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"Yup, we've blocked loads of people. Mostly ones local to us" i can understand that. But none of these are local. | |||
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"Ive come acrosss a few profiles that have blocked me and i have never interacted with them at all. Is this common on here?" Yes | |||
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"Yup, we've blocked loads of people. Mostly ones local to us" | |||
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"Yup, we've blocked loads of people. Mostly ones local to us i can understand that. But none of these are local." How do you know not local if you cant see their profile? Also it could be someone you sent a message before but now they have changed their profile name so you dont realise? They may have reported a pic or a forum post in the past ... often admin just block both profiles from seeing each other after this to avoid further interaction | |||
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"Think yourself lucky OP It's worse when you've interacted with them and realised what a twonk they are and had to block them on those grounds " Great tits!! | |||
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"Yup, we've blocked loads of people. Mostly ones local to us i can understand that. But none of these are local." Maybe they don't like the look of yr profile so blocked u any way.. wouldn't worry about it x | |||
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"Yup, we've blocked loads of people. Mostly ones local to us i can understand that. But none of these are local. How do you know not local if you cant see their profile? Also it could be someone you sent a message before but now they have changed their profile name so you dont realise? They may have reported a pic or a forum post in the past ... often admin just block both profiles from seeing each other after this to avoid further interaction " can see locations in forum. Its no loss i just wonder why? | |||
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"Ive come acrosss a few profiles that have blocked me and i have never interacted with them at all. Is this common on here?" yup | |||
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"Think yourself lucky OP It's worse when you've interacted with them and realised what a twonk they are and had to block them on those grounds Great tits!!" thanks | |||
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"Who would do such a thing? " you had better unblock me right now | |||
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"They might have all men blocked, can that be done or can you only block a whole group from messaging?" fully blocked from even viewing the profile/s | |||
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"Yes, I block for loads of different reasons. And I'm sure people who I've never interacted with have blocked me. It's called being proactive." lol you blocked me | |||
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"Yes, been blocked by folk, only noticed as phone is a bit crap and sometimes inadvertently open a profile when scrolling and occasionally find am blocked " I've found some people from the forums have blocked me because of that, or they join a best this or that thread. I look to see the particularly photo and can't | |||
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"They might have all men blocked, can that be done or can you only block a whole group from messaging? fully blocked from even viewing the profile/s" Maybe they saw you peeping through my window yesterday and you scared them | |||
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"They might have all men blocked, can that be done or can you only block a whole group from messaging? fully blocked from even viewing the profile/s Maybe they saw you peeping through my window yesterday and you scared them " i was under your bed | |||
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"How is blocking someone you have never interacted with being pro active? Its called being rude in my opinion. " How can using a tool the site gives us to use be rude? | |||
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"How is blocking someone you have never interacted with being pro active? Its called being rude in my opinion. " You don't wish to meet them for whatever reason so you block to prevent contact. Would you rather they didn't block you so you possibly wasted your time messaging them for them not to be interested? | |||
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"i do the block above posts.. see ive got balls to do them post/threads" clicking on block doesnt mean you have balls. You are only denying yourself by blocking someone you dont know | |||
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"Its says you have some kind of problem with me? Or why else would you block? I would only block someone if they harrased me. " some block as your not their type or you may have rejected them some block for whatever reason they choose thats life | |||
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"How is blocking someone you have never interacted with being pro active? Its called being rude in my opinion. You don't wish to meet them for whatever reason so you block to prevent contact. Would you rather they didn't block you so you possibly wasted your time messaging them for them not to be interested? " i rarely meassage. And if i do it would be to pay a compliment maybe not to beg or ask for sex. All men are not desperate pathetic losers who message every girl on here and get butt hurt when they get rejected | |||
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"Its says you have some kind of problem with me? Or why else would you block? I would only block someone if they harrased me. " Not at all, it's more the case that I know I'm not someone's type because of things they've said on the forums. It saves me looking a tit and messaging someone who's type I'm not | |||
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"Its says you have some kind of problem with me? Or why else would you block? I would only block someone if they harrased me. " You will find it's mainly off the forums. If you didn't view the forums you would not know you had been blocked...as you would not ever see the person who has blocked you. We all say things here that someone will take exception to....so hence you got blocked...it happens move on | |||
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"Its says you have some kind of problem with me? Or why else would you block? I would only block someone if they harrased me. Not at all, it's more the case that I know I'm not someone's type because of things they've said on the forums. It saves me looking a tit and messaging someone who's type I'm not " so because someone isnt yours or my type that means you can have no interaction with that peraon so you should go ahead and block them. Well thats very narrow minded as all people seem to say in here is "its not a sex site" what the hell is it then? I will interact with most people aslong as they are not rude | |||
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"op what the problem you find in being blocked ? look on it as a great escape they might have crabs " cant get them twice | |||
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"Its says you have some kind of problem with me? Or why else would you block? I would only block someone if they harrased me. Not at all, it's more the case that I know I'm not someone's type because of things they've said on the forums. It saves me looking a tit and messaging someone who's type I'm not so because someone isnt yours or my type that means you can have no interaction with that peraon so you should go ahead and block them. Well thats very narrow minded as all people seem to say in here is "its not a sex site" what the hell is it then? I will interact with most people aslong as they are not rude " op i am blocked by an army guy in the forums and i thank him iam .. hes very anti ts/cd and very agressive in threads about ts/cd so hes done me a favour | |||
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"How is blocking someone you have never interacted with being pro active? Its called being rude in my opinion. You don't wish to meet them for whatever reason so you block to prevent contact. Would you rather they didn't block you so you possibly wasted your time messaging them for them not to be interested? i rarely meassage. And if i do it would be to pay a compliment maybe not to beg or ask for sex. All men are not desperate pathetic losers who message every girl on here and get butt hurt when they get rejected " Where in that did I say all men were desperate or imply your were? Feel free to Remove bee from bonnet anytime you like | |||
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"Its says you have some kind of problem with me? Or why else would you block? I would only block someone if they harrased me. Not at all, it's more the case that I know I'm not someone's type because of things they've said on the forums. It saves me looking a tit and messaging someone who's type I'm not so because someone isnt yours or my type that means you can have no interaction with that peraon so you should go ahead and block them. Well thats very narrow minded as all people seem to say in here is "its not a sex site" what the hell is it then? I will interact with most people aslong as they are not rude op i am blocked by an army guy in the forums and i thank him iam .. hes very anti ts/cd and very agressive in threads about ts/cd so hes done me a favour" i understand that. But i have never come across aggresive toward anyone in here | |||
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"Not one person on my blocklist" But how many block lists are you on eh | |||
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"Not one person on my blocklist But how many block lists are you on eh " iam on yours from my block the post above | |||
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"i would bang the op hard in the bum, who else would cock or strap on is fine????" you are outspoken arent you | |||
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"Not one person on my blocklist But how many block lists are you on eh iam on yours from my block the post above " Location | |||
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"i would bang the op hard in the bum, who else would cock or strap on is fine???? you are outspoken arent you " init to win it | |||
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"Not one person on my blocklist But how many block lists are you on eh " Dunno,i got blocked alot on my other profile as i spoke my mind in the forums,probably happen again ha | |||
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"Not one person on my blocklist But how many block lists are you on eh Dunno,i got blocked alot on my other profile as i spoke my mind in the forums,probably happen again ha" Feck me if you come back again you'll only be in your 40s | |||
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"Its says you have some kind of problem with me? Or why else would you block? I would only block someone if they harrased me. Not at all, it's more the case that I know I'm not someone's type because of things they've said on the forums. It saves me looking a tit and messaging someone who's type I'm not so because someone isnt yours or my type that means you can have no interaction with that peraon so you should go ahead and block them. Well thats very narrow minded as all people seem to say in here is "its not a sex site" what the hell is it then? I will interact with most people aslong as they are not rude " There are plenty of people you can interact with still. | |||
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"Not one person on my blocklist But how many block lists are you on eh Dunno,i got blocked alot on my other profile as i spoke my mind in the forums,probably happen again ha" I have no idea who you were before | |||
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"How is blocking someone you have never interacted with being pro active? Its called being rude in my opinion. " Why is it being rude? They don't want to interact with you, for whatever reason. I'm blocked by many, for their own reasons. If I find I'm blocked I ignore their posts on the forum and don't try and get around the block. | |||
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"Not one person on my blocklist But how many block lists are you on eh Dunno,i got blocked alot on my other profile as i spoke my mind in the forums,probably happen again ha I have no idea who you were before " Some old bloke | |||
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"How is blocking someone you have never interacted with being pro active? Its called being rude in my opinion. You don't wish to meet them for whatever reason so you block to prevent contact. Would you rather they didn't block you so you possibly wasted your time messaging them for them not to be interested? i rarely meassage. And if i do it would be to pay a compliment maybe not to beg or ask for sex. All men are not desperate pathetic losers who message every girl on here and get butt hurt when they get rejected " Well you seem to have a lot of butt hurt from being blocked so.... | |||
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"How is blocking someone you have never interacted with being pro active? Its called being rude in my opinion. " No it isn't rude. i agree its pro active. No one like wasting their time or others right? Well if they saw someone they didn't like for whatever reason, it's far better to block right away. Saves any potential awkward conversations and rejections. Its just a usual tool. You seem really bothered by whats happened to you? Don't be. Move on to someone who does like you. | |||
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"I have two people on my block list for being abusive. Are the people who get block happy the same ones who moan that "fab ain't what it used to be" and they can't get a meet? Is that because they've blocked most of the site? " I block people if i find their statuses offensive For example they talk about women on here being sluts or slag off fat girls ... i dont need this person to message me to know i dont like their disrespectful attitude and we wont get on so i am proactive by blocking them to save both our time and to make sure i dont forget about it once they have taken it down | |||
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"It happens to me too. I guess some use it because theyre either not interested or already messagedcabd had no reply. Saves them seeing me pop up when they do a search. " why would anyone block you? | |||
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"I have two people on my block list for being abusive. Are the people who get block happy the same ones who moan that "fab ain't what it used to be" and they can't get a meet? Is that because they've blocked most of the site? I block people if i find their statuses offensive For example they talk about women on here being sluts or slag off fat girls ... i dont need this person to message me to know i dont like their disrespectful attitude and we wont get on so i am proactive by blocking them to save both our time and to make sure i dont forget about it once they have taken it down " I use the private notes feature in the same way, so if someone messages me I know why I'm deleting the message. I find with a massive block list, into which I'll occasionally peek because I'm a forgetful yet nosey person, I just can't recall why they're there in the first place. | |||
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"It seems worthless worrying about people who have blocked you." | |||
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"Some people read shit you say on the forums dont like it and bloçk you. " yes that must happen a lot to you | |||
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"How is blocking someone you have never interacted with being pro active? Its called being rude in my opinion. " I would say sometimes it's pointless. There's probably lots of people who have blocked me I have no idea about. It's like the finding out accidentally that someone from the forums has blocked me. It makes me wonder what they thought I would find interesting about their profile and why I would want to look at them. | |||
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"It seems worthless worrying about people who have blocked you." | |||
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"I have two people on my block list for being abusive. Are the people who get block happy the same ones who moan that "fab ain't what it used to be" and they can't get a meet? Is that because they've blocked most of the site? I block people if i find their statuses offensive For example they talk about women on here being sluts or slag off fat girls ... i dont need this person to message me to know i dont like their disrespectful attitude and we wont get on so i am proactive by blocking them to save both our time and to make sure i dont forget about it once they have taken it down I use the private notes feature in the same way, so if someone messages me I know why I'm deleting the message. I find with a massive block list, into which I'll occasionally peek because I'm a forgetful yet nosey person, I just can't recall why they're there in the first place. " Im too much of a flip flopper of a person to do it your way lol ... a hottie with an attitude would send me a message ... my private note would say a**hole but then i would be like i cant remember what he actually did now maybe it wasnt that bad ... blocking saves me the time and saves me from my superficial hormones haha | |||
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"Ive come acrosss a few profiles that have blocked me and i have never interacted with them at all. Is this common on here?" I sometimes block people who I know I will never meet. Especially the ones that keep poping up my way and I waste time looking at their profiles only to realise that I had already ruled them out. It's a way of tiding up the "paper work". | |||
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"Some people read shit you say on the forums dont like it and bloçk you. " Those I find the funniest. They can still see the shit I write on the forums, and I can still see theirs. If I don't know I have been blocked, I'm still commenting on their threads or replying to a comment they make. | |||
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"Some people read shit you say on the forums dont like it and bloçk you. yes that must happen a lot to you " Hilariously often. I usualy find our when they pm me some hilariously shit put down then reblock me. Often a few times in a row as a thread progresses. If i wasnt so awesome I'd probbaly start taking it personally. | |||
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"Ive come acrosss a few profiles that have blocked me and i have never interacted with them at all. Is this common on here?" They may have blocked men under a certain age and so its you personally but all men under or over a set age | |||
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"Some people read shit you say on the forums dont like it and bloçk you. yes that must happen a lot to you Hilariously often. I usualy find our when they pm me some hilariously shit put down then reblock me. Often a few times in a row as a thread progresses. If i wasnt so awesome I'd probbaly start taking it personally." an insult with a compliment best way to | |||
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"I have two people on my block list for being abusive. Are the people who get block happy the same ones who moan that "fab ain't what it used to be" and they can't get a meet? Is that because they've blocked most of the site? I block people if i find their statuses offensive For example they talk about women on here being sluts or slag off fat girls ... i dont need this person to message me to know i dont like their disrespectful attitude and we wont get on so i am proactive by blocking them to save both our time and to make sure i dont forget about it once they have taken it down I use the private notes feature in the same way, so if someone messages me I know why I'm deleting the message. I find with a massive block list, into which I'll occasionally peek because I'm a forgetful yet nosey person, I just can't recall why they're there in the first place. Im too much of a flip flopper of a person to do it your way lol ... a hottie with an attitude would send me a message ... my private note would say a**hole but then i would be like i cant remember what he actually did now maybe it wasnt that bad ... blocking saves me the time and saves me from my superficial hormones haha " Haha I'm the same with my block list. If I let it build up I have a peek and think hmm he's hot wonder why I blocked him, so I'll unblock to look at the profile. My private notes are short and brutal, no doubt left in my mind | |||
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"Ive come acrosss a few profiles that have blocked me and i have never interacted with them at all. Is this common on here?" same here so it odd when people do that without knowing you. | |||
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"Yep. It's common. I block; Idiots People who actively don't like freaks like me. (Idiots) Racists (racists) Bare backers (roulette players) People who don't like bi guys (freaks) People who don't like penguins " You've not blocked me, I must have slipped under your idiot radar | |||
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"Yep. It's common. I block; Idiots People who actively don't like freaks like me. (Idiots) Racists (racists) Bare backers (roulette players) People who don't like bi guys (freaks) People who don't like penguins " Not liking penguins being the worst offence of course And good luck this weekend my lovely | |||
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"I have two people on my block list for being abusive. Are the people who get block happy the same ones who moan that "fab ain't what it used to be" and they can't get a meet? Is that because they've blocked most of the site? I block people if i find their statuses offensive For example they talk about women on here being sluts or slag off fat girls ... i dont need this person to message me to know i dont like their disrespectful attitude and we wont get on so i am proactive by blocking them to save both our time and to make sure i dont forget about it once they have taken it down I use the private notes feature in the same way, so if someone messages me I know why I'm deleting the message. I find with a massive block list, into which I'll occasionally peek because I'm a forgetful yet nosey person, I just can't recall why they're there in the first place. Im too much of a flip flopper of a person to do it your way lol ... a hottie with an attitude would send me a message ... my private note would say a**hole but then i would be like i cant remember what he actually did now maybe it wasnt that bad ... blocking saves me the time and saves me from my superficial hormones haha Haha I'm the same with my block list. If I let it build up I have a peek and think hmm he's hot wonder why I blocked him, so I'll unblock to look at the profile. My private notes are short and brutal, no doubt left in my mind " **off topic** Just had a nosy at your profile ... love that blindfold fantasy ... its one of mine too but my stupid sensible brain tells me its one that will never be ticked off for the whole safety crap | |||
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"It happens to me too. I guess some use it because theyre either not interested or already messagedcabd had no reply. Saves them seeing me pop up when they do a search. " Bunny, I'll never block you. If you ever come across a closed door, My arms are always open for your body and pretty eyes! I know that my jaw will hit the floor, when I meet you, but my dick will rise to the skies! You may be in Scotland,a bit far and living in the realm of happiness. But after I take you to the local bar, I can make you realise your true fruitfulness! I'll massage your body petite, Make you orgasm 10 times,no shit! You will be moaning, begging for more, How can I reject you? You ain't a whore! Lovely atire, beautiful bum, Nothing will ever square the sum! Till you push me further, Making me cum, Over the rainbow I thought I was done. Don't be shy, darling, Send me a mail, You won't taste garlic, Your worries I'll dispel. | |||
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"People who use the forum have increased chances to be blocked compared to others, due to us posting opinions etc that others don't like us for." I think I block non forum users more. But the forum is definitely useful for anti pyscho blocking usually single scarey fem | |||
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"People who use the forum have increased chances to be blocked compared to others, due to us posting opinions etc that others don't like us for." Opinions are like arseholes... Everyone has one, but some people's stink. | |||
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"We don't like blocking and it bothers me when we get blocked. And it's not like we're the type of people who are going to make a nuisance of ourselves or get in someone's way, so not sure what blocking us really achieves. We have blocked people as an absolute last resort. I would not block anyone on the forum because that restricts forum discussion. Mrs" this | |||
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"Yes, I block for loads of different reasons. And I'm sure people who I've never interacted with have blocked me. It's called being proactive." Just tbis | |||
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"i do the block above posts.. see ive got balls to do them post/threads clicking on block doesnt mean you have balls. You are only denying yourself by blocking someone you dont know" denying myself what? | |||
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"Ive come acrosss a few profiles that have blocked me and i have never interacted with them at all. Is this common on here?" I block lots that I just come across on the forums, simply because I don't like their attitude. Saves hassle should they decide to contact me. | |||
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"How is blocking someone you have never interacted with being pro active? Its called being rude in my opinion. You don't wish to meet them for whatever reason so you block to prevent contact. Would you rather they didn't block you so you possibly wasted your time messaging them for them not to be interested? i rarely meassage. And if i do it would be to pay a compliment maybe not to beg or ask for sex. All men are not desperate pathetic losers who message every girl on here and get butt hurt when they get rejected " So if you don't get butt hurt why make a big deal out of being blocked. If you've posted something on the threads someone didn't agree with or like then possibly they blocked you for that that's not for no reason if we come across a profile and we really don't think there for us we will block them it's not rude it just stops them popping up on our searches and stops them from contacting us don't see the point in profiles that were not interested in keep popping up or them contacting us. | |||
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"How is blocking someone you have never interacted with being pro active? Its called being rude in my opinion. " It's not being rude it's simply they wish to keep themselves private. It's like drawing the curtains at home so people can't see in. Is that rude behaviour? I think not. They have excluded solely you but others as well. They have NOT offended you or been rude. It is you who has taken offence at someone else's wish to remain private. | |||
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