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By *eliciously Dirty OP   Man
over a year ago

sawley

Ok guys n gals I'm sure we aren't the only ones that get this....... we get a message and respond, messages go back and forth and all sounds and looks good ...... then next minute the message comes up on their profile on the messages saying the above .... what the hell is that all about ??? Even arranged a meet and it was a no show to then see this on the guys messages the next morning.... this is taking time wasting to the enth degree isn't it?!?! It is fookin annoying..... is it just us ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have that problem only meet verified and alao in clubs x

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Not you, I have had it a couple of times. However I tend to only meet people in clubs now, mainly because i don't always know when I will be free to meet people

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

You will see that a lot if you look through the forum threads.

Here today, gone tomorrow, lol

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I met a bloke once - he had been on Fab for a year, I was his first meet. Was a good fuck (at least I thought so), next morning I went to write him a veri and he was no longer on the site LOL! Made me think the sex was really bad for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a bloke once - he had been on Fab for a year, I was his first meet. Was a good fuck (at least I thought so), next morning I went to write him a veri and he was no longer on the site LOL! Made me think the sex was really bad for him "

Maybe he liked you too much XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are thousands of users on fab I never understand why some people get so fixated on a individual user and then feel the need to whinge about it in public when that person has for whatever reason had a change of heart or left the site ect.

First world problems.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"There are thousands of users on fab I never understand why some people get so fixated on a individual user and then feel the need to whinge about it in public when that person has for whatever reason had a change of heart or left the site ect.

First world problems."

I never understand why some people get so fixated about people whinging about other people when there are thousands of user's on Fab.

First world problems.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Ok guys n gals I'm sure we aren't the only ones that get this....... we get a message and respond, messages go back and forth and all sounds and looks good ...... then next minute the message comes up on their profile on the messages saying the above .... what the hell is that all about ??? Even arranged a meet and it was a no show to then see this on the guys messages the next morning.... this is taking time wasting to the enth degree isn't it?!?! It is fookin annoying..... is it just us ??? "

It's not just you no, but bear in mind; to some people swinging is a huge step out of what they consider 'normal', and people do panic/change their mind at the 11th hour

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

UNLOS is something I see in my mailbox most mornings... Usually attached to a series of progressively more indignant messages issued at 5-10 minute periods demanding to know why I haven't replied yet (I was asleep you twonk!) all culminating in a stroppy message saying women on here are complete (insert expletive here) timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if those couples and single women who delete their accounts have had some bad experiences with abusive messages or controlling behaviour, or abusive threats for daring to decline their demand of a fuck now. Also if they dare to delete message without a reply, or read it and send no reply.

I met a lady in a club, and we became fab friends. She is no longer on this site due to the 100s of messages from guys, and one guy she had a meet with, but would not allow her any contact or meets with other guys despite him wanting carte glance on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a bloke once - he had been on Fab for a year, I was his first meet. Was a good fuck (at least I thought so), next morning I went to write him a veri and he was no longer on the site LOL! Made me think the sex was really bad for him "

If you ever need a second opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"UNLOS is something I see in my mailbox most mornings... Usually attached to a series of progressively more indignant messages issued at 5-10 minute periods demanding to know why I haven't replied yet (I was asleep you twonk!) all culminating in a stroppy message saying women on here are complete (insert expletive here) timewasters. "

I get that too haha gives me a laugh though!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most who leave the site have been caught out by their Mrs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok guys n gals I'm sure we aren't the only ones that get this....... we get a message and respond, messages go back and forth and all sounds and looks good ...... then next minute the message comes up on their profile on the messages saying the above .... what the hell is that all about ??? Even arranged a meet and it was a no show to then see this on the guys messages the next morning.... this is taking time wasting to the enth degree isn't it?!?! It is fookin annoying..... is it just us ??? "

You're not the only one. Must have been something we said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"UNLOS is something I see in my mailbox most mornings... Usually attached to a series of progressively more indignant messages issued at 5-10 minute periods demanding to know why I haven't replied yet (I was asleep you twonk!) all culminating in a stroppy message saying women on here are complete (insert expletive here) timewasters. "

I had a message overnight from a guy a couple of weeks back asking about the CFNM parties I'd mentioned locally. Quite happy to provide him with the info as the person who runs them said I could. Went to reply and he was no longer on the site,this was only a few hours after he'd messaged me.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"I met a bloke once - he had been on Fab for a year, I was his first meet. Was a good fuck (at least I thought so), next morning I went to write him a veri and he was no longer on the site LOL! Made me think the sex was really bad for him "

Maybe he thought god she was the best I'm ever going to have so thought no point trying anyone else xx

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You need to get better at fake spotting OP. Maybe put your filters on to no no new profiles and no un-verified. That will stop most of the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its free yes You can pay but its not a lot so some people come and play games .. And don't care as you will never meet them. You get a lot of dreamer here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens a lot, in fact three days ago I got chatting to a rather nice local guy. We shared pics, talked about what we liked, made each other laugh. Yesterday UNLOS.

I couldn't care less other than the fact I wasted my time. I've no idea why they do it?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"UNLOS is something I see in my mailbox most mornings... Usually attached to a series of progressively more indignant messages issued at 5-10 minute periods demanding to know why I haven't replied yet (I was asleep you twonk!) all culminating in a stroppy message saying women on here are complete (insert expletive here) timewasters.

I had a message overnight from a guy a couple of weeks back asking about the CFNM parties I'd mentioned locally. Quite happy to provide him with the info as the person who runs them said I could. Went to reply and he was no longer on the site,this was only a few hours after he'd messaged me. "

Could be a journalist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its fab - it happens - cant change the past so carry on

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It happens a lot, in fact three days ago I got chatting to a rather nice local guy. We shared pics, talked about what we liked, made each other laugh. Yesterday UNLOS.

I couldn't care less other than the fact I wasted my time. I've no idea why they do it?

"

Wank fodder. If you feed them , they'll do it. Don't engage in sex talk in messages and they don't get the thrill and wander off to someone else.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I'M A CELEBRITY..GET ME OUT OF HERE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are thousands of users on fab I never understand why some people get so fixated on a individual user and then feel the need to whinge about it in public when that person has for whatever reason had a change of heart or left the site ect.

First world problems.

I never understand why some people get so fixated about people whinging about other people when there are thousands of user's on Fab.

First world problems. "

People come and go all the time. People choose to hide their profiles. Delete, block whatever...

Why?

Because they can. Simple really.

I suppose whinging helps some people release frustration. I prefer not to get bogged down in the details and move on sharpish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until they make this a totally paid up site I've been banging on about this for years your going to get fakes so it's time to charge , it will them out !!

See you in 48 hours

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"There are thousands of users on fab I never understand why some people get so fixated on a individual user and then feel the need to whinge about it in public when that person has for whatever reason had a change of heart or left the site ect.

First world problems."

Everything talked about on fab is first world problems.

She's wasted time chatting to someone with a view to meeting, that isn't fixation, it's what normal people do.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It would piss me right off.

I imagine the meet came at some cost. Babysitter, hotel booking, new clothes and so on.

It's not funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most who leave the site have been caught out by their Mrs lol"

Or there Mr's, iv fav'ed 2 local newbies this week in the hope of a photo but both have gone from my list of 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a bloke once - he had been on Fab for a year, I was his first meet. Was a good fuck (at least I thought so), next morning I went to write him a veri and he was no longer on the site LOL! Made me think the sex was really bad for him

If you ever need a second opinion "
people reading that will not rush to message you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until they make this a totally paid up site I've been banging on about this for years your going to get fakes so it's time to charge , it will them out !!

See you in 48 hours

"

Complete bollucks. You think paid sites don't have time wasters????

And why penalise those genuine fabbers who may not have the means to pay...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they no longer online

i would not be concerned

i would just move on

i would not start a thread and whinge whinge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a bloke once - he had been on Fab for a year, I was his first meet. Was a good fuck (at least I thought so), next morning I went to write him a veri and he was no longer on the site LOL! Made me think the sex was really bad for him

If you ever need a second opinion people reading that will not rush to message you then "

O i dont know i wouldnt mind seeing if its that bad i have to foook off the next day and move to the outer mongolian desert lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a bloke once - he had been on Fab for a year, I was his first meet. Was a good fuck (at least I thought so), next morning I went to write him a veri and he was no longer on the site LOL! Made me think the sex was really bad for him

If you ever need a second opinion people reading that will not rush to message you then

O i dont know i wouldnt mind seeing if its that bad i have to foook off the next day and move to the outer mongolian desert lol xx "

lol you will meet a few from here then, what times the flight, my case is packed

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