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"Not really budgeting but everything is tracked and credit cards, bank accounts are reconciled to make sure it all agrees and there is nothing odd in there." Ahhh ok I checked and still check my bank account on a daily basis to make sure that nothing is coming out that is not meant to be coming out | |||
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"No I'm terribly wasteful with money, I wish I could be better at budgeting but it's just not a strength of mine " I am too, but redunacy has taught me a lot | |||
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"I spend a lot on crap because I want to. When I have to tighten my belt then I do. I have a budget for the essentials to remind me exactly what I need to earn each month to remain in the black and I have a savings plan for my tax bill and one for my minimum to save for a rainy day. " I was like that I wanted to spent it because I could... | |||
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"So I've had to tighten my budget due to redunacy and I learnt that when I was working I spent money on crap..If there was a new cosmetic product I'd buy it, I didn't need it but I bought it. I look now and think boy all that money could of gone into savings...it's funny when you have to budget when you reliase just what you spent on nothing...." . Have you considered Buddhism | |||
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"Kind of. On payday enough money to cover all my bills/some savings is auto transfered to another account. Any money left is "disposible" any not spent by next payday gets moved over to savings for fun things. Rainy day fund is set up so that I have 12 months of bills etc covered should the worst happen (through work I am covered for 12 months full sick pay too). I do need to start some more long term investments though" . Long term.... Old thinking | |||
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"I have no need to budget since i rarely buy crap and have relatively simple tastes. The problem with budgeting is that you will often miss opportunities that could actually help you make more money in future. If i overspend then it motivates me to earn more next month. " I was looking at an air miles credit card just today, seen as all big purchases go on it and are paid off within the month. You need to spend around £13k to get to NY and back first class, though it seems a bit of an obvious choice if a credit card is used by people and there are no benefits being had on it? My old British Heart Foundation one was closed, and I get nothing on this... | |||
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"So I've had to tighten my budget due to redunacy and I learnt that when I was working I spent money on crap..If there was a new cosmetic product I'd buy it, I didn't need it but I bought it. I look now and think boy all that money could of gone into savings...it's funny when you have to budget when you reliase just what you spent on nothing..... Have you considered Buddhism " I knew you were buddhist! | |||
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"Kind of. On payday enough money to cover all my bills/some savings is auto transfered to another account. Any money left is "disposible" any not spent by next payday gets moved over to savings for fun things. Rainy day fund is set up so that I have 12 months of bills etc covered should the worst happen (through work I am covered for 12 months full sick pay too). I do need to start some more long term investments though. Long term.... Old thinking" More "mid thinking" I'm pretty good pension provision wise (state, final salary workplace, and a private). I'm thinking more for when I'm 40 and thinking of kids. Be nice to have some investments to cash in then | |||
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"We budget...this will sound OTT but it works for us. We have 9 savings acounts which are visable on our online banking and each is labelled eg car, holiday, Xmas, bdays. Just after payday we have a standing order set-up so money is automatically transfered to each account. The rest of the money we work out what DD's will be coming that month and what is left. I know this is micro manaaging but it means we always know where we are financially at any point of the month and so can spend or scale back as necessary." While I get the organisational advantages aren't you missing out on a fair whack of interest but spreading it our over 9 accounts when the top paying ones you can usually only get 3 of ass a couple? (2 solo 1 joint ) | |||
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"Saving money is like dieting and earning more is like exercising. They both help lose weight but one is a hell of a lot more fun than the other. " If your going with that analogy one is vastly more effective than the other too. | |||
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"We budget...this will sound OTT but it works for us. We have 9 savings acounts which are visable on our online banking and each is labelled eg car, holiday, Xmas, bdays. Just after payday we have a standing order set-up so money is automatically transfered to each account. The rest of the money we work out what DD's will be coming that month and what is left. I know this is micro manaaging but it means we always know where we are financially at any point of the month and so can spend or scale back as necessary." Sounds good to me. | |||
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"So I've had to tighten my budget due to redunacy and I learnt that when I was working I spent money on crap..If there was a new cosmetic product I'd buy it, I didn't need it but I bought it. I look now and think boy all that money could of gone into savings...it's funny when you have to budget when you reliase just what you spent on nothing..... Have you considered Buddhism I knew you were buddhist!" . Not everybody takes the middle way | |||
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"No but I need to. I'm 37 this year. No kids and it looks like that won't change anytime soon and nothing to show for the years of working I've put in. I want to buy a house so need to start saving. I take home £1400 a month and spend every damn penny! My current rent is only £270 (all bills included) I should be able to save shit loads! " If you physically look at your statement and cut back out one big thing, you'll be surprised how much accrues in a only a few months. For me it was fast food, (I later found out it was actually tomato sauce lol) but I was so much better off by the end of the the first month I couldn't go back and spend that amount again. If you do it for a few things later on, then this is where you'd really start to save. | |||
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"We budget...this will sound OTT but it works for us. We have 9 savings acounts which are visable on our online banking and each is labelled eg car, holiday, Xmas, bdays. Just after payday we have a standing order set-up so money is automatically transfered to each account. The rest of the money we work out what DD's will be coming that month and what is left. I know this is micro manaaging but it means we always know where we are financially at any point of the month and so can spend or scale back as necessary." ah I posted before seeing this but this is pretty much what I do as well! | |||
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"We budget...this will sound OTT but it works for us. We have 9 savings acounts which are visable on our online banking and each is labelled eg car, holiday, Xmas, bdays. Just after payday we have a standing order set-up so money is automatically transfered to each account. The rest of the money we work out what DD's will be coming that month and what is left. I know this is micro manaaging but it means we always know where we are financially at any point of the month and so can spend or scale back as necessary. While I get the organisational advantages aren't you missing out on a fair whack of interest but spreading it our over 9 accounts when the top paying ones you can usually only get 3 of ass a couple? (2 solo 1 joint )" As interest rates are shite atm i prefer the organisational advantages. I could have one pot and have use paper or computer based tracking of this but i just find it easier and more manageable. If interest rates improve i might look to change this about | |||
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"For the first time ever I looked into slashing bills where I could Car insurance down from £158 per month to £112 " How much??????? Are you 18??! And yeah, I budget the crap out of my life. | |||
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"For the first time ever I looked into slashing bills where I could Car insurance down from £158 per month to £112 How much??????? Are you 18??! And yeah, I budget the crap out of my life. " . It made me as well. I pay £195 and I was thinking blimey they got that cheaper than mine... Then I realised it was monthly | |||
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"For the first time ever I looked into slashing bills where I could Car insurance down from £158 per month to £112 How much??????? Are you 18??! And yeah, I budget the crap out of my life. . It made me as well. I pay £195 and I was thinking blimey they got that cheaper than mine... Then I realised it was monthly " Who the fuck are you insured with? Do you have like 50 years no claims? Mine is nearly £300 a year | |||
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"For the first time ever I looked into slashing bills where I could Car insurance down from £158 per month to £112 How much??????? Are you 18??! And yeah, I budget the crap out of my life. " 25 on a type R - welcome to acceptable age discrimination. £112 is the cheapest I've EVER had insurance. | |||
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"For the first time ever I looked into slashing bills where I could Car insurance down from £158 per month to £112 How much??????? Are you 18??! And yeah, I budget the crap out of my life. . It made me as well. I pay £195 and I was thinking blimey they got that cheaper than mine... Then I realised it was monthly Who the fuck are you insured with? Do you have like 50 years no claims? Mine is nearly £300 a year " . Direct line Yes 23 years no claim, no accidents, no tickets, no medical, never even been pulled,... | |||
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"For the first time ever I looked into slashing bills where I could Car insurance down from £158 per month to £112 How much??????? Are you 18??! And yeah, I budget the crap out of my life. . It made me as well. I pay £195 and I was thinking blimey they got that cheaper than mine... Then I realised it was monthly Who the fuck are you insured with? Do you have like 50 years no claims? Mine is nearly £300 a year . Direct line Yes 23 years no claim, no accidents, no tickets, no medical, never even been pulled,... " Ok, got it. I only have 7 years. Two tickets. Pulled once, but sex in a car is never comfortable. | |||
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"For the first time ever I looked into slashing bills where I could Car insurance down from £158 per month to £112 How much??????? Are you 18??! And yeah, I budget the crap out of my life. 25 on a type R - welcome to acceptable age discrimination. £112 is the cheapest I've EVER had insurance. " Got it. Ah well. Young people are shit drivers. | |||
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"For the first time ever I looked into slashing bills where I could Car insurance down from £158 per month to £112 How much??????? Are you 18??! And yeah, I budget the crap out of my life. 25 on a type R - welcome to acceptable age discrimination. £112 is the cheapest I've EVER had insurance. Got it. Ah well. Young people are shit drivers. " Didn't you know it's the middle aged blokes in their 320s and A3s that are the worst? Or the mums doing the school run in the 4x4s to collect their little angels when they only live 300m down the road. Young drivers are practically saints when compared | |||
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"For the first time ever I looked into slashing bills where I could Car insurance down from £158 per month to £112 How much??????? Are you 18??! And yeah, I budget the crap out of my life. . It made me as well. I pay £195 and I was thinking blimey they got that cheaper than mine... Then I realised it was monthly Who the fuck are you insured with? Do you have like 50 years no claims? Mine is nearly £300 a year . Direct line Yes 23 years no claim, no accidents, no tickets, no medical, never even been pulled,... Ok, got it. I only have 7 years. Two tickets. Pulled once, but sex in a car is never comfortable. " . | |||
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"I've just started. I've been overspending by £50-£150 every month and it gradually adds up. So I've got a spending tracker app and now write down every penny I spend. It helps focus the mind" This essentially. I now take out my variable expenditure (food, travel and petrol) when I get paid. Now that I sort my own lunches out and don't use contactless recklessly things are about more manageable | |||
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"I've never been able to budget nor save. I've never been out of work so i have the mentality of 'earn it, spend it', there's always more to be had. I don't like the idea of having to turn over every penny and i'm actually quite generous. As a result i'm always skint despite working 6/7 days a week and it causes trouble at home. I know i should so i guess i'm just going to have go get my head around it even tbough it doesn't suit my character." Apologies for the typos, i'm running on 2 hours sleep. | |||
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"We stopped spending fivers and save them up it adds up quite quickly" That's a good idea. We can only manage to do it with pound coins so it takes a bit longer. | |||
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"Coffee shops was my downfall we had a Starbucks and costa a stones throw from work " Were not was | |||
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"Coffee shops was my downfall we had a Starbucks and costa a stones throw from work Were not was " And they know how to charge, it soon adds up. | |||
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"For the first time ever I looked into slashing bills where I could Car insurance down from £158 per month to £112 How much??????? Are you 18??! And yeah, I budget the crap out of my life. 25 on a type R - welcome to acceptable age discrimination. £112 is the cheapest I've EVER had insurance. Got it. Ah well. Young people are shit drivers. " My insurance is £100pm I'm 38! Been driving 20 years | |||
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"For the first time ever I looked into slashing bills where I could Car insurance down from £158 per month to £112 How much??????? Are you 18??! And yeah, I budget the crap out of my life. 25 on a type R - welcome to acceptable age discrimination. £112 is the cheapest I've EVER had insurance. Got it. Ah well. Young people are shit drivers. Didn't you know it's the middle aged blokes in their 320s and A3s that are the worst? Or the mums doing the school run in the 4x4s to collect their little angels when they only live 300m down the road. Young drivers are practically saints when compared " The insurance companies disagree with you. And as they're the people who have most to lose, I tend to agree with them. | |||
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"Saving money is like dieting and earning more is like exercising. They both help lose weight but one is a hell of a lot more fun than the other. " Very much depends on having the type of job where yoi csn just easily earn more ... most people have fixed hours / salary | |||
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"We budget...this will sound OTT but it works for us. We have 9 savings acounts which are visable on our online banking and each is labelled eg car, holiday, Xmas, bdays. Just after payday we have a standing order set-up so money is automatically transfered to each account. The rest of the money we work out what DD's will be coming that month and what is left. I know this is micro manaaging but it means we always know where we are financially at any point of the month and so can spend or scale back as necessary. While I get the organisational advantages aren't you missing out on a fair whack of interest but spreading it our over 9 accounts when the top paying ones you can usually only get 3 of ass a couple? (2 solo 1 joint )" Interest rates are so low that i doubt it makes a difference ... my savings account you can do all of that from one account though ... it lets you set up savings pots ... make transfers via standkng order to each pot and see where you are compared to target | |||
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"Try skimming your bank whitch means you just round up each pound we saved in first week £78 There's a few saving groups on facebook with great ideas and there apps out there what can actually help. But to start with its difficult. " How does skimming work? | |||
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"Try skimming your bank whitch means you just round up each pound we saved in first week £78 There's a few saving groups on facebook with great ideas and there apps out there what can actually help. But to start with its difficult. How does skimming work?" Say if you buy something for £3.50 then you round it of to a pound and put that 50p into another bank acount and it soon ads up although you can get apps to do it for you and even hold it in an investor acount but we did it with and without the app without the app we saved more due to adding an extra pound here and there. | |||
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