FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

I have ruffled some male feathers XXX

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I appear to have ruffled a few male feathers today. The abuse I,m getting and the inference that I,m a nasty person is unjustified. My comment about liking a photo of men blindfolded, and tied naked to a bed, was actually a joke. And so what if I do like men tied up in that way, lots of men do it to women. Some of you blokes really need to get a grip. XXX

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With all the kinks people talk about on here why on earth would anyone be offended by that .

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I appear to have ruffled a few male feathers today. The abuse I,m getting and the inference that I,m a nasty person is unjustified. My comment about liking a photo of men blindfolded, and tied naked to a bed, was actually a joke. And so what if I do like men tied up in that way, lots of men do it to women. Some of you blokes really need to get a grip. XXX"

Is that on a thread, which one? I like seeing a man tied up too. Block them honey.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Welcome to the forum.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I got blindfolded and tied to a tree

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which thread?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Pmsl......you are kidding me. There are some men that enjoy it as much as some women do. As someone says.....the block button

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!"

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of men like being tied up, blindfolded and having their balls tickled. With a boot or a feather duster.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *otlips2000Man
over a year ago

swadlincote

I don't have a problem with it

If there's mutual trust either way is fun

I suspect some men don't like to be dominated

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a flurry of snowflakes

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Ruffled a few feathers because of that?? Really???

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *uffin-Man-Man
over a year ago

muffin lane


"I appear to have ruffled a few male feathers today. The abuse I,m getting and the inference that I,m a nasty person is unjustified. My comment about liking a photo of men blindfolded, and tied naked to a bed, was actually a joke. And so what if I do like men tied up in that way, lots of men do it to women. Some of you blokes really need to get a grip. XXX"

With those breasts you can ruffle anything you want

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a very sexy scenario mmmmm I for one love it

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I love seeing a man tied up and blindfolded its really erotic. Nothing thrills me more than reactions. Knowing I'm taking them on a journey and watching then become completely lost in my touch.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it, sounds fairly tame. Maybe some guys don't like it the other way round, but that's their problem/preference. No point them getting arsey about it. People are just weird. I got two blocks in the middle of conversations that hadn't gone south. I must have bored them to blocking me.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bah. Must be that time of the month.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking"

Erm excuse me,we ladies don't do that kind off thing!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *im_66Woman
over a year ago

Bradford


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking"

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking"

Ah! Got it.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking"

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you ruffle feathers with something like that? You sure that's it? Seems rather strange. It's a normal thing with play I'd thought not what I'd call a kink. I've done that with all of my meets bar one and a few have done it with me.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking

Erm excuse me,we ladies don't do that kind off thing! "

Perish the thought!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Men can get snotty about a lot of things so this doesnt surprise me... Block those who pm you and ignore them

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will someone tell me the thread please

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really that's bizarre!!

I've tied a very sexy man to the bed on more than one occasion, he was also blindfolded & gagged for a while too.

He supplied the material, I just worked with it.

Have to say it all made for a very erotic experience.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking

Erm excuse me,we ladies don't do that kind off thing!

Perish the thought! "

Exactly so shushh,otherwise we'll strip you naked and tie you to a bed

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking

Erm excuse me,we ladies don't do that kind off thing!

Perish the thought!

Exactly so shushh,otherwise we'll strip you naked and tie you to a bed "

Oh well, if you must!

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that was a pretty normal thing people did. Seems odd that people would be offended by it, the thought of it is abit of a turn on to me

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comma issues

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will someone tell me the thread please"

Was the photos turn you off thread

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How bizarre, the things people choose to get worked up about. I've said far worse things about people on the forum and feel rather lacking in the abusive message stakes. C'mon guys! Where's my abuse? ?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will someone tell me the thread please"

If you click the green arrow next to a users name you can see the threads the recently posted to.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will someone tell me the thread please

If you click the green arrow next to a users name you can see the threads the recently posted to.

"

Yea, but I'm not searching through them all when someone already knows the answer

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I appear to have ruffled a few male feathers today. The abuse I,m getting and the inference that I,m a nasty person is unjustified. My comment about liking a photo of men blindfolded, and tied naked to a bed, was actually a joke. And so what if I do like men tied up in that way, lots of men do it to women. Some of you blokes really need to get a grip. XXX"

None of them replied to you in thread, unless their reply have been removed. They have all in boxed you abuse? I didn't see how you could cause any offence with what you said.

Report them all, give admin something to do on a lazy Sunday.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking"

No I am not an attention seeker, I have had several messages this morning along that line. I don't need to attention seek, I hardly ever make a thread and I don't get into forum arguments.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will someone tell me the thread please

If you click the green arrow next to a users name you can see the threads the recently posted to.

Yea, but I'm not searching through them all when someone already knows the answer"

The OP mentioned photos, so I looked for a thread about photos.

Hardly rocket science

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I appear to have ruffled a few male feathers today. The abuse I,m getting and the inference that I,m a nasty person is unjustified. My comment about liking a photo of men blindfolded, and tied naked to a bed, was actually a joke. And so what if I do like men tied up in that way, lots of men do it to women. Some of you blokes really need to get a grip. XXX"

Hey good on you.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking"

not v helpful

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking

Erm excuse me,we ladies don't do that kind off thing! "

I'm obviously not a lady then

??

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking

not v helpful "

I'm not exactly sure that help is required on this thread...giving an opinion is however, and that's what I've done

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had comments by personal message sent in reply to that particular comment. I am not an attention seeker, was more pointing it out to the men who have messaged then blocked me regarding it. I don't need the Shit, so bye,bye forum. I,m off for a vacation. XXX

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking

No I am not an attention seeker, I have had several messages this morning along that line. I don't need to attention seek, I hardly ever make a thread and I don't get into forum arguments. "

Then why bring attention to the fact you're getting abuse? Just block them. Lots of people have had petty abuse for no real reason, not saying it's right but just shrug it off.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I appear to have ruffled a few male feathers today. The abuse I,m getting and the inference that I,m a nasty person is unjustified. My comment about liking a photo of men blindfolded, and tied naked to a bed, was actually a joke. And so what if I do like men tied up in that way, lots of men do it to women. Some of you blokes really need to get a grip. XXX"

Ha ha.....you didnt ruffle mine in fact miss adventure you are welcome to tie me up anytime

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will someone tell me the thread please

If you click the green arrow next to a users name you can see the threads the recently posted to.

Yea, but I'm not searching through them all when someone already knows the answer

The OP mentioned photos, so I looked for a thread about photos.

Hardly rocket science"

Soz

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will someone tell me the thread please

If you click the green arrow next to a users name you can see the threads the recently posted to.

Yea, but I'm not searching through them all when someone already knows the answer

The OP mentioned photos, so I looked for a thread about photos.

Hardly rocket science

Soz "

Apology accepted, was only trying to help xxx

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking

not v helpful

I'm not exactly sure that help is required on this thread...giving an opinion is however, and that's what I've done"

Public accusations of people potentially lying, is not an opinion.

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't rise to it hun ,bloody idiots x

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By *oldengirlWoman
over a year ago

p


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking"

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking

not v helpful

I'm not exactly sure that help is required on this thread...giving an opinion is however, and that's what I've done

Public accusations of people potentially lying, is not an opinion."

Yes it is. It was my opinion that she was making it up

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem even if it wasn't a joke,am I missing something?!

She's probably just making it up...attention seeking"

Not sure what kind of abuse someone could get from a post like that. I'm calling bullshit until I see proof

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m surprised you care OP

That would be a win in my eyes

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had comments by personal message sent in reply to that particular comment. I am not an attention seeker, was more pointing it out to the men who have messaged then blocked me regarding it. I don't need the Shit, so bye,bye forum. I,m off for a vacation. XXX"

Was that a flounce?

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
 
 

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I have had comments by personal message sent in reply to that particular comment. I am not an attention seeker, was more pointing it out to the men who have messaged then blocked me regarding it. I don't need the Shit, so bye,bye forum. I,m off for a vacation. XXX"

Then it is best to report rather than bring it to the forum

 (thread closed by moderator)

Reply privately
back to top