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By *ddit... OP   Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

Out on a solo adventure.. music is good.. may some new people tonight and had a laugh..

Does anyone else go out by themselves to have fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to do it years ago when no one else was up for a night out. It's easy to meet people when you're out and about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out on a solo adventure.. music is good.. may some new people tonight and had a laugh..

Does anyone else go out by themselves to have fun? "

Yes...many of the best nights of my many moons on this planet have been solo adventures...mostly seem to meet amazing people... end up in crazy parties..and so on...its a bit like being a traveler....a mover in different social circles. Its especially lovely when a group of people who all know each other... invite you into their lives for a night or several... and the amount of times kink becomes available through the vanilla avenues ha..I guess perhaps some give off a signal...a sign...everyone's different.

Perhaps your solo adventure has come to a close...or perhaps your on a wild ride through the nite.

Enjoy what ever you get up to sir...and stay safe on your solo adventure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to post earlier about men on solo adventures.. but what about women on solo adventures.. I'm quite confident but I don't think I'd be confident going out out as a solo adventurer.. why is it socially acceptable for men to be solo in the pub/bars but not us ladies?

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By *ddit... OP   Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

It shouldn't be gender specific... I kinda flitter about... it's about having fun.. not about copping off..

i am a man though... I know men's perception of a woman on night out wrongly is that they are looking for a potential partner...

Do it... put yourself out there... I'm in sales so in a way it helps with my job to be out going.. to talk to everyone... to have and handle different experiences... I love it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll often go for food by myself if I'm out shopping or if I've just finished work I'll stop at a pub and sit with my diary but id never go out intentionally by myself, I'd feel silly. Soft I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to post earlier about men on solo adventures.. but what about women on solo adventures.. I'm quite confident but I don't think I'd be confident going out out as a solo adventurer.. why is it socially acceptable for men to be solo in the pub/bars but not us ladies? "

It surely depends upon the place..the bar as such. I guess in the real world a single woman would likely get hit on all the time. I did at times of my life meet women in bars out on solo adventures.. perhaps us solo people seeking eachother out, who knows, but I think the problem for women is more an issue of safety as a solo adventure. Its the same as a woman being a solo traveler. Its not much different than being a male solo traveler...are dangers out there on own...I've done lot of solo travels around world. As have many women I've spoken to and met off here. Some been some crazy jungle adventures...I could only dream of.

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By *ddit... OP   Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"I'll often go for food by myself if I'm out shopping or if I've just finished work I'll stop at a pub and sit with my diary but id never go out intentionally by myself, I'd feel silly. Soft I know "

It's not soft... you're just not used to it.. xx

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By *ddit... OP   Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"I was going to post earlier about men on solo adventures.. but what about women on solo adventures.. I'm quite confident but I don't think I'd be confident going out out as a solo adventurer.. why is it socially acceptable for men to be solo in the pub/bars but not us ladies?

It surely depends upon the place..the bar as such. I guess in the real world a single woman would likely get hit on all the time. I did at times of my life meet women in bars out on solo adventures.. perhaps us solo people seeking eachother out, who knows, but I think the problem for women is more an issue of safety as a solo adventure. Its the same as a woman being a solo traveler. Its not much different than being a male solo traveler...are dangers out there on own...I've done lot of solo travels around world. As have many women I've spoken to and met off here. Some been some crazy jungle adventures...I could only dream of."

Safety is unfortunately a concern... it shouldn't be.. men can be arse holes... it's reality..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll often go for food by myself if I'm out shopping or if I've just finished work I'll stop at a pub and sit with my diary but id never go out intentionally by myself, I'd feel silly. Soft I know "

I've looked at your photos. You could intentionally go out on your own and enjoy yourself just as much as in your social circle you know. I'm sure of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll often go for food by myself if I'm out shopping or if I've just finished work I'll stop at a pub and sit with my diary but id never go out intentionally by myself, I'd feel silly. Soft I know

It's not soft... you're just not used to it.. xx"

I hardly go out socially anyway so I'd feel even weirder on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was going to post earlier about men on solo adventures.. but what about women on solo adventures.. I'm quite confident but I don't think I'd be confident going out out as a solo adventurer.. why is it socially acceptable for men to be solo in the pub/bars but not us ladies?

It surely depends upon the place..the bar as such. I guess in the real world a single woman would likely get hit on all the time. I did at times of my life meet women in bars out on solo adventures.. perhaps us solo people seeking eachother out, who knows, but I think the problem for women is more an issue of safety as a solo adventure. Its the same as a woman being a solo traveler. Its not much different than being a male solo traveler...are dangers out there on own...I've done lot of solo travels around world. As have many women I've spoken to and met off here. Some been some crazy jungle adventures...I could only dream of.

Safety is unfortunately a concern... it shouldn't be.. men can be arse holes... it's reality.. "

Yes I do agree. Its a sad fact. And I guess things bit different now a days but then it depends upon the venue. The scene. The place. I'm sure as a single woman. You could go to some gay/bi bars and then a club and have a wild time without so much as any bother from a bloke. I used to club a lot during the 90s as a straight clubber frequenting gay bars and clubs...house clubs...gay techno clubs...always went out on own..always best nights...however as a straight bloke...I used to get my bum pinched lot haha I used to laugh it off haha

I'm sure in right places u could solo it up without conflict... and have best time of your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll often go for food by myself if I'm out shopping or if I've just finished work I'll stop at a pub and sit with my diary but id never go out intentionally by myself, I'd feel silly. Soft I know

It's not soft... you're just not used to it.. xx

I hardly go out socially anyway so I'd feel even weirder on my own "

Do you like your own company? Or just choose to hardly go out socially?

Why would you feel weird being on your own in a social setting?

Do you feel less weird sitting on your own at home...I guess its how others would see you your worried about. You truly have no need..I'm sure others could push positive vibes your way to encourage you to forget what others think. Your you. Don't let others make u feel weird...by sitting on your own out in social setting...its very easy to converse with people in social bar or club setting..sounds like you would like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll often go for food by myself if I'm out shopping or if I've just finished work I'll stop at a pub and sit with my diary but id never go out intentionally by myself, I'd feel silly. Soft I know

It's not soft... you're just not used to it.. xx

I hardly go out socially anyway so I'd feel even weirder on my own

Do you like your own company? Or just choose to hardly go out socially?

Why would you feel weird being on your own in a social setting?

Do you feel less weird sitting on your own at home...I guess its how others would see you your worried about. You truly have no need..I'm sure others could push positive vibes your way to encourage you to forget what others think. Your you. Don't let others make u feel weird...by sitting on your own out in social setting...its very easy to converse with people in social bar or club setting..sounds like you would like"

I like my own company, all my friends are married etc and were not really a group of friends that go out as singles if you get me. Just life I guess. I'm not an introvert in fact the opposite. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll often go for food by myself if I'm out shopping or if I've just finished work I'll stop at a pub and sit with my diary but id never go out intentionally by myself, I'd feel silly. Soft I know

It's not soft... you're just not used to it.. xx

I hardly go out socially anyway so I'd feel even weirder on my own

Do you like your own company? Or just choose to hardly go out socially?

Why would you feel weird being on your own in a social setting?

Do you feel less weird sitting on your own at home...I guess its how others would see you your worried about. You truly have no need..I'm sure others could push positive vibes your way to encourage you to forget what others think. Your you. Don't let others make u feel weird...by sitting on your own out in social setting...its very easy to converse with people in social bar or club setting..sounds like you would like

I like my own company, all my friends are married etc and were not really a group of friends that go out as singles if you get me. Just life I guess. I'm not an introvert in fact the opposite. X"

Yes I understand you...however think then you could have the time of your life and actually maybe end up in a totally different social circle or extended circles... yes is life...but meeting new people is good. Its refreshing. People both men and women are interesting. We are amazing machines the human body...haha getting deep

It sounds like a night out on your own would do you some good...a new perspective on life

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'll go to a club on my own.

I don't go to normal pubs or clubs on my own. Am happy to go for food on my lonesome

I'm so tired. Bed.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


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Safety is unfortunately a concern... it shouldn't be.. men can be arse holes... it's reality..

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That is very true, and not something blokes realise most of the time.

We are able to do pretty much what we like, where we like, when we like. Without a thought...

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By *ddit... OP   Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

Awesome night... ha to stave off the advances of a woman who I just wasn't interested in though.. I even escaped to the toilet... when I came out she was set outside the men's... got that bad in the end I made my excuses and left..

Really enjoyed the dancing and music though...

Wooohoooo

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