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Does "meet today" put people off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does having "meet today" on your profile put people off?

I've seen some with it on everyday & think that they might be attention seeking, if you know what I mean.

No one seems to message me but then again I am in Cornwall & the chance of a meeting is few & far between down here.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm depends. just cuz they want a meet on the day it doesnt mean they`ll meet anyone on the day. or does it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No.Why should it put people off ??

I know it does make some people point the finger.

I don't know what their argument is.

Some pathetic moral tome to make themselves look somehow above others im sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it can do, I have been told by a few people it makes me look desperate .

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I just take it that it means they are free. Nothing wrong with that. Once in a blue moon we use it but guys just assume if they are free and local you should meet them and don't seem to read our profile at all. We also put up status of friends list only please.

Mistress x

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It doesn't put me off but if they said 'Meat today' that would.

I would suspect their meat was on the turn.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesn't put me off in the slightest

i prefer unplanned meets

i can't predict if i am gonna be horny a week next tuesday, but i do know when I AM horny !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Yes it can do, I have been told by a few people it makes me look desperate ."

Now that's what I meant. That kind of comment is only used by people who want to feel holier than thou.

What should we say .. tomorrow ? the next day ? next week?

If im off and decide ive got some hours to kill and fancied a meet I'd use it.

It's not desparate it's planning or just letting others know you ARE available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but then I never use it as I prefer to meet socially first anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dosent put me off...i love spontaneous mmmmm

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

I use it in searches, as a filter, i.e. if I know I'll be free that night then its a way of finding who else is free too.

Always read the profile before emailing, and never copy/paste replies.

Though fully aware there is a lot of randomness involved in who people do reply to, particularly if getting 50 or 60 emails people are going to skim read or just stick a pin in.

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

We use it if we know we are going to be free for a few hours. Sometimes don't know until the day so I think its a good thing

As long as you remove it, if you arrange a meet or things change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have only used it a couple of times, but so far haven't pulled from it, lol.

We have answered a couple though, both from people on holiday here, and have had good fun.

So, no, it doesn't put us off

Might use it this weekend actually

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

not at all..... if i have a day off, and one of the people on my friends list wants to contact me... all well and good....

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By *hagginhaggisCouple
over a year ago

aberdeen

does not put us off either, quite handy to know some times

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"No but then I never use it as I prefer to meet socially first anyway"

It's MEET today NOT Shag today. It's poss to put up a meet today for a social.

Best to agree with the meet that there are no guarantees.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No but then I never use it as I prefer to meet socially first anyway

It's MEET today NOT Shag today. It's poss to put up a meet today for a social.

Best to agree with the meet that there are no guarantees. "

I think that's what people are sometimes afriad of. That if they message you back that you'll think that they wanna meet for sex.

I try to change my status to say that it means social, for a coffee or whatever, not just a shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No but then I never use it as I prefer to meet socially first anyway

It's MEET today NOT Shag today. It's poss to put up a meet today for a social.

Best to agree with the meet that there are no guarantees. "

I thought the only reason one put up a meet today was for a shag hence I have never used it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i dont think its a put off as thats the first place we would look if we wanted a meet

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

too much to think about, too little time....

this, I wouldn't waste a nano second on it

oops, I just did.... ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wishing to sound pathetic and moral...well I could care less what other people think. It's not a function I use as I like to chat to people first, then meet socially and take it from there.

If I have a few hours spare it wouldn't cross my mind to look to a stranger to meet for coffee and a natter: that's what my friends and kids are for.

That's what worked for me. How other people choose to use the site is down to them: it doesn't appeal to me, doesn't mean I look down on those that do!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

No why should it, just because they will meet today doesnt mean they will meet anyone.

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