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how to let a bloke down on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok so i get loads of emails (as do most females on here) so whats the best way to let a guy down ... or is it best to be blunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just say fuck off thats what we get LOL !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so i get loads of emails (as do most females on here) so whats the best way to let a guy down ... or is it best to be blunt

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First, Gorgeous profile!

It depends on what you mean. Do you mean initial contact or you've played with them once, didn't enjoy and don't want to play with them again?

Depends on the situation...and the guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sorry not my cup of tea" works in both first message of even if meet was crapolla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are probably best to go for the no reply option. Just delete those who don't appeal. Reply to those who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete if no interest at all, tho if they,ve put effort into the message (not cut an paste) I will usually reply with, thanks but no thanks, trouble is some see that as half way there while others accept it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ok so i get loads of emails (as do most females on here) so whats the best way to let a guy down ... or is it best to be blunt

First, Gorgeous profile!

It depends on what you mean. Do you mean initial contact or you've played with them once, didn't enjoy and don't want to play with them again?

Depends on the situation...and the guy!"

more for 1st email

thanks i do worry my profile might come off looking grumpy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just dont reply if im not interested

unless they keep mailing me regardless of me not replying then i mail them to tell them to take a hint and stop mailing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get rejected all the time but I know that a no reply or fuck off means the same thing.

So I just don't bother messaging anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a no reply speaks thousand words doesnt it ??? and why worry about giving someone the brush off its not a dating site ?sand id have thought you would be wanting guys to contact you with the telephone scam ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never mail anyone either

i used to go thro profiles and mail guys i was interested in but i hardly every got a reply and never got a meet from anyone i contacted first

so i now just go thro those who mail me and reply to the ones i like

saves time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete unreplied if you're not interested, block if they contact you again.

Not rocket science is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sand id have thought you would be wanting guys to contact you with the telephone scam ???"

See what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so i get loads of emails (as do most females on here) so whats the best way to let a guy down ... or is it best to be blunt

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simple way really

block

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

for the most part i try to reply even if i am not interested

'thanks for the message but i am not interested in taing this further, happy swinging'

is my stock reply

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

my standard reply if I'm not interested is 'no thank you'. It's quite to the point so rarely got come back on it, if i do I delete once a second time I block.

Same goes for the copy n paste couples and guys who mail out everyone every few weeks. No thank you once, delete 2nd time, block if the don't get hint or remember me after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na sorry mate I need a bigger cock than that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so i get loads of emails (as do most females on here) so whats the best way to let a guy down ... or is it best to be blunt

simple way really

block"

blocking is for fuds...unless theres some persistancy or the guy/cpl/girls being an arsehole.a simple no thanks is enough and wish them good luck

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

What's wrong with a polite no thanks?

Rocket science it's not!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

You mean we are allowed to turn people down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean we are allowed to turn people down "

Yep but watch out fa the small print lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and to my above statement, ive said again and again, i like to meet people in the social aspects, so thats the same normally for parties or socials...really wouldnt like saying hi etc etc i blocked u...or likewise, there is NEVER any need to be rash, and of course blocking in my opinion is more like a last resort

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"You mean we are allowed to turn people down

Yep but watch out fa the small print lol xx"

Omg small print as well, wheres me specs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean we are allowed to turn people down

Yep but watch out fa the small print lol xx

Omg small print as well, wheres me specs lol "

uve specs? mmmmmmmmmmmm...wanking at the thot hehe xxx

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"You mean we are allowed to turn people down

Yep but watch out fa the small print lol xx

Omg small print as well, wheres me specs lol

uve specs? mmmmmmmmmmmm...wanking at the thot hehe xxx"

well more like sunglasses than specs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore us, majority of you do anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just tell me to fuck off otherwise i never take a hint

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I would mention something about them having a small cock and that they are too short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send a cut and paste note saying "There's millions of you on here. Get lost."

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By *ing33Man
over a year ago

bristol

i hate no replies, i put time and effort into my mails, so a polite no thx would be enough for me to hear, its only polite. and if he persist, just block them, but would like to add, i accept a ''no'' gracefully and reply with a "thx for replying, be lucky"...

but i hear not everyone can take a "no" and are not so polite!!!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Thank you for your mail but I'm not interested in taking things further.

Thanks for your mail but you are not what I'm looking for.

Thanks but no thanks.

Take your pick

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