FabSwingers.com forum: female pubic hair

By *exycouple30 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to do anything of the sort, it's entirely up to you. Just go with what makes you feel comfortable.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't feel I have to and often don't. However I don't feel I have to do anything because everyone else does.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I wouldn't say it's the norm in the swinging scene, it's just the norm full stop. Personally I hate pubic hair on anyone, everyone should be as bald as they day they were born

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?"

porn has a lot to answer for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the norm , not just for woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?

porn has a lot to answer for"

Now a lot of pornstars have got a bit of hair.

I like pubic hair on women, it's normal and a bit of hair isn't going to put me off a woman. Wear your pubes how you want them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a swinging thing it’s just popular these days generally.

I have a mate in his 60’s and he said back in the day all lady’s had a big hairy bush, and that was his proference.

I think shaved fannies coincide with increasingly open attitudes towards sex. The main reason beside ascetics for having a shaven pussy is that it makes oral sex more pleasant for the person giving.

Women like being given oral so if shaving encourages that then most are happy to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?

porn has a lot to answer for"

Exactly!

I'd much rather see some hair, trimmed or whatever than an unsightly spotty cooch with scar marks from ingrown hair, shaving rash etc!

How many women like to lick a guys face the day after he's shaven?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just the swinging scene. Have you seen Naked Attraction. Nearly all the pussies are bald

Unless they're all swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some hair can look good, and there are good examples of that on here.

I like to see where I am going though, so prefer the actual area clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some hair can look good, and there are good examples of that on here.

I like to see where I am going though, so prefer the actual area clear."

Ah I don't mind I wear my head torch for jungle exploration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sporting a bit of an 80s bush at the minute. Bare underneath and trimmed though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some hair can look good, and there are good examples of that on here.

I like to see where I am going though, so prefer the actual area clear."

Are you really that clueless when it comes to oral that a bit of hair can easily distract you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sporting a bit of an 80s bush at the minute. Bare underneath and trimmed though "

This is why I fucking think your hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a nice natural hairy pussy..or maybe just trimmed..to a shaven pussy

But I think a cock looks better smooth or trimmed as short as possible

Just my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sporting a bit of an 80s bush at the minute. Bare underneath and trimmed though "

Kevin Keegan perm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fashion, probably popularised by the ubiquity of porn, and supported by the myth that it is more "hygienic".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the feel of it and won't touch myself unless I've shaved. I think it's pretty much the normal these days as all my friends outwith fab either wax or shave also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sporting a bit of an 80s bush at the minute. Bare underneath and trimmed though

Kevin Keegan perm?"

Not quite got to that point yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for me.

Its all the watch springs you are picking out your mouth later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fussed either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some hair can look good, and there are good examples of that on here.

I like to see where I am going though, so prefer the actual area clear.

Are you really that clueless when it comes to oral that a bit of hair can easily distract you

Yes that's obviously what I meant

Not that I enjoy seeing what I'm going down on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fashion, probably popularised by the ubiquity of porn, and supported by the myth that it is more "hygienic"."

It's less hygienic also after an extensive study, proves you're more likely to catch an STI shaving down there than having hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sporting a bit of an 80s bush at the minute. Bare underneath and trimmed though

This is why I fucking think your hot

That the only reason awwww shucks have to rethink my strategy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fashion, probably popularised by the ubiquity of porn, and supported by the myth that it is more "hygienic".

It's less hygienic also after an extensive study, proves you're more likely to catch an STI shaving down there than having hair. "

Not really - if you're shaving underneath and just allowing the top to grow the advantage of a natural bush are surely reduced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sporting a bit of an 80s bush at the minute. Bare underneath and trimmed though

This is why I fucking think your hot

That the only reason awwww shucks have to rethink my strategy

Not the only reason but you just get better and better!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As its removable its a choice or personal preference. Nobody should be slated because of that. I choose at the moment to have pubic hair, if people don't want to meet me because of it that's their choice too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been bald for years... hate hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sporting a bit of an 80s bush at the minute. Bare underneath and trimmed though

This is why I fucking think your hot

That the only reason awwww shucks have to rethink my strategy

Not the only reason but you just get better and better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?"

No one wants pubes in thier teeth/nose.

Swingers are more sexually active than the general population he ce its more inportant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fashion, probably popularised by the ubiquity of porn, and supported by the myth that it is more "hygienic".

It's less hygienic also after an extensive study, proves you're more likely to catch an STI shaving down there than having hair. "

By what % And what was the starting percent?

As most of these "more likley" are hilarious iirc daily express once had an article about something TRIPPLING YOUR CHANCE OF CANCER!!! Never mentioned the chance of getting it in the first place was aroud 0.0001% so TRIPPLING it still made it infignificant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?"

Im not bothered what other fems do. I shave cus i want to !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?

porn has a lot to answer for

Exactly!

I'd much rather see some hair, trimmed or whatever than an unsightly spotty cooch with scar marks from ingrown hair, shaving rash etc!

How many women like to lick a guys face the day after he's shaven?

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

I prefer to wax, I feel it's cleaner and I like the feeling afterwards.

In between I might shave but I'd rather not, but I will always keep it tidy.

I do feel like I need to apologise when I'm between waxes, although i know guys don't care. Need to stop doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fluffy bit on the mound - like a landing stripe but wider - but I shave the rest because I like the look and feel, and when I'm sweaty or on my period I feel cleaner if there's no hair around the thigh crease or lips. But I keep it like that because I like it, not because of fashion or porn or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?

porn has a lot to answer for

Exactly!

I'd much rather see some hair, trimmed or whatever than an unsightly spotty cooch with scar marks from ingrown hair, shaving rash etc!

How many women like to lick a guys face the day after he's shaven?

Nice and judgemental to all the women who shave there.

Actually thats not judgemental thats just out and out insulting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?

porn has a lot to answer for

Exactly!

I'd much rather see some hair, trimmed or whatever than an unsightly spotty cooch with scar marks from ingrown hair, shaving rash etc!

How many women like to lick a guys face the day after he's shaven?

Luckily i dont have scars or a shaving rash on my lady bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a fluffy bit on the mound - like a landing stripe but wider - but I shave the rest because I like the look and feel, and when I'm sweaty or on my period I feel cleaner if there's no hair around the thigh crease or lips. But I keep it like that because I like it, not because of fashion or porn or whatever."

That's the description I was trying to go for

The freshly shaved feeling is great, I always forget till after I've done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fashion, probably popularised by the ubiquity of porn, and supported by the myth that it is more "hygienic".

It's less hygienic also after an extensive study, proves you're more likely to catch an STI shaving down there than having hair. "

There are extensive studies saying it makes no difference regarding getting STIs wether you are shaved or not.

Personally i think everyone should do what they prefer. Hence we both shave and prefer to meet others that do too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fashion, probably popularised by the ubiquity of porn, and supported by the myth that it is more "hygienic".

It's less hygienic also after an extensive study, proves you're more likely to catch an STI shaving down there than having hair.

There are extensive studies saying it makes no difference regarding getting STIs wether you are shaved or not.

Personally i think everyone should do what they prefer. Hence we both shave and prefer to meet others that do too."
id meet u lol used to love Loughborough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a fashion, probably popularised by the ubiquity of porn, and supported by the myth that it is more "hygienic".

It's less hygienic also after an extensive study, proves you're more likely to catch an STI shaving down there than having hair.

There are extensive studies saying it makes no difference regarding getting STIs wether you are shaved or not.

Personally i think everyone should do what they prefer. Hence we both shave and prefer to meet others that do too."

Best bet is probbaly dont shag people with STIs.

As statistically speaking that reallly increases your chances :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This...

So many men tend to think women wax or shave because we feel pressured to. Give us some credit, please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?

porn has a lot to answer for

Exactly!

I'd much rather see some hair, trimmed or whatever than an unsightly spotty cooch with scar marks from ingrown hair, shaving rash etc!

How many women like to lick a guys face the day after he's shaven?

I wax and epilate and it feels flippin' lovely afterwards. I also know women who shave and their "cooch" doesn't look scarred or unsightly, but well done for making some feel insecure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are extensive studies saying it makes no difference regarding getting STIs wether you are shaved or not"

Really? Where are your sources?

I can give you two separate case studies one by the University of California and SanFran and one published in the Sexually Transmitted infections Journal as well as 15 seperate articles about it in the media.

I'm struggling to find an article that proves it makes no difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are extensive studies saying it makes no difference regarding getting STIs wether you are shaved or not

Really? Where are your sources?

I'm struggling to find an article that proves it makes no difference

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out of curiosity why are you barebacking all these SIT infected people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are extensive studies saying it makes no difference regarding getting STIs wether you are shaved or not

Really? Where are your sources?

I'm struggling to find an article that proves it makes no difference

out of curiosity why are you barebacking all these SIT infected people?"

Out of curiosity at which point have I mentioned that, or what I do personally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to go down on a full on bush never happens though they all shave

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

And in today's pubic hair debate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are extensive studies saying it makes no difference regarding getting STIs wether you are shaved or not

Really? Where are your sources?

I'm struggling to find an article that proves it makes no difference

out of curiosity why are you barebacking all these SIT infected people?

Out of curiosity at which point have I mentioned that, or what I do personally? "

Well that pubic hair may or may not increase sto transmition rates seems of great importance to you certainly suggests that this is a common issue for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are extensive studies saying it makes no difference regarding getting STIs wether you are shaved or not

Really? Where are your sources?

I'm struggling to find an article that proves it makes no difference

out of curiosity why are you barebacking all these SIT infected people?

Out of curiosity at which point have I mentioned that, or what I do personally?

Well that pubic hair may or may not increase sto transmition rates seems of great importance to you certainly suggests that this is a common issue for you.

Suggests nothing of sort.

I'm bringing factual evidence supported by cases studies for the argument for hair, you're just trying and failing to look clever.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Oh gawd we should all do whatever we want and accept there are a range of opinions and preferences when it comes to pubic hair. No one's under any obligation to meet someone if there's *anything* they don't like about them after all.

I readily admit I like (that's like, not prefer) the smooth look on myself but have been natural for the last four months or so (which I also like) because I've got very sensitive skin and *every* method of hair removal left me hurting after and/or damaging my skin in some way - rashes, ingrowing hairs, nasty scars etc. And I wanted to give my skin a break from all that for a good while.

But one thing I will say is that because of the disparaging remarks I keep reading about women with hair (specifically, as opposed to expressing a preference which is obviously fine), I've felt very reluctant to go to clubs for most of this year as I'm nervous about being gawped at, ridiculed or even recoiled from. I know part of that is down to my own self confidence but threads like this really don't help ...

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I loke men with hair around their cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shave mine for myself, at the moment it's, half and half XXX

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

A shame if it's affecting your confidence, your pictures look great

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Stops crabs spreading!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Oh gawd we should all do whatever we want and accept there are a range of opinions and preferences when it comes to pubic hair. No one's under any obligation to meet someone if there's *anything* they don't like about them after all.

I have been turned down for meets and positively feted for meets. I have been called dirty and disgusting. All online. But, never have I been gawped at or abused at a club for my choice. Just go.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Let them gawp Hun when I go to clubs I let mine bush hang out people look but I've never had anything but good things said about it.

My bush isn't going anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now look here.....it's time for the truth...we shave our pussies because we are all riddled with lice you know and that's the only way we can get rid of them. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman can do what she likes, it's her bush and no one elses, I wax all mine off for personal preference, as long as your happy with your tuppy then that's all that matters xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?"
I don't shave and certainly wouldn't just because I thought I had to. I get loads of mail saying they like it and they wish more would leave theirs hairy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shave because because hubby prefers it and so do I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why is it the "norm" for a female to shave their pubes in the swinging scene? I'm sure a lot of women would prefer not too, but feel they have to as everyone else is?I don't shave and certainly wouldn't just because I thought I had to. I get loads of mail saying they like it and they wish more would leave theirs hairy "

I like both as long as she's happy with it down there I am really not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let them gawp Hun when I go to clubs I let mine bush hang out people look but I've never had anything but good things said about it.

My bush isn't going anywhere. "

Beautiful hairy pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before....

And I'll say it again...

Kelly..I love your hairy pussy

Love it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before....

And I'll say it again...

Kelly..I love your hairy pussy

Love it!!!

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thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the wife having some hair

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Let them gawp Hun when I go to clubs I let mine bush hang out people look but I've never had anything but good things said about it.

My bush isn't going anywhere.

Beautiful hairy pussy

Thanks

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

I do it because I want to.

I like the feeling of my smooth pussy and I prefer it too in other women.

Also it's nicer on that tk.e of the month

Mrs SB

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I dont mind it takes me back to being a horny kid watching porn from the 80's

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By *andACouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I've been shaving since school and I definitely wasn't a swinger then. Just always preferred smooth.

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