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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Am I falling for my "fuck buddy" and will it last...???

Yeah, I've known him for years! We've been in and out of relationships (separately) and currently we find ourselves single again and spending lots of time together. We recently went to Ibiza and we had a stonking time together.

Both his and my friends say we're good together and should become an item.

Since Ibiza, I've missed him when we're not together but...

I've come out of a seven year relationship with what I thought was the perfect guy for me... he was kind, considerate, seven-inch cock and can fuck for England...

My fuck buddy isn't anywhere as marvellous so I *think* I would get bored with him... but on the other hand if I allow myself to fall for him, he could be the one for me...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Umm just depends where his heads at I suppose? No point falling for him if he doesn't want the same thing.

Just enjoy each other's company.

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Umm just depends where his heads at I suppose? No point falling for him if he doesn't want the same thing.

Just enjoy each other's company. "

Haha... I tried to broach the subject by asking him how he feels about our situation... I got the bloke sock response... "I'm a bloke, I don't do feelings..." (roll eyes)...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't rock the boat. If it ain't broke....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You've already said you think you'd get bored with him so that's probably not a good start

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

If he isnt *anywhere as marvelous as the previous bloke he isnt the one is he?

Best not go into it with feelings of negatiity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Umm just depends where his heads at I suppose? No point falling for him if he doesn't want the same thing.

Just enjoy each other's company.

Haha... I tried to broach the subject by asking him how he feels about our situation... I got the bloke sock response... "I'm a bloke, I don't do feelings..." (roll eyes)..."

I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.

You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping.

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Don't rock the boat. If it ain't broke...."

But... nothing ventured, nothing gained?

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"If he isnt *anywhere as marvelous as the previous bloke he isnt the one is he?

Best not go into it with feelings of negatiity. "

Not "negativity" as such, but we've all had the love-of

our-life and lost him/her. How do you get over that?

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"You've already said you think you'd get bored with him so that's probably not a good start "

Believe me hun, I've even done a "pros" and "cons" list for him...and while "potential" to get bored with him, he has many, many other great qualities...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give it 2 weeks max.

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"

I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.

You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping. "

Yeah... I went shopping with one of his friend (wife of a good couple friend of his)... she said.. "fuck that, if it were my husband who said that, I'd slap him..!" ... lol...

Mmmm... what would I do to him whilst he is sleeping???

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I give it 2 weeks max."

Yeah... I've know couples who have co-habitated for years...and the minute they got married, the relationship broke down...

So why do you think our friendship would break-down if we were to be an item???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.

You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping.

Yeah... I went shopping with one of his friend (wife of a good couple friend of his)... she said.. "fuck that, if it were my husband who said that, I'd slap him..!" ... lol...

Mmmm... what would I do to him whilst he is sleeping???"

You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your count kver his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck your differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops I meant cunt but whatever you've got you could stuff in his mouth for the same affect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.

You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping.

Yeah... I went shopping with one of his friend (wife of a good couple friend of his)... she said.. "fuck that, if it were my husband who said that, I'd slap him..!" ... lol...

Mmmm... what would I do to him whilst he is sleeping???

You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your count kver his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck your differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! "

Ha a bit to much info there.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I wouldn't say anything if I didn't think they would reciprocate, that just makes things embarrassing and awkward for all involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.

You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping.

Yeah... I went shopping with one of his friend (wife of a good couple friend of his)... she said.. "fuck that, if it were my husband who said that, I'd slap him..!" ... lol...

Mmmm... what would I do to him whilst he is sleeping???

You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your count kver his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck your differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! "

Say it agen ya filthy cow

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"

I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.

You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping.

Yeah... I went shopping with one of his friend (wife of a good couple friend of his)... she said.. "fuck that, if it were my husband who said that, I'd slap him..!" ... lol...

Mmmm... what would I do to him whilst he is sleeping???

You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your count kver his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck your differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! "

FUCK ME WOMAN!

I mean that literally...

FUCK ME WOMAN...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think you're falling for him?

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I wouldn't say anything if I didn't think they would reciprocate, that just makes things embarrassing and awkward for all involved."

Whilst that would be the case with someone I don't really know... we do talk about most things in life. He's even invited me to his daughter's graduation dinner - which is pretty amazing!!! He's a man whose not afraid to be seen with a "tranny" ....

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Why do you think you're falling for him? "

After our fantastic week in Ibiza I've started to miss him when we're not together... :o(

Feelings... they just make a mess of a perfectly workable situation (just stay a fuck buddies)

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"

Say it agen ya filthy cow"

Haha... I'm no lesbian but I was very aroused too... here, let me copy and paste for you... lol

You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your count kver his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck your differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you think you're falling for him?

After our fantastic week in Ibiza I've started to miss him when we're not together... :o(

Feelings... they just make a mess of a perfectly workable situation (just stay a fuck buddies)

"

I would let things carry on as normal and see if your feelings stay the same.

My long term partner recently told me he loves me. That doesn't mean anything will change about our relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Say it agen ya filthy cow

Haha... I'm no lesbian but I was very aroused too... here, let me copy and paste for you... lol

You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your cunt over his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck you differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! ""

Just need to add you need consent off the guy before he goes to sleep!

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"

Just need to add you need consent off the guy before he goes to sleep!

"

Yeah... I know... consent works both ways, but pity...

That's like letting him know he's got a surprise birthday party coming... lol...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Say it agen ya filthy cow

Haha... I'm no lesbian but I was very aroused too... here, let me copy and paste for you... lol

You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your cunt over his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck you differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! "

Just need to add you need consent off the guy before he goes to sleep!

"

Do it to me anyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's going to happen, it will. Just enjoy it for what it is in the meantime.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Don't rock the boat. If it ain't broke....

But... nothing ventured, nothing gained?"

I don't think you'll gain much. I think you know that as well.

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"

I would let things carry on as normal and see if your feelings stay the same.

My long term partner recently told me he loves me. That doesn't mean anything will change about our relationship. "

Yeah... that's pretty much what's happening now anyway...

Well, maybe I miss being in love but if someone told me they loved me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I would let things carry on as normal and see if your feelings stay the same.

My long term partner recently told me he loves me. That doesn't mean anything will change about our relationship.

Yeah... that's pretty much what's happening now anyway...

Well, maybe I miss being in love but if someone told me they loved me..."

I your bum if that helps?

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"If it's going to happen, it will. Just enjoy it for what it is in the meantime. "

Yeah, that's true... I might meet someone, he likewise, then out of the relationships... onward as usual... BUT

None of us getting any younger and this dating malarky can wear a bit thin sometimes... cocoa and slippers rather than cock and slurping any day...! lol

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"

I don't think you'll gain much. I think you know that as well. "

Do I? I'm not so sure... It feels like I'm at the "is he the one for me?" cross-road...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex and cock size is not everything getting on being happy is.

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"

I your bum if that helps?"

Haha yeah, as I've said...

FUCK ME WOMAN...! (Literally!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't rock the boat. If it ain't broke....

But... nothing ventured, nothing gained?

I don't think you'll gain much. I think you know that as well. "

Yeah sounds like their flogging a dead horse.

But hey if it makes them happy.

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Sex and cock size is not everything getting on being happy is."

Yeah I know... the secret then is to be happy with what is a lovely man (who has his bad habits like most men do)...

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

If you have to ask us I'd say answer is no but wtf do I know?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If it's going to happen, it will. Just enjoy it for what it is in the meantime.

Yeah, that's true... I might meet someone, he likewise, then out of the relationships... onward as usual... BUT

None of us getting any younger and this dating malarky can wear a bit thin sometimes... cocoa and slippers rather than cock and slurping any day...! lol"

sounds as though hes the easy option for a relationship. You already seem negative. If youve been on holiday you must be pretty close. What will you gain from calling it a relationship

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"lolsounds as though hes the easy option for a relationship. You already seem negative. If youve been on holiday you must be pretty close. What will you gain from calling it a relationship"

Are all relationships based on earth-shattering togetherness? Or can people drift into being in love? My feelings for him is not earth shattering but I am starting to have feelings for him...

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"If you have to ask us I'd say answer is no but wtf do I know?"

Haha.. thanks for that ...!

May I say tho... typical blokey response...!

:o)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"lolsounds as though hes the easy option for a relationship. You already seem negative. If youve been on holiday you must be pretty close. What will you gain from calling it a relationship

Are all relationships based on earth-shattering togetherness? Or can people drift into being in love? My feelings for him is not earth shattering but I am starting to have feelings for him..."

some people are slow burners. Im one. But it seems like your comparing him to your ex which doesnt seem a very good basis to build a relationship on

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By *uzie69x OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"some people are slow burners. Im one. But it seems like your comparing him to your ex which doesnt seem a very good basis to build a relationship on"

Yeah, baggage handling... tiresome!

It has been nine months since my relationship split - about time to get over it and I think I'm getting there...

If I don't compare, then he's pretty amazing on his own right.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"If you have to ask us I'd say answer is no but wtf do I know?

Haha.. thanks for that ...!

May I say tho... typical blokey response...!

:o)"

Sorry about that. But I am sure we all wish you good luck and pray that you will find happiness.

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