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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who'll you'll always have a 'thing' for, regardless of the passage of time or the circumstances you're both in.

Can anyone else sympathise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, i can! I don't know if it's a female thing though. I've not spoken to many men who would say similar things

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"Who'll you'll always have a 'thing' for, regardless of the passage of time or the circumstances you're both in.

Can anyone else sympathise?

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who'll you'll always have a 'thing' for, regardless of the passage of time or the circumstances you're both in.

Can anyone else sympathise?

I can empathise if that helps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't everyone have a 'one that got away' or just never happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who'll you'll always have a 'thing' for, regardless of the passage of time or the circumstances you're both in.

Can anyone else sympathise?

Yes!! I have two people who I'll never ever forget, there will always be a place for them in my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah ...always one ,I feel your pain pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, kind of. If I have a thing for them, there's a reason and those things rarely change.

You've probably shared things and experiences that tie you together. its nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. I had an affair with a woman that ended due to personal circumstances. We are still close today, madly in love with each other but cannot be together. Awesome memories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye there's someone I'll always have a soft spot for - but it'll never be sexual. Just a good friend who I'll always look out for and I know she will me too. Known her for years since I was a kiddie but sadly distance means we don't meet as often as I'd like but we always keep in touch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, definitely understand that. Some people just have a way of getting under your skin. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

completely sympathise! over 25 years have passed and i still refuse to set foot in a certain town, ive missed friends weddings ,christenings, all sorts, because im still convinced if i clapped eyes on them again i would feel exactly the same about them...which wouldn't be a good thing!

and yes,i do know how daft that is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do unfortunately he passed away do never got to find out of it would have worked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one person I loved more than anything else in the world. I still love them and always will

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Yes.... I know he still has one hell of a thing for me too but too much water under that bridge, we will only ever be friends from a distance now.

All be it ones who just occasionally have the most insanely passionate sex in secret

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep, i can! I don't know if it's a female thing though. I've not spoken to many men who would say similar things"

He feels the same about me. We first met around six years ago, didn't see each other or speak very much for around two years, met up again last August and it was like nothing ever changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes....

And I simply don't talk about it. Try not even to think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a thing with the ex - and as much as i loathe him now it wasnt always all bad - and yes been more since him -

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who'll you'll always have a 'thing' for, regardless of the passage of time or the circumstances you're both in.

Can anyone else sympathise?

I can empathise if that helps?

That too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep there's a couple, one I see occasionally (who might just possibly maybe be a member on here! ) and one who's married therefore out of bounds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeap , its funny how life turns out , but there was / still is the one that got away . we came close to getting together so many times but we were both in and out of relationships at the wrong times and then i moved away.

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By *uperunknown1Man
over a year ago

Chichester

Totally. I've known her since I was 10 years old and only found out a few years ago she had a massive crush on me when we were younger, I felt the same way about her. Neither of us told one another though. We still speak to this day and often wonder what might have been. She is married now with two kids, but she will always have a special place in my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who'll you'll always have a 'thing' for, regardless of the passage of time or the circumstances you're both in.

Can anyone else sympathise?

I sure can....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple but one in particular who sexually and mentally blew me away. I'll never ever forget him, still have tears. Stupid!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It still hurts 18 years on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still have 1 now we live about 5 miles apart but we took different life paths. Some things are best left as a memory.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No. Once something is over its over.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Yes.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Yep, and it's not a nice feeling

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Thankfully no.

I have some lovely memories but I'm in the present

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes I do but it will never be....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Someone from school funnily enough. Fancied her rotten but was too shy to say anything. Still in touch with her now, but she lives in Barbados now, so that's never gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who'll you'll always have a 'thing' for, regardless of the passage of time or the circumstances you're both in.

Can anyone else sympathise?

I sure can....

As can I.....

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Who'll you'll always have a 'thing' for, regardless of the passage of time or the circumstances you're both in.

Can anyone else sympathise?

Oh yes I can

Is he treating you bad?

9 years of thing

Just stoopid I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I didn't let that one get away. ..I married him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do but it will never be...."

Never say never...travel in hope serendipity can be capricious...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Yes I do but it will never be....

Never say never...travel in hope serendipity can be capricious..."

Not this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes... I have several... Oooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who'll you'll always have a 'thing' for, regardless of the passage of time or the circumstances you're both in.

Can anyone else sympathise?

Yes i can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip x

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Yes and some people will always feel like home. Even when you know they shouldn't

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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

Yes. Devastated at the time. Still fantasise though...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes and some people will always feel like home. Even when you know they shouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do but it will never be....

Never say never...travel in hope serendipity can be capricious...

Not this time"

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Oh god yes... I have several... Oooops

I'm so glad someone else said this first!!!

Several people like that in my life, but then I've been in open relationships the vast, vast majority of my sexual life, which may impact those figures!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Who'll you'll always have a 'thing' for, regardless of the passage of time or the circumstances you're both in.

Can anyone else sympathise?

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. I didn't let that one get away. ..I married him

Soppiness alert!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, i can! I don't know if it's a female thing though. I've not spoken to many men who would say similar things"

Certainly not just a female thing.

I can deffeintly relate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I excel at moving on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I excel at moving on. "

Damn. Teach me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I excel at moving on.

Damn. Teach me?

I'm pragmatic, rational and unsentimental, why cling to the past, it's over.

Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely know what you mean OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I excel at moving on.

Damn. Teach me?

I'm pragmatic, rational and unsentimental, why cling to the past, it's over.

Simple"

I'm the exact opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I excel at moving on.

Damn. Teach me?

I'm pragmatic, rational and unsentimental, why cling to the past, it's over.

Simple

I'm the exact opposite. "

The past is over, there is only the future.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"No, I excel at moving on.

Damn. Teach me?

I'm pragmatic, rational and unsentimental, why cling to the past, it's over.

Simple"
so im not the only one that thinks like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I excel at moving on.

Damn. Teach me?

I'm pragmatic, rational and unsentimental, why cling to the past, it's over.

Simple

I'm the exact opposite. "

I'm all Casey said - except for one person.

As someone else said on here. He's my home - and I'm his.

We'll never be a couple now tho. And I'm ok with that.

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