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"Sometimes i have a "real" profile sometimes it's bollocks. Either way the number of offers to meet remains the same (i don't count the I'll fuck anything "straight" men) so question is ..... is it worth ever trying? " Just be honest.... more likely to get a meet that your a match for.  remember the cock to tit ratio on here will be wild and most of the women are getting bombarded by single guys... | |||
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"its shit...but I havent looked" Yeah i know that!  | |||
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"Sometimes i have a "real" profile sometimes it's bollocks. Either way the number of offers to meet remains the same (i don't count the I'll fuck anything "straight" men) so question is ..... is it worth ever trying? Just be honest.... more likely to get a meet that your a match for. remember the cock to tit ratio on here will be wild and most of the women are getting bombarded by single guys..."So you're saying don't bother. I dig. | |||
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"Sometimes i have a "real" profile sometimes it's bollocks. Either way the number of offers to meet remains the same (i don't count the I'll fuck anything "straight" men) so question is ..... is it worth ever trying? " I would say yes it's always worth it. The profiles of the people I've met have always been a main reason I started talking to them in the first place | |||
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"Sometimes i have a "real" profile sometimes it's bollocks. Either way the number of offers to meet remains the same (i don't count the I'll fuck anything "straight" men) so question is ..... is it worth ever trying? Just be honest.... more likely to get a meet that your a match for. remember the cock to tit ratio on here will be wild and most of the women are getting bombarded by single guys...
So you're saying don't bother. I dig."No...id say put effort into your profile for sure but be honest... then when your messaging the ladies make sure you have read their profile and send a polite message to them not asking them to meet for a fuck...yry talking about their likes on their profiles or what ever and don't send dick pics unless they ask for one | |||
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"is it worth ever trying? No." Haha how is it not???? Try and stand out and don't send the generic messages... have a laugh and enjoy it  | |||
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"is it worth ever trying? No. Haha how is it not???? Try and stand out and don't send the generic messages... have a laugh and enjoy it "Thanks for the tip. | |||
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"Sometimes i have a "real" profile sometimes it's bollocks. Either way the number of offers to meet remains the same (i don't count the I'll fuck anything "straight" men) so question is ..... is it worth ever trying? I would say yes it's always worth it. The profiles of the people I've met have always been a main reason I started talking to them in the first place " See the trouble with that theory is our couples profile... that has a proper blurb, lots of pics mostly of the wife obviously, yet it attracts maybe 2 messages a month. And a handful of views per day. We have singles blocked. I think that fab has become "single-centric". Single women being bombarded with messages from single guys. Not forgetting all the couples where the husband wants an ffm of course! I can't be doing with the rat race. | |||
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"is it worth ever trying? No. Haha how is it not???? Try and stand out and don't send the generic messages... have a laugh and enjoy it "I dont send messages. | |||
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"lol clem.. I find when I post a new picture I get inundated with looks..and the odd message I havent posted anything in a while(pic wise)...though through forums and a couple new veris, it increases the possible interest" Yeah, that's when i get the messages from straight men. | |||
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"Sometimes i have a "real" profile sometimes it's bollocks. Either way the number of offers to meet remains the same (i don't count the I'll fuck anything "straight" men) so question is ..... is it worth ever trying? Just be honest.... more likely to get a meet that your a match for. remember the cock to tit ratio on here will be wild and most of the women are getting bombarded by single guys...
So you're saying don't bother. I dig.
No...id say put effort into your profile for sure but be honest... then when your messaging the ladies make sure you have read their profile and send a polite message to them not asking them to meet for a fuck...yry talking about their likes on their profiles or what ever and don't send dick pics unless they ask for one "My wife's inbox has around 500 messages in it. I know EXACTLY what type of messages NOT to send! But i don't message first. | |||
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"is it worth ever trying? No. Haha how is it not???? Try and stand out and don't send the generic messages... have a laugh and enjoy it
I dont send messages."I've only recently became active again on here and started using the forums the other day. I've had a few messages sent first but mostly conversations have started from me sending a message. I would say 6/10 reply which I get because they must get the same shit from 100 horny guys a day... I'm not sure what to do to get your profile to stand out or how many looks you get a day, all I can say is I'm putting effort in not expecting a meet and I'm having a good laugh so I would definitely say put in the effort...would you want someone that you didn't have to put effort in for??? | |||
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"is it worth ever trying? No. Haha how is it not???? Try and stand out and don't send the generic messages... have a laugh and enjoy it
I dont send messages.
I've only recently became active again on here and started using the forums the other day. I've had a few messages sent first but mostly conversations have started from me sending a message. I would say 6/10 reply which I get because they must get the same shit from 100 horny guys a day...
I'm not sure what to do to get your profile to stand out or how many looks you get a day, all I can say is I'm putting effort in not expecting a meet and I'm having a good laugh so I would definitely say put in the effort...would you want someone that you didn't have to put effort in for??? "I think the point you're missing is that when i have put effort in the result is unchanged. | |||
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"Putting effort into your profile is overrated. I give advice on these profile help threads like everyone else but when I think about it, most of the people I've met have not followed that advice. It's the first message that matters i reckon. " | |||
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"I think the point you're missing is that when i have put effort in the result is unchanged. " Ah my apologies...not sure what to say then | |||
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"I think the point you're missing is that when i have put effort in the result is unchanged. Ah my apologies...not sure what to say then " | |||
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"Putting effort into your profile is overrated. I give advice on these profile help threads like everyone else but when I think about it, most of the people I've met have not followed that advice. It's the first message that matters i reckon. " Maybe not so for women, A simple FAF as a profile would be enough to ensure a full diary, should she wish.. And as for Clem, we'll he is the embodiment of a living leg end on Fab, so of course he doesn't need to try. For the rest of us mere male mortals, we have gotta put the effort in to be noticed, we are after all the proverbial needles in a mahoosive haystack.. | |||
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"Putting effort into your profile is overrated. I give advice on these profile help threads like everyone else but when I think about it, most of the people I've met have not followed that advice. It's the first message that matters i reckon. Maybe not so for women, A simple FAF as a profile would be enough to ensure a full diary, should she wish.. And as for Clem, we'll he is the embodiment of a living leg end on Fab, so of course he doesn't need to try. For the rest of us mere male mortals, we have gotta put the effort in to be noticed, we are after all the proverbial needles in a mahoosive haystack.. " What I mean is most of the men I've met have had one line profiles, some no public pics, some (shock horror) a gallery of dick pics. But the first message interested me enough to chat and then meet. | |||
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"Sometimes i have a "real" profile sometimes it's bollocks. Either way the number of offers to meet remains the same (i don't count the I'll fuck anything "straight" men) so question is ..... is it worth ever trying? I would say yes it's always worth it. The profiles of the people I've met have always been a main reason I started talking to them in the first place See the trouble with that theory is our couples profile... that has a proper blurb, lots of pics mostly of the wife obviously, yet it attracts maybe 2 messages a month. And a handful of views per day. We have singles blocked. I think that fab has become "single-centric". Single women being bombarded with messages from single guys. Not forgetting all the couples where the husband wants an ffm of course! I can't be doing with the rat race." That profile is really long; it takes dedication to get to the end so two a month sounds positive to me. | |||
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"Sometimes i have a "real" profile sometimes it's bollocks. Either way the number of offers to meet remains the same (i don't count the I'll fuck anything "straight" men) so question is ..... is it worth ever trying? I would say yes it's always worth it. The profiles of the people I've met have always been a main reason I started talking to them in the first place See the trouble with that theory is our couples profile... that has a proper blurb, lots of pics mostly of the wife obviously, yet it attracts maybe 2 messages a month. And a handful of views per day. We have singles blocked. I think that fab has become "single-centric". Single women being bombarded with messages from single guys. Not forgetting all the couples where the husband wants an ffm of course! I can't be doing with the rat race. That profile is really long; it takes dedication to get to the end so two a month sounds positive to me. "Ah no. The actual profile is quite short. Its just padded out with stuff from the internet! | |||
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"Putting effort into your profile is overrated. I give advice on these profile help threads like everyone else but when I think about it, most of the people I've met have not followed that advice. It's the first message that matters i reckon. Maybe not so for women, A simple FAF as a profile would be enough to ensure a full diary, should she wish.. And as for Clem, we'll he is the embodiment of a living leg end on Fab, so of course he doesn't need to try. For the rest of us mere male mortals, we have gotta put the effort in to be noticed, we are after all the proverbial needles in a mahoosive haystack.. " Leg end or not. It doesn't change the fact that the number of prospective meets in my sphere of influence is tiny. | |||
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"Sometimes i have a "real" profile sometimes it's bollocks. Either way the number of offers to meet remains the same (i don't count the I'll fuck anything "straight" men) so question is ..... is it worth ever trying? I would say yes it's always worth it. The profiles of the people I've met have always been a main reason I started talking to them in the first place See the trouble with that theory is our couples profile... that has a proper blurb, lots of pics mostly of the wife obviously, yet it attracts maybe 2 messages a month. And a handful of views per day. We have singles blocked. I think that fab has become "single-centric". Single women being bombarded with messages from single guys. Not forgetting all the couples where the husband wants an ffm of course! I can't be doing with the rat race. That profile is really long; it takes dedication to get to the end so two a month sounds positive to me. "Even I've not read it all | |||
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"Putting effort into your profile is overrated. I give advice on these profile help threads like everyone else but when I think about it, most of the people I've met have not followed that advice. It's the first message that matters i reckon. "
OP I'm same as you. Sometimes serious sometimes not. Zero effort on my part, I just save each profile type and paste it back in when I can be bothered.
My stupid profile works as a great filter but means I can sort out the people I want. | |||
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"Putting effort into your profile is overrated. I give advice on these profile help threads like everyone else but when I think about it, most of the people I've met have not followed that advice. It's the first message that matters i reckon.
OP I'm same as you. Sometimes serious sometimes not. Zero effort on my part, I just save each profile type and paste it back in when I can be bothered.
My stupid profile works as a great filter but means I can sort out the people I want. "You're cheating. You own a vagina! | |||
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"Putting effort into your profile is overrated. I give advice on these profile help threads like everyone else but when I think about it, most of the people I've met have not followed that advice. It's the first message that matters i reckon.
OP I'm same as you. Sometimes serious sometimes not. Zero effort on my part, I just save each profile type and paste it back in when I can be bothered.
My stupid profile works as a great filter but means I can sort out the people I want.
You're cheating. You own a vagina! "No it's harder for women. Men will mail anything remotely 'female'. (Guessing you've had those types mail you too!) When I ask why they mailed me they say "cos yer a woman". Woohooo I'm flattered.  | |||
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"Putting effort into your profile is overrated. I give advice on these profile help threads like everyone else but when I think about it, most of the people I've met have not followed that advice. It's the first message that matters i reckon.
OP I'm same as you. Sometimes serious sometimes not. Zero effort on my part, I just save each profile type and paste it back in when I can be bothered.
My stupid profile works as a great filter but means I can sort out the people I want.
You're cheating. You own a vagina!
No it's harder for women. Men will mail anything remotely 'female'. (Guessing you've had those types mail you too!) When I ask why they mailed me they say "cos yer a woman".
Woohooo I'm flattered. "I only message women i kinda know from the forums,just for a chat | |||
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"Sometimes i have a "real" profile sometimes it's bollocks. Either way the number of offers to meet remains the same (i don't count the I'll fuck anything "straight" men) so question is ..... is it worth ever trying? " Depends largely on where you live mate; if you're out in the sticks, you have even less chance of success than being a city slicker. Whatever makes you chuckle is the best way | |||
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"Sometimes i have a "real" profile sometimes it's bollocks. Either way the number of offers to meet remains the same (i don't count the I'll fuck anything "straight" men) so question is ..... is it worth ever trying? Depends largely on where you live mate; if you're out in the sticks, you have even less chance of success than being a city slicker. Whatever makes you chuckle is the best way "Good advice. | |||
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