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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys if you have a lady that you meet regular, would you hide veris off other ladies you meet in case it upset's her?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Guys if you have a lady that you meet regular, would you hide veris off other ladies you meet in case it upset's her?"

I'm not a guy, so my brain may work differently.

Depends on whether their "friendship" was supposedly exclusive.

Other than that, I see no reason why they would hide them, unless they just didn't want to display it and used the regular playmate as an excuse.

I've had regular friends and I'm always happy to know they've had a great time.

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

no there would be no need if there is honesty if it developed into a relationship then possibly rethink meeting others but honesty is the best way.

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By *8Roost88Man
over a year ago

Derby

If I was concerned that the person I was seeing didn't want me to see other people, then I think trying to hide something would just be a disaster waiting to happen and wouldn't do it or would be honest and talk out the situation. On the other hand if the Veri from the other person would upset her because it made things sound different to what they actually were, that makes sense it might be hidden, but even then a discussion might need to be had.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I wouldn't bother myself but I can see why some would. There's 1 hell of a lot of bat shit crazy woman on here and in the real.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys if you have a lady that you meet regular, would you hide veris off other ladies you meet in case it upset's her?

I'm not a guy, so my brain may work differently.

Depends on whether their "friendship" was supposedly exclusive.

Other than that, I see no reason why they would hide them, unless they just didn't want to display it and used the regular playmate as an excuse.

I've had regular friends and I'm always happy to know they've had a great time. "

What she said totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't bother myself but I can see why some would. There's 1 hell of a lot of bat shit crazy woman on here and in the real....."

Hey!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have a fb who I see on a semi regular basis,(she knows that I'm on here, but she's not), if anyone on here wants an exclusive relationship and gets upset if I meet other ladies, then she can go and look elsewhere in my opinion.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I wouldn't bother myself but I can see why some would. There's 1 hell of a lot of bat shit crazy woman on here and in the real.....

Hey! "

See what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Why would it upset her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my FB would, but I'd rather he was honest from the start rather then me finding out other ways.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Nope. If anyone gets that possessive (male or female),it's not nsa. We will stop seeing them

Mrs SB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys if you have a lady that you meet regular, would you hide veris off other ladies you meet in case it upset's her?"

It wouldn't really work as they would still show on the verie summary, so she would know he,d met someone. Males can be very jealous too of lady's having other meets. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he think you would mail them and ask about him or he could be seeing them too and don't wish you to see who and what they say. Its a swingers site Fast lane sex with no ties most here are looking for.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If someone is going to get jealous they are on the wrong site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would other veris upset her? I have a few regular meets, and I don't spit my dummy out when they meet other women...nor do I hide my veris from them. It's NSA unless agreed otherwise

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Although dynamic's can change when someone else comes on the scene, honesty is still the key especially on this site

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Although dynamic's can change when someone else comes on the scene, honesty is still the key especially on this site "

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"I wouldn't bother myself but I can see why some would. There's 1 hell of a lot of bat shit crazy woman on here and in the real.....

Hey! "

To friggin true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some men do this; I make it known they don't have to do that with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on what you say to each other and what really happens - hide nothing and it should be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why you would want to hide them, either don't meet someone else and carry on with your regular lady or be honest and open about whatever other meets you might have.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We're a couple, but we wouldn't hide veris for that reason. This is a swingers site, if meeting other people upsets a playmate, then they've got the wrong idea what this is about IMO.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depends on what you say to each other and what really happens - hide nothing and it should be fine "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is one regular lady (unless she wants to bring a girlfriend-as if!), so not an issue and I would only post veris for her if she wanted me to.

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

It all comes down to the arrangement between the two.

As long as both are being open and communicating then there's no need for jealousy or any negative emotions... Its also understanding how men and women think about situations differently too.

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