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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are a couple and looking fit a female to join us.. I would love this to be out first meet as just not clicking with no one else for some reason ... but we never get single females messaging or I can't find any to message ... where are we going wrong .. or do single females not like a couple to play with

Any suggestions xx

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Extremely unlikely you'll get an out of the blue message from a single female, especially while new and before you are meet verified.

Get some more experience, maybe with couples and read the other forum posts on this same subject.

Good luck and have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a couple and looking fit a female to join us.. I would love this to be out first meet as just not clicking with no one else for some reason ... but we never get single females messaging or I can't find any to message ... where are we going wrong .. or do single females not like a couple to play with

Any suggestions xx "

More chance at a club than on here, and at least then you can social veri's from folks you have met there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks both ... I want to try a club (the Mrs) and he's not right into it not yet anyways haha ..

I know a girl probs would message us first but I don't even see any pool up yo message myself or chat too ...

Am I looking in wrong places x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.

Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like looking for a needle in a haystack

Great boobs btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They call single bi females unicorns for a reason

They are as rare as the mythical creature

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.

Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)"

Okay so you look hot as fuck mind my language .. again the Mrs here ... we both love women.. I'm very bi sexual and encourage this in the bedroom but just not getting to experience what I want to do it him because can't find ... we want a regular that we can meet with and find chemistry with ...

I did try to message you actually but I know says I can't haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.

Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)"

This ^^^ so hard to find a couple which you are attracted to both and they both like you, and to feel comfortable with and have sexual chemistry otherwise it's just awkward

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"They call single bi females unicorns for a reason

They are as rare as the mythical creature

"

Luckily, not quite so rare

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like looking for a needle in a haystack

Great boobs btw "

Are you the rare breed I'm looking for hehe ... xx thankyiu yours are great too

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As we said in another thread on this the other day.

Rarer than Rocking horse poo.

If you are lucky a club is the only place but doubt you will find a single fem, better off trying a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.

Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)

Okay so you look hot as fuck mind my language .. again the Mrs here ... we both love women.. I'm very bi sexual and encourage this in the bedroom but just not getting to experience what I want to do it him because can't find ... we want a regular that we can meet with and find chemistry with ...

I did try to message you actually but I know says I can't haha xx"

Thank you. It's not personal, no one can message me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.

Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)

Okay so you look hot as fuck mind my language .. again the Mrs here ... we both love women.. I'm very bi sexual and encourage this in the bedroom but just not getting to experience what I want to do it him because can't find ... we want a regular that we can meet with and find chemistry with ...

I did try to message you actually but I know says I can't haha xx

Thank you. It's not personal, no one can message me "

Maybe consider messaging us sometime ... if you like ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.

Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)

This ^^^ so hard to find a couple which you are attracted to both and they both like you, and to feel comfortable with and have sexual chemistry otherwise it's just awkward "

Exactly - early on in my fab career, I had socials where I found the female half attractive but not the male half. I've had ffms away from fab, but one was with two single friends and I think in future - unless I find an amazing couple - that's the way I'm going to do things.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Three way dynamic is hard to find, however well worth the effort, especially when the girls find a friendship bond.

Aledgedly

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Op. It will be easier for you to meet other women if you meet by yourself. That what i do

Very tricky to meet single females as a couple outside the club's / party scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.

Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)

Okay so you look hot as fuck mind my language .. again the Mrs here ... we both love women.. I'm very bi sexual and encourage this in the bedroom but just not getting to experience what I want to do it him because can't find ... we want a regular that we can meet with and find chemistry with ...

I did try to message you actually but I know says I can't haha xx

Thank you. It's not personal, no one can message me

Maybe consider messaging us sometime ... if you like .... "

I don't have sexual meets with couples, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.

Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)

Okay so you look hot as fuck mind my language .. again the Mrs here ... we both love women.. I'm very bi sexual and encourage this in the bedroom but just not getting to experience what I want to do it him because can't find ... we want a regular that we can meet with and find chemistry with ...

I did try to message you actually but I know says I can't haha xx

Thank you. It's not personal, no one can message me

Maybe consider messaging us sometime ... if you like ....

I don't have sexual meets with couples, sorry. "

Fair enough haha worth a try I guess ... tjmx for advice tho xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't actually mention on your profile, that you seek a long term friendship with a single woman. Go on, put it out there

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Op, things single ladies in particular have to watch out for:

Single guys posing as a couple.

Male of of couple persuading female half to fulfil a fantasy of his.

female half of couple flipping out at the meet, when she actually sees it.

general awkwardness / feeling left out from the couple

liking one half of the couple only

Being used as a bucket list tick.

And a few more.

There are thousands of couples saying they want single ladies, some won't have these issues and lots will. As a new profile, unverified, it will be difficult to make a single lady comfortable that none of those are the case with you.

I'd say get meet verified and definitely head to some clubs. We've met lots of girls at clubs and it's worked for all of us.

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By *uzyamCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

We're still living in hope ??

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By *iscreetmrnickMan
over a year ago

windsor


"Like looking for a needle in a haystack

Great boobs btw "
yep ill second that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like looking for a needle in a haystack

Great boobs btw yep ill second that! "

Like a well oiled haystack....dont hold your breath and get your self to a local club ......even then there will be loads of guys and no single females......????.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Like looking for a needle in a haystack

Great boobs btw yep ill second that!

Like a well oiled haystack....dont hold your breath and get your self to a local club ......even then there will be loads of guys and no single females......????."

No. First, they can go on couples night, lots of couples and single girls on those nights. And mixed nights there are single girls too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A club would be your best bet with out a doubt. On a visit to a club not so long ago J had the company of four single ladies on of the play beds , you'll find it very difficult to have the same senario via "Fab " so suss out a club guys . All the best

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"A club would be your best bet with out a doubt. On a visit to a club not so long ago J had the company of four single ladies on of the play beds , you'll find it very difficult to have the same senario via "Fab " so suss out a club guys . All the best "

This is the great thing with clubs. Some times it might be a great social type evening, just playing together and watching / being watched. Other nights ff, ffm, mmf, mfmf, mfmf, mfmfmf, fffmm, who knows, but that's part of the fun and excitement

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

They are about.

Most don't want to be treated like the main attraction, the couples play thing.

There has to be attraction all round and that's where it becomes tricky.

Clubs are great for meeting new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A club would be your best bet with out a doubt. On a visit to a club not so long ago J had the company of four single ladies on of the play beds , you'll find it very difficult to have the same senario via "Fab " so suss out a club guys . All the best

This is the great thing with clubs. Some times it might be a great social type evening, just playing together and watching / being watched. Other nights ff, ffm, mmf, mfmf, mfmf, mfmfmf, fffmm, who knows, but that's part of the fun and excitement

"

Oh absolutely, every visit is so different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My self and my lover found a women who was willing to join us as a 3sum. Me and her have met up gone out had drinks and a giggle got on like a house on fire this friendship has blossomed so much so that we don't want to play together in case it fucks up out friendship. Still haven't got round to telling the lover though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They call single bi females unicorns for a reason

They are as rare as the mythical creature

Luckily, not quite so rare "

this

Yep not as rare as everyone thinks

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By *kultraCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"We are a couple and looking fit a female to join us.. I would love this to be out first meet as just not clicking with no one else for some reason ... but we never get single females messaging or I can't find any to message ... where are we going wrong .. or do single females not like a couple to play with

Any suggestions xx "

We are not far from you and we are also looking for another couple or single female x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They call single bi females unicorns for a reason

They are as rare as the mythical creature

Luckily, not quite so rare "

By our sunny seaside location they are x

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

we had our first threesome in 85 then nothig till about 93 when that ended we started to go to swingers clubs and met another single gitl who had come along with her cousin and his wife just to see what it was like that also lasted about a year and since then weve played with maybe 20 single girls in fact we played with two singles at a party just two weeks ago so yes they are out there but you have to be there as well

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