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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many people have fuck buddies or have had one in the past?is it possible to stay fuck buddies with out someone getting feelings.the longer u are intimate with someone feelings are bound to develop naturally :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So only do it for a few months ... simples

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont like the term fb. Sounds as the you have some kind of ownership on them.

I have numerous gentlemen friends i see long term

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have a part time fb if that makes sense. She's an ex gf that I was going out with in the early 90's, she got married and moved abroad for several years, then I got a text off her out of the blue about 10 years ago. She had got divorced and moved back to England. Although she lives about 25 miles away, we still meet up occasionally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a part time fb if that makes sense. She's an ex gf that I was going out with in the early 90's, she got married and moved abroad for several years, then I got a text off her out of the blue about 10 years ago. She had got divorced and moved back to England. Although she lives about 25 miles away, we still meet up occasionally

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Nice one I try and stay clear of exes sexually if I can I talk to one or two exes as friends but that's about it.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've had several fwb over the years. Only once has there been any kind of feelings involved. We were very close and both decided to knock the sex on the head and just stick to being friends because we valued the friendship more than the sex and weren't willing to put it at risk. This was about 4-5 years ago and we have been best mates ever since.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"How many people have fuck buddies or have had one in the past?is it possible to stay fuck buddies with out someone getting feelings.the longer u are intimate with someone feelings are bound to develop naturally :/ "

No they don't necessarily - it depends how compatible you are emotionally I think, I can have ongoing great sex with someone I would never develop feelings for, or in another case have strong feelings before we even had sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had my long term buddy for just over 7 years. He recently told me he loves me. It hasn't changed anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's working for me at the moment. I think it takes a certain type of person though, I can feel close and intimate with someone without it going further. Doesn't mean it won't but I am capable of drawing a line.

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

We have a Fwb or fuck buddy, he lives nearby, we were all newbies when we joined fab, so we broke each other in,, that was over 2 years ago, we see him about once a month, sometimes more, pushed a few boundaries together,, and can't ever wait to get my hands on him, there's no fear of getting any feelings for him, the more I've got to know him he's not someone I would want to be with, other than being a good friend,,

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i've had fb where feelings have developed and they've been mutual. nothing wrong with that i would presume?

if you can't have feelings for your actual friends i reckon there's something wrong with you. doesn't mean you have to get married or anything.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

define fuck buddy? I see some people more than once, some on a fairly regular basis some not that often. no feelings envolved. well no romantic ones

had a friend years ago and ended up sleeping with him for several years when we met up- he got into a relationship and we stop but it didn't impact on the friendship whatsoever.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Wife has a couple of guys she fucks on a regular basis. She enjoys the sex and turns me on. Works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i've had fb where feelings have developed and they've been mutual. nothing wrong with that i would presume?

if you can't have feelings for your actual friends i reckon there's something wrong with you. doesn't mean you have to get married or anything."

Especially the 2nd paragraph!!

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

We met on here, became FB's but been in a proper relationship for over a year now

B x

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Indeed i did we was 'exclusive' for about 6-8 months, personally I prefer someone regular is more fun and obviously if your both open minded makes the sex quite exciting and very enjoyable too x

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"i've had fb where feelings have developed and they've been mutual. nothing wrong with that i would presume?

if you can't have feelings for your actual friends i reckon there's something wrong with you. doesn't mean you have to get married or anything.

Especially the 2nd paragraph!!"

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I had a regular for 6 months, 2 times a week. Meals, and movies... no feelings

But I caught them for someone else

Its a tangled web

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Had a few, never lasted very long, needs to be a connection more than just the sex for some regardless of how good the sex is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few regular partners in the last few months who i have been fond of (or wouldnt meet them multiple time) but im starting to catch the feelings for one :/ arghhh should back away but we have messaged every day for a few months now and would like to keep the friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a Fb for 6 years. Most days. Every weekend we could. Did many mff and mfff. Loads of first for both of us with many different things.

Was just friendship and sex nothing more but after 5 years of a woman showing up at your house most days with killer heels on...

getting out taxi's in fish nets with boobs hanging out and killer heels...well the neighbours started spread rumours she was a hooker

a 5ft 9" chick in 3"+ heels ha do laugh now...no wonder people thought was a pro.

Should not laugh. We was just fbs and mates. Rumours of her being a hooker reached family.. became a nightmare.. sad but her family disowned her....we dont speak much anymore, as people called her a pro for a while and I understand how upsetting that must have been for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two women that I see that I consider FBs. One is married and has an open relationship; when we get together the sex is great and I go home. The other is single we occasionally spend the night together and may have dinner or breakfast. Awesome times with her as well.

All of us have other partners and may get together 1-2 times a month. It seems to be working for each of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had one, the longest I seen one was 3 times lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have two women that I see that I consider FBs. One is married and has an open relationship; when we get together the sex is great and I go home. The other is single we occasionally spend the night together and may have dinner or breakfast. Awesome times with her as well.

All of us have other partners and may get together 1-2 times a month. It seems to be working for each of us."

Dude with a body like yours...over here..across the pond...you'd clean up over here

you really 60?

Hats off to you. look good for your age....yep clean up all round uk haha women would love ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often develop feelings for FBs. I like having feelings though. I can handle it because I'm happily married, and therefore not available for more. I have been hurt though.

Mrs

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