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9 minutes ago

Dover

I've just text my family other than my dad.. (sperm donor)

That I'm bisexual.

Not nervous really as it is what it is.

When I listen to certain songs on the radio I get that feeling from years ago that had stuck with me for years.

I wish I was a girl.

Even my body movement isn't manly.

I'm so more feminine I don't do masculine things.

Hated sports as a kid.

I recall my teacher at school.

She used to stay behind after school.

Let me run of steam on the track.

I'm sure she knew.

Well now I'm kind of relieved.

Job done

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry peeps sent to wrong forum and copy a day paste lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well at least your too old for your father to give you a kicking

When he found out I'd been sleeping with an older friend he broke some of my ribs and beat me so hard I pissed blood for a few days.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Well at least your too old for your father to give you a kicking

When he found out I'd been sleeping with an older friend he broke some of my ribs and beat me so hard I pissed blood for a few days. "

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over a year ago

"Well at least your too old for your father to give you a kicking

When he found out I'd been sleeping with an older friend he broke some of my ribs and beat me so hard I pissed blood for a few days.

I did leave home after

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Well at least your too old for your father to give you a kicking

When he found out I'd been sleeping with an older friend he broke some of my ribs and beat me so hard I pissed blood for a few days.

I did leave home after

I'm not surprised,what's your relationship like with him now?

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over a year ago

"Well at least your too old for your father to give you a kicking

When he found out I'd been sleeping with an older friend he broke some of my ribs and beat me so hard I pissed blood for a few days.

I did leave home after

I'm not surprised,what's your relationship like with him now?"

Zero. I changed my name as soon as I could. The last time I saw him was in 1992 when I got my mum to sign the papers for me to join up as a junior.

I haven't seen her since either.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Well at least your too old for your father to give you a kicking

When he found out I'd been sleeping with an older friend he broke some of my ribs and beat me so hard I pissed blood for a few days.

I did leave home after

I'm not surprised,what's your relationship like with him now?

Zero. I changed my name as soon as I could. The last time I saw him was in 1992 when I got my mum to sign the papers for me to join up as a junior.

I haven't seen her since either. "

that's incredibly sad. Some people really aren't meant to be parents are they!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well at least your too old for your father to give you a kicking

When he found out I'd been sleeping with an older friend he broke some of my ribs and beat me so hard I pissed blood for a few days.

I did leave home after

I'm not surprised,what's your relationship like with him now?

Zero. I changed my name as soon as I could. The last time I saw him was in 1992 when I got my mum to sign the papers for me to join up as a junior.

I haven't seen her since either.

that's incredibly sad. Some people really aren't meant to be parents are they!"

I was a shite son to be fair.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Well at least your too old for your father to give you a kicking

When he found out I'd been sleeping with an older friend he broke some of my ribs and beat me so hard I pissed blood for a few days.

I did leave home after

I'm not surprised,what's your relationship like with him now?

Zero. I changed my name as soon as I could. The last time I saw him was in 1992 when I got my mum to sign the papers for me to join up as a junior.

I haven't seen her since either.

that's incredibly sad. Some people really aren't meant to be parents are they!

I was a shite son to be fair. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If my dad knew all my uncles would be kicking my head in.

They all complete arse holes that think being gay is like being a nonce...

This is probably why I have never said anything.

I got really nice texts from my family this morning but I can't answer my mum's calls..

Oh I feel for anyone that gets attacked let alone because they are gay etc

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

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I came out as gay to my family years ago and that went badly so this tranny shit really ain't a goer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If my dad knew all my uncles would be kicking my head in.

They all complete arse holes that think being gay is like being a nonce...

This is probably why I have never said anything.

I got really nice texts from my family this morning but I can't answer my mum's calls..

Oh I feel for anyone that gets attacked let alone because they are gay etc "

Talk to your mum, if she's calling don't make her frett

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over a year ago

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9 minutes ago

Dover

I've just text my family other than my dad.. (sperm donor)

That I'm bisexual.

Not nervous really as it is what it is.

When I listen to certain songs on the radio I get that feeling from years ago that had stuck with me for years.

I wish I was a girl.

Even my body movement isn't manly.

I'm so more feminine I don't do masculine things.

Hated sports as a kid.

I recall my teacher at school.

She used to stay behind after school.

Let me run of steam on the track.

I'm sure she knew.

Well now I'm kind of relieved.

Job done

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Well done!...i admire your balls....lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done OP. Speak to your mum and just continue your relationship as normal. This shouldn't change anything

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Nice one OP...have fun.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A few years ago my son came back for about three months and had a very camp gay friend.

One day my son started to act strange and

Saying strange stuff anyway it came out he said he was bi sexual and had a cry.

I was so.upset not because he was bisexual but because knowing the person i am actually thought id have a negative reaction. Anyway that."relationshiop fizzled out and i thought he was just trying out his sexualality

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have sent another text but honestly it's hard enough to speak to my brother.

Which I have done..

My mum though is a different kettle of fish.

I think she understands what I've been going through now and if things were different I would have no problem engaging in a deep mother son conversation.

She blames herself for what happened to me years ago as I was in a children's home.

We didn't speak for twenty years.

Now I've thrown this into the mix

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I think you just need to concentrate on your positive relationships with members of your family and stuff the rest. My daughter prefers girl's and the thought of rejecting or being violent toward's her because of her sexuality is horrid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of what people say, you can choose your family, so iggy the nasty ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope it went well OP.

Both my kids told us by text and then when they got home from school told us to our faces and quickly added that "I don't want to talk about though". We simply replied that we were glad they felt comfortable enough to come to us and that we were here if they needed us. Within a few months came back and told us that actually they were gay.

And bugger me if their Mum didn't do the same a few years later.

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