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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about you ladies, what do you prefer?

A lot of us guys will use artistic licence to decribe how WE see ourselves, and some of us are just as insecure as some of you ladies.

On the other hand, some of us will see ourselves as who we'd like to be, rather than what we are.

I describe myself as average, now I've lost a little weight, and used to see myself as large.

I chuckle at the "athletes" that are either skinny blokes, or are built like darts players, and "rugby type" that are really just fat blokes, lol.

Are you girls as forgiving as most blokes are on here, when what you get isn't quite what you were expecting?

You can be a fierce as you like, but lets not make it a big cock thread.

Put some funnies in too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty i prefer a guy who looks after himself but its not a must. A guy has to be able to perform though and provide satisfaction.

I can be forgiving with a few white lies if i like the guy though but there are limits to how far someone stretched the truth before getting told in no uncertain terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer slim athletic guys...they just do it for me every time ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not too fussed as long as there is some mutual attraction and they are shaved and trimmed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gonna kick back with my bowl of crunchy nut and follow this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy can be whatever size depending on his personality.

Got "friends" all sizes but they have the one magic difference.

They are nice guys through and through, are not so far up their own arse they cant see where they are going .And they love women, all women and not the porn star queens they fantasise about...and will never ever get .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"gonna kick back with my bowl of crunchy nut and follow this "

They might make you fat

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By *havenangel1Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

I like all sorts of men although not into really skinny ones. There are alot of things that might sway me such as cheeky smile, sexy eye's or amazing personality. There is no saying what will attract me too a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can someone please explain the term 'looks after himself' ?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If I'm honest a good fit body will always grab my attention but it takes alot more than that to keep it.

The odd exaggeration is fine as we all see things differently but there are limits before I would say...Are you having a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh i can ogle the lithe fit younger guys and think phoarrr but i dont play with that type(used to when younger). I used to have an ideal but when going to clubs and socials you meet people and get to know them, they make you laugh and as you fellas know...get a gal laughing and your half way there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can someone please explain the term 'looks after himself' ?"

Well to me a guy who is generally fit, plays a little sport or goes to the gym, can climb a ladder and is physically capable. He doesn't have to be buff but he doesn't sit on the couch all day watching tv or on his laptop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"gonna kick back with my bowl of crunchy nut and follow this

They might make you fat "

not fat...cuddly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer stocky types. would wear a large or extra large shirt for example

the kinda guy who enjoys his food. Im not keen on men who look like they are 7 months pregnant though.. like the big all over not just in the tummy department

i do also like men with strong arms, shoulders and thighs.

certainly not a fan of muscle builders or very thin tall men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can someone please explain the term 'looks after himself' ?

Well to me a guy who is generally fit, plays a little sport or goes to the gym, can climb a ladder and is physically capable. He doesn't have to be buff but he doesn't sit on the couch all day watching tv or on his laptop. "

Only reason I ask is cos I am fat (not rugby build, fat) and don't feel any shame in describing myself as such.

I eat healthily in terms of cutting out fats and sugars but do believe in the motto 'everything in moderation'

I don't drink, have never smoked and am physically active in that if a walk is possible over a car journey then i'll take that option and I love going on long walks at a weekend.

I take care of my physical wellbeing, mental wellbeing and dental hygiene in terms of attending regular check with docs / dentists / clinics etc.

I shower at least twice a day (and even more if I am meeting someone) so am always clean.

I dress casually, but well.

I have never been 'sporty' so i would say with that exception I actually do 'look after myself'

However, I bet that 90% of the people who saw me would assume I didn't look after myself because I carry more weight than the average person and am not muscled.

So when asking for 'a man who looks after himself' I would say that in many cases that what is actually being said 'a man who LOOKS LIKE he looks after himself'

In other words, we looks the part rather than acts the part !

See what I mean ?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

We meet athletic fitties who are usually sporty and gym bunnies. They look fit, they feel fit, they are fit. There are of course exceptions to every rule.....

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like mine cute and cuddly lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best meets i have ever had are those where we have gelled online...had a laugh via messenger or on a forum etc.

they think im mad and then they get curious...and ..

it works

never had a bad or uninteresting meet

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think


"A guy can be whatever size depending on his personality.

Got "friends" all sizes but they have the one magic difference.

They are nice guys through and through, are not so far up their own arse they cant see where they are going .And they love women, all women and not the porn star queens they fantasise about...and will never ever get ."

+ 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally like normal everyday guys, don't mind if they have tummies and are not built like an olympic athlete. Although I do have a penchant for toned, muscular, athletic black guys.

I'm not attracted to very overweight men whose bellies hang lower than their cocks.

I'm also not attracted to very skinny 'Mr Muscle' type guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a fantastic reply from a lady recently telling me I really should goto the gym and lose weight as the guys who usually message her all have six packs. Her profile said she was looking for men who consider themselves attractive, charismatic and intelligent I consider myself all 3 so told her she maybe should mention she wanted a porsche rather than a 4x4 she blocked me after that........I'm happy with how I am and honest to if people want some meet on the bone I am here.....threads like this also highlight potential targets I mean women so expect a message soon all you chubby chasers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I go for a particular type of man, I like all body shapes and sizes.

I have had the fraustrating experience of being with a guy who was so overweight that it did make intercourse a bit tricky though!

I would say however, that based on my own experience to date, cock size does not seem to be particularly related to foot size/hand size, or brain size!

And do any other ladies think its a bit unfair that they can tell what size our breasts are from seeing us with clothes on but we can't tell what size they are until we are getting right down to it... no fair!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

oh i adore a guy with some meat on his bones !! someone who can throw me about the bedroom and ill not have to worry about breaking him lol !

as for their cock .... well its the person i like not just one part of them . aslong as they know how to use what they have and arent a selfish lover then im a happy pussy cat !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol 1testarossa maybe we should insist that the willy size is written on the back of their t-shirts.

Anyway i like man to smell nice. As to body size not too botherd (not to keen on twiggies though as i would be scared i'd break them) My thing is sexy eyes xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH is 6ft, athletic and runs marathons. My favourite previous playmates have included a dancer, a rugby player (not fat at all), and two ex-military men. My ex-husband is 6ft, 12.5 st and built like a light-middle weight boxer.

I like my men toned and honed, which is just as well as they need to fit in my nooks and crannies.

I have met one big bloke: bit of a disaster really, it was akin to two Weebles trying to mate...it wasn't happening!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My OH is 6ft, athletic and runs marathons. My favourite previous playmates have included a dancer, a rugby player (not fat at all), and two ex-military men. My ex-husband is 6ft, 12.5 st and built like a light-middle weight boxer.

I like my men toned and honed, which is just as well as they need to fit in my nooks and crannies.

I have met one big bloke: bit of a disaster really, it was akin to two Weebles trying to mate...it wasn't happening! "

if he's 12.1/2 stone he'd be a light heavyweight. Light middleweight is 11 stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

If his tummy rests on my head whilst I am on my knees giving a blow job I might complain. Other than that it's all large spectrum. Not into really skinny men with no arse. I like to have something to grab

Mr H

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Only Joking

Scarlett x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average and proud...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like all sorts of men although not into really skinny ones. There are alot of things that might sway me such as cheeky smile, sexy eye's or amazing personality. There is no saying what will attract me too a man "

+1

(also must be clean... no 'nasty surprises' )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My OH is 6ft, athletic and runs marathons. My favourite previous playmates have included a dancer, a rugby player (not fat at all), and two ex-military men. My ex-husband is 6ft, 12.5 st and built like a light-middle weight boxer.

I like my men toned and honed, which is just as well as they need to fit in my nooks and crannies.

I have met one big bloke: bit of a disaster really, it was akin to two Weebles trying to mate...it wasn't happening!

if he's 12.1/2 stone he'd be a light heavyweight. Light middleweight is 11 stone "

Light, middle, heavy: I made a mistake, sue me!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like them robost with a bit of meat on them, but thats not a prerequisit. The bigger the hammer the harder the nail goes in

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

I do like guys taller than me, but it doesn't matter if they are short arses!!

Would prefer a little meat on their bones rather than The "Mr. Muscle" man!!

Dont really like too much muscle, like they been in gym 24/7

Also dont like to much body hair

Other than that, men are fair game

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