FabSwingers.com forum: Attached people of fab!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Always wondered How many people on fab have got other halves, what's the generally feeling towards this.. I'm sure it would be frowned upon by most but is it accepted? Is there a valid excuse for it, going behind a partners back to fulfill your sexual needs so you can stay together... always fascinated me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less, what they get up to and why is no concern of mine neither is it my business. All I want is for them to be honest and say they are attached so I can stay away from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one answer will fit all. The attached/married are here for a whole bunch of reasons, valid or not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Always wondered How many people on fab have got other halves, what's the generally feeling towards this.. I'm sure it would be frowned upon by most but is it accepted? Is there a valid excuse for it, going behind a partners back to fulfill your sexual needs so you can stay together... always fascinated me!

Accepted by some and not by others.

There is never an excuse but always a reason.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, welcome to the forum.

This subject usually garners a lot of heated responses. It may die a death tonight, though, as it's a quiet Saturday night in the Lounge.

Do a search on 'attached' or 'married' or 'cheating' and see what pops up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh just feel a little sad for them that they haven't meet the ' one ' and in a dead end relationship that they aren't brave enough to finish.

When i'm attached its all or nothing i wouldn't dream of cheating not my style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less if people are attached. .nothing to do with me. ..I just need to know about it so I can decide whether I want to be part of it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am single and when I wasn't I would never cheat. Never have done and never will do.

There are lots of people on here who are attached or married. Not my place to comment on them but from previous threads the common response is eveykne has individual reasons

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose honesty is key, just wasn't sure what the general consensus was.. I suppose some people might even find it a turn on with somebody who's attached!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont agree that married people should cheat,but if they are going to then maybe its best they are on a fun site, and having one night stands,instead of getting to involved with one person,which causes a lot of problems and hurt,everyone has their reasons and nobody has the right to judge anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's my thinking, cheating is cheating we all know that but could it be classed as a lesser form when it's on a site purely for sex and not looking for a relationship! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's my thinking, cheating is cheating we all know that but could it be classed as a lesser form when it's on a site purely for sex and not looking for a relationship! X"

No, going with someone else is cheating whatever form it may take.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"That's my thinking, cheating is cheating we all know that but could it be classed as a lesser form when it's on a site purely for sex and not looking for a relationship! X"

an interesting point of view. I think if you ask yourself would the husband or wife who wasn't aware that their partner was having sex elsewhere find it less of a betrayal if they weren't looking for a relationship, you will have your answer.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"That's my thinking, cheating is cheating we all know that but could it be classed as a lesser form when it's on a site purely for sex and not looking for a relationship! X"

If you use 'reply and quote' people know which post you are answering.

In answer to your question, there is a relationship. There is a relationship with the site, for a start. Then with the meet. It may not have lasted long but the act of chatting to each other, arranging the meet and having the sex is not felt to be a lesser event by the hurt party.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"That's my thinking, cheating is cheating we all know that but could it be classed as a lesser form when it's on a site purely for sex and not looking for a relationship! X"

Or maybe it's worse, as why would you risk a marriage/relationship for a fuck with a bunch of people you don't care about?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think it's easier to forgive a momentary lapse of getting caught up in the moment and having one-off sex that way than it is to forgive planning sex by joining a site and messaging people, getting to know them and then having one-off sex.

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