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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this girl I know and have met before wants to go out, but everytime she wants to go anywhere it's somewhere really expensive and she makes absolutely no indication as to putting her hand in her pocket to pay for anything. Now I'm not saying I'm a tight bastard, far from it. But do you think this is the norm?

Ladies, do you think the bloke should foot the bill for getting to spend time with you?

Should this be a 50-50 deal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many times has it happened?

Are you in the FB zone or just the friends zone.

Friends zone.....50:50 woth the occasional...'dont worry I'll get this'

If she aint puttig her hand down your pants dont put your hand in your wallet too often lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times has it happened?

Are you in the FB zone or just the friends zone.

Friends zone.....50:50 woth the occasional...'dont worry I'll get this'

If she aint puttig her hand down your pants dont put your hand in your wallet too often lol"

I agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Favour for a favour ayit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have fucked her, but it wasn't as enjoyable as I thought it might be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have fucked her, but it wasn't as enjoyable as I thought it might be."
fuck that then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope 50/50 always. Ladies we wanted equality, let's keep it that way.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Communicate with her - it's not only about where she wants to go.

It's not normal for one person to free ride - but you decide

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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if she's getting nothing from fucking you then you should pay.

some women just are old fashioned though and like to be paid for, this is me also. and i won't fuck ya for it either, i'm not a pro.

do you wanna pay for her or not? that is my serious answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this girl I know and have met before wants to go out, but everytime she wants to go anywhere it's somewhere really expensive and she makes absolutely no indication as to putting her hand in her pocket to pay for anything. Now I'm not saying I'm a tight bastard, far from it. But do you think this is the norm?

Ladies, do you think the bloke should foot the bill for getting to spend time with you?

Should this be a 50-50 deal?"

I think you already know the answer

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By *ecretEscapes2Woman
over a year ago

worcester


"Nope 50/50 always. Ladies we wanted equality, let's keep it that way. "

This . wouldn't never want to think I was being paid for

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

50/50 unless you're super rich

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well if she choses somewhere expensive tell her to pay.

Or its s bag of chips from the chippy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the financial situations of both involved and communicating about it.

I've had meets while jobless and skint, which was discussed beforehand and they offered to pay my way. However, with my last meet I had more money so we were able to split costs more fairly - like he got the first round in at lunch, I got the second in and paid for lunch, he paid for snacks in the evening and I contributed towards breakfast in the morning, and I far prefer doing it like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have fucked her, but it wasn't as enjoyable as I thought it might be."

Forum comment of the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always offer to pay 50/50. I'd feel obliged if I didn't plus it's good manners.

If he then puts his foot down I'll back off.

Of course if he was a multi millionaire then I'd happily let him pay if he insisted... actually no. Probably even then I'd offer.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Nope 50/50 always. Ladies we wanted equality, let's keep it that way. "

Agreed, or take it in turns to pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i ask why you still seeing her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her she can choose the location of the date if she's paying...if she expects you cough up to then it's your choice.

But if you're not that into her (as it sounds) then why even bother?

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I have fucked her, but it wasn't as enjoyable as I thought it might be."

I been there. Wallet wringers soon become very boring. And I have come to the conclusion that regardless of how attractive the girl happens to be, a miserable fuck is still a miserable fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm suggesting somewhere expensive for dinner then I'm the one that pays.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Chippy. Sorted. If she ain't happy with that don't bother.

I can't afford much at all so I don't even contemplate anywhere expensive and I wouldn't dare suggest it!

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