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"No, and why I have never replied on any if them! Just full of people looking for an ego boost "I must have offered to fuck about 15 guys last night. I like to use it as a filter.  | |||
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"I've never got my head around this, and hoping the forum can shed some light. When a thread starts by asking who fances who in the thread, who would you like to meet etc, the goto/stock/generic answer is ...'they already know!' To avoid naming/lamppost pissing/alienating possible meets. This brings me to my next question Why do we have kiss fuck avoid threads at all? You'll openly tell and shout out to the person above you'd FUCK them, but your to shy to openly admit to just fancying them somewhere else on the forum? Do you actually take any of these threads seriously?" I never have, no... I’m not shy but I just don’t see the point and I’ve never got a meet out of it so I don’t bother | |||
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"No, and why I have never replied on any if them! Just full of people looking for an ego boost
I must have offered to fuck about 15 guys last night. I like to use it as a filter. "Fab straight?  | |||
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"I don't think anyone takes the kiss/fuck/avoid threads *that* seriously. They're just a bit of silly fun, and, like, you don't necessarily *really* fancy the person above you that you've just said you'll 'kiss' or 'fuck'! Whereas, on a 'who do you fancy on this thread' thread, you actually have to put your cards on the table, naming names ... which can kind of be a bit scary, displaying a bit of vulnerability. Yeah, yeah, stupid given the nature of the site but many want to keep that info to themselves hence you get all the ambiguous and/or mysterious replies. Personally, I have a hard enough time telling someone I fancy them in private, let alone in front of half the forum! " | |||
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"I'd be embarrassed for anyone who did.  "I said I wouldn't mind having some sex with you  | |||
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"I'd be embarrassed for anyone who did.
I said I wouldn't mind having some sex with you "Lol yeah but this lot don't need to know we're fucking do they. | |||
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"No, and why I have never replied on any if them! Just full of people looking for an ego boost "Aren't most of the threads but then isn't exactly what this site is all about? | |||
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"I don't think anyone takes the kiss/fuck/avoid threads *that* seriously. They're just a bit of silly fun, and, like, you don't necessarily *really* fancy the person above you that you've just said you'll 'kiss' or 'fuck'! Whereas, on a 'who do you fancy on this thread' thread, you actually have to put your cards on the table, naming names ... which can kind of be a bit scary, displaying a bit of vulnerability. Yeah, yeah, stupid given the nature of the site but many want to keep that info to themselves hence you get all the ambiguous and/or mysterious replies. Personally, I have a hard enough time telling someone I fancy them in private, let alone in front of half the forum! " | |||
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"I don't think anyone takes the kiss/fuck/avoid threads *that* seriously. They're just a bit of silly fun, and, like, you don't necessarily *really* fancy the person above you that you've just said you'll 'kiss' or 'fuck'! Whereas, on a 'who do you fancy on this thread' thread, you actually have to put your cards on the table, naming names ... which can kind of be a bit scary, displaying a bit of vulnerability. Yeah, yeah, stupid given the nature of the site but many want to keep that info to themselves hence you get all the ambiguous and/or mysterious replies. Personally, I have a hard enough time telling someone I fancy them in private, let alone in front of half the forum! "Exactly this, ^^^^. Plus I think I'm still a little bit old fashioned and think the man should do the telling. X | |||
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"No, and why I have never replied on any if them! Just full of people looking for an ego boost
I must have offered to fuck about 15 guys last night. I like to use it as a filter.
Fab straight? "I like to keep them guessing too. | |||
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"No, and why I have never replied on any if them! Just full of people looking for an ego boost
Aren't most of the threads but then isn't exactly what this site is all about? "For an ego boost? Not me | |||
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"I don't think anyone takes the kiss/fuck/avoid threads *that* seriously. They're just a bit of silly fun, and, like, you don't necessarily *really* fancy the person above you that you've just said you'll 'kiss' or 'fuck'! Whereas, on a 'who do you fancy on this thread' thread, you actually have to put your cards on the table, naming names ... which can kind of be a bit scary, displaying a bit of vulnerability. Yeah, yeah, stupid given the nature of the site but many want to keep that info to themselves hence you get all the ambiguous and/or mysterious replies. Personally, I have a hard enough time telling someone I fancy them in private, let alone in front of half the forum!
Exactly this, ^^^^. Plus I think I'm still a little bit old fashioned and think the man should do the telling. X " . That's interesting. | |||
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C'mon OP, it's not rocket science ... | |||
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If person above is TV/TS - varies, fucks usually from ladies. Most fellas loudly declare avoid!
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"I'd be embarrassed for anyone who did.
I said I wouldn't mind having some sex with you
Lol yeah but this lot don't need to know we're fucking do they. "No we don't and who cares anyway! | |||
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"Oh and your know the rules on 'Snog, Kiss, Avoid' threads : If person above is female - definitely fuck all night long... If person above is male - invariably avoid, unless ripped, handsome and hung. If persons above are a couple - fuck. But only the female OBVIOUSLY! You really didn't think they also meant the male did you? Did you!?!
If person above is TV/TS - varies, fucks usually from ladies. Most fellas loudly declare avoid!
It's the rules!! "Above you just said it's not rocket science, and then follows with this.
I never know the rules, I'm not good with rules. | |||
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"No, and why I have never replied on any if them! Just full of people looking for an ego boost "Exactly this | |||
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Fancy few people on the forum, some message directly, others I quote & message on here. Only reason wldnt mention in some posts is they might already have many 'I fancy u' messages already & I'm not 1 too feed soneone's ego  | |||
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"The kiss snog avoid threads are fun, allegedly, although i have seen it all kick off on one of those threads. The tell someone you fancy them threads usually turn into a competitive popularity contest, with added lampost pissing. Men probably come off worse on these threads as their multiple arse kissing messages usually come to light and there is usually at least one woman who gets pissed off about it. " thoughts exactly | |||
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I just thought they were threads so that the usual can blow smoke up each other's arses. I didn't think anyone took them seriously?
Maybe because I don't see the point of them. If I see a profile I like, I'll message them. I don't need a thread to tell me to do it. | |||
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"Avoid avoid avoid!!!
I just thought they were threads so that the usual can blow smoke up each other's arses. I didn't think anyone took them seriously?
Maybe because I don't see the point of them. If I see a profile I like, I'll message them. I don't need a thread to tell me to do it. "I can relate to this. | |||
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"The kiss snog avoid threads are fun, allegedly, although i have seen it all kick off on one of those threads. The tell someone you fancy them threads usually turn into a competitive popularity contest, with added lampost pissing. Men probably come off worse on these threads as their multiple arse kissing messages usually come to light and there is usually at least one woman who gets pissed off about it. " It's a brave, confident man who names, that's for sure | |||
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"The kiss snog avoid threads are fun, allegedly, although i have seen it all kick off on one of those threads. The tell someone you fancy them threads usually turn into a competitive popularity contest, with added lampost pissing. Men probably come off worse on these threads as their multiple arse kissing messages usually come to light and there is usually at least one woman who gets pissed off about it. It's a brave, confident man who names, that's for sure "I fancy you. #brave #nernerner | |||
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"I avoid both of these kind of threads for the obvious reasons." What are the obvious reasons to you. I'm still very surprised at a website aimed at swinging, which time is openly having sex. That people are so guarded when it comes to openly saying who they fancy. Should there be warning and warning or disclaimer at the start of those threads? Fuck or avoid ***this thread could cause trouble*** | |||
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"I avoid both of these kind of threads for the obvious reasons. What are the obvious reasons to you. I'm still very surprised at a website aimed at swinging, which time is openly having sex. That people are so guarded when it comes to openly saying who they fancy. Should there be warning and warning or disclaimer at the start of those threads? Fuck or avoid ***this thread could cause trouble*** "As I'm not a regular poster, and spend very little time in the forums lately, I'd be, and have been glossed over in the past, so posting on threads that actively ask for an opinion on myself would go very bad no matter what the subject matter was. I just sit in the corner and watch most of the time now. | |||
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"I avoid both of these kind of threads for the obvious reasons. What are the obvious reasons to you. I'm still very surprised at a website aimed at swinging, which time is openly having sex. That people are so guarded when it comes to openly saying who they fancy. Should there be warning and warning or disclaimer at the start of those threads? Fuck or avoid ***this thread could cause trouble*** "Plus if people start seeing who fancies them, instead of an ego boost, it could turn their stomach. | |||
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"I avoid both of these kind of threads for the obvious reasons. What are the obvious reasons to you. I'm still very surprised at a website aimed at swinging, which time is openly having sex. That people are so guarded when it comes to openly saying who they fancy. Should there be warning and warning or disclaimer at the start of those threads? Fuck or avoid ***this thread could cause trouble***
As I'm not a regular poster, and spend very little time in the forums lately, I'd be, and have been glossed over in the past, so posting on threads that actively ask for an opinion on myself would go very bad no matter what the subject matter was.
I just sit in the corner and watch most of the time now. "The clique/popularity thing? That doesn't help anyone's confidence when you don't get mentioned. I understand. | |||
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"I avoid both of these kind of threads for the obvious reasons. What are the obvious reasons to you. I'm still very surprised at a website aimed at swinging, which time is openly having sex. That people are so guarded when it comes to openly saying who they fancy. Should there be warning and warning or disclaimer at the start of those threads? Fuck or avoid ***this thread could cause trouble***
As I'm not a regular poster, and spend very little time in the forums lately, I'd be, and have been glossed over in the past, so posting on threads that actively ask for an opinion on myself would go very bad no matter what the subject matter was.
I just sit in the corner and watch most of the time now.
The clique/popularity thing? That doesn't help anyone's confidence when you don't get mentioned. I understand. "And that's why I avoid them | |||
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"I avoid both of these kind of threads for the obvious reasons. What are the obvious reasons to you. I'm still very surprised at a website aimed at swinging, which time is openly having sex. That people are so guarded when it comes to openly saying who they fancy. Should there be warning and warning or disclaimer at the start of those threads? Fuck or avoid ***this thread could cause trouble*** "I don't want the public humiliation of saying I fancy someone then being pointedly ignored. I'd rather be rejected behind the scenes. And if you do make an interest clear, I'd then potentially feel awkward about interacting with that person on other threads in case they thought I was following them about! | |||
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"As I'm not a regular poster, and spend very little time in the forums lately, I'd be, and have been glossed over in the past, so posting on threads that actively ask for an opinion on myself would go very bad no matter what the subject matter was. I just sit in the corner and watch most of the time now.
The clique/popularity thing? That doesn't help anyone's confidence when you don't get mentioned. I understand. "I don't understand. Everyone has experienced not being mentioned at some point - why do you have to be mentioned first before you join in that sort of thread? It doesn't affect my confidence; as long as I get to kiss and fuck the people I want to, why would I care if I see my name? Meh, I don't get the forums at times. | |||
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"As I'm not a regular poster, and spend very little time in the forums lately, I'd be, and have been glossed over in the past, so posting on threads that actively ask for an opinion on myself would go very bad no matter what the subject matter was. I just sit in the corner and watch most of the time now.
The clique/popularity thing? That doesn't help anyone's confidence when you don't get mentioned. I understand.
I don't understand. Everyone has experienced not being mentioned at some point - why do you have to be mentioned first before you join in that sort of thread?
It doesn't affect my confidence; as long as I get to kiss and fuck the people I want to, why would I care if I see my name? Meh, I don't get the forums at times."So that's why it would be wiser to edge your bets in those threads. Just name everyone...offer to fuck everyone...and sit back and wait for faf messages to roll in.
Fuck/avoid threads I don't get at all. But I'm trying to understand people's views why they wouldn't post a name they fancy on a 'list who's in your hotlist' type but would elsewhere. | |||
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"I avoid both of these kind of threads for the obvious reasons. What are the obvious reasons to you. I'm still very surprised at a website aimed at swinging, which time is openly having sex. That people are so guarded when it comes to openly saying who they fancy. Should there be warning and warning or disclaimer at the start of those threads? Fuck or avoid ***this thread could cause trouble***
I don't want the public humiliation of saying I fancy someone then being pointedly ignored. I'd rather be rejected behind the scenes. And if you do make an interest clear, I'd then potentially feel awkward about interacting with that person on other threads in case they thought I was following them about! "I get it. Dealing with things in private is easier than I front of people, after all, offering to have sex with someone can be personal, it should stay that way for you. | |||
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