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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've noticed that we get a lot of friend requests from people who haven't bothered to speak to us, and most likely haven't read our profile as it explicitly states we won't accept. Most of these seem to be from people with no public pics, but a few friend only ones themselves, as though they're trying to tempt us.

Am I the only one that thinks this is just people trying to have a nose at our more private pictures, or is there someone out there that does this that has a valid reason that they just dish out friend requests like sweets.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accept when they are offline have a look the delete ....as you said they only want to look at pics so I get in there first ...although most of the time I shouldn't of bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. "

And.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them.

Don't accept.

If you do that, they cannot send you another!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just want to see more sexy pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I accept when they are offline have a look the delete ....as you said they only want to look at pics so I get in there first ...although most of the time I shouldn't of bothered "

I think the fact that I've done exactly this and been disappointed by potato quality pictures of not much going on, is exactly why I got curious enough to make this post.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

Just ignore them, they do just want a nosey at your private pictures without having to chat with you first.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's just one of the creepy things some people do on here

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Just ignore them, they do just want a nosey at your private pictures without having to chat with you first. "

Oo, hello. Off to look at your pictures.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Yes.

And. "

There is no and. I believe the OP correctly identified what is going on.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's fairly standard practice amongst some types here -

People who use it instead of adding you to their hotlist.

People wanting to perv pics

Other chancers who have no clue about socially interacting and building intimacy

I don't accept requests from people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them. We had this one couple who kept doing it so just block them. My hubby likes to add then so then when I'm looking through friends list and look on profile and see we have never chatted I unfreind them xx

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By *uriousduosCouple
over a year ago

St Leonards

We don't accept either, if they look nice and have an interesting profile we will message and try to get to know them a bit first before adding as a friend. It does strike me as odd tho the sheer number of people without pics/veri's and have been on the site a long time... so generally don't bother with those kind of profiles. I feel if people haven't gone to a similar effort with their profile as we have with ours then they're probably not the sort of people we would be interested in meeting.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Just ignore them, they do just want a nosey at your private pictures without having to chat with you first. "

Exactly this

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

They're just dickheads, makes life harder for us that bother to read profiles and send proper messages by the time people get past the requests and the 'lets fuck' messages they can't be bothered with anyone. well that's what I tell myself when I don't get a reply lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"They're just dickheads, makes life harder for us that bother to read profiles and send proper messages by the time people get past the requests and the 'lets fuck' messages they can't be bothered with anyone. well that's what I tell myself when I don't get a reply lol "

It's just ever decreasing circles of interest for everyone my friend

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )


"Just ignore them, they do just want a nosey at your private pictures without having to chat with you first.

Oo, hello. Off to look at your pictures.

"

Hello right back at ya! Hope you enjoying perving over our XXX-rated private pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accept when offline, perv, delete.

Easy beans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get anywhere near as many unsolicited friend requests as I imagine the lovely ladies do, but it does happen.

Occasionally I notice I have a friend invite, completely out of the blue, from someone I haven't even looked at.

It's hardly as if I have no pictures on display so I'm not so sure if it's that they want to have a perve or if they're using the friend request as a means of breaking the ice however, as with anyone who sends me a wink, it clearly shows that they haven't bothered to read my profile.

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