FabSwingers.com forum: Please help

By *obson78 OP Man
over a year ago

norton

I've had a guy contact me a while back asking for sexual favours I said no sorry I'm straight. Next thing I know he had created a fake account as a female to get pics off me then started bribing me. I reported to admin but he signed up again. I reported again then stayed off the site for weeks. I came back and he's back again with 3 different accounts 2 as women saying how nasty I've been. Can admin block his IP address or something?

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By *obson78 OP Man
over a year ago

norton

Please someone give me some advice does this happen a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block newbies and non photo verified people from contacting you via the filters page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a guy contact me a while back asking for sexual favours I said no sorry I'm straight. Next thing I know he had created a fake account as a female to get pics off me then started bribing me. I reported to admin but he signed up again. I reported again then stayed off the site for weeks. I came back and he's back again with 3 different accounts 2 as women saying how nasty I've been. Can admin block his IP address or something?"

You've got me confused .....

You say in your post that you're straight but that seems inconsistent with your bio sexuality selection...

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By *obson78 OP Man
over a year ago

norton

Bio sexuallity section? Not sure where you mean? I'm into couples and cuckold and being watched by the guy but that's because it's a turn on being with his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ve had problems with stalkers, I threaten them with the police, that shuts them up...and I would go to the police too if I felt threats warranted it. XXX

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Bio sexuallity section? Not sure where you mean? I'm into couples and cuckold and being watched by the guy but that's because it's a turn on being with his wife"

Your profile says your Bi sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bio sexuallity section? Not sure where you mean? I'm into couples and cuckold and being watched by the guy but that's because it's a turn on being with his wife"

Your profile says you are bisexual but your post says you are straight so I can understand why its confusing for people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was in your predicament. I'd close down my account and start a new one. It's probably the only way forward. There's not much the site can do to stop him rejoining.

I hope you get it sorted. Doesn't seem like a nice situation to be in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah ok so now you've just switched your profile sexuality to straight so I'm sure you'll stand a better chance of getting advice

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By *obson78 OP Man
over a year ago

norton

Thanks guys I've changed my profile to straight god knows how long it's been set as bi curious. Must have been from the start by mistake when I joined

Well even so there is no need for the abuse I've had after I've said no to him

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By *obson78 OP Man
over a year ago

norton

"Ah ok so now you've just switched your profile sexuality to straight so I'm sure you'll stand a better chance of getting advice

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I didn't even realise it said that must have been on since I joined. I've changed it but I fear the damage is done now

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ah ok so now you've just switched your profile sexuality to straight so I'm sure you'll stand a better chance of getting advice

I didn't even realise it said that must have been on since I joined. I've changed it but I fear the damage is done now"

Of course you didn't!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've given similar advice before to people who have stalkers.

Block newbies and non verified people from contacting you.

Remove any pics the stalker may have seen and make sure you are not identifiable in any you do have on display.

Tweak your profile to make it harder for the stalker to find you if they make a new account.

I.e change your age by a few years, you can explain to anyone you talk to why. Put in a different post code a few miles away from the one you currently use. Change your username to something completely different to what you have now (site supporters can do this)

You could also set up a new account on here. Contact all of your friends and people who have verified you to tell them your new username and ask if they will re-verify you on your new account.

I don't think admin will block someone's IP address because it is so easy to get around a block of this kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are straight then don't pretend to be bisexual, it will help. Also as above block new or unverified people. It is not an option for admin to block ip addresses as very few people own an ip address, depending on how they get Internet they could have a different IP every time they connect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message Filters are there to help and can sort this out op .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know for sure it's the same person?

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