FabSwingers.com forum: Would this idea take off, need mainly men's views for this thread

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right, so as a social is just a social like a hot beverage or a cold pop if the weather was warm, in a public place would it matter if I invited a few men to attend the social?

Would save so much time if I could have 7 or 8 guys all attend the social at the same time. We could all see each other in the flesh, all have a cuppa tea and then go our separate ways to be contacted in due course as to the outcome of the social.

So my question to the men; is it offensive or rude to try and arrange such a thing? I think I would be offended if a guy was meeting me and other women for a social, would feel pressu_ed to look better than the other birds but I know guys think differently so it's the men's views I'm after really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you won the prize for answering your own question...

But I'm just one guy...cant speak for others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

Hehe love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I don't think I'd like that. The dynamic would obviously be different too and might get silly/competitive maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you did this, I'd leave tbh.. for me it would be reflective of the level of respect you had towards me and would immediately put me off.

You'll end up with a complete group of desperados willing to compete for attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, so as a social is just a social like a hot beverage or a cold pop if the weather was warm, in a public place would it matter if I invited a few men to attend the social?

You really do think out the box dont you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds more like a group interview than a social to me... With you as the potential prize.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm just imagining lot's of men charging at each other rutting and head butting.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes, it's disrespectful. I dont think anyone should be treated that way. It also looks very bad on you.

MrB

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

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Might not be a bad idea. I view it as if the guys know there is going to be other guys all trying to get the call back from you. You will be able to see who is at their best.. Especially if these guys know what you're looking for. You would be able to sort the real guys that are actually interested Vs the guys that think they are a gift to women... IDK just an opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I've done that before when I arranged 3 socials in one evening/night giving myself 1.5 hour slots for each person. They all turned up, one brought me a scotch egg, one brought me a pack of steak mccoys and one brought me a banana yazoo.

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg. "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is in no way a generalisation, just my opinion as a chap...

Men are generally competitive by nature, so if you were to line 7 up to compete for a fair maidens attention, the more confident chap may overshadow the quieter ones. As a social with a view to playing I'm not sure how you would be able to establish a connection with any or all of them within a limited time.

I appreciate that if you were in a club this is exactly what would happen and some people do go to clubs just for the social.

As a bloke, I would probably decline such an invitation. I'm confident enough in my own skin to be able to handle myself in a crowd, but not prepa_ed to out-alpha an Alpha male who might be prettier or in better shape than me.

Having said that, it makes a lot of sense to be able to consolidate a social to save on wasting time in meaningless conversation with someone you just don't click with.

Fair play to you for putting the idea out there. You might find that the more delicate male ego might struggle in that scenario.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you take along questions to ask each of them and have them do a group exercise too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg. "

Makes mental note... Bring scotch eggs to socials...bite sized ones, or those huge ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg. "
I would of bought you the scotch eggs I win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a stagge_ed social might work,giving various timings so you only use one evening but see several guys each on their own, so no comp between them

by the way i make hand made chocs so guess what my gift would be mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't do it lol to much pressure to impress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just treat it as an event and be safe, see no reason why not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like my idea of a social is just so we can see each other's in the flesh and make sure we fancy each other.

If I told the people before hand and said that I would buy the teas/coffees etc and it is just so we can see each other's in the flesh, maybe it wouldn't make them feel awkward?

I dunno, like I originally said, I wouldn't like it, thought guys would be a big notebook open to the idea and they could even make some new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't stand in a line. But thanks for the warning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg. "
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Is that just because you love scotch eggs or he was just first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg.

Makes mental note... Bring scotch eggs to socials...bite sized ones, or those huge ones?

The large one with the full egg inside, if you bought the mini ones yeah I'd eat them but I wouldn't be happy about eating them.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Sounds more like a group interview than a social to me... With you as the potential prize. "

OP, I don't imagine you responding well in the slightest if this sort of thing happened to you - seven other women there all lined up for one man. I just treat men as I would want to be treated myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't stand in a line. But thanks for the warning. "

No no, the standing in a line is my army regiment scenario. All men line up waiting for inspection with their penis out. I have to go down the line and look at their willys and bum holes to make sure they aren't smuggling contraband up there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you be running an assessment centre?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of it saves time why not, instead of taking weeks to get through each social you can do it in one night, great idea op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a swimsuit round?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like my idea of a social is just so we can see each other's in the flesh and make sure we fancy each other.

If I told the people before hand and said that I would buy the teas/coffees etc and it is just so we can see each other's in the flesh, maybe it wouldn't make them feel awkward?

I dunno, like I originally said, I wouldn't like it, thought guys would be a big notebook open to the idea and they could even make some new friends. "

Dafuq? Guys would be a bit more open! Fs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg.

Makes mental note... Bring scotch eggs to socials...bite sized ones, or those huge ones?

The large one with the full egg inside, if you bought the mini ones yeah I'd eat them but I wouldn't be happy about eating them. "

Ok thanks.. How about the pork pie with the egg inside... Just to be a bit different? Haha

But in honesty, not sure id like the group interview idea. Sounds a bit intimidating. Am sure all the other guys are lovely blokes, but it would have been you i came to see, not them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg.

Makes mental note... Bring scotch eggs to socials...bite sized ones, or those huge ones?

The large one with the full egg inside, if you bought the mini ones yeah I'd eat them but I wouldn't be happy about eating them. "
What about if I bought you a large scotch bonnet scotch eggs (risky)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it could work if it was a few females maybe if the blokes could Invite one or two females each so its a mini social event and everyone could meet a few new ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest like you say it's only a social

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you did this, I'd leave tbh.. for me it would be reflective of the level of respect you had towards me and would immediately put me off.

You'll end up with a complete group of desperados willing to compete for attention "
very true be like picking straws to see who has the shortest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah, a good idea would be to join forces with another female and have like a mini group social. The downside to that though would be all the guys I want for a social are guys that I fancy and the other female would have to be attracted to the same guys and the guys would have to initially find the other woman attractive as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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why?your not marrying each other and up until the social your virtual strangers, lies you told eachother about yourself a aside.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Sounds more like a group interview than a social to me... With you as the potential prize.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

So why not invite a couple of females and maybe a couple of couples and make a proper event of it that would surely be better for all concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, a good idea would be to join forces with another female and have like a mini group social. The downside to that though would be all the guys I want for a social are guys that I fancy and the other female would have to be attracted to the same guys and the guys would have to initially find the other woman attractive as well. "
Not really! Op when I read this post I thought it was a single women and couple social and your inviting single men, also a good idea. But the word social itself is a melting pot, so I don't see how getting a group of strangers for a social restrictive if anything you might not think you fancy someone and within a few minutes chatting you fancy the pants off or vice versa. I think people take pleasure putting obstacles in front of ideas stifles a lot of good ideas, your only way to know anything is to find out so get your lab coat on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love your thinking! Cracking idea. Quite horny too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, a good idea would be to join forces with another female and have like a mini group social. The downside to that though would be all the guys I want for a social are guys that I fancy and the other female would have to be attracted to the same guys and the guys would have to initially find the other woman attractive as well. Not really! Op when I read this post I thought it was a single women and couple social and your inviting single men, also a good idea. But the word social itself is a melting pot, so I don't see how getting a group of strangers getting together for a social is restrictive!? If anything you might not think you fancy someone and within a few minutes chatting, you end up fancy the pants off each other or vice versa. I think people take pleasure putting obstacles in front of ideas, it stifles a lot of good ideas, your only way to know anything is to find out, so just get your lab coat on."

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Wouldn't be for me at all - anyone I meet I like to think I have a one-on-one connection with for the period of time I spend with them regardless of who else they're meeting, so to be put in direct competition with others would have me declining the invite - unless of course it was a group social with a good mix of others present.

The situation you describe OP gives me a vision of you sat on a throne like an Empress with fags on the go and slippers on your feet

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

You should pitch this to Channel 5, or an obscure satellite channel. They'll make a high-quality game show out of it.

The final round could involve the contestants bringing in a food product, with the woman noshing off the the guy with the most tasty of them.

Seriously though - it wouldn't be for me, as I think socials should be relaxed and free-flowing. I'm sure some guys would be up for it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gutted no guy has said he's not a performing seal.....that must strictly be for bi women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg. "

What would he have got for a greggs steak bake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm gutted no guy has said he's not a performing seal.....that must strictly be for bi women

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You would definitely catch me in an oceanarium if that was the real story

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Right, so as a social is just a social like a hot beverage or a cold pop if the weather was warm, in a public place would it matter if I invited a few men to attend the social?

Hi there!

You must be new here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

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By *cott89Man
over a year ago

prestatyn

Treat people how you would wish to be treated

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg. "

3 course meal and cock - result

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

To be very honest I would not be offended by this as there are so many men on this site. And being given the chance to meet socially it would give everyone an idea of who you are n personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times. "
just pick 3 them ao you can be airtight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Treat people how you would wish to be treated "
Cracker of cold ones with the boyz and savage, list but two of your qualities, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play the game how you see best and hope it doesn't happen to you

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By *ruesome-twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It would be like they were there for an audition and instead of winning a part they'd win you

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Just have a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you like them all and vice versa? How will you decide? They could slug it out in the car park; last man standing walks back in with a scotch egg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you did this, I'd leave tbh.. for me it would be reflective of the level of respect you had towards me and would immediately put me off.

You'll end up with a complete group of desperados willing to compete for attention "

That is probably what she wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times. "

No self-respecting man would turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely come just for the pleasure of seeing you socially as I have no chance otherwise because of my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would definitely come just for the pleasure of seeing you socially as I have no chance otherwise because of my age."

Smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smooth maybe but honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smooth maybe but honest"

Indeed,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you be offended if you turned up along with 7-8 other ladies and I couldn't give you enough attention to find out anything about you ?...for me the whole point of a social is to see if there is any connection ...sounds like you want a speed dating social ...in answer ..no id leave you to it ,if I'm not worth an hour on a social you ain't worth an wasting an hour on tbh

Plenty hard enough for guys on here as it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up "

You would. You only block me cos deep down you're in love with me and having to see me all the time breaks your heart. You know we would be good friends if you didn't put up this charade. I think you're great anyway, I try all the time with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a self obsessed cunt would do this.

If you want to treat people like shit. They will treat you like shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you did this, I'd leave tbh.. for me it would be reflective of the level of respect you had towards me and would immediately put me off.

You'll end up with a complete group of desperados willing to compete for attention

That is probably what she wants

I think you may be right, gotta keep that ego nicely massaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick. "

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Think you won the prize for answering your own question...

But I'm just one guy...cant speak for others.. "

Same hear op.

You answe_ed your own question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

I meet people, if you could see my profile you would see that I meet people, I just don't find that many that I want to give my flower to, I'd give it to you but you'd probably stamp on it like you do with my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see much difference between your idea OP and talking with a bunch of guys in a club.

Wouldn't bother me if a guy did the same. I Wouldn't get involved in group sex. However, I don't see how it's different from being a one on one social, when compa_ed to a guy arranging socials with lots of women you have no idea about.

Try it OP and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

Ok, I am arranging a 'group' meet on Friday . 20 women , I can fit you in between 12.58-13.00

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome back .. again!

It's a no from me for a many reasons but primarily I'm not a performing monkey trying to compete for anyone's attention. Try and put me in a charade where I'm playing off against others to 'win' your approval and I'll be off. Sorry my lovely you're a good looking lass and all that but nobody (on here) is *that* special

If it's a meet in a social environment to ascertain whether I get on with a variety of people I'm after then I'll head along to a mixed social with a mix of men, women and couples!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

Ok, I am arranging a 'group' meet on Friday . 20 women , I can fit you in between 12.58-13.00

2 minutes is fine, I've had guys die inside me in less than 10 seconds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

Ok, I am arranging a 'group' meet on Friday . 20 women , I can fit you in between 12.58-13.00

2 minutes is fine, I've had guys die inside me in less than 10 seconds! "

Sorry, the time slot has gone now, better luck next time

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

You'd be better off going to the zoo if you want to see performing monkeys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, so as a social is just a social like a hot beverage or a cold pop if the weather was warm, in a public place would it matter if I invited a few men to attend the social?

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men are more relaxed and gel better when they meet randomly it kinda would depend if you were closer to some than others as to how much attention they got but you obviously would get all the attention so can see where youre coming from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

Ok, I am arranging a 'group' meet on Friday . 20 women , I can fit you in between 12.58-13.00

2 minutes is fine, I've had guys die inside me in less than 10 seconds! "
die inside you you swallowed them .......oh my I'm not coming

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg. "

haha

Was it because of the scotch egg?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg.

haha

Was it because of the scotch egg?"

Was like the modern day version of the 3 wise men! The one who came baring the scotch egg was the most handsome and he showed signs of using his own initiative cos he told me he put the scotch egg on his dashboard as he was driving cos he said they're better when they're warm!

it's true they are better warm and I always put mine in the micro for 20 seconds, it was like we were both there on the same page so I just had to suck his dick.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

Ok, I am arranging a 'group' meet on Friday . 20 women , I can fit you in between 12.58-13.00

2 minutes is fine, I've had guys die inside me in less than 10 seconds!

Sorry, the time slot has gone now, better luck next time "

Jeez will you two get a room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg.

haha

Was it because of the scotch egg?

it's true they are better warm and I always put mine in the micro for 20 seconds, it was like we were both there on the same page so I just had to suck his dick. "
and now the scotch becomes an egg.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

haha

Was it because of the scotch egg?

it's true they are better warm and I always put mine in the micro for 20 seconds, it was like we were both there on the same page so I just had to suck his dick. "

Thats a good enough reason as any

Off to warm my scotch egg , never tried them warm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great u r thinking of it differently and efficiently .....

Actually the fellow or fellows chosen are the PRIZE ..... they are already doing it by email with our inboxes being full everyday ...... and we filter those down - it's not that much different.

Persistence works and most gentleman whose ego is in tact and he wants to be with you ....will persist ..... it will make no difference to him if others are around - just as if you are in a bar and a few fellows come up to you.

We can see ten men in a room at one time - who are all similar - and we choose one or two we want to be with - it's currently a science study as to why ...

Go for it and let them all know it's a social and who ever attends may make a new friend / mate and end up being your prize - may even lead to two great fellows and you having a super event ...

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg.

haha

Was it because of the scotch egg?"

What kind of damn kinky perviness is this? Cumming with a scotch egg indeed?

On the actual subject in hand, it wouldn't be for me but a little development of the idea would make it a hoot..

I give you 'Speed dating, FAB style..

The usual 3 or 5 mins each with the usual inhibitions missing from the off.. Might find a few meets that way, but similar numbers of men and women, not all for one and one for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

Ok, I am arranging a 'group' meet on Friday . 20 women , I can fit you in between 12.58-13.00

2 minutes is fine, I've had guys die inside me in less than 10 seconds! "
see if Manchesterguy4 was coming absolutely no point in anyone else turning up or maybe this threads for him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

Ok, I am arranging a 'group' meet on Friday . 20 women , I can fit you in between 12.58-13.00

2 minutes is fine, I've had guys die inside me in less than 10 seconds!

Sorry, the time slot has gone now, better luck next time

Jeez will you two get a room

He's just playing hard to get!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if you meet, but they all get along well and ignore you a bit lol

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

Ok, I am arranging a 'group' meet on Friday . 20 women , I can fit you in between 12.58-13.00

2 minutes is fine, I've had guys die inside me in less than 10 seconds! see if Manchesterguy4 was coming absolutely no point in anyone else turning up or maybe this threads for him

I sense sexual tension in the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

Ok, I am arranging a 'group' meet on Friday . 20 women , I can fit you in between 12.58-13.00

2 minutes is fine, I've had guys die inside me in less than 10 seconds! see if Manchesterguy4 was coming absolutely no point in anyone else turning up or maybe this threads for him

I sense sexual tension in the thread

"
I do to wink wink dont tell them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

imagine if a bloke wrote this....he'd be laughed off the fucking page. no, it's a shit idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if you meet, but they all get along well and ignore you a bit lol"

That's fine, the point of my socials is just to give each other the once over in the flesh to establish attraction.

I think anyone that messages me after reading my profile would sort of be on my wavelength anyway so the getting on part would come later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's great u r thinking of it differently and efficiently .....

Actually the fellow or fellows chosen are the PRIZE ..... they are already doing it by email with our inboxes being full everyday ...... and we filter those down - it's not that much different.

We can see ten men in a room at one time - who are all similar - and we choose one or two we want to be with - it's currently a science study as to why ...

Go for it and let them all know it's a social and who ever attends may make a new friend / mate and end up being your prize - may even lead to two great fellows and you having a super event ...

Really can't tell if this is serious or not, but on the off chance haha..

The issue isn't ego at all, I've been to enough local socials for that not to be a thing, it's all about self esteem and respect, how much (or more to the point, little) value does this sort of situation indicate that he OP places in the people she's meeting.. 99% (IMO) of women on here would want to, on some level feel valued by people they're choosing to spend time with, should this not be reciprocated too?

Your profile talks of being treat well, in an old fashioned sense... in that same sense, how would a woman who be behaved in this way be regarded?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It wouldn't bother me. I'm not in competition with anyone.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could end in a gang bang?

But seriously if i turned up to that meet id leave. Unless all the other guys looked like trolls

My social would be all guys that potentially fit what I'm looking for so would be tall, handsome dark hai_ed men with big dicks.

I think I've got the point though.

I would hate it and would feel pretty shit, so it's not a good idea.

But I'm not ruling out multiples socials I'm one day/night.

Saves me having to do make up and have a wash and put tidy clothes on loads of times.

No self-respecting man would turn up

I can't tell you why I block you , it is against the rules. Another new profile ??

Yep everything new, brand new up to date pictures and I'm letting guys message me so taken the filters off.

I dream about your dick.

How exciting, maybe you will actually 'meet' someone this time

Ok, I am arranging a 'group' meet on Friday . 20 women , I can fit you in between 12.58-13.00

2 minutes is fine, I've had guys die inside me in less than 10 seconds! see if Manchesterguy4 was coming absolutely no point in anyone else turning up or maybe this threads for him

I sense sexual tension in the thread

"
suprise count fucking Columbo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if you meet, but they all get along well and ignore you a bit lol

That's fine, the point of my socials is just to give each other the once over in the flesh to establish attraction.

I think anyone that messages me after reading my profile would sort of be on my wavelength anyway so the getting on part would come later. "
see that's first mistake men can't read certainly in the age group on your profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if you meet, but they all get along well and ignore you a bit lol

That's fine, the point of my socials is just to give each other the once over in the flesh to establish attraction.

I think anyone that messages me after reading my profile would sort of be on my wavelength anyway so the getting on part would come later. see that's first mistake men can't read certainly in the age group on your profile x

"
Ah pumpkin; what if it was only you who experienced that? That would be upsetting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if you meet, but they all get along well and ignore you a bit lol

That's fine, the point of my socials is just to give each other the once over in the flesh to establish attraction.

Ah pumpkin; what if it was only you who experienced that? That would be upsetting"
pumpkin ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be off at first chance.

We all know what goes on with this site but purposely flaunting all the other guys. To me would be like queing up at morrisons and take your ticket in line.

But maybe im just over sensitive these days haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's great u r thinking of it differently and efficiently .....

Actually the fellow or fellows chosen are the PRIZE ..... they are already doing it by email with our inboxes being full everyday ...... and we filter those down - it's not that much different.

We can see ten men in a room at one time - who are all similar - and we choose one or two we want to be with - it's currently a science study as to why ...

Go for it and let them all know it's a social and who ever attends may make a new friend / mate and end up being your prize - may even lead to two great fellows and you having a super event ...

Really can't tell if this is serious or not, but on the off chance haha..

Your profile talks of being treat well, in an old fashioned sense... in that same sense, how would a woman who be behaved in this way be regarded? "

Unable to reply privately ....

It depends on what values we use to establish our self esteem - there are gentlemen here that said they would attend and they had no issue with it and other do - It was the OPs question to father data ....

I think I can say I like some qualities of an old fashioned gent and still hold my view point of it's not that different for a bar situation or the inbox being full - it's a group of people getting together who understand the circumstances - it's their choice to attend for what ever reason / value they still choose - I don't think less of them or the OP. We are attracted to people in crowds, group activities and fab socials - it wasn't an interview it's a group of people getting together - it is just a tad different ...

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Like my idea of a social is just so we can see each other's in the flesh and make sure we fancy each other.

If I told the people before hand and said that I would buy the teas/coffees etc and it is just so we can see each other's in the flesh, maybe it wouldn't make them feel awkward?

I dunno, like I originally said, I wouldn't like it, thought guys would be a big notebook open to the idea and they could even make some new friends.

Dafuq? Guys would be a bit more open! Fs! "

Am sure that you will have lots of guys willing to do this, it's if they really would meet with your requirements and needs.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if you meet, but they all get along well and ignore you a bit lol

That's fine, the point of my socials is just to give each other the once over in the flesh to establish attraction.

I think anyone that messages me after reading my profile would sort of be on my wavelength anyway so the getting on part would come later. "
I think it's an alright idea, as long as you tell them then they can't really complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually been to one of these type of socials but with a couple and about 8 blokes I left after about 10mibs as it was a little uncomfortable, I suppose it all depends how desperate people are to meet

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I've actually been to one of these type of socials but with a couple and about 8 blokes I left after about 10mibs as it was a little uncomfortable, I suppose it all depends how desperate people are to meet "

Ha that's quite interesting. Tell us more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will get a few different dynamics of men, these will be,

Mister cool - he will see the social as just that a social. He will

be nice and polite, well dressed and possibly a

forumites.

Mister veri - he will be there to get a veri. He will be quiet and

shy.

Mister potential - he will be the one you have your eye on, but dont let

Him or the others know that.

Mister creep - he will come baring a gift, he possibly will have bad

Breath and/or body odour. He will try to sit next to

you at all times.

ADVICE, buy your own drinks.

Take a female pal with you or invited a female fabber. Who will

Stay with you in till the end.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's great u r thinking of it differently and efficiently .....

Actually the fellow or fellows chosen are the PRIZE ..... they are already doing it by email with our inboxes being full everyday ...... and we filter those down - it's not that much different.

We can see ten men in a room at one time - who are all similar - and we choose one or two we want to be with - it's currently a science study as to why ...

Go for it and let them all know it's a social and who ever attends may make a new friend / mate and end up being your prize - may even lead to two great fellows and you having a super event ...

Really can't tell if this is serious or not, but on the off chance haha..

Your profile talks of being treat well, in an old fashioned sense... in that same sense, how would a woman who be behaved in this way be regarded?

Unable to reply privately ....

The difference for me is in that it would be arranged for one person to effectively cherry pick from a group of blokes, this is different from a social or a pub for me as there are generally more than one option and it's not orchestrated... same goes with socials, although to be honest, I don't go to them to meet someone new anyway.. but in a normal situation there isn't the focus upon one individual.

I'd have to think pretty little of myself or be at a rather high level of desperation to choose to be in that situation and I think that would be reflected in the guys that chose to attend.

Let's face it, sometimes self esteem and respect can be rather sparse here though, so it's not like nobody would go lol

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Ahem. One thing that hasn't been facto_ed in here. We all know that if you want a group of single guys you have to invite 4 times the number due to no shows. So potentially we are talking 40 blokes

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

It's like a horny version of the apprentice.

There's a place near me where the guy makes scotch eggs out of ostrich eggs with 4-5 pounds of sausage, I would've brought one of them and let's see if that tickles your bum

Certainly would be entertaining watching you try to bite it (the ostrich egg that is)

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Right, so as a social is just a social like a hot beverage or a cold pop if the weather was warm, in a public place would it matter if I invited a few men to attend the social?

Will you dish out numbe_ed tickets like in a deli, or the end of 'Beetlejuice'?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Ahem. One thing that hasn't been facto_ed in here. We all know that if you want a group of single guys you have to invite 4 times the number due to no shows. So potentially we are talking 40 blokes

Yep, the 'scattergun approach' like most guys are accused of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a horny version of the apprentice.

There's a place near me where the guy makes scotch eggs out of ostrich eggs with 4-5 pounds of sausage, I would've brought one of them and let's see if that tickles your bum

Certainly would be entertaining watching you try to bite it (the ostrich egg that is)

"
No man around here stands so confident as the man what holds the scotch ostrich egg

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Right, so as a social is just a social like a hot beverage or a cold pop if the weather was warm, in a public place would it matter if I invited a few men to attend the social?

Will you dish out numbe_ed tickets like in a deli, or the end of 'Beetlejuice'?

I think she should do score cards like ice skating

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Could be a bukkake coffee meet with those numbers

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Sounds more like a group interview than a social to me... With you as the potential prize.

And there you have it. She wouldn't like it done to her but maybe willing to do it to others. Is that not double standards?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm just imagining lot's of men charging at each other rutting and head butting."

Rutting and butting is the aim.

OP, if a man did this to you how would you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You will get a few different dynamics of men, these will be,

Mister cool - he will see the social as just that a social. He will

be nice and polite, well dressed and possibly a

forumites.

Mister veri - he will be there to get a veri. He will be quiet and

shy.

Mister potential - he will be the one you have your eye on, but dont let

Him or the others know that.

Mister creep - he will come baring a gift, he possibly will have bad

Breath and/or body odour. He will try to sit next to

you at all times.

ADVICE, buy your own drinks.

Take a female pal with you or invited a female fabber. Who will

Stay with you in till the end.

PTU xxx "
ha oh my the circles one leads

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I would definitely come just for the pleasure of seeing you socially as I have no chance otherwise because of my age."

But you have to fit the exacting criteria before getting an invitation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another thing I've just thought of is, it can be kinda wierd being the centre of attention. I felt far more comfortable when there was over 5 at mine cos folk then started talking to each other and too some of the pressure of "host" off me. Xx

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"I wouldn't tell them...

just invite them all and see who turns up

I sucked off the guy who came with the scotch egg. "

Brilliant

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ahem. One thing that hasn't been facto_ed in here. We all know that if you want a group of single guys you have to invite 4 times the number due to no shows. So potentially we are talking 40 blokes

Tis true. When I go on Fab Tour and try and organise socials I get 20 men say they want to attend. I tell them it's social only and they won't be the only one there and usually none turn up. Admittedly, I do not have the OP's charms but I'm still big boobed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You will get a few different dynamics of men, these will be,

Mister cool - he will see the social as just that a social. He will

be nice and polite, well dressed and possibly a

forumites.

Mister veri - he will be there to get a veri. He will be quiet and

shy.

Mister potential - he will be the one you have your eye on, but dont let

Him or the others know that.

Mister creep - he will come baring a gift, he possibly will have bad

Breath and/or body odour. He will try to sit next to

you at all times.

ADVICE, buy your own drinks.

Take a female pal with you or invited a female fabber. Who will

Stay with you in till the end.

PTU xxx ha oh my the circles one leads

Spoken for experience I have you know! All tho my second social fell flat on it's arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm

Surprised that some people see this as a double standard .....

Just because I like eggs doesn't mean others HAVE TO LIKE EGGS

Just because i don't like beer doesn't mean others have to dislike beer

Some see the OPs suggestion as unfair as she doesn't like the idea of it being reversed however the reality is .....

Some fellows receive ten emails a week and we receive hund_eds so it's not possible to reverse the situation.

Some fellows say how difficult it is for them .... we have literally hund_eds of plates laid before us per week - how would you choose ?

It's efficient. The goal is to have fun and sexual play - it's not double standards as it's fair - it's just a code of behaviour and we are all different ....

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Only to a 100 per cent put out guaranteed gang bang ... Imagine if a bloke invited a whole bunch of ladies to Costa's for coffee

fur would fly

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Honestly, I don't think I'd like that. The dynamic would obviously be different too and might get silly/competitive maybe. "

Yep crazy idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm All for it, what time and where? First round is on me lads.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Surely each guy deserves some one to one time with you.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Surely each guy deserves some one to one time with you."

Yes I think she suggested like a minute and a half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If everyone is happy to do it what's the problem

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Surely each guy deserves some one to one time with you.

Yes I think she suggested like a minute and a half

Well I suppose you kinda know in that time if you find then attractive face to face. I know I sure as hell wouldn't do it if it was me and 7 other women meeting one guy,sod that!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"If you did this, I'd leave tbh.. for me it would be reflective of the level of respect you had towards me and would immediately put me off.

You'll end up with a complete group of desperados willing to compete for attention "

This

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"If everyone is happy to do it what's the problem"

If its what you want to do, do it as lomg as the men know.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm

Surprised that some people see this as a double standard .....

Just because I like eggs doesn't mean others HAVE TO LIKE EGGS

Just because i don't like beer doesn't mean others have to dislike beer

Some see the OPs suggestion as unfair as she doesn't like the idea of it being reversed however the reality is .....

Some fellows receive ten emails a week and we receive hund_eds so it's not possible to reverse the situation.

Some fellows say how difficult it is for them .... we have literally hund_eds of plates laid before us per week - how would you choose ?

It's efficient. The goal is to have fun and sexual play - it's not double standards as it's fair - it's just a code of behaviour and we are all different ....

Each to their own but I absolutely know people behave differently in groups and one to one. If even that slight change in body language can change how you see someone doesn't go some way to defeating the point of the exercise?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Surely each guy deserves some one to one time with you.

Yes I think she suggested like a minute and a half

Well I suppose you kinda know in that time if you find then attractive face to face. I know I sure as hell wouldn't do it if it was me and 7 other women meeting one guy,sod that!"

Hmm well either way, as a self proclaimed geeedy girl I don't see the need to be selective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure how I'd feel Turning up to meet and there being various other guy there for the same woman, but if the men involved were told before hand what was happening and they still agreed to go then I don't see any problem with it

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"Sounds more like a group interview than a social to me... With you as the potential prize. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would feel like I wouldn't be able to talk and get to know them as individuals so therefore a waste of time.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Personally I find it very degrading and distasteful and I know for a fact YOU would never put up with that behaviour, why you think men should put up and suck it up is beyond me.....

Especially as you left last week because you thought some guy had ghosted you, with your full consent you allowed yourself to be wank fodder and felt horrible for feeling used! Yet you come up with this idea? Really?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I find it very degrading and distasteful and I know for a fact YOU would never put up with that behaviour, why you think men should put up and suck it up is beyond me.....

Yeah thanks for bringing that up again. I deleted that account cos I felt like a loser for posting it and didn't want the association with anything contained in that thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely each guy deserves some one to one time with you."
yes he does but will he get it that's the question

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Personally I find it very degrading and distasteful and I know for a fact YOU would never put up with that behaviour, why you think men should put up and suck it up is beyond me.....

Yeah thanks for bringing that up again. I deleted that account cos I felt like a loser for posting it and didn't want the association with anything contained in that thread. "

Well it was only a week ago, did you think we'd all forget in that short space of time? Of course if it was a year ago I'd be a right dick bringing it up, but it proves my point about my original post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alright our Graham, Cilla 'ere...

We've got 8 hunky chaps looking for a lorra lorra fun with our Miss Wilkes.

So question 1 to contestant 1, 3, 4, 5, 6 and 8

If you were bringing a present to our girl, what would it be and can it be bought in Greggs

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It wouldn't bother me. I'm not in competition with anyone. "
it's only a social and besides which, I'd talk to the men as well. With 8 guys, the chances are there's another bi guy anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It wouldn't bother me. I'm not in competition with anyone. it's only a social and besides which, I'd talk to the men as well. With 8 guys, the chances are there's another bi guy anyway. "

And they will all be 'fab straight'

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It wouldn't bother me. I'm not in competition with anyone. it's only a social and besides which, I'd talk to the men as well. With 8 guys, the chances are there's another bi guy anyway.

And they will all be 'fab straight' "

They might eye me up instead of the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It wouldn't bother me. I'm not in competition with anyone. it's only a social and besides which, I'd talk to the men as well. With 8 guys, the chances are there's another bi guy anyway.

And they will all be 'fab straight'

They might eye me up instead of the OP

They are only human after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alright our Graham, Cilla 'ere...

We've got 8 hunky chaps looking for a lorra lorra fun with our Miss Wilkes.

So question 1 to contestant 1, 3, 4, 5, 6 and 8

If you were bringing a present to our girl, what would it be and can it be bought in Greggs

Would buy her a chameleon

from the pet shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey! Soo many unexpected twists and turns in this thread

Interesting idea, but not for me. I would never attend a social or any other event similar like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nah I'm not going to do it for reasons that I originally said and that's that I wouldn't like the same some to me.

I think multiple socials in one evening is ok though, they are only socials but even then I find it hard to concentrate on more than one guy at a time. Like there will be one I like more than the rest and then it stops being fair.

Need to know how to spread my desire (if that's the right word?) out between more than one guy cos then if one goes tits up there's another one there to cushion the blow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know women can multi task but blimey

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By *lue9753Man
over a year ago

Oldham

For me it would be fine if ypu dont contact aftrewards then hey ho so what move on. I think from a woman's point of view if you don't have much spare time then go for it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A friend of mine did that. Just 2 or 3 guys but she told them and it worked out fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, so as a social is just a social like a hot beverage or a cold pop if the weather was warm, in a public place would it matter if I invited a few men to attend the social?

The answer is No.

Good luck!

Carl Anthony

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By *lirtingentMan
over a year ago

Stroud

"Right, so as a social is just a social like a hot beverage or a cold pop if the weather was warm, in a public place would it matter if I invited a few men to attend the social?

Sounds a bit like 'speed fabbing' - it would work for me

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I think you should number them. 1 through to 8. Maybe little sashes. So much more convenient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, if we're talking welsh men they're likely to start banging on about Rugby/Football to each other and bugger off to the nearest Sports Bar. They can't half yap about sport.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dunno, if we're talking welsh men they're likely to start banging on about Rugby/Football to each other and bugger off to the nearest Sports Bar. They can't half yap about sport.

I know it's different region to region like guys down here would embrace it I think and be like alright butt how's it going alright, and they'd just get amongst it!

I still wouldn't like it though, maybe if a local a lady came on the social too,wink wink nudge nudge!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I dunno, if we're talking welsh men they're likely to start banging on about Rugby/Football to each other and bugger off to the nearest Sports Bar. They can't half yap about sport.

What about forming a male voice choir?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you should number them. 1 through to 8. Maybe little sashes. So much more convenient."

I don't want to have a sash with 'Number 2' on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread, however bizarre the original premise was. As a matter of interest, what percentage of social meets (one on one) result eventually in a future sex meet. Just interested in people's experience?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Same friend and I used to do small socials. There were often plenty of men so it worked in a similar way

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Interesting thread, however bizarre the original premise was. As a matter of interest, what percentage of social meets (one on one) result eventually in a future sex meet. Just interested in people's experience? "

I've not done the math but I've had some wonderful times after meeting guys socially the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 is the most powerful number in the World

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dunno, if we're talking welsh men they're likely to start banging on about Rugby/Football to each other and bugger off to the nearest Sports Bar. They can't half yap about sport.

I know it's different region to region like guys down here would embrace it I think and be like alright butt how's it going alright, and they'd just get amongst it!

I still wouldn't like it though, maybe if a local a lady came on the social too,wink wink nudge nudge! "

nice try!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There was a thread on that last week, I think.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"7 is the most powerful number in the World

I thought 42 was

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I think you should number them. 1 through to 8. Maybe little sashes. So much more convenient.

I don't want to have a sash with 'Number 2' on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a load of men together, say you can't make up your mind, say there is only one way to sort it out FIGHT!

Video it, repeat, make a series of brawl videos called fabstraight wrestle maniacs. Retire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"7 is the most powerful number in the World

I thought 42 was

No. It is number 7.

Shall I send you some words that prove the same?

Regards

Jackdaw1888

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

I could only see this working if you was arranging a gang bang then everyone could meet up and set ground rules before the play starts

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

If you pick them on looks and cock size why not try 7 Men but in 7 different areas or bars, Tell them you only have half an hour for a social, I'm sure you could judge someone's personality and if you want to take it further in that time,

Speed dating on the high street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few ladies over do that for newbies to help them get verified, but if you're looking at these guys as potential meets then I'd say few would turn up. I had a social meet once and when I arrived I was introduced to about 10 other fabbers and instead of moving to a more private table she say ther with the others.....just say it was very awkward to say the least and didn't get to know her at all.

Worst social ever lol

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