FabSwingers.com forum: How many of you...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.....truly wear your heart on your sleeve?

Are you straight and upfront about your feelings?

Me, personally, not usually but I did recently, and never again. Lesson well learned.

Thanks in advance for your input.

BG x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes. But then i dont have feelings

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

I'm always open & honest with ppl. With friends etc they know what's in my heart etc but with others they know what I'm thinking only (I wouldn't share matters of heart with strangers).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always open & honest with ppl. With friends etc they know what's in my heart etc but with others they know what I'm thinking only (I wouldn't share matters of heart with strangers). "

Saves me "writing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly do. Call a spade a spade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no I keep it all hidden away..

still waters run deep, as they say

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Yes unless it's gonna hurt somebody else's feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people can either accept me and like me or fuck off

the ones that do not are irrelevant

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Ah BG I've been wanting to grace your inbox.

Yes...it's bollocks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do...it often backfires...and ive gone through phases of trying not to , but at 50 odd, im old enough and tough enough to deal with the fallout if it wasnt the good idea i thought it was!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Way too much.

All the bloody time

I think I sometimes scare people away.

I'm a very caring & loving person and I have a lot of love to give. I'll often tell people I love them. It don't mean I wanna marry them and all that. I love my dog, I ain't wanting to stick a ring on her paw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh sweetie, keep your chin up.

I'm very honest, I wouldn't say I wear my heart on my sleeve but I'm true to my gut feelings. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a mixed bag, I don't share a lot of how I'm feeling so it's a case of still waters. But if I love someone I think it's quite clear how I feel about them. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did recently....wont be doing that again...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Much the same as you BG.

I'm usually a totally together emotionally person, but then things happen someone chinks your armour and those little feelings start to grow.

Things are said and seeds planted.

Then you get a massive kick in the cunt and fall to earth.

Or a mutual cunt/ball bashing

Anyway. It happens, people will have their own assumptions of what goes down (fuckers) but just stay true to yourself

Only you and the person involved will know what went down

Chin up sweetness, happens to the best of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once got burnt. Was reserved once got burnt aswell.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Sometimes way too much and sometimes I have it hidden away. I am quite a sensitive soul at times and I'm trying to be a bit tougher

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

It all depends. Sometimes you have to throw caution to the wind. Sometimes it blows back at you, a bit like pissing in the wind and you end up with piss soaked ankles.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Life is too short for subterfuge, so yes, I'm pretty clear about how I feel, though I can be volatile.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Sometimes way too much and sometimes I have it hidden away. I am quite a sensitive soul at times and I'm trying to be a bit tougher "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite tough cookie.not much ever gets to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to, not so much now. I try and keep my feelings under wrap. Defense mechanism I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"no I keep it all hidden away..

still waters run deep, as they say

Yeah, I agree. I'm going back to this

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I tend not to wear sleeves when it's hot. Call me heartless if you must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only wear my heart on my sleeve with the people closest to me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not really - I'm wary of getting emotionally involved with anyone and as much as I think I'd like a friend like me I don't think it will happen.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I hope you're ok BG.

I'm kind of doing it the other way around right now. I'm used to not being open about feelings and stuff for various reasons but now I'm learning how to be more so. I hope it works.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"Not really - I'm wary of getting emotionally involved with anyone and as much as I think I'd like a friend like me I don't think it will happen. "

A friend like me would be a fucking nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i fall in love really easily and to quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs HB

Yeah I guess I am, it makes for a roller coaster ride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn't ever gotten me very far in life. And almost always end up hurt. So I'm just a cold hearted bitch now!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Not really - I'm wary of getting emotionally involved with anyone and as much as I think I'd like a friend like me I don't think it will happen.

A friend like me would be a fucking nightmare "

I can't disagree

Besides which, I said "like me". Urbane and sophisticated as fuck. Bleedin' cultured as well, gaffa.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"Not really - I'm wary of getting emotionally involved with anyone and as much as I think I'd like a friend like me I don't think it will happen.

A friend like me would be a fucking nightmare

I can't disagree

Besides which, I said "like me". Urbane and sophisticated as fuck. Bleedin' cultured as well, gaffa. "

I'm all of that coupled with style and panache

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hugs HB

Yeah I guess I am, it makes for a roller coaster ride! "

I'm not able for the rollercoaster PB, unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. If I'm mad about something. I can't rest until I've said my piece. If I try to keep it in I blow everything else out of proportion and pick fights that don't need to be picked. I make myself look a right twat. So better out than in. If I have a problem you know about it.

However on the flip side I'm very very cagey about my other more delicate emotions. If I like you more than I should I would probably never tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often too much, sometime not enough.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I wear mine to a degree, my eyes sometimes give things away in certain moments but my lips wont ever say the words

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Padlocks all around BG.

on lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mostly yes - but somethings are well wrapped

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i'd like to but i think mostly people aren't like me so don't understand wtf i'm on about anyway so i won't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm upfront and honest and tend to tell it how it is. I really wish I could learn how to put a lid on that sometimes. It's always getting me into trouble.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Padlocks all around BG.

on lockdown"

Definitely.

Man-free zone here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Padlocks all around BG.

on lockdown

Definitely.

Man-free zone here

Not ladies though I hope

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

With me BG I rarely say anything about my feelings..I just prefer to bottle it up and leave it pass..It's just not worth the hassle and problems that follow it xx lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I used to but like you bg lessons learned....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotionally anally retentive man here until trust gained then a lot more open.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't have feelings when it comes to fab. No point getting hurt with that.

Yeah, fuck that shit!

Hope you're ok BG xxx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I am, though in a measured way. Not like a hysterical crazy drama person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum always told me not to, but I always have

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Padlocks all around BG.

on lockdown

Definitely.

Man-free zone here

Not ladies though I hope

You're safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it's very rare for someone to see my true emotions.

Even my family members hardly ever get to see that as I prefer to express them in private.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With me BG I rarely say anything about my feelings..I just prefer to bottle it up and leave it pass..It's just not worth the hassle and problems that follow it xx lol"

Yeah, I've always been like that.

It's so much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no I keep it all hidden away..

still waters run deep, as they say

Yeah, I agree. I'm going back to this

cuddles no 1 xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"no I keep it all hidden away..

still waters run deep, as they say

Yeah, I agree. I'm going back to this

cuddles no 1 xxx"

Thanks lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear you've had a bad tome of it OP sending cwtches. I definitely always wear mine on my sleeve. I'm trying to be a little less open because I'm often left hurt or disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi BG.

I definitely do not wear my heart on my sleeve. In my time on Fab I developed a serious crush on two guys. I let them sink their hooks deep into my heart. Of course I never told them my true feelings. It all became very confusing and I lost focus. I don't see them anymore but I crave them. I'm glad I never told them how I felt.

If I ever feel like that again, I'll have to give myself a serious talking to! There are only so many shards of heart one can give away.

Stay strong Boldy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do! I am very open about my feelings, and share them even if it means I risk losing someone for admitting I love them.

Some things just can't be surpressed. Feelings are one of them ...(and farts are another!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You took the chance, I'll always believe it's better than not and maybe regretting it! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us guys do too I have free a while but know I have leant my lesson. Well made to look an idiot

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