FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you show them all ..... Take some off.......... Only keep new ones....... Dont show ........ Dont give verifications at all.......... i meet some who are not into feed-back as dont wish others to know . Everyone do there own thing whats wright for them i know.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I only post Two or Three at any one time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont show any , dont ask for them and only really send 1 now and again but do tell any one im thinking of meeting that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

show 1 or 2, hide the rest

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I only show the ones that aren't really that rude....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I show sometimes

I don't sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someones verified there's really no point in giving them another one.

We hide ours. We're not bothered if we don't get another one.

We don't need to prove to others how popular or active we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on whether I feel like it or not.... one I currently have on show is amusing- to me at least....and if anyone else gets the joke, they're well in there

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I show a couple from social meets and I dont show any that are rude.

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

Show a couple just to say we are out there and active.

We have no issue with those that show the full list but would like to see at least one on a profile.

Take them with a pinch of salt though. We will make our own mind up when we meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have hidden my friends list and verifications from Day 1, does not appear to have done me any harm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only show the ones that aren't really that rude.... "

spoilsport

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

i have stopped collecting them now ,i mean how many do you need to show you turn up and you are the sex you say you are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just show the social based ones. then everyone knows im a nutter

less scarey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I show sometimes

I don't sometimes

snap ....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Lovely an original question.........uhmmmmmmmmmm

I please myself

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Do you show them all ..... Take some off.......... Only keep new ones....... Dont show ........ Dont give verifications at all.......... i meet some who are not into feed-back as dont wish others to know . Everyone do there own thing whats wright for them i know."
I dont show all of mine cuz ppl are nosey fuckers and i have had messages back from previous meets saying they have had messages from people trying to stir shite lmao.....god loves triers though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have stopped collecting them now ,i mean how many do you need to show you turn up and you are the sex you say you are .

That was always my way at looking at it.

Hid my verifications and friends list: no one else's business who I play with.

Now my profile is hidden as I'm no longer meeting.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

show all, if someone is nice enough to write one it only seems right.

Pay no attention to anyones tho, so dont expect others to pay attention to ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we show ones that are not graphic. don't like showing ones that tell all.

all people need to know is we turn up, are who we say, look good (maybe..lol) and play.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

No we don't. Mind your own bloody business...nosey buggers!!!

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you show them all ..... Take some off.......... Only keep new ones....... Dont show ........ Dont give verifications at all.......... i meet some who are not into feed-back as dont wish others to know . Everyone do there own thing whats wright for them i know.I dont show all of mine cuz ppl are nosey fuckers and i have had messages back from previous meets saying they have had messages from people trying to stir shite lmao.....god loves triers though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple re-quoting me snippets of various bits of previous verifications i had by way of seeming, ehh, familiar with me? Or just daft? Still not got my head round it says tony nice guy, great party, non pushy,etc,lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you show them all ..... Take some off.......... Only keep new ones....... Dont show ........ Dont give verifications at all.......... i meet some who are not into feed-back as dont wish others to know . Everyone do there own thing whats wright for them i know.I dont show all of mine cuz ppl are nosey fuckers and i have had messages back from previous meets saying they have had messages from people trying to stir shite lmao.....god loves triers though

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yes had this too . So dont show some i would like to keep to myself ,

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I’m not applying for a job, so feel no need to provide references.

If someone needs the words of other people to decide if they want to meet me, they are clearly not the calibre of person I want to meet.

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

We show the best, and recent ones.

We hide the ones where people say we're freaks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We show the best, and recent ones.

We hide the ones where people say we're freaks!

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well you dont look freaks , xxx

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

i only show organised meetings that have taken place at partys

as it goes for friends and meets with people well thats mine and there business not anyone elses as i prefer it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been verified by anyone, miserable gits!

But if I did then I would keep them private. I fear that people would look at who I've been with & judge me.

Some people on sites like these can be very clicky. Some have had a falling out or turned down by others.

I prefer to keep my fun to myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've never been verified by anyone, miserable gits!

But if I did then I would keep them private. I fear that people would look at who I've been with & judge me.

Some people on sites like these can be very clicky. Some have had a falling out or turned down by others.

I prefer to keep my fun to myself.

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ooo Ben i am in conwall next month , lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ooo Ben i am in conwall next month , lol xxx

Lets have a party then and we can verify Ben

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" ooo Ben i am in conwall next month , lol xxx

Lets have a party then and we can verify Ben

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ok lets have one xxx love to meet you and others be fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really though about it but i guess anything more than a year ago says what you were not what you are, same goes for photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ooo Ben i am in conwall next month , lol xxx

Lets have a party then and we can verify Ben

ok lets have one xxx love to meet you and others be fun xxx"

it's a date

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never really though about it but i guess anything more than a year ago says what you were not what you are, same goes for photos.

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if i did not look like my pics i would take them off as meet people who look nothing like theres .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never really though about it but i guess anything more than a year ago says what you were not what you are, same goes for photos.

if i did not look like my pics i would take them off as meet people who look nothing like theres ."

Some look nothing like their pics lol. It makes you think about old verifications now as the fucks like the devil 2 years ago might not be true now.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

" ooo Ben i am in conwall next month , lol xxx

Lets have a party then and we can verify Ben

ok lets have one xxx love to meet you and others be fun xxx

it's a date

Will watch the post for our invite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" ooo Ben i am in conwall next month , lol xxx

Lets have a party then and we can verify Ben

ok lets have one xxx love to meet you and others be fun xxx

it's a date

Will watch the post for our invite

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that would be fab xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ooo Ben i am in conwall next month , lol xxx

Lets have a party then and we can verify Ben

ok lets have one xxx love to meet you and others be fun xxx

it's a date

Will watch the post for our invite

that would be fab xxx"

I am very much liking the sound of this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been verified by anyone, miserable gits!

But if I did then I would keep them private. I fear that people would look at who I've been with & judge me.

Some people on sites like these can be very clicky. Some have had a falling out or turned down by others.

I prefer to keep my fun to myself.

Weird you saying that because your profile has the green tick and says verified by other users. Alzheimer's or such a unmemorable a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been verified by anyone, miserable gits!

But if I did then I would keep them private. I fear that people would look at who I've been with & judge me.

Some people on sites like these can be very clicky. Some have had a falling out or turned down by others.

I prefer to keep my fun to myself.

Weird you saying that because your profile has the green tick and says verified by other users. Alzheimer's or such a unmemorable a meet?"

Photo verified, my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been verified by anyone, miserable gits!

But if I did then I would keep them private. I fear that people would look at who I've been with & judge me.

Some people on sites like these can be very clicky. Some have had a falling out or turned down by others.

I prefer to keep my fun to myself.

Weird you saying that because your profile has the green tick and says verified by other users. Alzheimer's or such a unmemorable a meet?

Photo verified, my friend."

You have both! Photo and meet! Maybe you need to look at your own profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been verified by anyone, miserable gits!

But if I did then I would keep them private. I fear that people would look at who I've been with & judge me.

Some people on sites like these can be very clicky. Some have had a falling out or turned down by others.

I prefer to keep my fun to myself.

Weird you saying that because your profile has the green tick and says verified by other users. Alzheimer's or such a unmemorable a meet?

Photo verified, my friend.

You have both! Photo and meet! Maybe you need to look at your own profile lol"

No I haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you have, Ben! Go to 'manage verifications' and see who verified you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes you have, Ben! Go to 'manage verifications' and see who verified you!"

Lol i thought i was dreaming! Maybe all is not as it seems with Ben!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes you have, Ben! Go to 'manage verifications' and see who verified you!"

I just have & it's blank. Bizarre!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Yes you have, Ben! Go to 'manage verifications' and see who verified you!

I just have & it's blank. Bizarre!"

Must have been someone who has now deleted their profile

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I've never been verified by anyone, miserable gits!

But if I did then I would keep them private. I fear that people would look at who I've been with & judge me.

Some people on sites like these can be very clicky. Some have had a falling out or turned down by others.

I prefer to keep my fun to myself.

Weird you saying that because your profile has the green tick and says verified by other users. Alzheimer's or such a unmemorable a meet?

Photo verified, my friend.

You have both! Photo and meet! Maybe you need to look at your own profile lol"

It might have been webcam/ phone and they have left the site so he can't see it now.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Yes you have, Ben! Go to 'manage verifications' and see who verified you!

I just have & it's blank. Bizarre!

Must have been someone who has now deleted their profile"

Damn, I should have read to the very bottom, would have saved me fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows!

Anyway, folks.....it seems much to everyone's relief that I am indeed verified by the ghost of verications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd still keep them private anyway, no need for anyone to know my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We show the best, and recent ones.

We hide the ones where people say we're freaks!

I read that as "fakes".. then thought.. what??

helps to read properly..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you show them all ..... Take some off.......... Only keep new ones....... Dont show ........ Dont give verifications at all.......... i meet some who are not into feed-back as dont wish others to know . Everyone do there own thing whats wright for them i know.I dont show all of mine cuz ppl are nosey fuckers and i have had messages back from previous meets saying they have had messages from people trying to stir shite lmao.....god loves triers though

@ Femme, thats exactly why I show mine. Why who Ive met and how often bothers people I will never know, but it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will verify any newbies I've met, tend to only do social ones and show social ones.

Hide any too explicit ones. But as I'm a born again newbie I don't have them now! hahaha

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By *isub69Man
over a year ago

Epsom

I show mine (Yes that is right all two of them

I have met plenty of people, just from another well known site)

I think it can be an important tool for single guys like myself. They also are not graphic and mention that I am a nice guy

Once each of them get to a year I will hide them otherwise I think they will do more harm than good lol.

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