh sorry love I changed my mind I just took a better look at your pics and YUK! You fat slag" | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens
But guys get bad rep for it.
I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.
That's fair enough. If I was a male and had the same amount of messages, I would reply to all too. When you have hundreds, it's not as simple as that. We would spend most of our time replying to messages and not chatting to the ones we do want to.
I don't think men are worse than women or couples when it comes to to cancelling/ no shows meets. It is not gender specific."I could filter down most women's messages and set up a block list for them in between 20 and 30 minutes even with 500 to 1000 messages but then again I'm a good judge of character. | |||
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"Most of the guys on here don't have pics or just a dick pic and they mostly bother to read profiles and I've got patience for it Quite clear about that in profile " I always read a profile before I msg. | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens
But guys get bad rep for it.
I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.
So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing
The guys are fighting back lol
No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha
There's another reason why women don't reply because of abusive messages on one occasion ......... I replied "I'm not interested enjoy fab" and I got 'oh sorry love I changed my mind I just took a better look at your pics and YUK! You fat slag"
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." so funny coming from you | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." I take it you've stopped asking all the crazy women on fab for sex then???? lol... Quite a generalised assessment you've come up with there!! | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." Wow!!! Group is all together why don't you!. I'm on here as I don't like the vanilla out there. Oh and I have kids so don't get time to 'date' very Maronic response | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens
But guys get bad rep for it.
I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.
So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing
The guys are fighting back lol
No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha
There's another reason why women don't reply because of abusive messages on one occasion ......... I replied "I'm not interested enjoy fab" and I got 'oh sorry love I changed my mind I just took a better look at your pics and YUK! You fat slag"
Your not fat it's just that your pocket sized "
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." Fuck me! I don't know whether to pull these faces  or laugh.
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"This is why my filters are now up high I would get loads and been here years and don't feel like doing mail everyday I don't like being rude so I put in my profile." That some good advice. Thank you. I will see if I can up my filters! | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." Hmmm interesting,do pray tell what's the reason you're on here? I'm just getting a fit of giggles for some reason | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." I'm sensing that your sexually frustrated and your taking your frustrations out on every female that ever existed | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens
But guys get bad rep for it.
I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.
So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing
The guys are fighting back lol
No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha
There's another reason why women don't reply because of abusive messages on one occasion ......... I replied "I'm not interested enjoy fab" and I got 'oh sorry love I changed my mind I just took a better look at your pics and YUK! You fat slag"
Your not fat it's just that your pocket sized
I'm comfortable "Yeah you are, you sexy pocket rocket xXx | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. so funny coming from you "Not sure you would know "the truth" if it slapped ya in the face....and if it didn't..I WOULD! | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." That post cracked me up, if I was you I'd put your tin hat on. | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. so funny coming from you
Not sure you would know "the truth" if it slapped ya in the face....and if it didn't..I WOULD! "Is that me or him? | |||
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But guys get bad rep for it.
I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.
So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing
The guys are fighting back lol
No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha
There's another reason why women don't reply because of abusive messages on one occasion ......... I replied "I'm not interested enjoy fab" and I got 'oh sorry love I changed my mind I just took a better look at your pics and YUK! You fat slag"
Your not fat it's just that your pocket sized
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. so funny coming from you
Not sure you would know "the truth" if it slapped ya in the face....and if it didn't..I WOULD!
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Not sure you would know "the truth" if it slapped ya in the face....and if it didn't..I WOULD!
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"I had a fem 2 week ago msg for meet. We exchanged pics and had chat and decided to meet. She then didn't reply to me. I thought oh ok I'll leave it. Following week she msgs me asking for meet. I reply politely that you binned me off when we arranged meet so not sure. She talks me into it then goes off fab for 2 days so no meet again. I msgd her fridsy asking does she want to meet or leave it as don't want my timewasting. She says meet me Sunday at 11am (todsy). I'll msg you Saturday with my adress. Sunday morning comes and noting. I msg her and she reads but no reply. I then msg her nicley telling her " you have let me down now 3 times so I don't want to meet anymore so plz don't msg me again as it's not funny now". Her reply " your a fucking timewaster. People like you give fab a bad name. You think your to good for me don't ya? Your fucking blocked" haha " She sounds like a nightmare. But you shouldn't have given her so many chances! | |||
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"I had a fem 2 week ago msg for meet. We exchanged pics and had chat and decided to meet. She then didn't reply to me. I thought oh ok I'll leave it. Following week she msgs me asking for meet. I reply politely that you binned me off when we arranged meet so not sure. She talks me into it then goes off fab for 2 days so no meet again. I msgd her fridsy asking does she want to meet or leave it as don't want my timewasting. She says meet me Sunday at 11am (todsy). I'll msg you Saturday with my adress. Sunday morning comes and noting. I msg her and she reads but no reply. I then msg her nicley telling her " you have let me down now 3 times so I don't want to meet anymore so plz don't msg me again as it's not funny now". Her reply " your a fucking timewaster. People like you give fab a bad name. You think your to good for me don't ya? Your fucking blocked" haha " She said that?? Maybe she needs to look in the mirror. | |||
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that's a timewaster IMO, not someone who doesn't respond to a message because you aren't what they are looking for....
Timewaster is pretty easy to define. It's someone who wastes your time "I would say you waste your own time! Either that or your bloody naïve if you think chatting is time wasting | |||
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Someone on steroids
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Somebody who looks after himself, eats a good healthy diet, trains 5 times a week and trains very hard is often defined as a juice head lol
Not condoning her calling you a juice head but how could she know from a pic it's from pure dedication and not steroid assistance? "Why assume? Why even mention ? | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. define timewasters OP as for me timewasters are those who you chat and chat to, then perhaps move on to whats app, exchange pics then chat on the phone ...eventually you decide that yes, this is the person you want to meet and so arrange a date and get all excited as the day gets nearer and nearer, all the while firmly believing that he wants the same too...and then the day comes and you get to where you arranged to meet and you wait...and wait...and wait...and finally realise that the f*cker isn't coming
that's a timewaster IMO, not someone who doesn't respond to a message because you aren't what they are looking for....
Timewaster is pretty easy to define. It's someone who wastes your time "Does every single conversation you have, have to result in a fuck then? | |||
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"Our profile currently states that we're taking a brake. It's very clear and not impolite. Yet we still get messages from guys asking if we want to "meet now". So, we're guessing they've not taken the time to read our profile, and if they have they're blatantly ignorant of our wishes. We don't see why we should give our time to someone who isn't prepared to give a few moments of their time to us. On the other hand, we do reply to polite, well thought out messages which don't contain a plethora of cock pics and egotistical rubbish. " can you clarify what a break is, they might of thought a T break | |||
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Not condoning her calling you a juice head but how could she know from a pic it's from pure dedication and not steroid assistance?
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. Ooooooh just getting the popcorn out as this going to be a good watch now lol" | |||
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"Same, on more then one occasion! I replied to thank them for the compliment on my photo, and politely let them know I wasn't interested in what they wanted. I then got abuse telling me I was fat and ugly! "You look great! But replies like that do put us off replying no thx, it's easier to just delete unwanted messages | |||
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"Most of the guys on here don't have pics or just a dick pic and they mostly bother to read profiles and I've got patience for it Quite clear about that in profile I always read a profile before I msg. " Ok, so you may do. I lose messages every day as I've not managed to get down to them within the time frame before they just get binned by the site itself. So, instead of blaming the ladies for being ignorant, blame the pricks who don't read profiles and fill our inboxes full of "wuu2" messages | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." That won't go down well. | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." Always one tosser | |||
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"This is why my filters are now up high I would get loads and been here years and don't feel like doing mail everyday I don't like being rude so I put in my profile. That some good advice. Thank you. I will see if I can up my filters! "Just take men off your 'looking for' list. It takes you off their searches and cuts the mail right down. Put men back on your looking for when you're happy to get mail. | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Probably 30% of the 'women' you message are blokes with a fake profile, and if you didn't send a cock pic for him to whack off to, he will just delete your message. The genuine women are just swamped with messages, and if you don't tick all their boxes, there will be literally hundreds who do, so she will be just waaaaaaay too busy to reply. Facts of Fab life mate "Here we go again is their not the slightest possibility that some women are the cocks? I'm not saying they are I'm saying theirs the slightest possibility! From experience I know their are and loads and some really awful ones. There maybe a few blokes with fake profiles but not as high percentage as that. I know women get swamped with messages and some are genuinely lovely and worth being a part of your life but on the other hand just like men some aren't. Please don't reply, that's my opinion and it won't change. | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Probably 30% of the 'women' you message are blokes with a fake profile, and if you didn't send a cock pic for him to whack off to, he will just delete your message. The genuine women are just swamped with messages, and if you don't tick all their boxes, there will be literally hundreds who do, so she will be just waaaaaaay too busy to reply. Facts of Fab life mate Here we go again is their not the slightest possibility that some women are the cocks? I'm not saying they are I'm saying theirs the slightest possibility! From experience I know their are and loads and some really awful ones. There maybe a few blokes with fake profiles but not as high percentage as that. I know women get swamped with messages and some are genuinely lovely and worth being a part of your life but on the other hand just like men some aren't. Please don't reply, that's my opinion and it won't change."From what I have heard, and read, on here, cocks is putting it nicely. | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Probably 30% of the 'women' you message are blokes with a fake profile, and if you didn't send a cock pic for him to whack off to, he will just delete your message. The genuine women are just swamped with messages, and if you don't tick all their boxes, there will be literally hundreds who do, so she will be just waaaaaaay too busy to reply. Facts of Fab life mate Here we go again is their not the slightest possibility that some women are the cocks? I'm not saying they are I'm saying theirs the slightest possibility! From experience I know their are and loads and some really awful ones. There maybe a few blokes with fake profiles but not as high percentage as that. I know women get swamped with messages and some are genuinely lovely and worth being a part of your life but on the other hand just like men some aren't. Please don't reply, that's my opinion and it won't change.
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. That won't go down well. "It made me spit my wine out with a chortle | |||
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"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend. I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it. Chill buddy its not worth it. "High Fives that man | |||
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"a small few spoil it for the majority same in the forums i find i get meets with men and women easily, not all from here i find the time wasters are the couples where only the guy can meet and they have verifications or the single guy who has lost out and thinks i will jump at the chance of a meet best thing on this site is delete and block" | |||
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""Haha, that has no truth in it at all, it's actually YOUR situation! "
*they type as they look around their empty houses, shaking with rage*"I've got the arms of a lovely male forumutie wrapped around me that also lol when he read your comment Best you stop with the assumptions | |||
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"#notallmen are sex crazed idiots that treat women like free prostitutes. #notallwomen are egotistical bitches that tease men to boost their self confidence. " Exactly this | |||
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"#notallmen are sex crazed idiots that treat women like free prostitutes. #notallwomen are egotistical bitches that tease men to boost their self confidence. " #crywankers
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman "Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? | |||
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" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman "
You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.
Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?
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" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman
You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.
Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?
"Again with the assumptions How do you know we're all actually single | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman
Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? "Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,. | |||
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You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.
Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?
Again with the assumptions
How do you know we're all actually single"In real life I have an extremely sexy bedroom partner. He found me and we are still doing our thing, 7 years later. | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman
Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,."Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples | |||
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You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.
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"not all the single female profiles and not all the single male profiles are single in away from fab it would be rather naive to assume so | |||
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"#notallmen are sex crazed idiots that treat women like free prostitutes. #notallwomen are egotistical bitches that tease men to boost their self confidence. #crywankers
was actually surprised to see my catchphrase on the forums until i seen who posted it. "I should've credited it to you.
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"#notallmen are sex crazed idiots that treat women like free prostitutes. #notallwomen are egotistical bitches that tease men to boost their self confidence. #crywankers
was actually surprised to see my catchphrase on the forums until i seen who posted it.
I should've credited it to you.
#crywanking"lol, just i liked seeing it in the forums and not me posting it for a change.
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman
Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,.
Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples "I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think?? | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman
Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,.
Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think?? "Congratulations on not getting defensive again
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Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?
"I'm sure if I did a post lumping all single men on here as sad fucks who have no idea how to talk to women in the real world and who think their cock is the best thing about them that I'd get mainly outraged responses from single men and rightly so. If you attack a particular group it's pretty obvious they are going to be the ones to respond the most | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman
Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,.
Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think?? "None of us are fucking or looking to shag men or are replying to messages from single guys atm so we're free to do what we want lol | |||
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You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.
Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?
I'm sure if I did a post lumping all single men on here as sad fucks who have no idea how to talk to women in the real world and who think their cock is the best thing about them that I'd get mainly outraged responses from single men and rightly so.
If you attack a particular group it's pretty obvious they are going to be the ones to respond the most "And hypocritically enough he does just that on every thread about a guy being a knob | |||
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" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman
You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.
Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?
I'm sure if I did a post lumping all single men on here as sad fucks who have no idea how to talk to women in the real world and who think their cock is the best thing about them that I'd get mainly outraged responses from single men and rightly so.
If you attack a particular group it's pretty obvious they are going to be the ones to respond the most "Spot on!... Also personally I've read all the female comments and 99% are helpful imo, they're not outraged, or rude.. they're informative and show that people on fab are more than willing to give advice. If a woman in a club/pub/the street doesn't want to talk to you why the heck should she be obliged to on a digital platform when it's obvious you're not exactly want to be friends first before popping your cock inside her? | |||
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Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,.
Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think??
Congratulations on not getting defensive again
"Defensive??? Oh i see thats because i've mentioned the no time to reply- but time to respond on here? Thats not defensive hun, i think its called stating a fact. | |||
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Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,.
Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think??
Congratulations on not getting defensive again
Defensive??? Oh i see thats because i've mentioned the no time to reply- but time to respond on here? Thats not defensive hun, i think its called stating a fact."Ok if you say so Congratulations again | |||
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You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.
Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?
I'm sure if I did a post lumping all single men on here as sad fucks who have no idea how to talk to women in the real world and who think their cock is the best thing about them that I'd get mainly outraged responses from single men and rightly so.
If you attack a particular group it's pretty obvious they are going to be the ones to respond the most " | |||
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You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.
Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?
I'm sure if I did a post lumping all single men on here as sad fucks who have no idea how to talk to women in the real world and who think their cock is the best thing about them that I'd get mainly outraged responses from single men and rightly so.
If you attack a particular group it's pretty obvious they are going to be the ones to respond the most " | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman
Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,.
Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think?? "No, it's about how we choose to spend that time. Sending lots of rejections and dealing with that or choosing to be on the fora instead. One feels like drudgery and the other doesn't (all the time ). | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman
Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,.
Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think??
Congratulations on not getting defensive again
Defensive??? Oh i see thats because i've mentioned the no time to reply- but time to respond on here? Thats not defensive hun, i think its called stating a fact.
Ok if you say so
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments. ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman
Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,.
Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think??
No, it's about how we choose to spend that time. Sending lots of rejections and dealing with that or choosing to be on the fora instead. One feels like drudgery and the other doesn't (all the time )."That and out of the 129 messages current in my inbox it's clear from the first line alone that 125 haven't even attempted to read my profile, 2 looked like they may have then on reading they clearly hadn't, then the other two had clearly read it and just choose to ignore the fact they're the type of person I've said I'd rather not meet with the phrase "I know I'm not what you looking/not you type but ......" At least one the forums people read before engaging in conversations | |||
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"Unless the op is bisexual and communicating with men and women, he can't really make his own comparison. With a sample size of one, if he was bisexual and able to compare how both men and women treat him, it would still be too small of a sample size to be meaningful. If the site doesn't suit you with 7 years experience, it's surely madness to remain here and whine. " Of course it's madness,but some people are just whiney f*cks and enjoy having a right good moan. It's what happens when some people can't get sex,they turn all bitter and nasty because women won't drop their knickers for them .
On a side note it's clear that some men really despise woman. Not talking about the op.
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"Women get swamped with msgs so dont got time to reply lol." That's no excuse!! I got swamped with messages yesterday but I found the time to reply to both of them....... | |||
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"Women get swamped with msgs so dont got time to reply lol. That's no excuse!! I got swamped with messages yesterday but I found the time to reply to both of them......." | |||
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"Whats a "jesus fem"? "A female with a beard? A female with a cross to bear? Oooh got it! A female born on Christmas Day..... | |||
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A female with a beard?
A female with a cross to bear?
Oooh got it! A female born on Christmas Day....."We need more men like you on here,you make up for the miserable moaning f*ckers! | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Wow. Just wow. I get what your saying pal, but in fairness, it they already are ignorant with you then, do you think they give a shite after that rant? " Yup, this..... | |||
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"Unless the op is bisexual and communicating with men and women, he can't really make his own comparison. With a sample size of one, if he was bisexual and able to compare how both men and women treat him, it would still be too small of a sample size to be meaningful. If the site doesn't suit you with 7 years experience, it's surely madness to remain here and whine. " Haha and THIS!! | |||
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A female with a beard?
A female with a cross to bear?
Oooh got it! A female born on Christmas Day.....
We need more men like you on here,you make up for the miserable moaning f*ckers!" | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. " Three possible reasons: 1. They aren't really female. 2. Like some males, they suddenly get nervous and back out. 3. They can do whatever they want. | |||
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"I'm in tears reading all this woe "If it helps to console you I have pics of boobies on my profile | |||
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"I'm an equal opportunities type person. I think there are wankers of all gender, ethnicity, sexuality and disability statuses. Therefore I agree - yep some ladies can be just as bad as some fellas. But I prefer their boobies! " I concur (minus the boobies as I am straight | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." This post is harsh. Maybe a little too harsh. But I definitely think there is some element of truth to it. I have noticed that a big part of Fab is about feeling wanted rather than simply sex. Of course you're going to be berated for it...but I have heard it from women on here actually quite a few times. | |||
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"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude! I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets. They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete. If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. Probably 30% of the 'women' you message are blokes with a fake profile, and if you didn't send a cock pic for him to whack off to, he will just delete your message. The genuine women are just swamped with messages, and if you don't tick all their boxes, there will be literally hundreds who do, so she will be just waaaaaaay too busy to reply. Facts of Fab life mate Here we go again is their not the slightest possibility that some women are the cocks? I'm not saying they are I'm saying theirs the slightest possibility! From experience I know their are and loads and some really awful ones. There maybe a few blokes with fake profiles but not as high percentage as that. I know women get swamped with messages and some are genuinely lovely and worth being a part of your life but on the other hand just like men some aren't. Please don't reply, that's my opinion and it won't change."Indeed. I have always believed there is an intense amount of gynocentrism in the swinging/dating world. Its a shame because it doesnt do the men nor the women any good. I think its what happens when you have a male population bombarded with sexual imagery and yet never taught how to properly engage with the opposite sex...you get this bizarre sycophancy. | |||
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"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier. The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments." Change "all" to "some" and it's a from me. | |||
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"Everyone keeps referring to 'single women' on this site, I think we all need reminding a large portion of those are men hiding behind a 'single women' profile! As a bi female that messages men and women I'd say it's quite a high percentage too x " No. No they're not. Stop using this lame excuse. These days, one can spot a fake female profile a mile off. Besides many of this garbage attitudes have come from those with verified profiles too. Are those ones also part of the Fab conspiracy?? The fact that many of you cant contend with the fact that there are plenty of women here with terrible attitudes does nothing but further confirm that the OP is probably 100% correct. When people seem to take radically different approaches to identical topics made by different genders and then go on to play mental gymnastics...its easy to see why plenty on here get away with rubbish behavior. But then I think this is the modern delusion that many (and by absolutely no means all) women have fallen for. Interestingly enough I think those on Fab forums suffer less from it...but there is definitely a strong pungent sense of entitlement due to the pressure place on each other to "spread their seed". | |||
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"Everyone keeps referring to 'single women' on this site, I think we all need reminding a large portion of those are men hiding behind a 'single women' profile! As a bi female that messages men and women I'd say it's quite a high percentage too x No. No they're not. Stop using this lame excuse. These days, one can spot a fake female profile a mile off. Besides many of this garbage attitudes have come from those with verified profiles too. Are those ones also part of the Fab conspiracy?? The fact that many of you cant contend with the fact that there are plenty of women here with terrible attitudes does nothing but further confirm that the OP is probably 100% correct. When people seem to take radically different approaches to identical topics made by different genders and then go on to play mental gymnastics...its easy to see why plenty on here get away with rubbish behavior. But then I think this is the modern delusion that many (and by absolutely no means all) women have fallen for. Interestingly enough I think those on Fab forums suffer less from it...but there is definitely a strong pungent sense of entitlement due to the pressure place on each other to "spread their seed"." Fuck, you're good. I utterly agree with you. If I were still using fab for sex, I'd be having a long hard look at myself. | |||
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" The fact that many of you cant contend with the fact that there are plenty of women here with terrible attitudes does nothing but further confirm that the OP is probably 100% correct. When people seem to take radically different approaches to identical topics made by different genders and then go on to play mental gymnastics...its easy to see why plenty on here get away with rubbish behavior. ." I associate women's behaviour on here with the 'too much too soon' analogy that I use with young footballers... As I mentioned in my previous post, the vast majority of single women on here are not used to male interest/attention - just as a working class 18 year old kid from a council estate is more vunerable to sudden millionaire status going to his head when he becomes a footballer, than say, an F1 driver who comes from a rich family anyway - a woman who has never experienced being desired suddenly getting 100's of compliments from men is also more vunerable to that going to her head than a woman who is used to receiving it in the outside world. Just a theory. | |||
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"I'm an equal opportunities type person. I think there are wankers of all gender, ethnicity, sexuality and disability statuses. Therefore I agree - yep some ladies can be just as bad as some fellas." I've experienced wankiness from all genders (you can read examples of it through out the thread!) but I really don't equate people being rude with not replying to messages - different opinions and all that.
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