FabSwingers.com forum: Fat guys needs help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips"

Just one pointer here from a guy.

The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I was looking more at the messy background

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remove the second pic maybe???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eeek!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving the comments

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Get rid of your photos and put some nice dressed ones on. The gapping arsehole is well im not going to say

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Id say lose some of the more explicit pics and try to take some of you smiling or looking relaxed.

You need to fill in what you can offer meets and sell yourself

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much better pics needed.

Smile.

Write a better profile text.

The whole thing is a bit uninspiring really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BRB, just off to bleach my eyes

More tasteful pics hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips

Just one pointer here from a guy.

The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.

Maybe he is 'fab-straight'

- Mrs. J -

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

If you need a open arse pic, give it a good fucking wash

Tidy up the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no no .. no ass pics .. you opening your ass? seriously lol

Your grammar and wording needs to be improved as it doesnt make sense. Put some nice classy pics on there not in your face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Much better pics needed.

Smile.

Write a better profile text.

The whole thing is a bit uninspiring really. "

Ah but some have been fabbed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did I look!?

OP some serious advice.

Look at your pictures and decide if you think they are flattering or not?

I'm going to be honest from my a mature opinion they're pretty crude

Think about poses (just look at any boudoir photography site), think about your face and what you want to convey with it

Finally think about the back ground and any filters/effects that you could apply.

While your pictures are certainly representative of you (and you shouldn't try to have misleading pictures) but they could certainly be improved to be more appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of your photos and put some nice dressed ones on. The gapping arsehole is well im not going to say"

i agree

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

Just delete that second pic, it's not good. Go for teasing and smiling and what makes you stand out from the thousands of others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op. Change your pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips

Just one pointer here from a guy.

The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.

Maybe he is 'fab-straight'

- Mrs. J -"

Or maybe he is bi-curious. As his profile says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Steve,

My recommendations would be:

You're obviously happy to have your face on display as per your avatar yet your few public pics aren't of face -- I think on the whole I prefer to see someone's face (if they're happy to display) than gratuitous shots. So a few more smiley pics would be nice, clothes or unclothed. And make the avatar pic public.

If you like to have more gratuitous shots public that's entirely your call, but maybe think about the background of the pic? You've one with a pile of washing, empty bottle, bowl of something etc -- choose a tidy or unbusy environment to take your pic in, it's far more enticing.

Re profile text, you're asking for someone to "show you a good time", sounds a bit all take -- what are you "showing them"?

You've also got spelling mistakes in the text one of which actually negates what you're trying to say.

I think it smacks a little unnecessary to say you're the nicest person someone could ever meet. A little extreme!

Write more about you, show your personality in your profile -- have a read of the profiles of some of the regular male forum posters and see how different personalities shine through.

Good luck, and welcome.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"If you need a open arse pic, give it a good fucking wash

Tidy up the room

You sound like his mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Steve,

sounds a bit all take -- what are you "showing them"?

Wellll. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above, or maybe delete and start again now this forum post is attached to your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why did I look

Seriously the second pic like loads have already said needs to go

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Agree with all the above, regarding the pics. Some nice clothed pics would be better, I think. Also write about what you would like from a meet and what you can contribute to that meet. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips

Just one pointer here from a guy.

The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.

Maybe he is 'fab-straight'

- Mrs. J -

Or maybe he is bi-curious. As his profile says

I will never understand why people think us bi men want to see thier hairy hoop

Seriously even most gay guys I know do not find the hairy man hole an attractive feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips

Just one pointer here from a guy.

The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.

Maybe he is 'fab-straight'

- Mrs. J -

Or maybe he is bi-curious. As his profile says

Oh is he? That explains the 2nd photograph

In that case OP, keep the 2nd photograph as is; am sure some guys will be interested

- Mrs. J -

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips

Just one pointer here from a guy.

The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.

Maybe he is 'fab-straight'

- Mrs. J -"

Lol Mrs J

I'm sure he probably knows that his profile pics haven't been chosen very well.

I'm stunned that all you ladies are not clambering over each other to offer your strap on services to the OP.

Shocking !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Steve,

sounds a bit all take -- what are you "showing them"?

Wellll. ..."

I attempted to be more constructive with the way I phrased.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep the arse pic if you want mate. Plenty of other people bent over showing last nights dinner.

We're all equal after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done OP for getting advice from the forums.. many dont and all the best with your search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips

Just one pointer here from a guy.

The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.

This comment started me on a roll of tears of laughter

and I never even looked..actually as read more...i just couldnt stop laughing.

I know everyone is offering good advise here on the ops question but i cant be the only one whos laughed at above comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done OP for getting advice from the forums.. many dont and all the best with your search

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP -- I see you've made pics private and now gone offline... you have been brave in seeking help and I know critical feedback can sting. Don't take it personally, have a think and take on board the advice and be you. You're as welcome as everyone here. Be well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP -- I see you've made pics private and now gone offline... you have been brave in seeking help and I know critical feedback can sting. Don't take it personally, have a think and take on board the advice and be you. You're as welcome as everyone here. Be well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats nice of you to take time to write that...hope he sees it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well done OP for getting advice from the forums.. many dont and all the best with your search

Yes!

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips

Just one pointer here from a guy.

The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.

This comment started me on a roll of tears of laughter

and I never even looked..actually as read more...i just couldnt stop laughing.

I know everyone is offering good advise here on the ops question but i cant be the only one whos laughed at above comment

I'm hoping the OP has gone offline and hidden pics as he is in the process of updating it all.

We all deserve out place on Fab and I sincerely don't think.I'm anything special or above anyone else.

For all I know this man could be a sexual dynamo and an orgasm machine for ladies.

Never judge a present by its wrapping !

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Pmd him, profiles already looking up. Good lad

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"Pmd him, profiles already looking up. Good lad

Glad to hear it !

I'm looking forward to seeing a revamped profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank u guy for your help i some good ideas and i will revape my profile later thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't look at this as a porn site, where you have to constantly think and talk about sex, or be explicit.

Look at it as you may make friends who you might have sex with

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over a year ago

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Try smiling if someone smiles at you you tend to smile back thats a good starting point .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hope my update is better if not what else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest you go and spend a bit of time looking at some of the single men who have lots of meet verifications, and see what they're doing that's getting them meets.

Your 'update' still tells everyone pretty much nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok i will thanks

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Smile

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I hope my update is better if not what else"

"i am the nicies person u will ever meet and give me a chance"

Still smacks of desperation and not the type of thing that is actually selling yourself. What can you provide to a potential meet, what are you looking for?

The ladies on here don't do sympathy shags, you have to stand out from the crowd. Tell people a bit about yourself and inject a bit of personality and humour into your profile text

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

U are so right

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

We need to think about spell checking, and dropping text speak

People dont meet to give tutorials, what element do you bring to the party?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I so hard to put the right thing down i what to be honest but i can not see woman whating that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I so hard to put the right thing down i what to be honest but i can not see woman whating that "

How do you know? Oh, and smile hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was a rival gourmet burger chain that was recruiting. You can imagine my disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I need do a smiling photo thank you everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need do a smiling photo thank you everyone

And be honest, put what you're looking for hun.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I thought it said fab guy! That's a whole different ball game

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Awful grammar .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry about my grammer i get word blideness

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think i change that u are so write

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I think i change that u are so write

Did you write that seriously or are you giggling now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I mean it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys im getting reply i fill great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys im getting reply i fill great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much better Steve

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Estelle i love your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text is an improvement, you still need to smile though chap. A friendly smiley face is better received that one that looks grumpy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im putting a new photo up tomoz

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Im putting a new photo up tomoz"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why you're awesome!

OP, welcome and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK your grammar shouldn't be of concern. It could be improved however if other factors cause your to spell the way you do then make no apologies and keep your own unique style of writing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps it takes courage and guts to describe yourself as a fat man. That's a strong point of yours. There is many men on here who wouldn't be so honest about weight and describe themselves as, 'athletic'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

U are so wright im fat and proud i have lost 6st in a year i should be proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am shocked to see your only 25.

I thought you were late 30s early 40s.

If you're just going to have one full on face pic, maybe a fresh shave and beaming smile might be a better option

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"U are so wright im fat and proud i have lost 6st in a year i should be proud"

Well done Steven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am shocked to see your only 25.

I thought you were late 30s early 40s.

If you're just going to have one full on face pic, maybe a fresh shave and beaming smile might be a better option

Blimey...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"U are so wright im fat and proud i have lost 6st in a year i should be proud

Well done Steven

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thanks and i have not finished

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"U are so wright im fat and proud i have lost 6st in a year i should be proud

Well done Steven

thanks and i have not finished"

Good for you, hope you achieve your goal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"U are so wright im fat and proud i have lost 6st in a year i should be proud

Well done Steven

thanks and i have not finished

Good for you, hope you achieve your goal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have got a new profile pic hope u guys like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have got a new profile pic hope u guys like"

See! Instantly with a bit of a spruce up and a smile of sorts you now look your age

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hope everyone likes my profile now thank you to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope everyone likes my profile now thank you to everyone"

The important thing is Steve, is that you like your profile. You can't please everyone so just be yourself

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By *erfumedpornovampireWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

"Don't look at this as a porn site, where you have to constantly think and talk about sex, or be explicit.

Look at it as you may make friends who you might have sex with "

Username checks out

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope everyone likes my profile now thank you to everyone"

Smileyface!! Excellent!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hope everyone likes my profile now thank you to everyone

Smileyface!! Excellent!

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i know its so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope everyone likes my profile now thank you to everyone

Smileyface!! Excellent!

i know its so much better

That's great now Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Greatly improved, happy fabbing.

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By *teveoabcMan
over a year ago

banbury

Wowser, that pic takes 10 years off you, I would happily have a pint with you now, before you seemed to be on a downer.

I guess positive things happen to positive people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wowser, that pic takes 10 years off you, I would happily have a pint with you now, before you seemed to be on a downer.

I guess positive things happen to positive people"
thanks man i fill 10 years younger i just hope the woman on here like

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By *teveoabcMan
over a year ago

banbury

"Wowser, that pic takes 10 years off you, I would happily have a pint with you now, before you seemed to be on a downer.

I guess positive things happen to positive people thanks man i fill 10 years younger i just hope the woman on here like

That's the spirit, now the key is like yourself and don't give a damn about what others think about you. It's hard to do and I assure you we all have imperfections we tend to worry about. Don't waste your time on them, own them, that type of self confidence is irresistible

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thats 100% better 0p. Well done on taking the advice

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I was going to fab your pic but youve not made it public

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh you have sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was going to fab your pic but youve not made it public"
thank you for fabbing my pic i love your pic i have fab u back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys its working already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wowser, that pic takes 10 years off you, I would happily have a pint with you now, before you seemed to be on a downer.

I guess positive things happen to positive people thanks man i fill 10 years younger i just hope the woman on here like

Great thread OP. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hope everyone likes my profile now thank you to everyone

Smileyface!! Excellent!

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thanks i love your profile u are a very sexy lady.

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