FabSwingers.com forum: Doe's my profile make me look needy.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guy's i have done alot work on my profile. I got a messege from a lady saying my profile makes me needy. What do u guys think?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op

I wouldn't say it looks needy

Good luck

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi op

I wouldn't say it looks needy

Good luck

Miss"
thank and good luck to u

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I wouldn't say so, but recognise that some people will let you down with an excuse not to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn't.

If she's being a dick, dump her.

If she's genuinely trying to be constructive to help you - ask her to be specific why it's needy. Because I don't think that it is. But different people interpret the written word differently ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say needy but I would say a bit wet.

I wouldn't be jumping up and down to meet based on that profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say needy but I would say a bit wet.

I wouldn't be jumping up and down to meet based on that profile. "
there is something missing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like an opinion on my ptofile also,does mine make me look needy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt say needy at all

but i would say having bisexual and bi-curious maybe slightly confusing

and i do get the irony in a post from someone whose profile is hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did say aww bless a few times when reading it x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No, it doesn't come across as needy, at all.

However, I wouldn't really say that it 'sells' you much either.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

The profile doesn't but the forum thread does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much needy but it certainly won't do you any favours with the audience you're trying to attract.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guy's i have done alot work on my profile. I got a messege from a lady saying my profile makes me needy. What do u guys think?"

I think its a good profile.good luck sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say needy but I would say a bit wet.

I wouldn't be jumping up and down to meet based on that profile. "

Ah c'mon! At least be constructive!

There is nothing I can see as being needy there OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like an opinion on my ptofile also,does mine make me look needy?"

Then start your own thread rather than hijacking someone elses.

"I wouldn't say needy but I would say a bit wet.

I wouldn't be jumping up and down to meet based on that profile. there is something missing. "

Yes, your profile is rather vague in as much as it doesn't really say much, despite its length.

What people will be looking for is what they are likely to get out of a meet with you - your profile doesn't give them that.

For example, the first three lines are meaningless and add nothing.

I'm afraid it doesn't really stand out

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Not to me it doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not needy but its not very exciting either...

it needs a bit of oomph injecting into it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I would like an opinion on my ptofile also,does mine make me look needy?"

Very!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi guy's i have done alot work on my profile. I got a messege from a lady saying my profile makes me needy. What do u guys think?

I think its a good profile.good luck sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not your profile is fine at less you are making friend which is a plus for you so enjoy the site..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not to me it doesn't."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like an opinion on my ptofile also,does mine make me look needy?

Very!

Apparently i have to start my own thread haha iv highjacked this one

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Doesn't sound needy to me... Just a bit 'wet' as someone else put it...

I wouldn't bother with the bit about your body shape (pics are adequate to show that anyway), or saying that its a work in progress... If people want to meet you, it should be you as you are, not some idealized future version of yourself

Best of luck though

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I would like an opinion on my ptofile also,does mine make me look needy?

Very!

Apparently i have to start my own thread haha iv highjacked this one

Well I didn't want to point that out as well as you being needy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like an opinion on my ptofile also,does mine make me look needy?"

only for broccoli

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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This is your advert. It needs to be exciting.

Sell yourself (not literally mods)

It isn't needy but it is rather boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like an opinion on my ptofile also,does mine make me look needy?

only for broccoli

Ok maybe a texan bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like an opinion on my ptofile also,does mine make me look needy?

Very!

Apparently i have to start my own thread haha iv highjacked this one

Well I didn't want to point that out as well as you being needy

You need spanking mrs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

You're profile doesn't make you look needy but it does make you look a little bland, it's all a tad nondescript. I think bullet points and / or proper spacing i.e. paragraphs make a profile easier to read.

You've written this is part where you need to sell yourself but you don't ~ your profile is your shop window, use it to your advantage because if you don't bother, why should anyone else?

Remember a profile is a work in progress, tweaking as you go along is a way of keeping it fresh.

Good luck

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I would like an opinion on my ptofile also,does mine make me look needy?

Very!

Apparently i have to start my own thread haha iv highjacked this one

Well I didn't want to point that out as well as you being needy

You need spanking mrs!"

It's probably not the best time to be doing that,I snapped at some guy earlier in Morrisons when he told me to put my stuff on the conveyor belt,I thought they were going to open another till stupid me so didn't empty my basket until the last minute.

#wrongtimeofmonthtobetellingmewhattodo

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't see it as being needy no. Grow a thicker skin, there will always be arseholes on here who are happy to pick pieces in people.

Good luck OP, and remember it's your profile run it as you please not how you think others would want it

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

"The profile doesn't but the forum thread does

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't see it as being needy no. Grow a thicker skin, there will always be arseholes on here who are happy to pick pieces in people.

Good luck OP, and remember it's your profile run it as you please not how you think others would want it

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thank you i will i have had more luck i think people are trying to help. This is great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see it as being needy no. Grow a thicker skin, there will always be arseholes on here who are happy to pick pieces in people.

Good luck OP, and remember it's your profile run it as you please not how you think others would want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't look needy to me XXX

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I wouldn't say needy but I would say a bit wet.

I wouldn't be jumping up and down to meet based on that profile. "

My thoughts exactly. I read the whole thing but if i was thinking to meet you id have abandoned a lot eatlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't see it as being needy no. Grow a thicker skin, there will always be arseholes on here who are happy to pick pieces in people.

Good luck OP, and remember it's your profile run it as you please not how you think others would want it

However, if you're running it how you want too & it ain't working it may just be an idea to change it up a little.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't see it as being needy no. Grow a thicker skin, there will always be arseholes on here who are happy to pick pieces in people.

Good luck OP, and remember it's your profile run it as you please not how you think others would want it

However, if you're running it how you want too & it ain't working it may just be an idea to change it up a little.....

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i have more luck its just they can not meet at the moment.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I wouldn't say it comes across as needy OP - but like I said in the thread you posted on similar lines a week ago, perhaps take some of the advice offered in other threads you've posted asking for profile advice,

You need to get a bit of 'zip' into your profile blurb and break it up a little - as it stands it just reads a little bland and boring to be honest, and I mean that constructively.

I'd also consider changing your pics - the cock one isn't great and with the added thing of showing you have a football team related quilt cover probably does you no favours. Maybe take a few that show off your body a little and leave your cock out of them.

Good luck - but do refer back to the other threads you started there's some great advice in them

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