FabSwingers.com forum: decisions

By *ust fun9 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

Hi..Do you really know if your compatable with potential playmate/playmates until you actually meet in person? I personally have to meet in person to find out if there is attraction, good conversation and some chemistry!!!! Interesting to hear your views on this.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't know before we meet face to face

By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Messaging gives you an idea of compatibility,

a fone call will give a better idea if you can hold a conversation or not,

Pictures are a reasonable indication of physical attraction, but people don't always look like their pics... apparently the camera adds 10 lbs? But with the right angles and lighting it takes 50 lbs off!

Meeting in person is when you really work out if you're compatible in my opinion

By *ust fun9 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

"Messaging gives you an idea of compatibility,

a fone call will give a better idea if you can hold a conversation or not,

Meeting in person is when you really work out if you're compatible in my opinion "
I totally agree with that sequence. Pics only tell perhaps half a story. It's no good looking pretty good but then when meeting for a chat/cuppa etc the conversation is a struggle and people are pushy. Think your right, a quick phone chat gives a good indication if you could be compatable and it s out the timewasters.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a phone call can be very helpful XXX

By *ust fun9 OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

"Yes a phone call can be very helpful XXX"
I agree..but that will ruin it for the time wasters!!!

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I know just through messaging and will meet on that basis. If I'm ever unsure I'll have a social. Those I've had socials with have never gone any further than that. On that basis I now only have socials with friends

*There is one exception to the rule but that's a long story