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By *e gentle with us OP   Couple
over a year ago

luton

We love knowing that guys find chloe attractive and find it a compliment. Read today however two builders nearly lost their jobs over such things. Does it offend anyone here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the lads i manage at work always wolf whhisle us girls when we pop out for lunch

i never take offence i find it flattering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a wolf whistle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that it is no longer politically correct but, it always cheered me up when I got wolf whistled

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Were the builders just wolf whistling or were they shouting get ya tits out for the boys too?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Yes...but going into why just causes fights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just makes me smile if i get this .. i may even give them a flash if i can , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love knowing that guys find chloe attractive and find it a compliment. Read today however two builders nearly lost their jobs over such things. Does it offend anyone here?"

Its ridiculous that someones job could be at risk by it, its only fun. I worked in an office as a teen with almost all women, & they revelled in trying to embarrass me. Asking me who had the better cleavage etc, you could have fried eggs on my cheeks! But it was only harmless fun at the end of the day.

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

Love a whistle.

You need a backbone where I work as we have some conversation that do tread a fine line and innuendo in everything. Luckily we have a good team so if someone oversteps the mark we back off.

HR would have a field day if they listened in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love a whistle.

You need a backbone where I work as we have some conversation that do tread a fine line and innuendo in everything. Luckily we have a good team so if someone oversteps the mark we back off.

HR would have a field day if they listened in."

Im the same at our place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also under the considerate constructors scheme if a co worker is bending over and showing 'bum cleavage' you are supposed to alert him for fear of offending a passer by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 18 years ago I was heavily pregnant and allthe horrid things that it entailed, greasy hair, spots, swollen legs etc, I felt horrible.

In our local shopping centre walking with shopping bags and a rather unattractive maternity cat suit with mis matched shoes (only ones that would fit) this young dishy workman gave me a wolfwhistle.

It made my life, no not my day my life. Have never felt that I look crap ever since.

So wolfwhistle away boys

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

As long as its not intimidating I don't mind.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never think its me they are wolf whistling at, but if i am the only person around id just presume it was a piss take and not look to give them the satisfaction that 'haha and she thought we were wolf whistling at her' kinda thing

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By *e gentle with us OP   Couple
over a year ago

luton

Glad we have some common sense here. Keep whistling lads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never think its me they are wolf whistling at, but if i am the only person around id just presume it was a piss take and not look to give them the satisfaction that 'haha and she thought we were wolf whistling at her' kinda thing "

Of course its you. They just want you to turn round, so they can see the front too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a teenager I found it VERY intimidating, yes it was due to my insecurities, I always thought they were taking the piss out of me, but a 17yrs old shouldn't be made to feel scared walking down the street.

I feel that it should be a case of watching what you say/do around others, but loosing your job over it, I do think is OTT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used 2 do it all the time when I worked doing the roof's, as did every1 I worked with, just harmless fun and no offence ment, or intimadation. just banter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends if they good looking or not

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It embarresses and mortifies me, not that ive been whistled at lately but when i was younger i dreaded walking by a gang of workers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not suprised that they got the sack, it has been classed as sexual harrasment for years..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its ok if you know the women and know she has a sence of humor and wont be offended

now day and age tho you have to be careful, we seem to be turnibg into a nation of people who will put compensation claims in for anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is some women are "fragile".

I've lost count of the number of disciplinary/grievance hearings I've attended defending men accused of "intimidating and sexually harassing" female colleagues: doing nothing more than hanging a Page 3 calender etc.

Some women feel intimidated, some don't. Men are on notice of what can happen so should refrain from doing it: not worth losing your job over!

I was given a dressing down by the Director of Personnel where I work for telling a male subordinate he looked nice and touching his sleeve! I also tell my female staff they look nice and feel the material of their clothes, but because he was male I was told it was inappropriate and laid me open to a charge of sexual harassment: he was openly gay!

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"just makes me smile if i get this .. i may even give them a flash if i can , lol "

Wow, Would You!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not suprised that they got the sack, it has been classed as sexual harrasment for years.............."

Is it ilegal to Whistle

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Thing is some women are "fragile".

I've lost count of the number of disciplinary/grievance hearings I've attended defending men accused of "intimidating and sexually harassing" female colleagues: doing nothing more than hanging a Page 3 calender etc.

Some women feel intimidated, some don't. Men are on notice of what can happen so should refrain from doing it: not worth losing your job over!

I was given a dressing down by the Director of Personnel where I work for telling a male subordinate he looked nice and touching his sleeve! I also tell my female staff they look nice and feel the material of their clothes, but because he was male I was told it was inappropriate and laid me open to a charge of sexual harassment: he was openly gay! "

I certainly wouldnt call myself fragile and there is a hell of a lot of difference between guys hanging a page 3 calender up than a gang of work men oggling whistling and shouting things at you in the street

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"We love knowing that guys find chloe attractive and find it a compliment. Read today however two builders nearly lost their jobs over such things. Does it offend anyone here?"
Im not offended by it, but then again some people are offended by lots of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it from people who know me as a compliment because they think I look good. From strangers especially a group of men. -a big no.

If anyone who worked for me did it to anyone else then I would take them through the disciplinary process. It isn't immediately sackable though unless it is a clear breach of company policy. I would imagine the 2 people sacked are repeat offenders. If so they are clearly stupid on top of harassing.

I know all the reasons why people find it offensive and intimidating. Without going into detail it can be covered by understanding that the meaning of the communication is the response it gets. If the recipient dislikes it then the 'whistler' has been offensive and should be brought to task.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worked at mcvities.... full of mischevious fellas. crikey we would have been in court more times than work if we took offence at some of the things said or done. Women need to lighten up a little

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By *quamarina1964Woman
over a year ago

Bideford

Wolf whistles are just harmless fun, but im afraid its just the way our country is turning now, if it is still ours that is

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Thing is some women are "fragile".

I've lost count of the number of disciplinary/grievance hearings I've attended defending men accused of "intimidating and sexually harassing" female colleagues: doing nothing more than hanging a Page 3 calender etc.

Some women feel intimidated, some don't. Men are on notice of what can happen so should refrain from doing it: not worth losing your job over!

I was given a dressing down by the Director of Personnel where I work for telling a male subordinate he looked nice and touching his sleeve! I also tell my female staff they look nice and feel the material of their , but because he was male I was told it was inappropriate and laid me open to a charge of sexual harassment: he was openly gay! "

i am certainly not fragile , my objections are based on misogyny,patriarchy and the objectification of women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the odd occasion I've been whistled at, I've simply returned the favour- really puts them off for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dread going past building sites as I get a constant barrage of whistles and inuendo I wave my Sausage at them but it just makes things worse

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I dread going past building sites as I get a constant barrage of whistles and inuendo I wave my Sausage at them but it just makes things worse "

Proof that overt displays f masculinity like wolf whistles are simply a cover for latent homosexuality

i knew it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wolf whistle if I see a fit hot gent that I like!

... a near OAP behaving badly

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"I know that it is no longer politically correct but, it always cheered me up when I got wolf whistled "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wolf whistles are just harmless fun, but im afraid its just the way our country is turning now, if it is still ours that is "

Sorry but I don;t understand the "if it is still ours" comment? Well I understand it as far as narrowminded xenophobic comments go, just not in the context of this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I was a women, I would just laugh it off, it's no biggie, no harm ment, bloke's who do it are just having a bit of banter, if you over think the wolf whistle and get offended by it, then I suggest youre taking things to seriusly. some people just wanna b victims'. this kind of behaviour is making us a society of people who are soft, and damages community spirit, beacause people are to scared to say anything to anyone, for fear of getting there head bitten off or worse, sued, I will continue to wolf whistle, its ment as a compliment, if you have a problem with it you should lighten up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I was a women, I would just laugh it off, it's no biggie, no harm ment, bloke's who do it are just having a bit of banter, if you over think the wolf whistle and get offended by it, then I suggest youre taking things to seriusly. some people just wanna b victims'. this kind of behaviour is making us a society of people who are soft, and damages community spirit, beacause people are to scared to say anything to anyone, for fear of getting there head bitten off or worse, sued, I will continue to wolf whistle, its ment as a compliment, if you have a problem with it you should lighten up. "

And do the women you "compliment" see it this way? And can you have banter with people that you don't know but just have the misfortune of being in the same area as you?

To me , unless it is directed at someone you know and that you know will take it as banter then it is totally wrong and unacceptable. To me the image of men on building sites wolf whistling women is something that is as out of place in today's society as the comedy of Jim Davidson or Bernard Manning. As for the suggestion that it is making us as a society soft, that is just laughable. So if your totally un-necessary actions make someone feel uncomfortable, they have the problem and need to toughen up? Seriously?

Back to the OP, I work in an office, I know that I can have a laugh with my colleagues but if I offended a member of the public that was in or ebven worse just passing my office I would be in serious shit. And that is how it should be, the working environment shouldn't dictate whether the behavious is acceptable.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"if I was a women, I would just laugh it off, it's no biggie, no harm ment, bloke's who do it are just having a bit of banter, if you over think the wolf whistle and get offended by it, then I suggest youre taking things to seriusly. some people just wanna b victims'. this kind of behaviour is making us a society of people who are soft, and damages community spirit, beacause people are to scared to say anything to anyone, for fear of getting there head bitten off or worse, sued, I will continue to wolf whistle, its ment as a compliment, if you have a problem with it you should lighten up.

And do the women you "compliment" see it this way? And can you have banter with people that you don't know but just have the misfortune of being in the same area as you?

To me , unless it is directed at someone you know and that you know will take it as banter then it is totally wrong and unacceptable. To me the image of men on building sites wolf whistling women is something that is as out of place in today's society as the comedy of Jim Davidson or Bernard Manning. As for the suggestion that it is making us as a society soft, that is just laughable. So if your totally un-necessary actions make someone feel uncomfortable, they have the problem and need to toughen up? Seriously?

Back to the OP, I work in an office, I know that I can have a laugh with my colleagues but if I offended a member of the public that was in or ebven worse just passing my office I would be in serious shit. And that is how it should be, the working environment shouldn't dictate whether the behavious is acceptable."

You look like a chocolate cake fan wheels,fancy coming back to mine for a slice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I was a women, I would just laugh it off, it's no biggie, no harm ment, bloke's who do it are just having a bit of banter, if you over think the wolf whistle and get offended by it, then I suggest youre taking things to seriusly. some people just wanna b victims'. this kind of behaviour is making us a society of people who are soft, and damages community spirit, beacause people are to scared to say anything to anyone, for fear of getting there head bitten off or worse, sued, I will continue to wolf whistle, its ment as a compliment, if you have a problem with it you should lighten up.

And do the women you "compliment" see it this way? And can you have banter with people that you don't know but just have the misfortune of being in the same area as you?

To me , unless it is directed at someone you know and that you know will take it as banter then it is totally wrong and unacceptable. To me the image of men on building sites wolf whistling women is something that is as out of place in today's society as the comedy of Jim Davidson or Bernard Manning. As for the suggestion that it is making us as a society soft, that is just laughable. So if your totally un-necessary actions make someone feel uncomfortable, they have the problem and need to toughen up? Seriously?

Back to the OP, I work in an office, I know that I can have a laugh with my colleagues but if I offended a member of the public that was in or ebven worse just passing my office I would be in serious shit. And that is how it should be, the working environment shouldn't dictate whether the behavious is acceptable."

kinda agree with all that - but sometimes getting a wolf-whistle from a stranger - makes my day.. whether its a piss take or not !!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

when i as young it wasnt just a wolf whistle but what came with it the ogling and what they used to shout. Was i offended no, i was mortified and embarressed which i think is different. I also wouldnt have reported them back then, because you didnt report people back then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I was a women, I would just laugh it off, it's no biggie, no harm ment, bloke's who do it are just having a bit of banter, if you over think the wolf whistle and get offended by it, then I suggest youre taking things to seriusly. some people just wanna b victims'. this kind of behaviour is making us a society of people who are soft, and damages community spirit, beacause people are to scared to say anything to anyone, for fear of getting there head bitten off or worse, sued, I will continue to wolf whistle, its ment as a compliment, if you have a problem with it you should lighten up.

And do the women you "compliment" see it this way? And can you have banter with people that you don't know but just have the misfortune of being in the same area as you?

To me , unless it is directed at someone you know and that you know will take it as banter then it is totally wrong and unacceptable. To me the image of men on building sites wolf whistling women is something that is as out of place in today's society as the comedy of Jim Davidson or Bernard Manning. As for the suggestion that it is making us as a society soft, that is just laughable. So if your totally un-necessary actions make someone feel uncomfortable, they have the problem and need to toughen up? Seriously?

Back to the OP, I work in an office, I know that I can have a laugh with my colleagues but if I offended a member of the public that was in or ebven worse just passing my office I would be in serious shit. And that is how it should be, the working environment shouldn't dictate whether the behavious is acceptable."

ye the making us soft thing was a rubbish e.g, But the point Im making is that surely there are worse things happaning in are life's, that a harmless wolf whistle shouldnt be somthing we have a little cry about. If for instance you was in the tube station and there was just 1 women and sum lads' or even scarier 1 lad, and it was late and dark, and they/ he whistled at the women, then yeah totally out of order, cuase it would clearly scare her, however, if a women walks past a building site, ( major stereotyoping on this thread by the way) and sum lads whistle, and its middle of the day, then i just think women shouldnt get botherd by it, either laugh it off, or ignore it. there's no malice behind it, theres worse social outrages, e.g, litter, people playing music loudly on the bus, people spitting, swearing. I just think in the big picture its' a preety trivial thing to get so botherd about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i as young it wasnt just a wolf whistle but what came with it the ogling and what they used to shout. Was i offended no, i was mortified and embarressed which i think is different. I also wouldnt have reported them back then, because you didnt report people back then"

thats not just a wolf whistle thoe, when i used to wolf whistle, it would b.....whittt wooooo, good morning darling......thats it, and it would be clear i was freindly cause id b smiling and just doing my job, 9 time out of 10 the girl would just say good morning back, but sumtimes they would exchange banter, and sum told you 2 fuck off lol, but they clearly wer not intimadated, and like i say most of the time they just said good morning back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice this relates to the behavior of blokes in tbe majority although I'm sure guys have been wolf whistled by girls on nights out etc. I work as z musician and have had anything from picking my arse and whispering in my ear hmmm that's firm ( whe I'm singing) tits and arse flashed at me from tbe dancefloor - and most recenly a woman standing behind me shoving her tits in my back running her hands up and down my legs and then putting her hand in my pocket and grabbing my cock - and cos I've got a guitar on I can't stop playing - tbe security guys think it's fun - which if I wasn't working - it would be. I mentioned it later to the manager and he said ' any bloke would give his right arm to get touched up by a girl like thst' - I wonder if it was a girl singer and a bloke doing it would it be the same? Tbe words sex offenders register spring to mind and prob a stint inside for sexual assault?

So it's not one way traffic - for the record I didn't have a problem with any of it but it did make me think - comments?

And she levy before tbe end - the tart!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left before the end - bloody pred txt!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"when i as young it wasnt just a wolf whistle but what came with it the ogling and what they used to shout. Was i offended no, i was mortified and embarressed which i think is different. I also wouldnt have reported them back then, because you didnt report people back then

thats not just a wolf whistle thoe, when i used to wolf whistle, it would b.....whittt wooooo, good morning darling......thats it, and it would be clear i was freindly cause id b smiling and just doing my job, 9 time out of 10 the girl would just say good morning back, but sumtimes they would exchange banter, and sum told you 2 fuck off lol, but they clearly wer not intimadated, and like i say most of the time they just said good morning back"

Can you not accept that some women just don't want that sort of attention when they are trying to walk down the street?

You keep using the word "harmless" whilst ignoring the comments of people saying it wasn't 'harmless' it did have a negative impact oni them, it did make them not wank to walk past the same place again.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"... it did make them not wank to walk past the same place again."

Oops - that should have been "not WANT to walk"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... it did make them not wank to walk past the same place again.

Oops - that should have been "not WANT to walk""

Any woman wanking past a load of builders is asking to be wolf whistled!!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"if I was a women, I would just laugh it off, it's no biggie, no harm ment, bloke's who do it are just having a bit of banter, if you over think the wolf whistle and get offended by it, then I suggest youre taking things to seriusly. some people just wanna b victims'. this kind of behaviour is making us a society of people who are soft, and damages community spirit, beacause people are to scared to say anything to anyone, for fear of getting there head bitten off or worse, sued, I will continue to wolf whistle, its ment as a compliment, if you have a problem with it you should lighten up. "

I read that as saying ... fuck you and fuck what the law says, if it makes me happy I'm gonna do it no matter what anyone here or out there says. I don't care how women feel, if they don't feel the way I want them to feel then tough shit on them.

I trust you show a more understanding side of your nature to your meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i think all this sexual harrasment stuff can be so incredibly one sided at times

watching come dine with me the other day they had Philip Oliver on who is known for his fit bod and the other guest were baracking him to take his top off and show said fit bod even grabbing at him trying to pull his clothes off, now everyone was finding this incredibly funny but Philip was obviously uncomfortable, eventually lifting his top giving them a quick flash of his torso to get them to leave him alone the poor guy was blushing furiously. now i know this guy makes his fortune on his body posing for calenders and magazine shoots in his altogether but does this mean he should be objectified in such a way and lets be honest here if it had been a female being treated in such a way there would of been absolute uproar

now going back to the OP i do think it was harsh sacking them and i don't mind being whistled at, i do think that things can be beyond rediculous in the world of being PC but also i do think a bit more equality at times should be in order or basically i'm saying come on girls (not meaning any one person on here its a general in the big wide world) have some dignity men have feelings too ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I was a women, I would just laugh it off, it's no biggie, no harm ment, bloke's who do it are just having a bit of banter, if you over think the wolf whistle and get offended by it, then I suggest youre taking things to seriusly. some people just wanna b victims'. this kind of behaviour is making us a society of people who are soft, and damages community spirit, beacause people are to scared to say anything to anyone, for fear of getting there head bitten off or worse, sued, I will continue to wolf whistle, its ment as a compliment, if you have a problem with it you should lighten up.

I read that as saying ... fuck you and fuck what the law says, if it makes me happy I'm gonna do it no matter what anyone here or out there says. I don't care how women feel, if they don't feel the way I want them to feel then tough shit on them.

I trust you show a more understanding side of your nature to your meets."

ye well it didnt mean 2 cum across like that, i posted again later, which i think better explains my opinion

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

What's a wolf whistle..........?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i as young it wasnt just a wolf whistle but what came with it the ogling and what they used to shout. Was i offended no, i was mortified and embarressed which i think is different. I also wouldnt have reported them back then, because you didnt report people back then

thats not just a wolf whistle thoe, when i used to wolf whistle, it would b.....whittt wooooo, good morning darling......thats it, and it would be clear i was freindly cause id b smiling and just doing my job, 9 time out of 10 the girl would just say good morning back, but sumtimes they would exchange banter, and sum told you 2 fuck off lol, but they clearly wer not intimadated, and like i say most of the time they just said good morning back

Can you not accept that some women just don't want that sort of attention when they are trying to walk down the street?

You keep using the word "harmless" whilst ignoring the comments of people saying it wasn't 'harmless' it did have a negative impact oni them, it did make them not wank to walk past the same place again."

Ye i am accepting, im just pointing out the view of som1 doing it, like they are pointing out the view of sum1 receiveing it, theres also people who say they appriciate a wolf whistle, theres people who dont, theres people who do it, and theres people who dont do it. carnt please every1, there seem's 2 be more who think its harmless, then people who think it's offensive, so majority rules, ha ha chill out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the common sense approach is if in doubt - don't do it! Wolf whistling a load of girls out on a hen night is probably less likely to cause offence than a woman walking alone down a quiet street when the chances are she's already on edge. I don't do it at all - if I think someone looks nice I'll tell them to their face but there's a time and a place - normally a social environment like a pub or club. Never in tbe street when they are alone - think thatd be a bit creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its harmless and often cheers people up.. as long as its not with leud comments then I dont mind..

What makes me laugh is when women moan at men looking when they are wearing things designed to make men look..

Men are simple creatures... show a bit of leg, bum, or cleavage and they really do behave like kids in a sweet shop.. some may convertly look, some may wolfwhistle..others be a bit more forward.. but the fact is.. men look..

Or most.. there are always the odd exception.. I love to look and see which of the women Master will be looking at.. lol

I know his tastes.

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually im tired of trying not to piss people off here, i accept other peoples views, and cause mine are different they expect me to bow down and accept.....well my true opinion is, if you find a wolf whistle offensive, get a life, my dear god, if you get offended or intimadated by that, you gotta get a grip. its nothing, worse things happen 2 me everyday, a god damm wolf whistle, lmao, why whats so bad about it, is it like a warning some people give before rape. no it ent. has anybody been mentally tormented to the point were the life has been majorly effected. probably not. and if they have well then they were mentally unstable anyway. I clearly say theres a right and wrong time to do it. and obviously u gotta make a judgement call on who 2 do it 2. i wouldnt do it to sum granny, with a zimmer frame, walking down the street on her own, but i would do it 2 group of girl's walking past. why carnt you accept most people dont mind it.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


".... there seem's 2 be more who think its harmless, then people who think it's offensive, so majority rules, ha ha chill out"

Yes there do seem to be more who think it's harmless... on here... a site where wacking your cock out and tugging like a mad man won't raise an eyebrow... where splitting the pitta and rubbing your bean is openly welcomed.

Now go and as a group of parents if they want their young teenage girl to be made to feel uncomfortable walking to the shop by a bunch of letching workmen.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

.....why carnt you accept most people dont mind it."

I can accept some people don't mind it.

I can accept some people find it flattering.

I can also accept some people don't and that some people do find it intimidation or offensive for various reasons.... without needing to tell any of them to "get a life, my dear god, if you get offended or intimadated by that, you gotta get a grip"... because implying they have no right to feel that way is NOT accepting their opinion, feelings or experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i as young it wasnt just a wolf whistle but what came with it the ogling and what they used to shout. Was i offended no, i was mortified and embarressed which i think is different. I also wouldnt have reported them back then, because you didnt report people back then

thats not just a wolf whistle thoe, when i used to wolf whistle, it would b.....whittt wooooo, good morning darling......thats it, and it would be clear i was freindly cause id b smiling and just doing my job, 9 time out of 10 the girl would just say good morning back, but sumtimes they would exchange banter, and sum told you 2 fuck off lol, but they clearly wer not intimadated, and like i say most of the time they just said good morning back"

I have always thought that men who wolf whistle women in the street are stupid morons.

You haven't changed my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i as young it wasnt just a wolf whistle but what came with it the ogling and what they used to shout. Was i offended no, i was mortified and embarressed which i think is different. I also wouldnt have reported them back then, because you didnt report people back then

thats not just a wolf whistle thoe, when i used to wolf whistle, it would b.....whittt wooooo, good morning darling......thats it, and it would be clear i was freindly cause id b smiling and just doing my job, 9 time out of 10 the girl would just say good morning back, but sumtimes they would exchange banter, and sum told you 2 fuck off lol, but they clearly wer not intimadated, and like i say most of the time they just said good morning back

I have always thought that men who wolf whistle women in the street are stupid morons.

You haven't changed my mind."

ive always thought that men who dont, are wet blankets, with no backbone, with no right to call themselves men, you havent changed my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

.....why carnt you accept most people dont mind it.

I can accept some people don't mind it.

I can accept some people find it flattering.

I can also accept some people don't and that some people do find it intimidation or offensive for various reasons.... without needing to tell any of them to "get a life, my dear god, if you get offended or intimadated by that, you gotta get a grip"... because implying they have no right to feel that way is NOT accepting their opinion, feelings or experiences.

"

i accepted yours at 1st, u didnt accept mine, hypocritical, i said in intimidating situations its out of order, in broad daylight in public it ent. its a judgment call. and also i rekon the mojority of people in everyday life would also not find it intimadating

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

i accepted yours at 1st, u didnt accept mine, hypocritical, i said in intimidating situations its out of order, in broad daylight in public it ent. its a judgment call. and also i rekon the mojority of people in everyday life would also not find it intimadating"

Why would I need to accept your view that they should 'get a life' and 'get a grip' if I accept some people don't mind and some people do. Do explain how that is being a hypocrite?

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Impact not intent, that's what we were taught in standards and values.

What may seem like fun or a laugh to some may be found offensive to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

i accepted yours at 1st, u didnt accept mine, hypocritical, i said in intimidating situations its out of order, in broad daylight in public it ent. its a judgment call. and also i rekon the mojority of people in everyday life would also not find it intimadating

Why would I need to accept your view that they should 'get a life' and 'get a grip' if I accept some people don't mind and some people do. Do explain how that is being a hypocrite?"

im onabout earlier up the thread, i was just offereing a different view point, then you said " y crnt you just accept that some people dnt like it" and i said i do accept it, i even said it before u said that, i said i accpet it, i agreed with that, i was just merly saying, that the person who is doing the whistling, would not mean any harm. but you didnt accept that.

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By *e gentle with us OP   Couple
over a year ago

luton

Oh dear

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

.... i was just merly saying, that the person who is doing the whistling, would not mean any harm. but you didnt accept that. "

I don't recall anywhere saying that the whistlers 'intend' to offend/upset/cause harm.

However, by repeatedly calling it 'harmless' implies the person on the revieving end (as you later explained) should 'get a grip'... it even implies it is 'their fault' if they don't like it and tough luck for not seeing it in the way it was intended.

The fact of the matter is, if you whistle at a complete stranger who is minding their own business, you have no idea if it will be a bit of 'harmless' fun to them or not, whatever your intentions are.... and in a grown up world we should accept the impact of our actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

.... i was just merly saying, that the person who is doing the whistling, would not mean any harm. but you didnt accept that.

I don't recall anywhere saying that the whistlers 'intend' to offend/upset/cause harm.

However, by repeatedly calling it 'harmless' implies the person on the revieving end (as you later explained) should 'get a grip'... it even implies it is 'their fault' if they don't like it and tough luck for not seeing it in the way it was intended.

The fact of the matter is, if you whistle at a complete stranger who is minding their own business, you have no idea if it will be a bit of 'harmless' fun to them or not, whatever your intentions are.... and in a grown up world we should accept the impact of our actions.

"

m8 you no what, this is a first, I read it back, I apologise. your right, however I do still stand by people who do it dont mean any harm, but i can accept people wouldnt like it. its one of them it ent gonna stop, so just ignore it i would say, but i c what your saying

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Impact not intent, that's what we were taught in standards and values.

What may seem like fun or a laugh to some may be found offensive to others. "

Very well said,manners cost nothing!

An example from the site with those struggling to understand.

i hang mainly in general chat...where no directing is allowed. The ladies in there choose what they want to show,and men are expected to respect that.

The fact i am naked on cam is MY choice.

Now if we can accept woman have a right to autonomy and to be treated with respect in a chat room,why cant we expect the same treatment on the streets?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"

.... i was just merly saying, that the person who is doing the whistling, would not mean any harm. but you didnt accept that.

I don't recall anywhere saying that the whistlers 'intend' to offend/upset/cause harm.

However, by repeatedly calling it 'harmless' implies the person on the revieving end (as you later explained) should 'get a grip'... it even implies it is 'their fault' if they don't like it and tough luck for not seeing it in the way it was intended.

The fact of the matter is, if you whistle at a complete stranger who is minding their own business, you have no idea if it will be a bit of 'harmless' fun to them or not, whatever your intentions are.... and in a grown up world we should accept the impact of our actions.

"

ffs polo have you borrowed ian paisleys glasses for this thread.

your posts were always,intelligent,informative,open minded,and witty.

all if these traits,have been sadly lacking recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impact not intent, that's what we were taught in standards and values.

What may seem like fun or a laugh to some may be found offensive to others.

Very well said,manners cost nothing!

An example from the site with those struggling to understand.

i hang mainly in general chat...where no directing is allowed. The ladies in there choose what they want to show,and men are expected to respect that.

The fact i am naked on cam is MY choice.

Now if we can accept woman have a right to autonomy and to be treated with respect in a chat room,why cant we expect the same treatment on the streets?"

theres a difference between a wolf whistle, and somebody goin "come on bab, get your rat out"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"We love knowing that guys find chloe attractive and find it a compliment. Read today however two builders nearly lost their jobs over such things. Does it offend anyone here?"

Hi O.P. Glad you like Chloe being wolf whistled at. Long may it happen for you. xx

The builders only 'nearly lost their jobs?' Outrageuos! They should have been sacked. Maybe if they focused on their work they'd not be threatened with the sack. MAYBE it's against company rules to 'harrass' the public. They wouldn't have lost their job if the 'public' hadn't have complained.

No I don't find it offensive. I find it Dated. Moronic, Puerile, Dickless and Cuntish. x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"the lads i manage at work always wolf whhisle us girls when we pop out for lunch

i never take offence i find it flattering "

Then they manage you well Jacs xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"just makes me smile if i get this .. i may even give them a flash if i can , lol "

C'mon Jo, You are really Emily Pankhurst re incarnated aren't you ??

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"We love knowing that guys find chloe attractive and find it a compliment. Read today however two builders nearly lost their jobs over such things. Does it offend anyone here?

Its ridiculous that someones job could be at risk by it, its only fun. I worked in an office as a teen with almost all women, & they revelled in trying to embarrass me. Asking me who had the better cleavage etc, you could have fried eggs on my cheeks! But it was only harmless fun at the end of the day."

Wow ... you must be strong. I'd have ended up sub or sommat after that xxxx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Love a whistle.

You need a backbone where I work as we have some conversation that do tread a fine line and innuendo in everything. Luckily we have a good team so if someone oversteps the mark we back off.

HR would have a field day if they listened in."

Ullooooo Lovelies..... I HATE wolf whistlers. I have a HUGE backbone. I don't have to put up with it and don't .. even when im in the minority.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Also under the considerate constructors scheme if a co worker is bending over and showing 'bum cleavage' you are supposed to alert him for fear of offending a passer by"

I'm totally hypocritical on this one TraMar.... depends on the ass which way my opinion goes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love knowing that guys find chloe attractive and find it a compliment. Read today however two builders nearly lost their jobs over such things. Does it offend anyone here?

Hi O.P. Glad you like Chloe being wolf whistled at. Long may it happen for you. xx

The builders only 'nearly lost their jobs?' Outrageuos! They should have been sacked. Maybe if they focused on their work they'd not be threatened with the sack. MAYBE it's against company rules to 'harrass' the public. They wouldn't have lost their job if the 'public' hadn't have complained.

No I don't find it offensive. I find it Dated. Moronic, Puerile, Dickless and Cuntish. x

"

Do you really think that strongly about such a petty subject, In reality a wolf whistle is not a big deal, is it really. what nxt people asking for the time are out of order, or people asking for change, or directions,

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

ffs polo have you borrowed ian paisleys glasses for this thread.

your posts were always,intelligent,informative,open minded,and witty.

all if these traits,have been sadly lacking recently.

"

Can't a gal have a decent debate with someone without having to entertain everyone else once in a while?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Over 18 years ago I was heavily pregnant and allthe horrid things that it entailed, greasy hair, spots, swollen legs etc, I felt horrible.

In our local shopping centre walking with shopping bags and a rather unattractive maternity cat suit with mis matched shoes (only ones that would fit) this young dishy workman gave me a wolfwhistle.

It made my life, no not my day my life. Have never felt that I look crap ever since.

So wolfwhistle away boys "

If I felt liks shit I'd have thought they were taking the piss. Well done you for having the sense to see he thought you were gojuzzz xxxx

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By *orestersCouple
over a year ago

The Forest

It seems that the majority of opinion on FAB is that women don't mind being whistled at. This is a swinger's site, and that would be exactly the response I would expect from people who are considered to be more sexually adventurous than the "norm".

We don't know the nature of the woman/couple involved, but if you look at a religious-based forum's responses to the wolf-whistling story, you'll find completely opposite views.

Yes, there are women who dislike being sexually summed up by strangers, then notified via the medium of a whistle as to the level of their attractiveness. There just aren't many of those women on here

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've lost the will to live now i've got to the bottom ......

Comments I find wholly out order.

Women need to lighten up a little. ( jesus really - is that pre rape or post rape ? )

Grow a backbone ( Does this mean that the serious business type female managers / leaders/ politicians should be getting their tits out and not upholding a standard of any kind ? ) Come to think of it.... im with you. Women are just sluts to be wanked over.

Get a sense of humour ? ( Great one that one. If a woman objects to you sticking your cock out at her in Tesco. Tell HER she hasn't got a sense of humour. Miserable bitch hey ? )

Why is it when women object to something because it is WRONG, people go ... awwwwwwww she's easily intimidated. She's offended? ) BOLLOCKS your are wrong. Most women - adult women are not scared of you or shocked by you .... just FUCKING WELL BORED of the irritant that is patriarchal knuckle dragging , pre cummers who need to be with a gang of mates to 'look good' Wolf whistlers are seldom lone.

Ruins community spirit! I almost choked. Should be read as ... women are there to do as they are told. To laugh at my jokes and to be fucked to within an inch of their lives with no regard to their pleasures and they will not object or we will brand 'grumpy' on their arse cheeks.

Whose community is it?

Please look up the word community.

Yeah I do love a wolf whistle. From someone I know and like. Would I complain ....... no.

My needs and wants don't really mean anything.... it's WRONG.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

*Funky wolf whistles at Granny*

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I've lost the will to live now i've got to the bottom ......

Comments I find wholly out order.

Women need to lighten up a little. ( jesus really - is that pre rape or post rape ? )

Grow a backbone ( Does this mean that the serious business type female managers / leaders/ politicians should be getting their tits out and not upholding a standard of any kind ? ) Come to think of it.... im with you. Women are just sluts to be wanked over.

Get a sense of humour ? ( Great one that one. If a woman objects to you sticking your cock out at her in Tesco. Tell HER she hasn't got a sense of humour. Miserable bitch hey ? )

Why is it when women object to something because it is WRONG, people go ... awwwwwwww she's easily intimidated. She's offended? ) BOLLOCKS your are wrong. Most women - adult women are not scared of you or shocked by you .... just FUCKING WELL BORED of the irritant that is patriarchal knuckle dragging , pre cummers who need to be with a gang of mates to 'look good' Wolf whistlers are seldom lone.

Ruins community spirit! I almost choked. Should be read as ... women are there to do as they are told. To laugh at my jokes and to be fucked to within an inch of their lives with no regard to their pleasures and they will not object or we will brand 'grumpy' on their arse cheeks.

Whose community is it?

Please look up the word community.

Yeah I do love a wolf whistle. From someone I know and like. Would I complain ....... no.

My needs and wants don't really mean anything.... it's WRONG.

"

Bows in awe at best episode ever!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"We love knowing that guys find chloe attractive and find it a compliment. Read today however two builders nearly lost their jobs over such things. Does it offend anyone here?

Hi O.P. Glad you like Chloe being wolf whistled at. Long may it happen for you. xx

The builders only 'nearly lost their jobs?' Outrageuos! They should have been sacked. Maybe if they focused on their work they'd not be threatened with the sack. MAYBE it's against company rules to 'harrass' the public. They wouldn't have lost their job if the 'public' hadn't have complained.

No I don't find it offensive. I find it Dated. Moronic, Puerile, Dickless and Cuntish. x

Do you really think that strongly about such a petty subject, In reality a wolf whistle is not a big deal, is it really. what nxt people asking for the time are out of order, or people asking for change, or directions, "

In order for me to respond to you at the level you require and deserve, I note that I first have to explain the difference between a sexual advance , the purpose of the Royal Mint and World Wide Banking and the way to the GUM clinic.

I haven't got long enough. xx

Keep whistling and reading my lovely adjectives xxx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"*Funky wolf whistles at Granny*"

Granny goes gooey and opens her legs....

Bloody Badger gets everywhere....scuse a mo funk....

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Granny goes gooey and opens her legs....

Bloody Badger gets everywhere....scuse a mo funk.... "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

woohooooo i didn't get quoted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've lost the will to live now i've got to the bottom ......

Comments I find wholly out order.

Women need to lighten up a little. ( jesus really - is that pre rape or post rape ? )

Grow a backbone ( Does this mean that the serious business type female managers / leaders/ politicians should be getting their tits out and not upholding a standard of any kind ? ) Come to think of it.... im with you. Women are just sluts to be wanked over.

Get a sense of humour ? ( Great one that one. If a woman objects to you sticking your cock out at her in Tesco. Tell HER she hasn't got a sense of humour. Miserable bitch hey ? )

Why is it when women object to something because it is WRONG, people go ... awwwwwwww she's easily intimidated. She's offended? ) BOLLOCKS your are wrong. Most women - adult women are not scared of you or shocked by you .... just FUCKING WELL BORED of the irritant that is patriarchal knuckle dragging , pre cummers who need to be with a gang of mates to 'look good' Wolf whistlers are seldom lone.

Ruins community spirit! I almost choked. Should be read as ... women are there to do as they are told. To laugh at my jokes and to be fucked to within an inch of their lives with no regard to their pleasures and they will not object or we will brand 'grumpy' on their arse cheeks.

Whose community is it?

Please look up the word community.

Yeah I do love a wolf whistle. From someone I know and like. Would I complain ....... no.

My needs and wants don't really mean anything.... it's WRONG.

"

so your comparing a wolf whistle as rape, that does a diservice to rape victims. honestly you must of lived a shelterd life if this offends you so much, theres a massiv difference to asking a girl 2 get her tits out, and having a wolf whistle, a hole world of difference, the backbone thing was tounge in check, in reponse to being called a moron, and community spirit, i meant as people will be scared to have a laugh, and banter, with neighbours, for fear of getting there head bitten off. rubish example and far fetched, but only as far fetched as sitkcing my dick in sum1 at tesco's. Do you live in the real world, or do you live in this really nice world wer the biggest deal on the planet is wolf whistling, I dont no about you, but ive hard worse things happen/said to me then a tounge in cheeck whistle, which is ment to demonstate that that male is saying you are hot, and he is flirting with you. i agree people dont have to like it, but O.T.T reactions like yours are ridiculas.you are well within in your rights to say fuck off, or ignore it. also i only said intimidate, beacause thats what others had said previous.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"woohooooo i didn't get quoted "

Right madam.... Im scrollin back cos I DO know you said sommat naughty ... x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I only disagreed with your last bit xx and applaud your defence of the harrasement of men xxx

( I like to do it a bit myself mind..... but only in private )

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

ohhhhhhhhh i get to use the word mansplaining again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only disagreed with your last bit xx and applaud your defence of the harrasement of men xxx

( I like to do it a bit myself mind..... but only in private ) "

does that make me balanced

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I only disagreed with your last bit xx and applaud your defence of the harrasement of men xxx

( I like to do it a bit myself mind..... but only in private )

does that make me balanced "

Don't be silly or you wouldn't be here :P

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I've lost the will to live now i've got to the bottom ......

Comments I find wholly out order.

Women need to lighten up a little. ( jesus really - is that pre rape or post rape ? )

Grow a backbone ( Does this mean that the serious business type female managers / leaders/ politicians should be getting their tits out and not upholding a standard of any kind ? ) Come to think of it.... im with you. Women are just sluts to be wanked over.

Get a sense of humour ? ( Great one that one. If a woman objects to you sticking your cock out at her in Tesco. Tell HER she hasn't got a sense of humour. Miserable bitch hey ? )

Why is it when women object to something because it is WRONG, people go ... awwwwwwww she's easily intimidated. She's offended? ) BOLLOCKS your are wrong. Most women - adult women are not scared of you or shocked by you .... just FUCKING WELL BORED of the irritant that is patriarchal knuckle dragging , pre cummers who need to be with a gang of mates to 'look good' Wolf whistlers are seldom lone.

Ruins community spirit! I almost choked. Should be read as ... women are there to do as they are told. To laugh at my jokes and to be fucked to within an inch of their lives with no regard to their pleasures and they will not object or we will brand 'grumpy' on their arse cheeks.

Whose community is it?

Please look up the word community.

Yeah I do love a wolf whistle. From someone I know and like. Would I complain ....... no.

My needs and wants don't really mean anything.... it's WRONG.

so your comparing a wolf whistle as rape, that does a diservice to rape victims. honestly you must of lived a shelterd life if this offends you so much, theres a massiv difference to asking a girl 2 get her tits out, and having a wolf whistle, a hole world of difference, the backbone thing was tounge in check, in reponse to being called a moron, and community spirit, i meant as people will be scared to have a laugh, and banter, with neighbours, for fear of getting there head bitten off. rubish example and far fetched, but only as far fetched as sitkcing my dick in sum1 at tesco's. Do you live in the real world, or do you live in this really nice world wer the biggest deal on the planet is wolf whistling, I dont no about you, but ive hard worse things happen/said to me then a tounge in cheeck whistle, which is ment to demonstate that that male is saying you are hot, and he is flirting with you. i agree people dont have to like it, but O.T.T reactions like yours are ridiculas.you are well within in your rights to say fuck off, or ignore it. also i only said intimidate, beacause thats what others had said previous. "

I live in a really really nice world where the worst thing that happens is wolf whistling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only disagreed with your last bit xx and applaud your defence of the harrasement of men xxx

( I like to do it a bit myself mind..... but only in private )

does that make me balanced

Don't be silly or you wouldn't be here :P "

phew had me worried for a mo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've lost the will to live now i've got to the bottom ......

Comments I find wholly out order.

Women need to lighten up a little. ( jesus really - is that pre rape or post rape ? )

Grow a backbone ( Does this mean that the serious business type female managers / leaders/ politicians should be getting their tits out and not upholding a standard of any kind ? ) Come to think of it.... im with you. Women are just sluts to be wanked over.

Get a sense of humour ? ( Great one that one. If a woman objects to you sticking your cock out at her in Tesco. Tell HER she hasn't got a sense of humour. Miserable bitch hey ? )

Why is it when women object to something because it is WRONG, people go ... awwwwwwww she's easily intimidated. She's offended? ) BOLLOCKS your are wrong. Most women - adult women are not scared of you or shocked by you .... just FUCKING WELL BORED of the irritant that is patriarchal knuckle dragging , pre cummers who need to be with a gang of mates to 'look good' Wolf whistlers are seldom lone.

Ruins community spirit! I almost choked. Should be read as ... women are there to do as they are told. To laugh at my jokes and to be fucked to within an inch of their lives with no regard to their pleasures and they will not object or we will brand 'grumpy' on their arse cheeks.

Whose community is it?

Please look up the word community.

Yeah I do love a wolf whistle. From someone I know and like. Would I complain ....... no.

My needs and wants don't really mean anything.... it's WRONG.

so your comparing a wolf whistle as rape, that does a diservice to rape victims. honestly you must of lived a shelterd life if this offends you so much, theres a massiv difference to asking a girl 2 get her tits out, and having a wolf whistle, a hole world of difference, the backbone thing was tounge in check, in reponse to being called a moron, and community spirit, i meant as people will be scared to have a laugh, and banter, with neighbours, for fear of getting there head bitten off. rubish example and far fetched, but only as far fetched as sitkcing my dick in sum1 at tesco's. Do you live in the real world, or do you live in this really nice world wer the biggest deal on the planet is wolf whistling, I dont no about you, but ive hard worse things happen/said to me then a tounge in cheeck whistle, which is ment to demonstate that that male is saying you are hot, and he is flirting with you. i agree people dont have to like it, but O.T.T reactions like yours are ridiculas.you are well within in your rights to say fuck off, or ignore it. also i only said intimidate, beacause thats what others had said previous.

I live in a really really nice world where the worst thing that happens is wolf whistling. "

O right, fair enough then.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

@ Simon..... My post wasn't all about you - Other people said those things.

Leave someone else take credit for their own shit ffs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@ Simon..... My post wasn't all about you - Other people said those things.

Leave someone else take credit for their own shit ffs... "

ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simon carry on with yr views,your fully entitled to say what you want to say....and so what...we dont all pretend we are on university challenge lol x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Simon carry on with yr views,your fully entitled to say what you want to say....and so what...we dont all pretend we are on university challenge lol x"

Simon already has absolution for anything he previously said in the thread up to the point he said I was right

I cannot defend him beyond that point.

Which programme do you pretend to be on then? I bet it's daytime telly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simon carry on with yr views,your fully entitled to say what you want to say....and so what...we dont all pretend we are on university challenge lol x"

lmao I know man, I feel like im at school on these forums, you wouldnt belive it's a swingers website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just be yrself and watch others dig their own graves....its so funny x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Simon carry on with yr views,your fully entitled to say what you want to say....and so what...we dont all pretend we are on university challenge lol x"

No one here pretends to be on University Challenge. Some of us are.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"just be yrself and watch others dig their own graves....its so funny x"

I agree with this one. Im watchin' I'm watchin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep watching

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"just be yrself and watch others dig their own graves....its so funny x"

There has to be a joke in there somewhere, coming from someone in Bury.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Granny snuggles up to suzy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what we watching?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Right I'm off .. Bamber goes Fucking Stonking when I'm late xxxx

It's Jeremy now ... sigh .. Jeremy goes fucking Jape when I'm late xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ummmmm come on granny....bring it on ..love it mwaaaah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmao, this is sad

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

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"lmao, this is sad"

This time I agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only sad when people make it sad x

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

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Well! I think you all smell so nur!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol agree with you...but not quite as strong as mature stilton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah well cant please everyone all of the time, i love getting wolf whistles, sadly its very rare now.

shaz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah well cant please everyone all of the time, i love getting wolf whistles, sadly its very rare now.

shaz "

if your profile pic is anything to go by, you would get a big WiiiiiiitttttWooooooo from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah well cant please everyone all of the time, i love getting wolf whistles, sadly its very rare now.

shaz

if your profile pic is anything to go by, you would get a big WiiiiiiitttttWooooooo from me"

thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what's the general consensus about wolf whistling then?

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