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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() what about us single women who have the same problem? it happens to me too | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() pfft, Start your own thread But I have a feeling if you do it will be more popular then this one ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go ![]() | |||
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"I can think of three single men, off the top of my head, who use the forums, all of which cannot accommodate but are still popular on here, because they're willing to make a meet work, such as travelling and helping towards hotel costs, or attending clubs or socials - and I've met the three in question. A good, positive attitude works wonders on here, regardless of whether you're a single man, a single lady or a couple. Honey gets more flies than vinegar." That's only because she never washes... I'm so dead ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes! You could join the long line of men following the women around! ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() presumably,in most cases, it would be clear from their profile criteria in the first place that they were looking for someone who could accom..most messages i get are from people who can't,despite what my profile says.. | |||
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"I can think of three single men, off the top of my head, who use the forums, all of which cannot accommodate but are still popular on here, because they're willing to make a meet work, such as travelling and helping towards hotel costs, or attending clubs or socials - and I've met the three in question. A good, positive attitude works wonders on here, regardless of whether you're a single man, a single lady or a couple. Honey gets more flies than vinegar. That's only because she never washes... I'm so dead ![]() You big meanie pants! ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() so he should try an organised social then....meet people that way first.. but posting endless threads about isn't getting him anywhere | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() Same here mate ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I can think of three single men, off the top of my head, who use the forums, all of which cannot accommodate but are still popular on here, because they're willing to make a meet work, such as travelling and helping towards hotel costs, or attending clubs or socials - and I've met the three in question. A good, positive attitude works wonders on here, regardless of whether you're a single man, a single lady or a couple. Honey gets more flies than vinegar. That's only because she never washes... I'm so dead ![]() ![]() It's been nice knowing you ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ha hey no good getting frustrated about it accept its gonna happen and move on ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But where's the fun in that? He is in his happy place when he can moan and blame others ![]() | |||
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"It's a bit pointless one member who can't accommodate messaging another who can't either to be honest. Unless both parties profiles say up for car or outdoor sex. It's quite likely men messaging such females have not read the females profile and are rejected as much for that as not being able to accommodate. XXX" Or book a hotel for the weekend. | |||
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"I don't think many single men get rejected for being single to be fair... I think it's the 'can't accom' bit as a lot will assume that's because you're either spoken for/living with parents/live in a place of satanic worship?" And to be brutally honest, some single men will be rejected for looks. There. Said it! People have fun with others they find attractive and that is just the way it is. | |||
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"It's a bit pointless one member who can't accommodate messaging another who can't either to be honest. Unless both parties profiles say up for car or outdoor sex. It's quite likely men messaging such females have not read the females profile and are rejected as much for that as not being able to accommodate. XXX Or book a hotel for the weekend." why would anyone get rejected because of accommodation hotels and guest houses in abundance in this country at very reasonable rates also facilitates those who like to remain private ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() Loads but as I say on my profile there are other places to meet such as clubs or happy to pay for a hotel......but if that's not good enough then I won't lose any sleep by not meeting them Couples can be different as most only seem to want to swap....so being single is a draw back for them. Most say they cannot accommodate for a reason usually kids so maybe before rejecting a single because he cannot accommodate they should ask why not......if the guy is a nice guy should it matter if it's a club, house or hotel? | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() Don't believe you.......I would reject you for that reason ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() so are you saying you've not been with a woman for 21 years? | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() What have you been upfront and honest about that has caused you to be rejected? | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() I would have discounted you in the first instance though...so the rejection would have been ok ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() you have been to clubs already? | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() yes i try that for 9 years before joining here due to a guy and a couple telling to try this site.. ![]() | |||
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"Never because I can accommodate and I shave my legs and being a bloke wearing a frock has worked wonders for my success rate... ![]() Yeah I want frock back get your own, most annoying you look better in it than I do ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() So your last club visit was 9 years ago? The environment is probably vastly different now, so I'd suggest you give it another whirl. | |||
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"I don't think many single men get rejected for being single to be fair... I think it's the 'can't accom' bit as a lot will assume that's because you're either spoken for/living with parents/live in a place of satanic worship? And to be brutally honest, some single men will be rejected for looks. There. Said it! People have fun with others they find attractive and that is just the way it is. " ...and constant whining but never taking the advice you ask for isn't very attractive either.. | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() Bigger mistype....sorry...I meant I WOULDNT reject you for that reason ![]() ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You've already done an amazing job on your looks! Now we need to crack your shyness... ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() It's been months since I've played at home. I think I might have to change my profile to "cannot accommodate"... ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Thanks for the complement but it seem you got to be Mr prefect on here lol. When I was going to social or a club I was 6 stone ten pound heavier which I am slowly changing still got to lose more and maybe think of having cosmetic surgery done to once I’ve hit my target to hide my knife wounds are more but I only posted this as friendly banter but I apologise for posting this forum.. ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() never apologise OP but tbh it's never friendly banter, there is always a theme.. you have been given oodles of advice yet you consistently ignore it and post another thread instead... if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() i see i do not remember people give it so i am sorry but thanks sexy PS I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ORGANISED A SOCIAL I DID POST A MEET BEFORE WHICH DID NOT WORK IF I HAD A WING MAN MAYBE I BE LUCK LOL | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I didn't say you should organise a social...I said you should look for an organised social ...one that someone else has organised...and get your name down...only you can make it happen, you don't need a wing man to go to a pub and meet other people ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() i do because no one understand me due to my accent ![]() | |||
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"Bloody hell man, all you do is continually put up obstacles for yourself. Unless you communicate in a series of grunts and growls, then I imagine you can get a conversation across. The only thing stopping you is yourself. A wingman won't be able to pull a woman on your behalf. Just take the plunge and put yourself out there. " ![]() | |||
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"It's a bit pointless one member who can't accommodate messaging another who can't either to be honest. Unless both parties profiles say up for car or outdoor sex. It's quite likely men messaging such females have not read the females profile and are rejected as much for that as not being able to accommodate. XXX Or book a hotel for the weekend.why would anyone get rejected because of accommodation hotels and guest houses in abundance in this country at very reasonable rates also facilitates those who like to remain private ![]() ![]() | |||
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"...i find it hard to accept some men will never have success as there's a wide variety of women out here looking for all sorts of things in men." This. ![]() | |||
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"Bloody hell man, all you do is continually put up obstacles for yourself. Unless you communicate in a series of grunts and growls, then I imagine you can get a conversation across. The only thing stopping you is yourself. A wingman won't be able to pull a woman on your behalf. Just take the plunge and put yourself out there. " Completely agree. All OP does is complain about how hard it is to get meets/ make friends/ etc. Yet he has excuses for every suggestion that is ever made to him. It's getting tedious. Last week his status read 'not posting anymore pics due to no one liking them ' Since then he's posted 10's more of them ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Bollocks! You are perfectly able to communicate verbally! I don't think you actually want to meet! | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() are you seriously trying to say that no-one can understand you in everyday life because you have a SA accent? | |||
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" if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one ![]() ![]() ![]() Bloody hell man, you have every bloody excuse in the book to call upon when needed ![]() ![]() | |||
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" if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'll do that, I'll pick a proper hotty as well. ![]() | |||
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"I'd like to shag a lady on his behalf as well. I'd be a cool wing man. Squadron Leader Steve ![]() I feel like shagging him just to shut him up. . . ..and I'm not even into men ![]() | |||
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" if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Fuck at my rate of success this year so far, I might even put myself forward for wingman and I'm straight ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'd like to shag a lady on his behalf as well. I'd be a cool wing man. Squadron Leader Steve ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'd like to shag a lady on his behalf as well. I'd be a cool wing man. Squadron Leader Steve ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Personally I would say you don't sound much fun, you always appear to have the miseries." And that's my job around here. | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() ![]() I can testify this last line is a lie | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() Been rejected far to many times to remember but usually "because I'm not there type" Don't over analyse it, it's there choice just accept and move on | |||
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"I'd like to shag a lady on his behalf as well. I'd be a cool wing man. Squadron Leader Steve ![]() ![]() awwwww a sympathy shag ![]() | |||
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"I'd like to shag a lady on his behalf as well. I'd be a cool wing man. Squadron Leader Steve ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'd like to shag a lady on his behalf as well. I'd be a cool wing man. Squadron Leader Steve ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? ![]() I'm single and can accom.... but it's easier to get blood out a stone | |||
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