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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington

I know that we're not allowed to...but I just have to say that ************* is a total waste of space (and a complete and utter wanker)

feelmuch better for getting that off my chest...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

& whys that then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know that we're not allowed to...but I just have to say that ************* is a total waste of space (and a complete and utter wanker)

feelmuch better for getting that off my chest...lol"

Think i know he's brother and all the rest of the kers

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington

don''t ask...I just needed to vent a bit.....let's just say I think I've got "sucker" tattoed on my forhead..... never mind.....such is the weird and wonderful worlld of Fab....thank goodness the majority are good guys xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my name fits perfect in those stars & it just so happens i spoke my mind last night????

could it be me????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my name fits perfect in those stars & it just so happens i spoke my mind last night????

could it be me????"

Ur never a wayne ker??

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington

lol...absolutely not.....if I had a problem with you I'd say so....but have you been being a naughty boy then...pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am Spartacus ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who me...... lol

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington

hee hee......well I am an idiot.....but I'll be better in the morning...lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Group hug for Cheryl

And I agree he is a complete, wanker and a toss pot and upset my mate and you upset me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think you'll find its me cheryl is talking about..i let her down badly not once but twice..do whatever needs to be done to me i deserve all i get....Cheryl I'm Sorry

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington

aww wwwww thanks Aqua....the tosser is driving me crackers now...keeps texting to say sorry....ffs...how many times.......but hey...always lookon the bright side of life ...tetum..te..tum..te..tum..te tum te tum.....

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington

well hey ho...someone who names and shames themselves

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Well you gotta give the guy his due, he fessed up

But I still stand by what I said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that is a first, I'm stunned!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I am Spartacus ...... "

No I am sparticus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with all comments and like i said i deserve all and more...i'm new to this and perhaps not ready for it due to family life..decided to stay on but only to chat..

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"hee hee......well I am an idiot.....but I'll be better in the morning...lol"

You are a sexy idiot lol

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington

hmmmmmmmmm humility after the fact....

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington

well...one lives and learns...cest la vie........

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"aww wwwww thanks Aqua....the tosser is driving me crackers now...keeps texting to say sorry....ffs...how many times.......but hey...always lookon the bright side of life ...tetum..te..tum..te..tum..te tum te tum....."

So are you going to give him another chance lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree with all comments and like i said i deserve all and more...i'm new to this and perhaps not ready for it due to family life..decided to stay on but only to chat.."

Pity u didnt decide that b4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we learn from our mistakes

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington

oh...isn't it just...would have save me getting all gussied up...for the second time...and making sure that my friends left early.....never again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh...isn't it just...would have save me getting all gussied up...for the second time...and making sure that my friends left early.....never again...."

Big hug for u honey xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whoops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

who me...... lol

"

Ive took my rose tinted specs off now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah well at least it wasnt me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww Cheryl, I'm sorry hun, what a waste of an evening...(((big hug)))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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who me...... lol

Ive took my rose tinted specs off now "

Awwwwww dont ya like a bad boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah well at least it wasnt me "

And wot ave u been up 2 u naughty boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well obviously I don't know what went on, but by the sounds of it Hugh if you had just been a bit more honest instead of letting this poor lady get ready for your arrival you might not have upset her so much.

People will understand if you cancel and probably give you a second chance, but don't let 'em sit there like a lemon thinking you are coming when you aren't it's really not fair...

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington

well thanks to everyone for your kind support....taking myself off to my bed (with my rabbit...al he needs is batteries and he's always nice to me...hee hee)

See you all tomorrow...sweet dreams xxmwahxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well thanks to everyone for your kind support....taking myself off to my bed (with my rabbit...al he needs is batteries and he's always nice to me...hee hee)

See you all tomorrow...sweet dreams xxmwahxxx"

Night babe and like u said tomorrows another day and his loss xxmwahxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah well at least it wasnt me

And wot ave u been up 2 u naughty boy "

all i done was speak my mind but im kinda waiting for the backlash from everyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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who me...... lol

Ive took my rose tinted specs off now

Awwwwww dont ya like a bad boy "

Only if he's good at being bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah well at least it wasnt me

And wot ave u been up 2 u naughty boy

all i done was speak my mind but im kinda waiting for the backlash from everyone lol

"

Wot why when where

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington


"ah well at least it wasnt me

And wot ave u been up 2 u naughty boy

all i done was speak my mind but im kinda waiting for the backlash from everyone lol

wellI'm guessing if it was something you did yesterday and you haven't had the backlash yet...you've probably got away with it....this time...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodnight....buzz buzz buzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes but i relied on my sat nav which died..what more could i do...i got angry with myself and turned around and went home..my fault YES but not totally...if it hadn't died we'd be chatting about a good night had...bloody machines

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes but i relied on my sat nav which died..what more could i do...i got angry with myself and turned around and went home..my fault YES but not totally...if it hadn't died we'd be chatting about a good night had...bloody machines "

Damn bloody technology and that thing that charges em up wots it again oh yeah a charger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

charger which i didnt have in the car

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington

like I said earlier..what complete and utter bollox...you had my mobile number...you knew you were within a mile of my flat...,so why just not ring and say help......why turn round and drive 13 miles back home....just doesn't make any sort of sense. I responded to your text which said your sat nav had died straight away...why not just ring....simples

but no...you spoilt my night...in more ways than one and have made yourself look a complete prat....and yes...made me look one too for even giving you the second chance to make a fool out of me....and people wonder why single guys get a bad press....well look and see!!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"charger which i didnt have in the car"

You didn't think to check it was fully charged before you left? If I was meeting sexy I would have fully charged it and had my charger just in case lol Sod that I would have borrowed another Sat Nav in case mine gave me problems and had a couple of maps in the glove compartment as well lol. I would have left the house with 2 Sat Navs and 2 maps to make sure I did not miss meeting her lol.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"well thanks to everyone for your kind support....taking myself off to my bed (with my rabbit...al he needs is batteries and he's always nice to me...hee hee)

See you all tomorrow...sweet dreams xxmwahxxx"

I wish I was a bunny right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"charger which i didnt have in the car"

Does sound like fairly suspect excuses mate whether they are true or not... and as she said why didn't you phone? and christ for 13 miles you could have gone back and bloody charged it or bought a map, gone on google, anything and still been back before quicker than you could fart...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have no excuse...my downfall was not thinking,, i was driving so could not phone, again a mistake..i didnt know where i was so could not ask for help from you , i can do no more or say anyhting else ..yes i am a prat but your certainly not one. i'm proberbly blacklisted .dont really care to be honest...and i was already a marked man by being single so didnt really have a chance ..i got lucky with cheryl she gave me a chance and i blew it..end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well mr hughjarse sounds like u need a kick up urs and ull be kicking urself for awhile now. As u say learn by ur mistakes and dont arrange anything unless ur 100% prepared and sure that its wot u really want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no more mistakes...no more no shows...always be sure you can commit...always phone.. charge ur satnav ...these are now my motto's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A marked man being single?

What a load of shite, if you have manners and respect for the people you chat to and arrange to meet you do fine on here. Women are not stupid like you seem to be implying, they know when they are being taken for a fool.

You only need three things to be successful on this site, a personality, honesty and respect. No amount of good looks, arty pictures or cock shots will get you anywhere without the magic ingredients.

I feel better now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A marked man being single?

What a load of shite, if you have manners and respect for the people you chat to and arrange to meet you do fine on here. Women are not stupid like you seem to be implying, they know when they are being taken for a fool.

You only need three things to be successful on this site, a personality, honesty and respect. No amount of good looks, arty pictures or cock shots will get you anywhere without the magic ingredients.

I feel better now."

Ah roy i didnt realise u were soooo sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well done .very nicely put..point taken

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"i have no excuse...my downfall was not thinking,, i was driving so could not phone, again a mistake..i didnt know where i was so could not ask for help from you , i can do no more or say anyhting else ..yes i am a prat but your certainly not one. i'm proberbly blacklisted .dont really care to be honest...and i was already a marked man by being single so didnt really have a chance ..i got lucky with cheryl she gave me a chance and i blew it..end of "

blew it with cheryl ....twice ....pmsfl ..see the man in the white coat mate .

even if my car broke down within a mile i would of left it and walked never mind a fooking shag nav ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A marked man being single?

What a load of shite, if you have manners and respect for the people you chat to and arrange to meet you do fine on here. Women are not stupid like you seem to be implying, they know when they are being taken for a fool.

You only need three things to be successful on this site, a personality, honesty and respect. No amount of good looks, arty pictures or cock shots will get you anywhere without the magic ingredients.

I feel better now.

Ah roy i didnt realise u were soooo sensible "

Thank you Pussy, I have headache after thinking that up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A marked man being single?

What a load of shite, if you have manners and respect for the people you chat to and arrange to meet you do fine on here. Women are not stupid like you seem to be implying, they know when they are being taken for a fool.

You only need three things to be successful on this site, a personality, honesty and respect. No amount of good looks, arty pictures or cock shots will get you anywhere without the magic ingredients.

I feel better now.

Ah roy i didnt realise u were soooo sensible

Thank you Pussy, I have headache after thinking that up "

I know a good cure for a headache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a good cure for a headache

Oh Pussy, do tell....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a good cure for a headache

Oh Pussy, do tell....

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Paracetamol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh look he's gone...wot a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we agree totally hun, if you ask me they all want naming and shaming, it would make the site a lot better for all the GENUINE users. and as for the sat nav giving up we also agree totally with you.. WHAT A LOAD OF BOLLOX, why dont you just admit you lost your bottle m8???

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By *exeteraWoman
over a year ago

Bridgend


"I am Spartacus ......

No I am sparticus"

No! I'm Spartacus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ, can you believe these excuses?!

I live the otherside of the country, and I would walk over hot coals to meet Cheryl. Hell, I'd walk over Cheryl Cole to meet our Cheryl.

Ever thought about a job with DHL (other reputable couriers are available)? Drive 400 miles to deliver a parcel, but turn back because your satnav runs out. I would say its a load of bollocks, but you haven't got any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot believe the excuses, but neither can I believe that people continually start threads becuse someone has buggered them about.

Yes it's annoying

Yes it's disappointing

Yes it's ..... bla bla bla

Yes it's supposed to be a bit of fun, so what they didn't turn up.live wth it and move on ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot believe the excuses, but neither can I believe that people continually start threads becuse someone has buggered them about.

Yes it's annoying

Yes it's disappointing

Yes it's ..... bla bla bla

Yes it's supposed to be a bit of fun, so what they didn't turn up.live wth it and move on ..."

But it is a good way to get it off your chest. Quite what the fuck-wit was thinking when he had a chance to see that chest, and blew it, I don't know. Care in the community strikes again.

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington


"I cannot believe the excuses, but neither can I believe that people continually start threads becuse someone has buggered them about.

Yes it's annoying

Yes it's disappointing

Yes it's ..... bla bla bla

Yes it's supposed to be a bit of fun, so what they didn't turn up.live wth it and move on ..."

And I will live with it and did move on last night....but the forums are here for people to make posts about what they want to....it was a dissappointment...it was supposed to be a bit of fun....I was pissed off and I wanted a rant... it made me feel bettter immediately...and yes I wanted some strokes from some of the great people on here...which improved my mood no end (thankyou everyone).

In this particular case it has also served a purpose...as the feckwit who messed me about was idiot enough to fess up and name and shame himself on the thread, and the responses obviously showed him that his behaviour was out of order and he has since removed himself from the site....so no other woman will have the upset of a no-show from him.

Lots of subjects get threads started time and time again....if you don't like the subject...simply just don't bother reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you say the forums are there for people to make posts ..

That's what I have just done, sorry if I don't go with the crowd, fall at your feet and agree with everything you say, but hey ho - thats what the forums are all about, aren't they ? or are they just there for people who all agree with other ?

I may be wrong, but there is just be a very slim chance that the said person is back on site right at this moment in time, under a new name - perhaps a tad naive to think otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best read i have had all morning, what a dick lol...thanks guys...oh and biggus hugs babes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First he blames his family life DING DING DING DING DING DING then he blames his discharged Sat Nav..................

He probably never even left home as he was doing family things with his wife and kids, he is probably already back on here with a new "jokely" profile and he will probably mug some other poor soul in the coming months

Report him to the site owners as they may, if inclined, be able to block his ISP, it's the only way to stop twats like this screwing genuine folk about.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

must be a young kid - can text while driving but not phone doh

Also has he not got a mouth in his head? couldn't he ask at a petrol station or someone in the street, could even buy a local map Jesus what an arse

I reckon mummy wouldn't let him borrrow his car myself hehehehehe

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over a year ago

Good morning everyone

Blimey a man that has named and shamed himself??????

have I gone into the twilight zone pmsl

At least he was big enough to come on here and try to explain and apologise even if the excuses were extremely lame

Im still not sure if im awake or not

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington


"best read i have had all morning, what a dick lol...thanks guys...oh and biggus hugs babes"

thanks Hun.....must admit I am laughing about it this morning......aren't batteries wonderful things...lol

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By *heekychezza OP   Woman
over a year ago

warrington


"Good morning everyone

Blimey a man that has named and shamed himself??????

have I gone into the twilight zone pmsl

At least he was big enough to come on here and try to explain and apologise even if the excuses were extremely lame

Im still not sure if im awake or not "

he was talking a complete load of bollox.....if he was able to text to say he was giving up and going home...he could have texted and said gimme directions.....I just have to face the fact I got suckered (but would much rather have been sucked...hee hee)

Like I said...it's just the weird and wonderful world of Fab xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Good morning everyone

Blimey a man that has named and shamed himself??????

have I gone into the twilight zone pmsl

At least he was big enough to come on here and try to explain and apologise even if the excuses were extremely lame

Im still not sure if im awake or not

he was talking a complete load of bollox.....if he was able to text to say he was giving up and going home...he could have texted and said gimme directions.....I just have to face the fact I got suckered (but would much rather have been sucked...hee hee)

Like I said...it's just the weird and wonderful world of Fab xxx"

Im glad you're smiling babes there will be something much better waiting around the corner im sure xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think his bottle went and he chickened out. come out with a load of shite to cover the real reason.

simple as

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