FabSwingers.com forum: Men do all of the chasing.. or am I doing something wrong?

By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

I realise that in society it is usually men that chase the women. ..

I accept this..

I just find it odd that I am really bubbly and fun.. in great shape for my age (42) and have great verifications..

Yet I get very few ladies approaching me...

Am I doing something wrong?

Please tell me..

Cheers guys..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't decide if you are being serious or not Dude...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Erm, maybe the women who chase men just don't want to chase you? Doesn't mean you're doing something wrong as such, just they're not attracted to you.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.

Oooh! Johnson!!... Did you use that one already on your naming thread? Be a cracker for anyone named John

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.

Oooh! Johnson!!... Did you use that one already on your naming thread? Be a cracker for anyone named John

Not yet. I feel it's too obvious.

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"I can't decide if you are being serious or not Dude...

I'm serious man...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message ladies and chase them.

I often think men like chasing, that's part of what they enjoy. Like greyhounds chasing a rabbit, once caught onto the next rabbit.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Don't worry, stick with the formula you've got, it seems to work.

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.

Oooh! Johnson!!... Did you use that one already on your naming thread? Be a cracker for anyone named John

Not yet. I feel it's too obvious. "

Funny fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't decide if you are being serious or not Dude...

I'm serious man...

Then you know surely, from how long you've been on here and how I've seen you around the forums, that there are so many fellas that the majority of ladies do not feel the need to do any approaching. And the ones that do their own searching are very few and far between, Geezer.

Still... Nice look at me thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never initiate contact because I'm not meeting, but I still get interest from women approaching me. I didn't get as much interest when I was actively seeking to meet though. It's a perverse world

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you."

Thanks i appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do no first messages or chasing if they want me then come look for me

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"I can't decide if you are being serious or not Dude...

I'm serious man...

Still... Nice look at me thread

It was a good try wasn't it.. still hasn't worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????"

To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.

You.?

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.

Johnson... is that a motor bike? I best get out buy one!

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you."

I'm just looking at it from the law of averages point of view... I would say at least 40k ladies as the site...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????

To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.

You.?"

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you."

But no veris?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i dont chase, i make obvious through my status, where i am going, that way people can, if they wish, come and say hi. Their choice and, no chasing needed from anyone. If we hit it off, i arrange to see them at a time mutually convenient..simple..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris? "

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris? "

I've got varies.. or don't they show if you're not a supporter? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't decide if you are being serious or not Dude...

I'm serious man...

Still... Nice look at me thread

It was a good try wasn't it.. still hasn't worked

Maybe you should post lots of threads on the same subject every day.......oh wait a minute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't chase men, if I want to chase something I will buy a dog XXX

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris? "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

I've got varies.. or don't they show if you're not a supporter? X"
not sure to be honest, I've always been a supporter so I'm assuming you can display even if you aren't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?"

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't chase men, if I want to chase something I will buy a dog XXX"

I dont chase women or men or dogs! I dont even watch the chase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't chase men, if I want to chase something I will buy a dog XXX

I dont chase women or men or dogs! I dont even watch the chase"

Or drink chasers

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

No chasing guys for me anyway, men love the chase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple I seem to chase couples and females but accept being a BBW not everyone wants or likes that. I think everyone likes diffrent things xx

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

The behaviour of people on fab reflects that if real life. Women, as indeed, men, are inherently lazy. Therefore, if you get loads of amazing confidence boosting offers, by doing jack shit, you ain't going to be doing much of the running...

Society needs to change before the behaviour of the women on a website does. It's ironic, because in my opinion, many of society's problems would be solved by women changing their values regarding sex.

Once women feel that it acceptable (in general, not fab) to admit enjoying sex for its own sake, and not doing it for obligation/reward and can admit to enjoying it without risking the criticism of other women, then we might see more equality, less jealous and frustration. Possibly then, a reduction in hatred and violence.

So girls, but that fit guy a drink, and send him a message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to be chased, or pestered, or rushed into something I don't want to do. When a man contacts me we talk until we feel we both want to meet. I can't do anything about how soon that is for him. If it's sooner than I'm ready for he has to be prepared to wait. It's not that complicated really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to do the chase. I get fed up of the bullshit messages telling me the same as they've told every other woman they've messaged...

plus, I just like to be in control

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

Ok..... sounds like I'm doing stuff right... guess I need to make like a swinger and suck it up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I realise that in society it is usually men that chase the women. ..

I accept this..

I just find it odd that I am really bubbly and fun.. in great shape for my age (42) and have great verifications..

Yet I get very few ladies approaching me...

Am I doing something wrong?

Please tell me..

Cheers guys..

This is planet fab where certain females can be something they'd never be on planet earth....because of the numbers of men chasing them.

I don't mean that disredpectfully fair play to those who do take advantage of planet fab I would too.

DISCLAIMER

This comment does not include any genuine swingers.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"The behaviour of people on fab reflects that if real life. Women, as indeed, men, are inherently lazy. Therefore, if you get loads of amazing confidence boosting offers, by doing jack shit, you ain't going to be doing much of the running...

So girls, but that fit guy a drink, and send him a message... "
im not lazy, i get out and about. i enjoy kink and sex. im not a jealous person and i dont want a husband. if i ever have frustration, i go do something about it..like get out of the house. i message when i deem it appropriate and go out of my way to go meet people for socials etc. i even host them when i have time..doesn't mean ill fuck anything, anywhere and at any time though.i have my filters on..so im not inundated. i do my thing and it works for me and the lovely people i meet..hatred...wrong person with or without sex, i am not a hater x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So girls, but that fit guy a drink, and send him a message... "

I'll admit to being lazy regarding looking for men on here. After scrolling through countless local profiles, hour after hour, I decided to let them come to me. It works much better for me that way, as there are thousands of profiles within 20 miles of me and I don't have a type. Those men who feel they are chasing me, because I don't meet them after a couple of messages, aren't the men for me.

I do enjoy sex very much . I enjoyed it 3 tines yesterday,with a man I bought drinks for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try my best for women to do the chasing but they never catch the bait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the flip side, there are also men who don't like women to be forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try my best for women to do the chasing but they never catch the bait

Dip it in something sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try my best for women to do the chasing but they never catch the bait

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liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try my best for women to do the chasing but they never catch the bait

liar

Ok, they sometimes catch the bait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

"
That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try my best for women to do the chasing but they never catch the bait

liar

Ok, they sometimes catch the bait

"
have you considered dangling a bigger bait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter who messages who as long as you get on?

Is that what sending a message to someone you like is called now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet

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well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

"
as long as there is no ticks in the bed its all good with me

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I don't chase.

I've walked really fast for some

Others I have strutted towards

I'm worth chasing though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as long as there is no ticks in the bed its all good with me

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

Who calm down people. ...

I don't think anyone should drop at anyone's feet.. just find the inbalance interesting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????

To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.

You.?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

When dishing out righteous indignation, check and recheck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will message men that I like the look of, and even more so if they are the type I am looking for..

But I do try to dodge the ones that are attached already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

When dishing out righteous indignation, check and recheck

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dont forget the ticks too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I try my best for women to do the chasing but they never catch the bait

liar

Ok, they sometimes catch the bait

have you considered dangling a bigger bait

Nope, I have no interest in greedy fishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol talk about a car crash this is more a pile up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guilty of just responding to messages for a meet and not initially sending a first message. I've never chased a guy on here or in real life, I guess I'm quite old fashioned. However... I do make hints that I like somebody by Fabbing their pics or subtle hints in the Forum.

Op, you are doing nothing wrong, I suspect that most women get so many messages, they don't need to chase?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I don't chase nor do I want to be chased. Being chased makes me run in the opposite direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol talk about a car crash this is more a pile up.

Instead of writing random comments that are no help at all, why not share with OP your key to success ..who knows, maybe we could all benefit from such wisdom

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"I'm guilty of just responding to messages for a meet and not initially sending a first message. I've never chased a guy on here or in real life, I guess I'm quite old fashioned. However... I do make hints that I like somebody by Fabbing their pics or subtle hints in the Forum.

Op, you are doing nothing wrong, I suspect that most women get so many messages, they don't need to chase? "

Thanks Dana

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

When dishing out righteous indignation, check and recheck

dont forget the ticks too

Pesky lil things!!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I'm lying.

I have chased a man

The ice cream man

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"Lol talk about a car crash this is more a pile up.

Instead of writing random comments that are no help at all, why not share with OP your key to success ..who knows, maybe we could all benefit from such wisdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm lying.

I have chased a man

The ice cream man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol talk about a car crash this is more a pile up.

Instead of writing random comments that are no help at all, why not share with OP your key to success ..who knows, maybe we could all benefit from such wisdom

"
you will always get the norman wisdom ones easy to ignore as they are irrelevant

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I could only chase as fast as my heels and boobs allow. And really unless it's the ice cream man I just walk..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

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wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm old-fashioned and prefer men to do the chasing. Feels like the natural order of things. But each to his or her own, whatever works for you

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.

Johnson

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Lol talk about a car crash this is more a pile up.

Instead of writing random comments that are no help at all, why not share with OP your key to success ..who knows, maybe we could all benefit from such wisdom

you will always get the norman wisdom ones easy to ignore as they are irrelevant

Wisdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't 'chase' people on here - but I do have everyone blocked, so I can do my own contacting without putting up with a load of messages from people I don't actually want to talk to.

I'd call that productive and sensible rather than chasing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any "

You have the option to display your meet verification summary or hide it. So NO, you're still wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only wear my sports bra in the gym!

So no chasing from me - for health and safety reasons, black eyes are not a good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

I have genuine meet verifications but simply choose not to show them. They are my business not anyone else's. So all you see is the green tick.

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over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

I have genuine meet verifications but simply choose not to show them. They are my business not anyone else's. So all you see is the green tick."

just to clarify who has ticks and who has not got ticks

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over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

I have genuine meet verifications but simply choose not to show them. They are my business not anyone else's. So all you see is the green tick.

just to clarify who has ticks and who has not got ticks

You!

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over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

I have genuine meet verifications but simply choose not to show them. They are my business not anyone else's. So all you see is the green tick.

just to clarify who has ticks and who has not got ticks

Anyone else feeling itchy now?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind doing all the chasing. I treat this place like Pokemon go. I'm gonna try and catch them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone for ticks, plenty to go around

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

Had some great feedback on the PM and in the forum.. positive and negative.. but all constructive.. thanks a lot..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had some great feedback on the PM and in the forum.. positive and negative.. but all constructive.. thanks a lot..

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

By "chasing" do we mean sitting comfortably on our arses, typing the odd message?

It's exhausting I tells ya!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm afraid I let he men do the chasing - always have done, on fab and in the real world - it's just what trips my trigger, if they want me they have to come after me!

Apparently I'm hard work compared to some women who I've seen throw themselves at the men they like hehe......

But sometimes I just forget to reply when I am sure I really meant to....

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

That should read 'the' men not 'he' men....though I am quite partial to a he-man...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I liked to be chased, I have done it previously and ended up with egg on my face so don't bother any more

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

approaching and chasing are two very different types of things are they not?

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Im a chaiser, dont know when to stop tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men normally have to do the chasing in life, however I'm really lazy.... So the occasional woman has caught me before I could move

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

"I can't decide if you are being serious or not Dude...

I'm serious man...

I was on the point of messaging then realised you're a smoker - sorry but I can't bear the smell

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

I (Mrs SB) Will initiate conversations with men and women that I like. I always go for it. I'm a "go and get"gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind doing all the chasing. I treat this place like Pokemon go. I'm gonna try and catch them all.

classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I liked to be chased, I have done it previously and ended up with egg on my face so don't bother any more "

This.

. Give and take has a lot going for it.

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By *aptain BangalotMan
over a year ago

SW London

I ALWAYS chase. I love the chase. But after I've killed everyone I've caught up with, I calm down and softly walk away. Nobody ever chases me tho. Boohoo.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have been known to message men I am interested in. However recently that's ended up with me being stood up, so I suppose the men in question didn't value the meet as much as they might have done if they had been the one to initiate contact.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't send preemptive messages on here, I let the ladies come to me. On a night out in town though, it's an entirely different matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever been chased once on Fab and I mean literally.Arranged a meet at her house.When she opened the door she had no teeth ha ha.I legged it and yeah she chased.True!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had women make the first move and messsge me! So it does happen - and does the confidence levels wonders !

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over a year ago

"Only ever been chased once on Fab and I mean literally.Arranged a meet at her house.When she opened the door she had no teeth ha ha.I legged it and yeah she chased.True!!!!

You have a gorgeous chin, what's your penis like?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Only ever been chased once on Fab and I mean literally.Arranged a meet at her house.When she opened the door she had no teeth ha ha.I legged it and yeah she chased.True!!!!

You have a gorgeous chin, what's your penis like?"

Line of the month. ....

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"Only ever been chased once on Fab and I mean literally.Arranged a meet at her house.When she opened the door she had no teeth ha ha.I legged it and yeah she chased.True!!!!

You have a gorgeous chin, what's your penis like?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message men occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have contacted guys direct , but then they bottle out , some need to grow balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged or winked men

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I tend not to chase, don't see the point.

I work on the assumption that if a guy likes the sound of me he'll message

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I liked to be chased, I have done it previously and ended up with egg on my face so don't bother any more "

That's one step more bizarre than a cum shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bradley walsh is ok from the chase and i like the governess frosty nickers

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont think it makes any odds who messages who. If i like someone i will message them AND the guys say it makes a pleasant change to be messaged by a woman

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By *aptain BangalotMan
over a year ago

SW London

I message myself sometimes and then give chase only to lose myself.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"bradley walsh is ok from the chase and i like the governess frosty nickers"

Fanny Schmelar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chased mr k on here...women will chase a man if they really want them..if its just a shag then why would we chase something so easy to get lol x

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over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

You have the option to display your meet verification summary or hide it. So NO, you're still wrong

"
i know but it still says you have some just dont say what it says xx

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over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????

To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.

You.?

Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?

If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????

To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.

You.?

Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?

If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards "

I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"

Rather than the beautiful ones.

An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.

I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.

Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I realise that in society it is usually men that chase the women. ..

I accept this..

I just find it odd that I am really bubbly and fun.. in great shape for my age (42) and have great verifications..

Yet I get very few ladies approaching me...

Am I doing something wrong?

Please tell me..

Cheers guys..

"
women rarely approach especially here

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over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????

To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.

You.?

Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?

If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards

I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"

Rather than the beautiful ones.

An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.

I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.

Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired!"

If you say so.

But I'm pretty sure thats not what wound up those two women

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????

To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.

You.?

Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?

If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards

I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"

Rather than the beautiful ones.

An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.

I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.

Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired!

If you say so.

But I'm pretty sure thats not what wound up those two women

That's just how I perceived it in my tired head

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over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????

To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.

You.?

Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?

If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards

I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"

Rather than the beautiful ones.

An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.

I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.

Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired!

If you say so.

But I'm pretty sure thats not what wound up those two women

That's just how I perceived it in my tired head

"
put your tired head on the pillow and count parking wardens it worked for me once

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????

To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.

You.?

Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?

If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards

I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"

Rather than the beautiful ones.

An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.

I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.

Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired!

If you say so.

But I'm pretty sure thats not what wound up those two women

That's just how I perceived it in my tired head

put your tired head on the pillow and count parking wardens it worked for me once

I walk or get the bus, so they'll do nothing for me.

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over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????

To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.

You.?

Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?

If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards

I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"

Rather than the beautiful ones.

An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.

I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.

Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired!

If you say so.

But I'm pretty sure thats not what wound up those two women

That's just how I perceived it in my tired head

put your tired head on the pillow and count parking wardens it worked for me once

I walk or get the bus, so they'll do nothing for me.

"
hey me to but train not bus thought you'd dozed off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny thread, fwiw I wouldn't say I have to "chase". Enough guys making tools of themselves to cut the competition down for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if men don't have to chase, what do they do? Wait for women to throw themselves at them? Not my style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So if men don't have to chase, what do they do? Wait for women to throw themselves at them? Not my style."

Have a mutual and equal approach with good open and honest communication from both sides?

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over a year ago

"So if men don't have to chase, what do they do? Wait for women to throw themselves at them? Not my style.

Have a mutual and equal approach with good open and honest communication from both sides?

Sounds good to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

Thanks i appreciate it.

So why are you on here????

To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.

You.?

Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?

If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards "

The dude just meets the elite, nothing wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message people I like the look of, sometimes people message me first. Isn't that how this is meant to work!?

If they don't message me back, I assume they're not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I message people I like the look of, sometimes people message me first. Isn't that how this is meant to work!?

If they don't message me back, I assume they're not interested. "
ha but the likelihood is you got so many messages his reply got lost in the pile x

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over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

You have the option to display your meet verification summary or hide it. So NO, you're still wrong

i know but it still says you have some just dont say what it says xx"

Ok, I'm only going to explain this one more time. I really don't know why you're not getting it

You can hide each individual verification so it doesn't display what the person said about you.

You can then hide your verification summary so it won't tell you how many single, couples or TVs you have met.

All it will leave on your profile is a green tick meaning you have either been meet or cam verified.

Do you understand now I've explained it in more detail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chase and like to be chased ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chase and like to be chased ...

"
chase me chase me

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over a year ago

"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.

Works for me.

You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.

But no veris?

Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?

Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate.

Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.

If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it

You have the option to display your meet verification summary or hide it. So NO, you're still wrong

i know but it still says you have some just dont say what it says xx

Ok, I'm only going to explain this one more time. I really don't know why you're not getting it

You can hide each individual verification so it doesn't display what the person said about you.

You can then hide your verification summary so it won't tell you how many single, couples or TVs you have met.

All it will leave on your profile is a green tick meaning you have either been meet or cam verified.

Do you understand now I've explained it in more detail? "

Real LOL @ you now.

Why you so obsessed with me.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone like being chased on here?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"I message ladies and chase them.

I often think men like chasing, that's part of what they enjoy. Like greyhounds chasing a rabbit, once caught onto the next rabbit. "

I don't like chasing and never have chased anyone..maybe that's why people seem to always say that I think I'm nice because most women are used to men chasing. That's outdated to me. It's 2017 for god sake lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone like being chased on here?"
not when ive pinched a sandwich out of local shot they nearly caught me last time ,corned beef though ha