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They're could be many reasons why he hasn't replied.
Give it a little time, and not pressure, maybe he'll come back by the weekend.  | |||
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"If you made he cum then more likely he got what he wanted and that's that. Never text a fella to ask why they've gone quiet. Never chase." That was my other thought, he has no reason to do any of the chasing now. | |||
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"Amazing how people jump on the "he mustn't be single" bandwagon
They're could be many reasons why he hasn't replied.
Give it a little time, and not pressure, maybe he'll come back by the weekend. "I'm not assuming he mustn't be single, but it is a logical reason. Of course he could have lost his phone, be busy with work or suddenly gone blind. What are the chances though? | |||
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"Amazing how people jump on the "he mustn't be single" bandwagon
They're could be many reasons why he hasn't replied.
Give it a little time, and not pressure, maybe he'll come back by the weekend.
He did message yesterday but not too chatty so I left it but nothing since! I would expect a bit more tbh
I'm not assuming he mustn't be single, but it is a logical reason.
Of course he could have lost his phone, be busy with work or suddenly gone blind. What are the chances though? " | |||
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"Yes he was single and we only kissed I would just rather know lol I know you shouldn't lol " We'll hopefully he'll come back. Failing that, I'll happily take you out on a date! X | |||
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"I would definitely have snogged you looking at those lips Did you leave him wanting more ??" Yes course | |||
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"I would definitely have snogged you looking at those lips Did you leave him wanting more ?? Yes course "Maybe he got it from someone else. | |||
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"It's hard when our instinct is to show our enthusiasm, as it can affect others in different ways - including keeping them from being in touch. I'd not contact him again now, as much as you'd like to know if he's not going to pursue things. He has his world which may be demanding, so let him face it. " No I will leave it now, I just said I thought we got on well but felt he's been a bit quiet last day or so and did he want to leave it? | |||
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"Just my opinion but I wouldn't text/chase him. If he's interested he'd be texting " Yes your right and he doesn't live near me but just rather someone not text or text properly not inbetween lol | |||
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"Got on really well had a bit of a snog etc He was chatty Sunday but nothing much since, I texted yesterday stating this and not had a reply! Weird init just say if you are not interested )"Or he's read the dating manual.. play it cool for 3 days and see what happens  | |||
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"If you made he cum then more likely he got what he wanted and that's that. Never text a fella to ask why they've gone quiet. Never chase. That was my other thought, he has no reason to do any of the chasing now. " I tire of people claiming mind games and rules of dating - time to walk away and forget if he was into you he'd text, simple as that | |||
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"If you made he cum then more likely he got what he wanted and that's that. Never text a fella to ask why they've gone quiet. Never chase. That was my other thought, he has no reason to do any of the chasing now. I tire of people claiming mind games and rules of dating - time to walk away and forget if he was into you he'd text, simple as that" I hate games as well Anyway meeting my friend with benefits Friday so all good ) | |||
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"Got on really well had a bit of a snog etc He was chatty Sunday but nothing much since, I texted yesterday stating this and not had a reply! Weird init just say if you are not interested )"He did with his silence  | |||
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"If you made he cum then more likely he got what he wanted and that's that. Never text a fella to ask why they've gone quiet. Never chase. That was my other thought, he has no reason to do any of the chasing now. I tire of people claiming mind games and rules of dating - time to walk away and forget if he was into you he'd text, simple as that I hate games as well Anyway meeting my friend with benefits Friday so all good ) "There you go every cloud.. | |||
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"Just my opinion but I wouldn't text/chase him. If he's interested he'd be texting Yes your right and he doesn't live near me but just rather someone not text or text properly not inbetween lol " This all ties in with the "fab" view that not responding to messages is ok and a sign that people aren't interested. It's not ok it's bloody rude especially when you've snogged some lovely woman !! | |||
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"If you made he cum then more likely he got what he wanted and that's that. Never text a fella to ask why they've gone quiet. Never chase. That was my other thought, he has no reason to do any of the chasing now. I tire of people claiming mind games and rules of dating..." Yup, so purile.... | |||
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"Got on really well had a bit of a snog etc He was chatty Sunday but nothing much since, I texted yesterday stating this and not had a reply! Weird init just say if you are not interested )"Sorry to hear this. It sucks... I agree I don't understand why people don't just have the balls to say. I'd met a guy twice and he was texting me asking me to doing such & such with him the next weekend & suggesting other stuff we should do. Then complete radio silence, deleted his fab profile and I think he has blocked me on what's app. I don't mind, we were only going to be friends with benefits and I know I didn't do anything wrong, but it's still frustrating! So I get how you are feeling! But it obviously wasn't meant to be/ right... so onwards & upwards Hun. xx | |||
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"If you made he cum then more likely he got what he wanted and that's that. Never text a fella to ask why they've gone quiet. Never chase." . I thought this was what men are supposed to do. No wonder we don't talk anymore. | |||
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"Is he only boring because he hasn't been in touch? The silence was your answer , I wouldn't have asked why he has gone cold, i would have accepted the snog I gave him didn't leave him wanting more" I'm glad you said it | |||
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"Is he only boring because he hasn't been in touch? The silence was your answer , I wouldn't have asked why he has gone cold, i would have accepted the snog I gave him didn't leave him wanting more" If that was the case, why was he chatty on Sunday then? | |||
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"Is he only boring because he hasn't been in touch? The silence was your answer , I wouldn't have asked why he has gone cold, i would have accepted the snog I gave him didn't leave him wanting more If that was the case, why was he chatty on Sunday then?" maybe he hasnt gone quiet just not texting 10 times a day | |||
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"I don't we what the issue is. The norm on fab seems to be that people read your messages and delete it without replying, so what's the difference with OP. If people think it's acceptable to do that on fab then surely it's the same over text/whatsapp. Or is it one rule for women, where they can read messages and delete with no reply as they please and another rule for guys who should reply be it on here or over text. " Of course  | |||
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"Is he only boring because he hasn't been in touch? The silence was your answer , I wouldn't have asked why he has gone cold, i would have accepted the snog I gave him didn't leave him wanting more If that was the case, why was he chatty on Sunday then?" I didn't say that was the case, I said thats what I would think. If you want an answer to your question you will need to ask him | |||
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"I'm saying he may have been but you can't tell after one date can you? And don't worry he def wanted more he was messaging before he even got home )"Is he recently single or is there an ex in the background? | |||
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"I'm saying he may have been but you can't tell after one date can you? And don't worry he def wanted more he was messaging before he even got home )"maybe a bit of post couital lust then in the light of day wasnt that interested. Weve all done it | |||
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"I'm saying he may have been but you can't tell after one date can you? And don't worry he def wanted more he was messaging before he even got home )"Maybe that was post lust, then he decided not for me, or he is busy and hasn't had time to text or got jumpy with the why have you not text | |||
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"Another pushy bird gagging for cock i'm in same situation right now so playing it cool. "You gigolo | |||
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"Sometimes it's easier to say nothing than saying the truth, maybe he just doesnt want to hurt you/maybe he feels bad/maybe he changed his mind/maybe you did something that was a huge turn off for him/... Who knows there's a lot of reason for real.. But also you said that you didn't know if he's for you because he's a bit boring, but you made a thread about this dude. See ? Opinion, will, envy, that can change, maybe after the date he changed his mind and he didnnt know how to express it, so he has chosen silence." This attitude drives me nuts. We are adults and can deal with rejection, otherwise we wouldn't be putting ourselves out there to date/play. I'd MUCH rather someone diplomatically said 'Thanks it was lovely, but you're not for me' than just went silent or made up some over complicated and transparently false excuse (I've just discovered I have leukaemia etc). That is not only rejecting you but also implying that you are not emotionally mature enough to deal with their rejection. Someone who can look you in the eye and have the straight convo gets my respect every time. Rant over. Personally I think give him another couple of days before you jump to any conclusions. He might just be mulling things over after the post-date high. And leave him to do that. | |||
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"Another pushy bird gagging for cock i'm in same situation right now so playing it cool. "This is the type of response I would expect from someone like you!!! Lucky girl not lol | |||
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"Another pushy bird gagging for cock i'm in same situation right now so playing it cool.
This is the type of response I would expect from someone like you!!! Lucky girl not lol"Someone like me, meaning.? | |||
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"Anyway it's no biggy I was just curious what everyone thought Thanks " Your welcome. He'll text you asking 'what you doing Friday'? | |||
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"Another pushy bird gagging for cock i'm in same situation right now so playing it cool.
This is the type of response I would expect from someone like you!!! Lucky girl not lol
Someone like me, meaning.? "A dickhead? | |||
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"The "why no answer" text would put me off directly. Especially after a meet from Fab lol." I didn't say why no text! I said would he rather leave it cos I felt that he had been a bit quiet less chatty | |||
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"The "why no answer" text would put me off directly. Especially after a meet from Fab lol. I didn't say why no text! I said would he rather leave it cos I felt that he had been a bit quiet less chatty " you met him saturday. He texted sunday. Its only wednesday today so im assuming you sent the text yesterday. Nothing like coming on to strong | |||
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"The "why no answer" text would put me off directly. Especially after a meet from Fab lol. I didn't say why no text! I said would he rather leave it cos I felt that he had been a bit quiet less chatty " I hope so that you didn't send just "why no text?" ahaha that was just an example, but the point is the same, i would have felt weird if someone, especially from Fab, sent me such text. | |||
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"The "why no answer" text would put me off directly. Especially after a meet from Fab lol. I didn't say why no text! I said would he rather leave it cos I felt that he had been a bit quiet less chatty I hope so that you didn't send just "why no text?" ahaha that was just an example, but the point is the same, i would have felt weird if someone, especially from Fab, sent me such text." We didn't met on fab it was a normal date arranged by friends x | |||
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"Another pushy bird gagging for cock i'm in same situation right now so playing it cool.
This is the type of response I would expect from someone like you!!! Lucky girl not lol
Someone like me, meaning.?
A dickhead? "I would think your profiles got enough ammunition to destroy itself without my help fella. Just saying | |||
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"Hardly strong we have just been chatting and not arranged anything else but I just wondered that's all and I'd rather he say rather than us both waste more time chit chatting! I supppse I expected more! I do like attention "what more did you want | |||
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"Another pushy bird gagging for cock i'm in same situation right now so playing it cool.
This is the type of response I would expect from someone like you!!! Lucky girl not lol
Someone like me, meaning.?
A dickhead?
I would think your profiles got enough ammunition to destroy itself without my help fella.
Just saying "Go for it chap. It's a fab profile...I'm not to fussed in the grand scale of things | |||
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"Another pushy bird gagging for cock i'm in same situation right now so playing it cool.
This is the type of response I would expect from someone like you!!! Lucky girl not lol
Someone like me, meaning.?
A dickhead?
I would think your profiles got enough ammunition to destroy itself without my help fella.
Just saying
Go for it chap. It's a fab profile...I'm not to fussed in the grand scale of things "...Fetches knitting... | |||
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"Another pushy bird gagging for cock i'm in same situation right now" You are gagging for cock? Congratulations on embracing the new you. Good luck | |||
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"I would definitely have snogged you looking at those lips Did you leave him wanting more ??" Obviously not hence the no reply | |||
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