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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This might sound like white knighting much but after seeing something, I must say I feel sorry for the abuse some of you go through

I never realised it's that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This might sound like white knighting much but after seeing something, I must say I feel sorry for the abuse some of you go through

I never realised it's that bad "

Some guys are arses, some aren't OP, it's all about a balance and there's always the option of blocking and reporting. Thankfully I don't get much mail to my box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And on the flip side of that some women can be total bitches, so it's not all one sided.

Disclaimer: I am not a bitch, I am a really nice person

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

There are some real assholes on here but fab does give us the tools to deal with them.

I use my message filters. Report, delete messages and block the sender.

It can be a bit of a nuisance but the assholes just make the good guys stand out more.

Some of us might have a bit of a moan occasionally but it's really not that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get abuse, the majority of men on here are very polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And on the flip side of that some women can be total bitches, so it's not all one sided.

Disclaimer: I am not a bitch, I am a really nice person "

Yes, I agree totally. See so much of it. Unfortunately people are just the same in real life as they are on here. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask what OP means please

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By *resh and dirtyMan
over a year ago

liverpool/wirral

Why is your nose brown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely get abuse, the majority of men on here are very polite "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask what OP means please "

Original poster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an absolute two hat i can assure you. But still slightly lovable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask what OP means please

Original poster"

Ahah thank you kind lady

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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OP this isn't a problem I have thankfully. The guys that message me are pleasant. No complaints here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to confess that sometimes I think the dickheads can be useful.

Though admittedly their only use is to make me look like Sir Galahad in a suit of armour as shiny as my cock itself, riding a noble white steed to the rescue (with a saddlebag for of assorted oils and sextoys) by comparison.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This might sound like white knighting much but after seeing something, I must say I feel sorry for the abuse some of you go through

I never realised it's that bad "

yes it does sound uncannily like white knighting....well done OP

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"OP this isn't a problem I have thankfully. The guys that message me are pleasant. No complaints here "

Yes they are aren't they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to confess that sometimes I think the dickheads can be useful.

Though admittedly their only use is to make me look like Sir Galahad in a suit of armour as shiny as my cock itself, riding a noble white steed to the rescue (with a saddlebag for of assorted oils and sextoys) by comparison."

white knights can be just as bad as the dick on here, IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And on the flip side of that some women can be total bitches, so it's not all one sided.

Disclaimer: I am not a bitch, I am a really nice person "

Totally agree.was shown a message by some lad that he got back from a girl.pure rude.same girl.though thinks she's gods gift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's disgusting how some guys treat ladies on here , I'd like to reassure that there are nice guys on here, just continue to block and report these arseholes !

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"This might sound like white knighting much but after seeing something, I must say I feel sorry for the abuse some of you go through

I never realised it's that bad "

That's why toys were invented

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's the nature of the internet.

Mix in rejection and sexual arousal and you're bound to get people throwing toys out of the pram and becoming abusive.

Not defending it but it's not exclusive to this site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've never received abuse other than someone being a nuisance but holy smokes some people get absolutely crazy!

I can definitely see the downfall of being a lady on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's very rare for us to receive an abusive message. Is it an age thing I wonder as in our age makes us less likely to receive such messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us don't get abusive messages. Some seem to attract and thrive on the drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just block the people that are a arseholes, life is too short to worry. And there have been a few preemptive blocks based on forum posts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had much abuse but I have picked up several stalkers, 3 men, 2 couples and there was even a female one...Fk knows why XXX

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I had an amusing one earlier...

Guy I've never spoken to mailed me and asked to meet in his first mail.

I declined with a polite 'no thank you'

To which I got an angry response accusing me of being shallow because he wasn't a 'sex model' (whatever that is). This from a guy who mailed me asking to meet based on a profile pic he saw online.....

Its a funny old Fab world....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only the odd one is abusive or horrid - the majority are ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to confess that sometimes I think the dickheads can be useful.

Though admittedly their only use is to make me look like Sir Galahad in a suit of armour as shiny as my cock itself, riding a noble white steed to the rescue (with a saddlebag for of assorted oils and sextoys) by comparison.

white knights can be just as bad as the dick on here, IMO "

Oh but I don't even try to be a 'white knight'. Don't get me wrong, I don't think I'm a bad person and I'm all for equality etc, but I'm far too busy with leading ladies astray and encouraging them to take the path to mischief and sin to piss about pretending to be a righteous crusader for women's rights just for the sake of it.

It's just that by comparison the dickheads make me look that way be default. Hey ho, wolf in sheep's clothing it is then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get abuse. I did get one message from a guy threatening violence if he ever saw me. Fab were utterly useless at dealing with him, I might add.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I rarely get abusive messages but if I do it's usually because I've told them I wasn't interested in meeting up with them.

The last shitty message I got was pretty full on and quite nasty. I had to wonder why some people would waste their energy on being so cunty!!! Report/block/erase

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rarely get abuse. I did get one message from a guy threatening violence if he ever saw me. Fab were utterly useless at dealing with him, I might add. "

Report to police, psycho

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