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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you prefer? To give oral to to get oral?

Personally I love giving. I do enjoy getting as well, but so long as its about a 75/25% ratio I'm a happy girl, what about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love giving, hate recieving. it does nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am 50/50 I enjoy but if other person likes love give

Or skip that an fuck lol

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am a guy, so getting is always going to be first on my list.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I love a good suck, so a giver for me.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I love a good suck, so a giver for me."

Good to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love giving, hate recieving. it does nothing for me "

Never thought I would ever hear that from man or woman!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Love both but always get more turned on giving than receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? To give oral to to get oral?

Personally I love giving. I do enjoy getting as well, but so long as its about a 75/25% ratio I'm a happy girl, what about you?

"

with men, has to be a bit of both

with women, i could be down there all night if requested

i have to admit tho if i am getting head i prefer it be from someone who doesn't look horrified or nauseous when i cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I love a bit of both, but enjoy giving pleasure its a big turn on to see a woman enjoying it

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Giving is more fun - even more fun when bi

On the topic of women not liking, some dislike the gentle lick lick style, and some have been put off by blokes who go at it like eating a cornish pasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i`d prefer gettin

its al me me me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? To give oral to to get oral?

Personally I love giving. I do enjoy getting as well, but so long as its about a 75/25% ratio I'm a happy girl, what about you?

with men, has to be a bit of both

with women, i could be down there all night if requested

i have to admit tho if i am getting head i prefer it be from someone who doesn't look horrified or nauseous when i cum "

also not a massive fan of deepthroating - much prefer a gobbly wank or even better, the other person on their knees, mouth open, tongue out with me stood over them

(sorry to all those that thought i was nice quiet boy )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i`d prefer gettin

its al me me me "

mmmmm close to perfect then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i`d prefer gettin

its al me me me

mmmmm close to perfect then "

lol am far, FAR from perfect

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like recieving but much much prefer giving

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"What do you prefer? To give oral to to get oral?

Personally I love giving. I do enjoy getting as well, but so long as its about a 75/25% ratio I'm a happy girl, what about you?

"
Id agree with you there, maybe 80-20 pour moi though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like recieving but much much prefer giving"

I wonder if that is a strong opinion amongst fems.....so maybe then when it comes to oral I am in touch with my feminine side! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta admit that a good BJ is the best ever intense feeling, as for pleasure and sensuousness I love to give, the smell the taste the wimpers, and thats only me...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too enjoy giving more than receiving...if that's the case and most women here agree.......how come so many men say their wife never gives them a BJ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once they get the ring on their finger its job done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gotta admit that a good BJ is the best ever intense feeling, as for pleasure and sensuousness I love to give, the smell the taste the wimpers, and thats only me...lol "

Yeh that is it in a nutshell...the horniness of hearing and seeing the pleasured look on a fem's face and tasting the results is a huge turn on. I suppose I feel that way with nipple pleasure as well.....when with someone who's nipples are sensitive and they get really turned on...now love giving and receiving that pleasure as well...but I digress! lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"once they get the ring on their finger its job done "
what you like a finger up ya ass at the same time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"once they get the ring on their finger its job done "

well thats not all women ya know we have been married 22 years and i'd still gladly give him a blow job daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"once they get the ring on their finger its job done what you like a finger up ya ass at the same time? "

no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? To give oral to to get oral?

Personally I love giving. I do enjoy getting as well, but so long as its about a 75/25% ratio I'm a happy girl, what about you?

with men, has to be a bit of both

with women, i could be down there all night if requested

i have to admit tho if i am getting head i prefer it be from someone who doesn't look horrified or nauseous when i cum

also not a massive fan of deepthroating - much prefer a gobbly wank or even better, the other person on their knees, mouth open, tongue out with me stood over them

(sorry to all those that thought i was nice quiet boy )"

ooooo my fave position

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"once they get the ring on their finger its job done what you like a finger up ya ass at the same time?

no! "
well you just said ring on their finger and job done !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"once they get the ring on their finger its job done

well thats not all women ya know we have been married 22 years and i'd still gladly give him a blow job daily "

lucky him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love both its a two way thing for me i give back what i get xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I too enjoy giving more than receiving...if that's the case and most women here agree.......how come so many men say their wife never gives them a BJ? "

My mate's been married for 30yrs and he's never given or received oral sex.

He said his wife doesn't feel she can do it, and he says he doesn't miss what he's never had.

He seems happy enough with his lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer giving than receiving any day..

I dont dislike receiving but some guys think thats the be all and end all .

Why do they think you want them down doing that for hours ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I too enjoy giving more than receiving...if that's the case and most women here agree.......how come so many men say their wife never gives them a BJ? "

The women on here must be a completely different species! I have only ever had one partner who spent any where near the amount of time I did, reciprocating oral. Most think they're done as soon as they put it in their mouth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"once they get the ring on their finger its job done what you like a finger up ya ass at the same time?

no! well you just said ring on their finger and job done !"

clever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I too enjoy giving more than receiving...if that's the case and most women here agree.......how come so many men say their wife never gives them a BJ?

My mate's been married for 30yrs and he's never given or received oral sex.

He said his wife doesn't feel she can do it, and he says he doesn't miss what he's never had.

He seems happy enough with his lot "

one of my m8s basically has to wait until his wife is pissed to receive oral

tho why any1 wud want a cock in their gob after 3 litres of lambrini i'll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I practice by licking all the jam out of a jam jar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dip a dick in baileys and ill lick it for ages

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

love to give and receive

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Dip a dick in baileys and ill lick it for ages "

Dripping Baileys everywhere, what are you waiting for.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao......

The flight...its a long way to paisley....

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Lmao......

The flight...its a long way to paisley.... "

At least you know where to fine me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lmao......

The flight...its a long way to paisley....

At least you know where to fine me. "

Will you be the one in the accessable kilt , holding a bottle of baileys ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a little self centred then, as much as i like to pleasure other people, i prefer to be on the recieving end!!

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Lmao......

The flight...its a long way to paisley....

At least you know where to fine me.

Will you be the one in the accessable kilt , holding a bottle of baileys ? "

That'll be me, fancy a man in a skirt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freeeeeeeeedom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give for me

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Freeeeeeeeedom "

Waves sword in direction of Peaches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fan of fellatio - giving or receiving. I enjoy cunnilingus but not as much as having my cock sucked for half an hour non stop.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I love giving oral sex, either to male or female.

However, I really don't like receiving. Get bored. Does very little for me.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead


"I love giving oral sex, either to male or female.

However, I really don't like receiving. Get bored. Does very little for me. "

Is that not why people have parties, so they can get enough people to keep them occupied and not bored

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I love giving oral sex, either to male or female.

However, I really don't like receiving. Get bored. Does very little for me.

Is that not why people have parties, so they can get enough people to keep them occupied and not bored "

Doesn't matter how many people there are, still find it boring!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big fan of fellatio - giving or receiving. I enjoy cunnilingus but not as much as having my cock sucked for half an hour non stop. "

I liked Fellatio when he played for Santos

I'd rather have a bj to completion than a shag on most occaisions

I like to give too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? To give oral to to get oral?

Personally I love giving. I do enjoy getting as well, but so long as its about a 75/25% ratio I'm a happy girl, what about you?

"

Happily let you give mr oral.

I love to give and receive, but am not tofussy if I get or dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think i enjoy one more or less than the other,i particularly enjoy soixante-neuf,yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think i enjoy one more or less than the other,i particularly enjoy soixante-neuf,yummy"

can't really get into 69's - too much goin on and the view is often terrible for at least 1 party !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think i enjoy one more or less than the other,i particularly enjoy soixante-neuf,yummy

can't really get into 69's - too much goin on and the view is often terrible for at least 1 party ! "

the view?

its not a coach trip

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"i dont think i enjoy one more or less than the other,i particularly enjoy soixante-neuf,yummy

can't really get into 69's - too much goin on and the view is often terrible for at least 1 party ! "

Closed eyes can work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont think i enjoy one more or less than the other,i particularly enjoy soixante-neuf,yummy

can't really get into 69's - too much goin on and the view is often terrible for at least 1 party ! "

duck tape down the bum crack is a good low cost sollution with the added value so akin to a crack wax when you're finished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I too enjoy giving more than receiving...if that's the case and most women here agree.......how come so many men say their wife never gives them a BJ? "

I think my ex didn't do it because she knew I enjoyed it. I didn't want to ask her why so my girlfriend asked her on the phone - after that the sex stopped altogether - not a clue why though!!!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Looking at the responses on here, why is it that guys seem to think they have to go on for hours (or breathe through their ears!) when giving oral to a fem? I don’t mind giving oral, but not for too long! As someone else said, it gets boring! Of course I like receiving a BJ, but again after 10/15 minutes I am all oralled out!

Seems a tad more communication is needed. Women in general (on this thread at least) like to give and perhaps receive a little and the guys love to receive! OK, some guys have stated that they love to give oral and will for hours if asked, but I really don’t subscribe to that at all! Most of the people we have played with have said during conversation that they prefer to snog and cuddle and generally play about rather than give or have hours of oral!

Now, give a girl a vibrator!.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a 50/50 man but go with the flow at the time and if its right you do it.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I would rather kiss than receive oral sex.. Giving I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind giving i love getting but its only ever fun receiving if who ever is giving it really wants to.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I enjoy giving much more than I enjoy receiving. I wouldn't say being licked does nothing for me, of course it does. If you are relaxed and carefree it's enjoyable stimulation... but after a while I'll want to do something else as it is just pleasant stimulation and doesn't get me there even if he stays down their all night.

It's sometimes a little disheartening how many people only ever talk about giving oral sex for hours when talking about foreplay... when there are so many other fantasic things to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather kiss... "

... than just about anything!

love oral any old way too mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer giving to getting..

its a lovely feeling to get oral but just prefer to give..

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like receiving and if my nipples are played with mmmm seems my cock gets even harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? To give oral to to get oral?

Personally I love giving. I do enjoy getting as well, but so long as its about a 75/25% ratio I'm a happy girl, what about you?

"

Honestly, I much prefer giving, I soon lose interest receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love receiving oral so long as its done right, i find it hard to find guys who do it to my likings in which case i will more give, but if i find a guy thats good i will be greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind giving i love getting but its only ever fun receiving if who ever is giving it really wants to."

yeah i agree with that, i have met a few guys who give you the feeling giving oral is a bit of a chore and if i get the feeling they are doing it because they feel they should instead of because they really want to they may as well not bother as it does nothing for me at all, and they usually no good at it anyway lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Give...i cud live without oral,but to never give another BJ,that wud be hard!

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

I (Scarlett) love giving and receiving equally to the ladies and the guys.

I agree that it doesn't need to be for hours and once I have cum it's pointless 5 minutes later carrying on. Love when people can bring me to the brink and then stop leaving me gagging for more, soooo horny.

We all like it different ways, well ladies do it seems, so guys please ask before you go at it like a beast as the lady might be a delicate licker liker.

Mr H gets his kicks from giving but he always up for some receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 but sometimes giving is so enjoyable when the person cant touch u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

giving.. i couldnt go without sucking

def giver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? To give oral to to get oral?

Personally I love giving. I do enjoy getting as well, but so long as its about a 75/25% ratio I'm a happy girl, what about you?

"

love both.

no one has made me cum from a blow job in years though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give..the reaction from partner is a real turn on for me

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

i love both tho if honest i do prefer to give. watching the guys face while i suck him off and getting him to find religion is such a turn on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind giving i love getting but its only ever fun receiving if who ever is giving it really wants to.

yeah i agree with that, i have met a few guys who give you the feeling giving oral is a bit of a chore and if i get the feeling they are doing it because they feel they should instead of because they really want to they may as well not bother as it does nothing for me at all, and they usually no good at it anyway lol "

I honestly have found the exact same with almost all women. After spending an hour giving them oral, (which I really enjoy doing), they think that wetting your cock in their mouth, and they're done!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

This is my favourite thing.....giving to a lady while my while receiving from mr s is heaven and giving to a guy with eye contact and mr s behind me again is mindblowing and was the first thing that seduced me into swinging. Love to give to more than one guy at once.... my ultimate is receiving from a hot guy or lady who really knows what they are doing with or without a few guidence hints. How horny to have mr s giving instructions...hell that does it for me. I do love my multiple orgasms and am always very grateful

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the mood I'm in, but usually I prefer giving.

Nothing turns me on more than knowing I'm making someone cross eyed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love both, but got to be honest, Id rather get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both

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By *rs kemeaCouple
over a year ago

angus

I like receiving, but love giving. I've even been known to cum just from giving

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like receiving and if my nipples are played with mmmm seems my cock gets even harder"

There are a few men i have come across do that

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By *ing33Man
over a year ago

bristol

im 60% giving and 40% receiving, nothing better than giving and watching the pleasure she gets from it. and great fun in getting to see how far i can get my tongue inside.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im 60% giving and 40% receiving, nothing better than giving and watching the pleasure she gets from it. and great fun in getting to see how far i can get my tongue inside."

Sometimes more is less you know and the gentle touch can be far more rewarding

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By *ing33Man
over a year ago

bristol

yes i know it can work both ways with the gentle touch and heavier touch too.:@)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes i know it can work both ways with the gentle touch and heavier touch too.:@)"

A man with a gentle touch makes you come back for more

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By *ing33Man
over a year ago

bristol

FAIR CALL, IM IN MANCHESTER/STOCKPORT ON FRIDAY, I THINK I BETTER COME LOOK FOR YOU,,,HEHE

soz bout caps...

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