FabSwingers.com forum: Given a chance?

By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

I'm sure you all hear this all the time but how does a guy on here with no verifications actually progress I just get messages instantly deleted or replies with 'sorry we only meet with verifications' any advice would be greatly appreciated many thanks

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The advice is, generally, to join in on here, get to socials and go on camera to get a camera verification.

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By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

Ok I'll give that a try thank you for the reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FOCUS (amateurs will tell you Patience, pay what do they know, patience never got anyone anywhere).

Now Focus is the key, select a demographic, read through that demographics profile type (see how they write, what they like, what kind of photos they have), then match your profile to theirs....

Anyone tells you "patience" kick em in their fiddly bits and run away laughing

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By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

Sounds plausible thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women will always look at a profile before even opening a message...bear that in mind...and , as above, patience will get you nowhere without a profile

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By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

Oh ok so maybe that's why half of them go unread?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"FOCUS (amateurs will tell you Patience, pay what do they know, patience never got anyone anywhere).

Now Focus is the key, select a demographic, read through that demographics profile type (see how they write, what they like, what kind of photos they have), then match your profile to theirs....

Anyone tells you "patience" kick em in their fiddly bits and run away laughing"

Have you seen Shag's pictures? He spends all of his time at the gym.

Focus is good advice, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh ok so maybe that's why half of them go unread? "

i expect so, yes.

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By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

Shags? Who's that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FOCUS (amateurs will tell you Patience, pay what do they know, patience never got anyone anywhere).

Now Focus is the key, select a demographic, read through that demographics profile type (see how they write, what they like, what kind of photos they have), then match your profile to theirs....

Anyone tells you "patience" kick em in their fiddly bits and run away laughing

Have you seen Shag's pictures? He spends all of his time at the gym.

Focus is good advice, though.

Thats because he has focus, he focuses on the Gym.... patience, well, i don't know how he is doing for meets these days (not that I know who you are talking about, I have never been here before....damn and blast...nearly outed myself)...

ermmmm OP - FOCUS. Match your profile to the demographic that appeals to you most...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just looked at your profile and based on that we would meet you since it tells me nothing on what your into.what your looking for what you like . Maybe have a look at a few vertifed guys profile and maybe get some tips lv good luck xx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Hey, righty - ho.

People's brains work and perceive things differently. From my brain, just your name made me think "nope"

I tell ya the reason. I like to make friends with people I meet. Your name didn't tell me you wanted to be my mate, it says you only want to know me for sex (I'm not saying you actually have any interest in me- but I hope you get what I mean)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

need something to look at and something more to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

Ok thanks I think your right there it definitely requires some work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol"

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By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

Ambrosial says I have to kick you in the fiddly bits for saying that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet people socially and ask them to verify you. My veris are from people I know on a social basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't nick my pics ok i know its tempting. ha

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By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

Never really though about that and I do get what you mean it's screaming one night only! And that's not actually what I'm looking for you can never have too many friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ambrosial says I have to kick you in the fiddly bits for saying that lol "

and run away laughing... that's the important bit

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By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

Haha I don't even get the chance for that!

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By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

I would but you have no verifications either lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I would but you have no verifications either lol "

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Welcome to the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would but you have no verifications either lol

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Welcome to the forum.

Hold on, I don't have any verifications... that's bang out of order.

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By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

"I would but you have no verifications either lol

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Welcome to the forum.

Ah thanks for this advice

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I would but you have no verifications either lol

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Welcome to the forum.

Hold on, I don't have any verifications... that's bang out of order. "

May I suggest you a) FOCUS, b) have patience, c) follow the instructions in my first post?

And, welcome to the forum.

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By *estoralever OP Man
over a year ago

cheshire/staffordshire

"I would but you have no verifications either lol

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Welcome to the forum.

Hold on, I don't have any verifications... that's bang out of order. "

I wasn't actually on about your good self lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would but you have no verifications either lol

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Welcome to the forum.

Hold on, I don't have any verifications... that's bang out of order.

May I suggest you a) FOCUS, b) have patience, c) follow the instructions in my first post?

And, welcome to the forum.

That is so NOT cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would but you have no verifications either lol

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Welcome to the forum.

Hold on, I don't have any verifications... that's bang out of order.

I wasn't actually on about your good self lol"

We are all rowing in the same boat chap, keep a sunny disposition, lighten up your profile with what makes others tick and boom you'll be neck deep in the right stuff....

Remember DON'T BE YOURSELF.... BE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE WANT YOU TO BE

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Remember DON'T BE YOURSELF.... BE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE WANT YOU TO BE"

OP, ignore this last bit; it's written by someone without any verifications. Be yourself, but the self YOU, and others, would be interested to meet. Your profile is your shop window.

I've got boobs and a quim and it's still not straightforward for me to meet. You have a cock, and there are many of those on here, so you will have to work harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would but you have no verifications either lol

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Welcome to the forum.

Hold on, I don't have any verifications... that's bang out of order.

I wasn't actually on about your good self lol

We are all rowing in the same boat chap, keep a sunny disposition, lighten up your profile with what makes others tick and boom you'll be neck deep in the right stuff....

Remember DON'T BE YOURSELF.... BE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE WANT YOU TO BE"

You can't fake likeability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember DON'T BE YOURSELF.... BE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE WANT YOU TO BE

OP, ignore this last bit; it's written by someone without any verifications. Be yourself, but the self YOU, and others, would be interested to meet. Your profile is your shop window.

I've got boobs and a quim and it's still not straightforward for me to meet. You have a cock, and there are many of those on here, so you will have to work harder.

Okay, I will have to swallow that bitter pill.... OP, follow the wonderful advice that the peeps on here are giving you, be patient.... it might just work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience and time took me a long time on here before getting a meet and verification, dont just go for anyone out of desperation either, i prefer to be fussier but also fewer meets because of it.

Always stick to your standards and be true to yourself. It will happen

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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Excellent profiles get better results usually than the same people who have profiles that aren't as great - when messages are received, the sender's profile is viewed - hence its importance. That's verified or not but useful to think about how you can increase your potential.

Your profile is sex only, or words to that effect - but there are tons of us who are friendly... You potentially miss out, if just aiming for the sex. Meet us, get to know and find the support you need.

There are socials, clubs and other ways to meet up.

Not forgetting all the other ways you can improve your odds. Good luck!

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