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Torn between 2 women

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

Erm so ive been single for a very long time, 2-years

A year ago a friend who I fell for and I believe she fell for me to as we had dalliances, went back packing. We clung to each other sobbing at her leaving do and barely spoke barr when we had a massive wobble. For example her suddenly saying she has to come home and see me. Weve both been playing with men. Well shes home and were taking my daughter out this weekend

While shes been away ive grown close to a girl at work, who has lost her sexual identity due to a traumatic event. This girl n I spend alot of time together,occasional she'll hold my hand. Or give me a kiss. Or fall asleep on my lap. All on her terms basically if she touches me I touch back.

This isnt a bragging thread, its a confused as hell thread.

Any advice

Ps. I played sexually with women, never had a girlfriend tho

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See how it goes with your friend this weekend. If you're both still close when you meet, ask her out. You've had dalliances in the past so it's not going to be a shock like asking a straight friend out.

The friend at work sounds more confused and needing you as just a friend than anything else. Maybe wishful thinking.

Good luck with your weekend friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any update?

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city

Just an excited message about sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the confused bit about being torn between two women, or confused about possible romantic feelings you might have?

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Is the confused bit about being torn between two women, or confused about possible romantic feelings you might have?"

Yes, a bit of everything if I'm honest.

I think its clearer today tho.

X

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Sounds like a tough one. Glad it is clearer today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the confused bit about being torn between two women, or confused about possible romantic feelings you might have?

Yes, a bit of everything if I'm honest.

I think its clearer today tho.

X"

Good, clearer is good

I can only use my experiences to advise with, but I knew I was bi from being in my mid-teens and thought it was natural. Then I met my first girlfriend at 20, we went at my pace, both sexual and meeting parents and actually having to come out to my family. So if you find the right woman and want to progress things, take it at your pace. Good luck.

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By *airymagic OP   Woman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Is the confused bit about being torn between two women, or confused about possible romantic feelings you might have?

Yes, a bit of everything if I'm honest.

I think its clearer today tho.

X

Good, clearer is good

I can only use my experiences to advise with, but I knew I was bi from being in my mid-teens and thought it was natural. Then I met my first girlfriend at 20, we went at my pace, both sexual and meeting parents and actually having to come out to my family. So if you find the right woman and want to progress things, take it at your pace. Good luck. "

Thanks. But you know what im not after a relationship, currently I dont want anyone hurt.

Especially my injured friend.

My traveling friend is more like me, all over the place like a train wreck.

Im gonna flirt, have fun and see where it takes me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is the confused bit about being torn between two women, or confused about possible romantic feelings you might have?

Yes, a bit of everything if I'm honest.

I think its clearer today tho.

X

Good, clearer is good

I can only use my experiences to advise with, but I knew I was bi from being in my mid-teens and thought it was natural. Then I met my first girlfriend at 20, we went at my pace, both sexual and meeting parents and actually having to come out to my family. So if you find the right woman and want to progress things, take it at your pace. Good luck.

Thanks. But you know what im not after a relationship, currently I dont want anyone hurt.

Especially my injured friend.

My traveling friend is more like me, all over the place like a train wreck.

Im gonna flirt, have fun and see where it takes me x"

Quite sensible.

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