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By *ot40s OP   Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

How do you prefer men to dress for a meet ?

Shirt and trousers and nice shoes or shirt and jeans

The smart kind obviously i.e. No rips !

Just a debate I need settling so come on hell me out

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In his clothes that he feels good in, only caveating by depending on what we are doing and if there's a reason that clothing should be influenced by the place/activity.

On the whole for a social I would be going to a café/pub and we would likely be in jeans/t-shirt type clothing.

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By *ot40s OP   Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Bumpety bump !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A shell suit with a cap on backwards

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Jeans and a tight fitted shirt which shows their toned body

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"A shell suit with a cap on backwards "

Yeah that works for me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the occasion and location have a bearing on attire?

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By *ot40s OP   Couple
over a year ago

birmingham


"In his clothes that he feels good in, only caveating by depending on what we are doing and if there's a reason that clothing should be influenced by the place/activity.

On the whole for a social I would be going to a café/pub and we would likely be in jeans/t-shirt type clothing. "

Thanks E I knew you would help me out !

We are going to a club later and he wants to wear smart jeans and shirt but I prefer shirt and trousers I thought ladies preferred a nice shirt and trousers

X

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Naked and on a bed, lubed cock and a smile on his on his face or maybe that's just me

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By *ot40s OP   Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

It doesn't really matter too much normally as we go to chams where you dress down but this week we are trying xstasia wher people tend to stay dressed so I thought nice and smart

And yes the shirt will be tight fitting !! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In his clothes that he feels good in, only caveating by depending on what we are doing and if there's a reason that clothing should be influenced by the place/activity.

On the whole for a social I would be going to a café/pub and we would likely be in jeans/t-shirt type clothing.

Thanks E I knew you would help me out !

We are going to a club later and he wants to wear smart jeans and shirt but I prefer shirt and trousers I thought ladies preferred a nice shirt and trousers

X"

To be honest I'm not a shirt and trousers girl at all! I am much more comfortable myself if the chap is in jeans/more chilled in attire but that's just me. I do appreciate that if we were going somewhere more formal it may be required to be different though. But with a club surely both are permissible, it's merely what he prefers or you prefer and then agreeing together! I guess it depends on who wears the trousers/jeans in your relationship as to who wins?!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to meet anyone who had expectations about how I should or shouldn't dress. And I would never wear trousers shirt amd shoes to a meet.

I dress fir me and what I feel comfortable. I'm not scriffy but if someone turns their nose up ar me in jeans and a tshirt then its just another filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clothes removed by poster at 01/07/17 14:20:12]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to meets in my sweatpants and a T. It all comes off in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kevlar and leather is my usual outfit lol

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

So long as a man looks like he has made an effort I really don't care what he wears. Smart jeans can look just as good as formal trousers so as long as he is comfortable its all good.

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By *weeSeekoeieCouple
over a year ago

Richmond


"I wouldn't want to meet anyone who had expectations about how I should or shouldn't dress. And I would never wear trousers shirt amd shoes to a meet.

I dress fir me and what I feel comfortable. I'm not scriffy but if someone turns their nose up ar me in jeans and a tshirt then its just another filter"

Agree 100%. We are both casual (I dress up a bit more

Than Mr ...jeans, lol). I do specify this to anyone we meet in advance so if they expect/need more, they have the option to bow out beforehand rather than judge us for how we choose to dress.

Personally, I think a man looks best when he's wearing what he feels good in.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really care what people wear to a meet.

I do like to know if there is something out meet would like me to wear, though. If he/she likes short dresses with hold ups, or if they'd prefer tights, or jeans, or a corset. It turns me on, but I'm not bothered about what they want to wear.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

As all meets have been a social like in a pub.. dress has been smart casual. A bit ott if i arrived suited and booted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really care what people wear to a meet.

I do like to know if there is something out meet would like me to wear, though. If he/she likes short dresses with hold ups, or if they'd prefer tights, or jeans, or a corset. It turns me on, but I'm not bothered about what they want to wear. "

It's not often you post on here Marc but I'm glad you did on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a ribbon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really care what people wear to a meet.

I do like to know if there is something out meet would like me to wear, though. If he/she likes short dresses with hold ups, or if they'd prefer tights, or jeans, or a corset. It turns me on, but I'm not bothered about what they want to wear.

It's not often you post on here Marc but I'm glad you did on here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a ribbon "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Doesn't really matter to me. I've had someone turn up in a suit though that was a feast for the eyes. It was swiftly launched across the room

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Just a ribbon

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Tartlet. I want you more than a ribbon

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By *ot40s OP   Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Ouch !! I'm not some kind of dragon so I don't mean to across as some bossy cow telling her man what to wear because he appreciates my input but ultimately he will wear and look mighty good whatever he chooses

I just want to look like we've made an effort

Thank you for all your input it's really appreciated

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