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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do you write a reply to a post and then just say ah fuck it cannot be arsed and dont post - i find myself doing this quite a lot lately

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Guilty. Some of the topics get so long & what with so many others commenting, your reply often gets missed.

I usually just find myself browsing & chuckling to some of the inane comments

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yep I certainly do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just post it. Like now, I also know I won't return to some threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very often these days

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Far too often currently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why though - is it because they start to wind you up - i know some get me fired up and dont really want to get angry on here (not an angry person anyway) - some i think god not this same old but then sometimes i post on the same old just for the hell of it -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not very often these days "

hahah ive noticed xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why though - is it because they start to wind you up - i know some get me fired up and dont really want to get angry on here (not an angry person anyway) - some i think god not this same old but then sometimes i post on the same old just for the hell of it - "
some threads demand a comment ,some need lightening up and some are just pass the time of day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why though - is it because they start to wind you up - i know some get me fired up and dont really want to get angry on here (not an angry person anyway) - some i think god not this same old but then sometimes i post on the same old just for the hell of it - "

Exactly this, I'm quite chilled but couple of threads recently I've started to compose a response and then thought, why bother, it'll just be hassle, but once in a while that blue touch paper needs lighting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot but I think it is because I am new to the forums and feel like I'm interrupting lol

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I reckon about 30% of the time.

Most of it is when I stop and think before I give a reply, does this thread concern me? No.

Eg. Are you looking forward to football season?

Why reply 'no' and not partake again. Just don't reply the thread will be ok.

That was just an example that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot but I think it is because I am new to the forums and feel like I'm interrupting lol "

Just dive in, interrupt away. That's what it's here for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite often especially if I have stirred up a hornets nest. Usually cause havoc and run.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why though - is it because they start to wind you up - i know some get me fired up and dont really want to get angry on here (not an angry person anyway) - some i think god not this same old but then sometimes i post on the same old just for the hell of it -

Exactly this, I'm quite chilled but couple of threads recently I've started to compose a response and then thought, why bother, it'll just be hassle, but once in a while that blue touch paper needs lighting "

yes i have been known to have an occasional kerfuffle - when its something i feel strongly about or the other person is seemingly from another planet

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Lots of times.... I start to type and then just go 'meh' and cancel my post lol.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I do this a lot here and on social media too... Guilty as charged... I type then don't send.

Have been known to reply to emails in this way or is it not reply to emails.. haha..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep many times ....

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Quite a bit... part self preservation part fuck it. My longevity on the forums is kept alive through the delete / check yourself button.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I've found myself doing this more and more. For every post I write and click send on there's probably half a dozen I write and decide not to send. It often feels like I'll be interrupting a thread if I post or that there's simply just no point in me posting what I have to say. I was even humming and harring whether to post this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found myself doing this more and more. For every post I write and click send on there's probably half a dozen I write and decide not to send. It often feels like I'll be interrupting a thread if I post or that there's simply just no point in me posting what I have to say. I was even humming and harring whether to post this!"

so what made you press send - (needs to know now)

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I've found myself doing this more and more. For every post I write and click send on there's probably half a dozen I write and decide not to send. It often feels like I'll be interrupting a thread if I post or that there's simply just no point in me posting what I have to say. I was even humming and harring whether to post this!

so what made you press send - (needs to know now) "

I'm consciously trying to make more of an effort and post more. This thread seems chilled and relaxed, which is nice and is what I like.

...plus nobody's hijacked the thread yet by going off topic and/or people haven't started flirting and fawning over each other, which is always a massive turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found myself doing this more and more. For every post I write and click send on there's probably half a dozen I write and decide not to send. It often feels like I'll be interrupting a thread if I post or that there's simply just no point in me posting what I have to say. I was even humming and harring whether to post this!

so what made you press send - (needs to know now)

I'm consciously trying to make more of an effort and post more. This thread seems chilled and relaxed, which is nice and is what I like.

...plus nobody's hijacked the thread yet by going off topic and/or people haven't started flirting and fawning over each other, which is always a massive turn off for me."

fingers crossed then

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I do this a bit. I told myself to not rise to certain things in the forum when i rejoined the site. I have typed some replies and gone nah im not biting and cancelled.

So far so good

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Just did...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often... once on this one already then thought there'll be no hassle and ill not need to return to it as I'm going to be busy now and not be on fab anymore for the day.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"do you write a reply to a post and then just say ah fuck it cannot be arsed and dont post - i find myself doing this quite a lot lately "

I do it a lot specially when I think I may have given a previous reply to a similar topic before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"do you write a reply to a post and then just say ah fuck it cannot be arsed and dont post - i find myself doing this quite a lot lately

I do it a lot specially when I think I may have given a previous reply to a similar topic before "

this doesnt bother me - i dont mind repeating myself and for those green arrow users shows the people that are consistant in their replies - some seem to say to please at the time and not show their true selves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Often... once on this one already then thought there'll be no hassle and ill not need to return to it as I'm going to be busy now and not be on fab anymore for the day."

so you still sciving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! All the time. I write it out and then think about it. I quickly realise that somethings are best left unsaid.

I often find that just writing a rant comment but never posting helps me deal with the offensive/rude/ and just plain ridiculous comments.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"do you write a reply to a post and then just say ah fuck it cannot be arsed and dont post - i find myself doing this quite a lot lately

I do it a lot specially when I think I may have given a previous reply to a similar topic before

this doesnt bother me - i dont mind repeating myself and for those green arrow users shows the people that are consistant in their replies - some seem to say to please at the time and not show their true selves "

Thats a good point but if you are a grean arrow stalker i'm sure they will also appreciate my lack of repetition....

I do it for them and for my sanity so it doesn't feel like groundhog day lol.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I'm no different here replying to threads than I am in the real life equivalent of contributing to conversations. I usually have 1001 thoughts swirling in my head about whether I've interpreted the gist/mood of the discussion correctly, am I going to say something stupid/boring/weird, does anyone even care what I have to say - and then, often by the time I do decide to join in, the thread (or conversation) has moved on too quickly anyway for my contribution to make any sense

So, a lot of the time, I just give up, delete 10 minutes worth of response and just lurk instead ...

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Guilty. Some of the topics get so long & what with so many others commenting, your reply often gets missed.

I usually just find myself browsing & chuckling to some of the inane comments

"

Very much this.....same threads....same posters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you write a reply to a post and then just say ah fuck it cannot be arsed and dont post - i find myself doing this quite a lot lately "

Baitch

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm no different here replying to threads than I am in the real life equivalent of contributing to conversations. I usually have 1001 thoughts swirling in my head about whether I've interpreted the gist/mood of the discussion correctly, am I going to say something stupid/boring/weird, does anyone even care what I have to say - and then, often by the time I do decide to join in, the thread (or conversation) has moved on too quickly anyway for my contribution to make any sense

So, a lot of the time, I just give up, delete 10 minutes worth of response and just lurk instead ... "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you write a reply to a post and then just say ah fuck it cannot be arsed and dont post - i find myself doing this quite a lot lately "

All the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"do you write a reply to a post and then just say ah fuck it cannot be arsed and dont post - i find myself doing this quite a lot lately

Baitch "

hmmmm i do have a nice side

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm no different here replying to threads than I am in the real life equivalent of contributing to conversations. I usually have 1001 thoughts swirling in my head about whether I've interpreted the gist/mood of the discussion correctly, am I going to say something stupid/boring/weird, does anyone even care what I have to say - and then, often by the time I do decide to join in, the thread (or conversation) has moved on too quickly anyway for my contribution to make any sense

So, a lot of the time, I just give up, delete 10 minutes worth of response and just lurk instead ...

Exactly this "

overthinking it all eh - i sometimes write a reply and i know so and so will reply with a certain thing - others in such a way and one or two obvious ones try and upset the apple cart- then i think (again) i spend way too much time on here and then think hmm thats a good thing as im getting to know people - jees i can never do right for wrong even with myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah fuck it couldn't be bothered to reply to your post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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half the topics i cba to look in but mostly i like to post on the ones i do look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you write a reply to a post and then just say ah fuck it cannot be arsed and dont post - i find myself doing this quite a lot lately

Baitch

hmmmm i do have a nice side "

I know I seen it yesterday on your profile picture....very nice it was

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