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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it appears us single guys get our time wasted too. Messaged a couple on here local to me. A few messages on here and we started chatting externally. Lots of details were shared which added up. We then exchanged pictures and arranged a meet. She was doing the chatting then all of a sudden she said they had to rearrange and that was that. No replies to my kiks or pms on here. So fricking annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not time wasting. Life happens.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Not everyones life is arranged around a shag.

Maybe cold feet, maybe just life getting in the way.

Chin up and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not time wasting. Life happens. "

Time wasting is when someone doesn't turn up for a meet without giving notice. People have lives outside fab which - one would hope - take priority over casual sex with strangers.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Annoying but real life gets in the way and takes priority.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What if the couple had agreed to put their swinging on hold for 3 weeks and you were top of their list and now you've done this thread and they'll think 'oh no'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I totally get that and that isnt a problem but it would have been nice to have got a reply when I sent a really nice message asking if she had second thoughts and if she had that was fine but could she just let me know. Still like people have said chins up and onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens, move on.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Be thankful you weren't sat in a car for an hour waiting for them to turn up. Now that's a waste of someone's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they let you know - so not a waste of time - unless you count the chat before hand as time wasted -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women always show up for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally get that and that isnt a problem but it would have been nice to have got a reply when I sent a really nice message asking if she had second thoughts and if she had that was fine but could she just let me know. Still like people have said chins up and onwards and upwards. "

I agree it's rude not to say sorry you won't be meeting. Think of it as a lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it appears us single guys get our time wasted too. Messaged a couple on here local to me. A few messages on here and we started chatting externally. Lots of details were shared which added up. We then exchanged pictures and arranged a meet. She was doing the chatting then all of a sudden she said they had to rearrange and that was that. No replies to my kiks or pms on here. So fricking annoying "

That's fab - the nature of it

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By *istress Pillow PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

guys waste my time (as well as theirs) by sending me messages that i have to spend time deleting

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I totally get that and that isnt a problem but it would have been nice to have got a reply when I sent a really nice message asking if she had second thoughts and if she had that was fine but could she just let me know. Still like people have said chins up and onwards and upwards. "

if they wanted to explain why they would've done already when she said she has to rearrange.

you don't know them on a personal level, only on a sexual one, so should not expect intimacy and divulgence of everything going on in their lives.

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