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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guy i dont know what to write to woman i need help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously just be yourself and don't be rude or crude. If you struggle to even introduce yourself do you think your going to be ok face to face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Introduce yourself the same way you would a woman you met in the real world.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Seriously just be yourself and don't be rude or crude. If you struggle to even introduce yourself do you think your going to be ok face to face?

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This completely - try just introducing yourself, telling the person you're writing to a little bit about you, what attracted you to their profile, why you think you'd be a good match, that kind of thing

Good luck

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Introduce yourself the same way you would a woman you met in the real world. "

What run off and scream?

O wait thats me

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

Just be yourself and be polite ....

There is no magic formula...

What you say will not appeal to everyone.

And make sure you read and fully understand their profiles..

Or you could just spam every woman on this site with "Fancy a f**k"... You may eventually get lucky but I doubt it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pssst. I'm going to let you into a secret but promise we'll keep it between us, right? Our little secret!

Ok. The ladies on here are, on the whole, normal everyday people. So talk to them like you would a normal everyday person on any other social media platform or in person. Talk respectfully and politely. Be yourself. Don't fire off a crude sexually explicit intro message on much the same way you wouldn't go up to a strange lady in a supermarket and tell them all the detailed sexually explicit things you'd like to do with them!

And don't send a cock pic immediately either (unless the profile explicitly asks you to!) - if you apply the 'how would I approach a lady in public' rule to the way you approach them in here, you'll be fine and hopefully the conversations will flow!

Good luck my friend! I hope you find what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

U guys are so write i need to be more detail in what i like on there profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pssst. I'm going to let you into a secret but promise we'll keep it between us, right? Our little secret!

Ok. The ladies on here are, on the whole, normal everyday people. So talk to them like you would a normal everyday person on any other social media platform or in person. Talk respectfully and politely. Be yourself. Don't fire off a crude sexually explicit intro message on much the same way you wouldn't go up to a strange lady in a supermarket and tell them all the detailed sexually explicit things you'd like to do with them!

And don't send a cock pic immediately either (unless the profile explicitly asks you to!) - if you apply the 'how would I approach a lady in public' rule to the way you approach them in here, you'll be fine and hopefully the conversations will flow!

Good luck my friend! I hope you find what you're looking for "
u are so write

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat this site as you would meeting someone in a wine bar, pub or club. Be respectful but also be interesting.

Women gets hundreds of messages a day. A simple "hi" probably will get overlooked.

Everyone else on this thread has summed it up.

If you're looking to talk to women note that most women on here are smart, intelligent and very witty and will probably like a bit of substance to their message

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

As a dyslexic myself it might be worth knowing the difference between write and right....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a dyslexic myself it might be worth knowing the difference between write and right....

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i know i do it all the time

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

On the topic of what to write...

Before hastily sending off a message it is always a good idea to pause for a bit and reread it before sending.

As often you can see what has been written the first time makes no sense...

Well it does when I write and I always take time to review and rephrase and correct where required...

But maybe that's just me...

Good luck...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On the topic of what to write...

Before hastily sending off a message it is always a good idea to pause for a bit and reread it before sending.

As often you can see what has been written the first time makes no sense...

Well it does when I write and I always take time to review and rephrase and correct where required...

But maybe that's just me...

Good luck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a dyslexic myself it might be worth knowing the difference between write and right....

"

And breaking and bracking. .....I'm not the spelling police btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who do you want to messege op? I'll send one for you.

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