FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Stalking

Jump to newest
 

By *atcg OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Anyone else been stalked off here?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am their good at it cause I aint noticed.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else been stalked off here? "

Dunno. They might be really good at it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only becomes a problem when not sure which stalker is stalking me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a man message me who i declined to meet and i blocked him. He sets up new profiles and messages me but eventually caves in and tells me it's him and that i can block him if I want to. And then he does it again!!. But i think that's more a case of getting around filters than stalking me?

Besides he's only 5ft 6. I could take him if i had to.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes several times, one man and a couple and a woman, all have stalked me across 2 sites. All have made several profiles to keep messaging me. The man had my phone number too. XXX

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Thankfully not.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atcg OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Been track down on Facebook and they have even rang me at work.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been stalked by the crazy purple haired cat lady that works in the local petrol station. She would make up lies about us and tell the guy I work with. I even saw her outside my house a few times.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *laymates7Woman
over a year ago

Isle of Wight

A couple of times when I first joined years ago. The guy beat my door in because he thought I was in having sex with another guy. The other one wanted more than a social but I didn't so started appearing randomly at social events.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes, on a few occasions, but never to a serious point where I had to inform the police

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been stalked but I used to be a professional stalker..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atcg OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Just not sure how to get rid of then without making it worse

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to inform the police

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here. I had a real life one when I was in my 20s.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atcg OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire

sound mad if i phone the police

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from here but in real life, years ago I had a gay stalker that turned out to be my ex girlfriends best mate. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have laughed about it once it came to light who it was at the time if it had been a girly friend of hers

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, on a few occasions, but never to a serious point where I had to inform the police "

Phew

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and had to tell if they carried on or just turned up at my flat I'd be calling the police which stopped them both times

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just not sure how to get rid of then without making it worse"

How serious has it got?

Stalking isn't a joke although some people treat it as such. It can very dangerous.

Block all possible avenues of contact. Don't respond to any messages or phone calls but save anything you have in writing. Send one and only one, clear and unambiguous message saying that if they don't stop stalking you, you have no choice but to inform the police then don't respond or message again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from here but a girl from another site it's not nice.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I had a stalker on here a couple of years ago.I blocked him a few times and he just created new profiles each time.I never felt threatened by him and I don't think he's on Fab these days.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.. but I'm considering it!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atcg OP   Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Might just marry her cos last time I did that she didn't stick around for long.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a man on here kept messaging me I told him I wasn't interested. Then next thing I know he said he'd seen me out and we'd exchanged smiles so thought it meant I'd like more. And that he was at the end of my street. I blocked him but worry as I don't know what he looks like x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urntAngelicMan
over a year ago

Runcorn

wow, there some fucked up people on here, glad i meet at a club

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Anyone else been stalked off here? "

Only on the phone from another site. I met him once for a social, but decided he wasn't for me. For the next 6 weeks he messaged and rang me anytime during the day. Eventually, he gave up. Sometime afterwards, he set up another profile wth a different name, but used the same text and pic, and messaged me as if for the first time. As if I wouldn't notice!

J

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Not off here, but had one from a dating site I used to be on. Never met him, we just chatted, but he became obsessed, constant messages every 15 mins, told him I wasn't interested, he tracked me down on FB, declined his friend request, he started requesting my friends. Made fake profiles & kept sending more friend requests.

Police involved after a few weeks. He told them we'd been in 3 month relationship & I'd cheated on him.

Obviously they had copies of all our messages which proved we'd never even met. He was given a warning to leave me & my family friends alone.

I still stresses when I receive unknown friend requests or messages, but I get a lot of work referrals via social media so have to accept & read all messages before I can see if it's genuine

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Oh god yeah, seriously.....

Its still going on, loser!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god yeah, seriously.....

Its still going on, loser!"

Sorry I'll stop

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Oh god yeah, seriously.....

Its still going on, loser!

Sorry I'll stop"

You said that last time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who needs a stalker? I've got nothing better to do.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top